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Culture › Re: I Am Dominican From Dominica Republic... ASK Me Anything. by khia: 11:01am On Mar 24, 2015
yodanyrd:
Sorry bro, there is not such thing as "african" Dominican, neither "european" Dominican..
or "afro" Dominican or "euro" Dominican..
It's no existence in our culture, we Dominicans are just Dominicans no matter our skin colors or features.
There is not difference between us, when i speak about mix,black,white Dominican, am using political correctness so it can be much easy for u to understand what am trying to explain but between Dominicans, there is not such thing, yes we have color skin description, but they are not attacked to identity or any sub-culture like in the United State, where you have the White(different culture/identity) and the Black(different culture/identity) Americans..
For us, we only have ONE culture, one identity, which is Dominican, we don't have different sub-identity.
First of all I am a woman, secondly, yes I know you Dominicans deny your African ancestry, as if all the Africans evaporated into the air.
But back to my point, just show some dark skinned Dominican men because I know that you have them.
Health › Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by khia:
Catered4:
A week ago, I smelled something like cigarette on him though I wasn't sure because I've never seen him smoke and he doent look like someone that smokes. As in, no trace of it in him. The smell was so strong that I was forced to ask him.

Me: Did you smoke?
Dele: No, why?
Me: Are you sure?
Dele: No I didn't
Me: But I smell something like cigarette in you
Dele: I didn't smoke


I was so convinced that he smoked but I had no strong evidence to prove that he smoked. The next day, in the afternoon precisely, I perceived that same smell on him which wasn't so in the morning. I was forced to ask again.

Me: You smoked today again. Don't even deny it.
Dele: *Speechless*
Me: I knew you smoked yesterday but I wasn't so sure of what I smelled in you. Today that same smell is on you and its so strong. So tell me, Do you smoke?
Dele: Yes but not cigarette.
Me: What?
Dele: Skunk (don't know if I got the spelling right)
Me: What's Skunk?
Dele: He explained though I didn't understand any of his explanation since I was hearing it for the first time.
Me: For how long have you been smoking Skunk?
Dele: For years. I wasn't like that before not until some circumstances pushed me into the street. Mumsy and everyone doesn't know I smoke. No one knows.
Me: Please I want you to stop smoking. I don't feel comfortable with smokers. How can I help you stop?
Dele: I'm not an addict. I can stop right away.


I was so happy that I thought it was that easy to stop. Right there I believed he had stopped smoking skunk. A day after our discussion, I saw him with something that looked like grinded grass or dry leaf wrapped in a small white nylon. I was so curious to know what it was, so I asked.

Me: What's this?
Dele: Thyme
Me: what kind of thyme is this?
Dele: Its Thailand Thyme. Its used in cooking soup and its also medicinal. When you use it to cook, you will like it.
Me: wow, I will like to try it. Can I have some?
Dele: (This time around, laughing out), its weed ooo.
Me: you mean Igbo?
Dele: Yes Igbo. Its also called Weed.
Me: (Not suspecting he smokes weed too) is it the same Igbo that is being mixed in hair creams?
Dele: Yes but not this one. If you want that one, I will get it for you. This one is being put into tea or chewed. Its medicinal.


Dele explained the medical benefits of taking weed (In tea or chewing). I never knew he smokes weed not until a day he went out with his friends, his eyes was bleeding blood like he was given blow in the eyes. His eye balls were out and scaring. This time around, I walked up to him and asked if he had been smoking and he said Yes. I was furious. He promised to stop smoking skunk but I was surprised when he told me it wasn't skunk this time around but weed. I was so down. He promised to stop again.

Just yesterday, I caught him smoking. He didn't know I was coming. I saw him smoking the white paper. I was heart broken. I was speechless. I ran inside. He came in, he knew I was angry but he didn't know what to say. Not long, he slept off. I searched d whole house. I found wraps of weed in a nylon. I also found some in the varandah under a chair. I threw them into the water closet and flushed them. I placed the wrapper closed to where he will see them. He woke up and saw the wrappers emptied. He asked and I told him I ate them all. He didn't believe but I insisted that I ate them all since that's what he likes doing too. Ever since then, I've been keeping to myself.

I want to help him stop his smoking habit. I don't want him to damage his health due to excessive smoking. I'm afraid if he continues this way, something bad might happen to his health.

Please fellow Nairalanders, I need him to quit smoking, how do I help him stop. Matured advice only.
Thank you.
Wow!! What a long post. grin
LMAO grin grin grin In George Clinton's voice *Make My Skunk The Pure Skunk Gotta Have That Skunk* *Make My Skunk The Pure Skunk I Want To Get Skunked Uped*
To be honest I have never smoked skunk but I do know that it smells just like a skunk, hence the word SKUNK. They say it is a mello high, like a few glasses of wine, no hardcore stuff, which means it is the *good quality* unlaced with chemicals and other hardcore drugs. Your man is ok. smiley
PS....@op SKUNK is weed. LMAO at Thai being medical, and in the future make sure your posts are short and to the point, no drawn out scenarios needed.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia:
Exjoker:
Now I see why you have been so defensive of Marijuana.
How is the medical (medicated) Marijuana you're talking about different from the real marijuana I know? Is it smoken or eaten, and I thought smoke is harmful to the human system? Until recently (were some states are lifting bans on marijuana esp. the medical marijuana) Marijuana is ban in the United states
Medical marijuana is the marijuana you know if it is pure.
Alot of street dealers *street chemist* lace the marijuana with chemicals or other drugs like cocaine/crack to get the buyer addicted so that they will continue to buy their product. Pure marijuana is processed just the way God made it.
It's grown, harvested, dried, and then smoked or used as an ingredient in some foods.
Culture › Re: Cultural Or Psychological - Please Help Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin by khia: 12:05pm On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
LoL, well, I'm a bit carried away with Nigerian politics so I've not seen much of your naughty posts apart from the one you had with me when I talked about big and watery behinds, as in the day we met on Nairaland (if you can still recall).

Anyways, its sad you got a man cry but I still do insist you introduce me with my wife to be.. smiley smiley wink

And I hope you won't gimme excuses this time.. grin
I don't remember a conversation about big behinds grin and be happy for me and Buncher. smiley
Don't worry she'll be contacting you soon.
Culture › Re: Cultural Or Psychological - Please Help Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin by khia: 11:47am On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
LoL! Didn't know you're this naughty babe..

Hmmm, you lucky you got a daddy, I woulder wooed the heck outter you.. wink
How could you have not known, I have never been shy about it.
It's all there in my posts. grin grin
Culture › Re: What Do You Usually Do First When You Return Home From Work/outing Everyday? by khia: 10:51am On Mar 21, 2015
I turn on some relaxing music, have a wine cooler and just unwind for an hour to myself.
Culture › Re: I Am Dominican From Dominica Republic... ASK Me Anything. by khia: 9:00am On Mar 21, 2015
yodanyrd:
Oh yeah,. Dominican Republic is the Third most visit country in Latin America by Tourists after Brazil and Mexico. Many come from North America and Europe.
D.R. is the second economy in Central America/Caribbean and an Caribbean regional power(economically speaking).

You are more than welcome to visit the country.
Show pictures of dark skined African Dominicans.
Culture › Re: Cultural Or Psychological - Please Help Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin by khia: 8:38am On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
LoL, your daddy tho.. tongue
LMAO grin grin
You know as in *Who's Your Daddy* *Spank Me Daddy* *Kiss Me Daddy* grin grin grin
Culture › Re: Cultural Or Psychological - Please Help Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin by khia: 8:24am On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
LoL and who's the daddy? huh
Buncherstabb of course. grin grin
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 8:15am On Mar 21, 2015
falconey:
khia and punkyoh please ladies let's call it a quit.
I'm done and have moved on to better things.
Culture › Re: Cultural Or Psychological - Please Help Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin by khia: 8:13am On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
Khia howdy smiley
Hello Francizy, what are you doing talking to Daddy?
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Wooed A Lady/girl In Your Language??? by khia: 8:02am On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
LoL, bro, thought you're an Igbo guy, according to what Khiaa told me.. huh
lol grin grin I never said HE was Igbo.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia:
PunkyOh:
Name one poster I insulted without them insulting me 1st. I can have adult conversations with people who act like adults & since I don't have hand puppets to convey my point to childish posters, I have no choice but act childish too so they can get it. Get it? Or should I write in crayons so you can get it too?

I'm South African, a deflated ass is as rare as a tooth on a chicken cheesy You just keep wearing your ass pads, k wink
If you were a woman you would have risen above the pettiness but you are not and you behaved like the ghetto child that you are, hurling profanity all over the thread.
Reread your posts and see the nasty childish person you are. Being SA doesn't immune you from having your flat behind.
I am done posting to you because you are a childish bore with no comprehension skills.
Later:
PEACE
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 7:27am On Mar 21, 2015
PunkyOh:
Kiss my ass. You started the unwarranted insults by calling me a crackhead. Why are you whining now?
You started it with your lack of communication skills, you were throwing insults and rants at every poster who did not agree with you. You are very childish, and as far as the butt kissing save that for the men posters, maybe they will enjoy kissing a flat behind.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 7:09am On Mar 21, 2015
PunkyOh:
Listen cùnt, I don't have to be a weed smoker to know that some weeds are stronger than others. Even with normal weed that you get on the street, some of it is known for giving stronger kicks than others. I don't live in a drùg haze nor do I live in a bubble, plus my memory is good, so all the stuff I hear & read about sticks. Unlike you with the weed toasted, shrinking brain.
Falconey, is this what you call a lady?
She's a disgrace to womanhood.
Profanity is a result of a weak and unintelligent mind trying to express it's self.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 1:48am On Mar 21, 2015
falconey:
you don't really expect me to use those words on a lady, that's insolence and she did nothing wrong.
I used the words, never said you should, she is disrespectful and will not get any from me.
She's no lady with her profanity.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia:
Exjoker:
Hey dear, how I wish, you can tell me more benefits of weed to the human system. Thank you.
@BOLDED: It seem you do enjoy taking weed. Lol
I enjoy the chocolate brownies. smiley
It puts you in a mellow mood and relieves stress.
Marijuana helps take away pain in cancer patients and it gives them back an appetite that cancer takes away.
Marijuana helps people suffering with glacoma
Marijuana helps people suffering with anorexia
Marijuana is a pain reliever and helps people suffering with chronic pain
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 1:41am On Mar 21, 2015
falconey:
you are one hell of a tough chick you know that?
She's not tough she just has a big mouth with nothing but gibberish coming out of it. grin
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 1:27am On Mar 21, 2015
PunkyOh:
No I'm not a dope fiend honey, you are. Don't get it twisted.
I'll stick with the medical chocolate brownies, you can stick with your street crack laced marijuana and continue to act re.tarded.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 1:04am On Mar 21, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Story!
There's nobody that smokes weed that isn't addicted.
Not true at all, I know someone who has been smoking weed everyday for 20 years and he isn't addicted. grin grin grin just joking, but that statement is as ridiculous as saying that everyone who has a drink of wine is an alcoholic.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 12:49am On Mar 21, 2015
Pdizzle:
Medical marijuana is not manipulated, Google and check the content, maybe you're talk about SK, that is the processed weed with chemicals, raw sativa and indica will do you nada.
PS: Don't marry cigg smoker o, cigg causes erectile dysfunction
You are 100% on point, she doesn't know anything, just talking loud and saying nothing.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 12:24am On Mar 21, 2015
PunkyOh:
And that's short according to you? See the effects of weed shocked Good stuff for a "skinny" weed, you mean? Just like Splenda will never taste like real sugar even though its "good stuff" for a replacement. Girl, you can't tell me fùck all. I know people that smoke both types of weed & its not quite as potent as street weed. Don't care about the rest of your post because you're just regurgitating what I already said & knew.
Yes I know I was going to make it short but then I realised that I was conversing with someone who is quite slow and decided to give you a little more time and understanding. grin
You are comparing what people in SA smoke to what Americans smoke and claim you don't smoke yet you know what is weak and what is not. My claims of you being slow has just been comfirmed.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia:
falconey:
I can't believe the 2 ladies above me are arguing about WEED.........was flabbergasted didn't see it coming.

I thought it will be guys doing it, I must say am impressed with what have seen so far.

KUDOS ladies!!!
Some people don't know any better and only go by what other people tell them instead of their own experiences. I was trying to explain to her that there is a difference between her street crack laced weed that has her and her friends acting re.tarded and running down the street na.ked and medical marijuana. grin grin grin

Some of the brands of medical marijuana are Indica and Sativa.
If your doctor prescribe marijuana and you don't like to smoke you can also get it in pill form, cookies, or chocolate brownies.

I usually get the chocolate brownies. grin
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia:
PunkyOh:
Where is weed legal? I know it's illegal in the US too, btw. And don't tell me about medicinal weed because we all know that it's an anorexic, skim milk version of weed & not the real McCoy. Plus that topic has been covered already or has your weed head forgotten? Typical. Even your skinny weed is not easily accessible, it's a controlled substance & requires paperwork to get it. Don't get why it seem to get you guys high that it's considered medicinal but your ass will still get arrested if caught sucking your bong in public. It's pointless.
I'm going to make this short because I see that you are talking out of ignorance and you just don't know any better.
Medical marijuana is one of the finest quality of weed you can get *the good stuff* it only cost about 45$ to 75$ to have a doctor do the paper work and give you a licence to purchase.
When you go to purchase at the marijuana store, not a pharmacy, there are differen't brands that you can purchase and it is sold by the gram. There is no such thing as a weak brand of medical marijuana in the US, with the license you can also grow your own. You can't get busted with medical marijuana if you have a card and the cards are so easy to get.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 10:11pm On Mar 20, 2015
PunkyOh:
And I'm supposed to believe that weed is enviromentally friendly, right? It produces 0 smoke. Girl, please. None is better than the other. It's like comparing two evils. One makes you rètarded, while the other makes you less irritable cheesy

We have cigarette laws here in South Africa too,so I know, but until weed is made legal, we really can't be talking about public smoking & whatnot where it concerns the two. One is legal & one isn't. Enough said.
Just because it's illegal in South Africa doesn't mean it's illegal everywhere. No one said anything about smoking weed in the public, it should be smoked in private. If weed was bad or harmful how can you explain medical marijuana? Oviously you have never tried it or been around someone who does if you think it makes you re.tarded, perhaps you were smoking crack and you thought it was weed.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 9:50pm On Mar 20, 2015
PunkyOh:
How is cigarette worse than marijuana?
Cigarettes are deadly to the smoker and the people around them, haven't you heard of second hand smoke.
In the US cigarette smoking in public places is illegal because they are so toxic, if you aren't a smoker but you are around someone who does you will also breathe in the smoke and this could cause cancer to the non smoker including children.
A pack of cigarettes in the US can cost between 5 dollars to 10 dollars depending on what state you live in. The taxes on them are so high because of the millions of law suits against the cigarette companies.
Cigarettes and alcohol can be deadly, while weed is beneficial to the mind, body and spirit, and doesn't kill anyone.
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by khia: 9:38pm On Mar 20, 2015
Beamborla:
I can't... except his life depends on it like Doctor's prescription with sound and solid proof.

I find the alcohol repelling not to talk of weed.
Alcohol is much much worse than weed, how many people have you ever heard of dying from weed, 0, now alcohol, thousands.

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