₦airaland Forum

CityNG:
Thank you for sharing your opinion.

Now fvck off and go take your normal spot on Allen Avenue.

I advise you to do the same.

birdman:
im glad you have seen it work, because I have never seen it work. the dude has to be literally bleeding for this to work

This is not true, all he has to do is say he wants to press charges against her, the law isn't one sided about domestic violence like you say, it goes both ways.

birdman:
you should take your own advice. what lawanson heard is indeed the truth. the law is designed to shield women from wife beaters. In order to give women the confidence to come forward, the law was tilted such that you do not need a burden of proof to convict a wife beater. Normally this should be a good thing, because there are indeed many unrepentant wife batterers out there. Unfortunately, like every other law, loopholes exist and in a bad twist, innocent men who are not world wise are being wiped out. Specifically, there too may stories of men, African especially who have been bullied into submission by their wives, using the law as a bludgeon. The law only has to hear an allegation, and an investigation will be launched. The news of that by itself will cost you your job if your boss hears. The crazy part is that legit violent men STILL do not get caught by the laws on the books.

In this story it is very obvious something is amiss. None of it makes sense. I think this woman murdered the hubby, hoping to use the laws as a shield. But she went too far. Other women are wiser, and plot their way more discreetly.

I'm talking about his statement that a man works hard for HIS property and the courts gives all or most of HIS property to the wife which is not true at all. If the property was his BEFORE they got MARRIED it belongs to him alone but if the property was purchased DURING the MARRIAGE then it belongs to the BOTH of them not just the MAN like it does in NIGERIA.
The domestic violence laws aren't just for women it's for men also, if a woman calls the police with lies of being abused I will tell you how to solve that dilemma and the man will not be arrested.


When she calls the police you do the same, when they arrive tell them she attacked you and you want to press charges aswel, the officer will then go to her and tell her your situation and tell her that she will be arrested for abuse then she will drop the charges, I've seen this work several times with silly neighbors it sucks because some of the men are really guilty and they know how the law works and how to use it to get out of
a situation like spousal abuse.

PS In this case the woman was murdered not the husband, so take my advice and do some research yourself.

Allosaurus:
Kylez, leave the kitchen for the girls. You may be found in Oshodi market tomorrow pricing tomatoes

Is pricing tomatoes at the market a job for women only? Geeeeeez!!

arsenefc:
American culture is different from "tiwan tiwan"

Good name, they say, is better than gold and silver

The father has done the right thing.

We are good people in Nigeria.

LMAO@YOURCRAP!!

francizy:
Lmao! Me don't know about either homos or Lesbos cuz me don't like em.. I only try hard not to criticize them but trully I don't like em..

lol You so CRAAAAAAZY!!!!

lawanson44:
I am not in support of the murder of this woman but honestly, the attitude of our Nigerian women over there in the states can be so terrible. A relative of mine who stays in the US told us that what many Nigerian women residing in the US do is to seize the opportunity which gender laws in favour of women has provided to blackmail their husbands so that they win custody of the house (even if it is the man's house) and their child or children. This gives them the opportunity to live frivolous lifestyles which the initially the man would be against.

The man is arrested and thereafter jailed and if he is lucky to escape prison, he will be made to pay alimony to the woman if he has a job and in the event where he is unemployed, he will be warned not to ever have access to his children or risk being jailed or even deported.

Tell me which man will go through all these and not become insane especially in the case where he sacrificed alot to bring the woman to the US and everything he worked for all his life goes like that?

This may not be far from the truth in this particular case.

This is the problem with alot of people who believe everything they are told instead of doing some research on their own.


#1 If the house BELONGS to the man (HIS name is the ONLY name on the property that HE purchased BEFORE the MARRIAGE, America believes that once you are married the property that is purchased DURING the MARRIAGE BELONGS to BOTH the MARRIED couple NOT only the MAN Because once you are married you become ONE like the BIBLE saids) it can't be taken away from him.


#2 If the husband is ordered to pay alimony to the wife it is because HE has been proven in COURT to be the GUILTY one and she has no/low income.

#3 The only reason the husband is ordered by the COURT to stay away from the HOME, WIFE, and the KIDS is because HE has been proven in COURT to be PHYSICALLY HARMFUL TO THE WIFE AND KIDS. In AMERICA a MAN can't treat his wife and kids like PUNCHING BAGS simply because he is a man.

cold:
I think she stayed because of the kinda folks on here who insist divorce is not an option under any circumstance

1000000% on point.

CityNG:
The American family court system creates this devilish environment.

It's a broken system that breeds violence and causes folks to do the unthinkable. IMHO.

You are a liar, what you posted is relevant to the Nigerian court system.

Missy89:
Texas again? Why?

Texas!!! The home of many Nigerian men.

eluquenson:
so sad for the lady, after leaving Nigeria to marry an American citizen and the innocent woman's life was cut shot...
Nigeria is my home

Nigeria!!! The home of many psychos. The husband Is Nigerian.

fabrigas18:
E be like say na oyinbo food they cause dis psycho oooo

He was psychotic before he left Nigeria.

Misogynist2014:
Some women

I looooove your signature.

basty:
Crazy world

But why are guys looking harmless are so murderers. He has a harmless look like Abumuttalab.

Because his physical looks has nothing to do with his psychotic mind.

Bibol:
Lord have mercy. Many people are mad but few are roaming on the streets. She never thought the man could carry out his threat.

lol @ your signature.

dvic:
Op how do you know is a Nigerian woman

Because of the news, the husband is also Nigerian. You rarely hear about African American men killing their wives, they just leave them. African American men rarely marry African women.

mimicious:
Its like d demon dats possess foreigners is difrnt from d one in africa!!!

Are you saying NIGERIAN men don't commit murder in Nigeria? The man in this write-up is Nigerian

barcanista:
Too many psychos in America.

Rest In Peace

lmao You are correct, too many psycos in America arriving from Nigeria.

zboyd:
This fool is truly disturbed. You can see it in his eyes.

One of the most disturbing thing about some American men, over here, is their penchant for killing their own children to get back at the mother, as well as themselves.

They need to hurry up and catch this fool!

So what is your excuse about all of the Nigerian men killing their Nigerian wives in America, It will be hilarious to watch you blame that on America, America need's to stop letting these sick criminals into the country.

[quote author=fittty post=28764210]God Bless America... Na wah oh! Nothing wey we no go see for this country. You tune TV to news na either person dey shoot, kill or rob. All these Akata sef! They're always full of drama. African Americans are often violent, ignorant, aggressive, uneducated and poor. They can't do without Marijuana and other hard drugs. This tragic news is most definitely as a result of drugs combined with heated arguments. I'll always advice Nigerians to stay away from most of them especially the uneducated ones. NA dem full prison pass oh. They go in and out of jail like they're riding the train or bus.[/quot

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LMAO @ YOUR IGNORANT PREJUDICE AZZ, there is no where in the write-up that says he is African American but I happen to know that he is Nigerian, so you just described most of your people in America, they aren't doctors, lawyers, engineers. nurses, professors, that you fantasise them to be but some are actually what you described, it is time you Nairaland subscribers face the truth about Nigerians in America, alot of them are the criminals and murderers the same traits they learned while living in the *Lawless country called Nigeria* YOUR WORDS NOT MINE.

francizy:
This is the best post I've seen since I joined NL. I don't know why some people claim that they were created homos or Lesbos. I've always had this in mind but I do feel like these people will tag me a homophobic if I aired my view.

We are what we choose to become but some people may become homo not as a choice (not because they were created that way), just like this lill kid I talked about. After having his añus bursted severally, it will be really difficult making him recover and behave normal. In his case, I won't blame him. But in other cases where there was no molestation or abuse, then I don't think they have any excuse for being gay.

Hello my boo boo.

I'm afraid that you misunderstood me, I do believe that some people were born gay and some participate in the act for money out of desperation, but what I meant was, until they actually commit the act they are not a participating homosexual, the same as a murderer or pedophile, (there is no link between homosexuality, pedophilia, or murderers, I'm just making an example) tho I don't believe that pedophiles were born that way but were sexually abused as children or just plain mentally ill and in need of mental therapy.

PS... The reason I believe homosexuals were born that way is because I have grown up with one as young as 6 years old and you can see the difference in some of them, for example when I was 6 years old my best friend was very very girlish and I couldn't understand why he was a boy and not a girl, I think he thought he was a girl. We are bestfriends to this day, and guess what, he is homosexual, no surprise there. Don't get me wrong, all gays are not feminine and you won't know unless they tell you.
I can't tell you much about lesbians because I don't like being around them.

Halimi24:
what are d names of d therapies used 4 treating pedophiles madam know notin??chemical castration??Pls.Pedophilia is an innate desire in a pesin jst like heterosexualism homosexualism bestiality etc.it can't be cured neither can it be treated
U've never heard of homosexuals_being treated scientifically rite from d 1950s in d west even in d USSR??
In ur small mind d fact I don't condemn pedophiles makes me one qui??silly u
Must I have children??when will u blacks stop producing children like fishh??
I want 2 follow u inorder 2 school ur ignorant behind.Get on ur knees&thank me
Francizy why are u letting a woman fight ur battles??u scared baby??

lol Traware/sagamite is this you?

francizy:
You're are right. There are female pedophiles but what actually made me feel this pedophile (halimi24) is a he is because of how he aggressively attacks anyone trying to create awareness about rape cases and victims.

Nonetheless, the pedophile might be a she..

Boo Boo, some women can be very aggressive.

Halimi24:
Says who?? They are sexual_deviants while u aren't??Who made u judge&jury??Did pedophiles&gays decide 2 be pedophiles&gays??Did u on ur own accord decide 2 be heterosexual_??

They made the decision to be a pedophile, homosexual, or heterosexual once they decided to participate in the act. A person can think or feel a particular way, but once they do the deed they are what they are, it's like a person who has had urges of commiting murder all of their lives, they may have the feelings or thoughts of killing someone but they are not a murderer until the actual deed is done.
I know people who have homosexual feelings but have decided not to participate in the act.
We make the choices in our lives.
You are definitely female.

francizy:
Not wealthy but live a bit more comfortably than the rape victim's parents. The thing is, even when they report to the police and gets the rapist arrested, he could be bailed out.

But if the parents of the molested child are wealthy, they can even pay the police some cash to beat the living daylight out of the rapist.

In America there is no need to pay the police to beat the monster because when he is arrested the inmates will handle that themselves because they hate pedophlies and rapists, that is a guarantee.

francizy:
hehehehe, Trucky was being gentle on him. Guess Trucky didn't know she's a man..

Why do you think she is a man?
Actually it doesn't matter if it is male or female ( using the word of Truckpusher) a sick cunnt is a sick cunnt.