Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 10:51pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Family › Re: 11 Reasons Why Men Leave Their Marriages by khia: 10:22pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Your cousin can't do chores or what?
Sometimes you might end up with people with what I call tolerable deficiencies and this you can tolerate if you truly love her,who would let go of what he cherishes for some insignificant things that can be either fixed or tolerated. You tell him Trucky.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia: 9:53pm On Apr 13, 2015*. Modified: 10:36pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
otipoju: Khia... It is impossible for me to hate African Americans...what I find hard to comprehend is why most of you guys deride Africa ...your own roots. Coming to America.. It was the last thing I expected. Khia..I am willing to be friends with you and let's talk There you go with your stereotypical comments. Have you met most African Americans to make that statement? I don't recall ever meeting you. We call ourselves AFRICAN Americans for a reason you know and the funny thing about that is some Africans right here on this website complain about us calling ourselves Africans saying that we are not Africans and on the flip side of the coin there are Africans saying we are ashamed of our roots and that is why we call ourselves Black Americans.. We are doomed if we don't and doomed if we do, it's like sitting between a rock and a hard place, which is better? If you had problems with SOME not ALL immature school kids, all I can say is kids will be kids, we all go through things when we were younger. I would love to be your friend and you can talk to me about anything.  |
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 3:05am On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 2:32am On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia: 2:20am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Dyoungstar: xxsheila89xx OP i can see that you are truely hurt and looking for ways to come back home.
we accept our lost relavtives, you just need to speakout so we can find you a hut. That's not funny, if you know she is hurting why the remark about the hut? |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia: 1:10am On Apr 13, 2015 |
otipoju: Ur behaviour and response is typical akata behaviour...easily agitated to a degree that contrasts to the issue on ground.
In my writing I carefully used the word " some" cause I have met African Americans who are doing great for themselves.
There is nothing like white mans education. Education is education. The same engineering, medicine, HR management are learnt in Korea, Iran and africa with regional adaptation.
You hate the white mans miseducation but do not hesitate to benefit from the technological advances of the so called miseducation. Its that miseducation that produced the "dodge" cars and Iphones that your crew loves so much.
Most if you guys are so stuck in hatred of the white man that you hate everything in sight. Caucasians, mexicans, Africans and even yourselves.
We try to speak like you because its an economic necessity. You need to be understood to make a sale. we still enjoy speaking our individual languages.
In your excelling in sports....the USA has better facilities and an efficient system in place that discovers talents and nurtures them to greatness .
I do not look down on you. I am surprised to come here and see African Americans looking down on Africans .
As for licking white ass, i carry myself with a lot of dignity and get the respect that i deserve.I believe that there are dumb Africans just like there are dumb Caucasians. There are smart whites just like there are very smart Africans and treat people on a one on one basis.
Hatred of other people haa been with human beinga from the beginning od time and it will not go away anytime soon. Nevertheleas as I Nigerian I was not brought up to hate whites, Asians , Africans, mexicans or aborigines. I guess you were only brought up to hate/stereotype black American's like alot of your fellow Nigerians were. |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia: 12:47am On Apr 13, 2015 |
19naia: My Translator for yoruba to english, says Akata is Hyena... That is still a degrading word to use on someone.. A scavenger who knows no work for his own sustenance, but rather puts their strength to taking advantage of others hard work... Maybe it has another meaning that isnt meant to say "Hyena". But to call a person a Hyena in Africa is like calling them good for nothing but usury of other people.. "Pele" means sorry, apology or condolences for suffering or loss, said by kind nigerians with good hospitality.. Africans are tough and often treated like worthless around the world.. Their strength and endurance is unmatched and fueled with little indulgences when bred true to their indigenous culture... Its no fun for them to have to take you seriously when they know they bring more respect and endurance to the table than those who try to look down on them... Its the only way to preserve their good qualities, to avoid with stern commitment away from all those who would bring bad influence in their lives to draw them into a lazy bad mouth Akata way of living... When the world of plenty and easy living collapses under the weight of over exploitation and disrespect for the delicate balance of the nature of earth and her bounty, Africans will thrive because they would have long standing tenure in their blood for withstanding hardship.. Akata life is associated with Aje Butter (eats butter), foods and way of life that make a person weak and fat, unhealthy and lazy, less prone to survive should hard times come about... Akata is associated with living off the backs of others hard labor while acting like they are the power that drives the world, rather than the strong people whom they depend on to do everything for them.. lol  You just described white Americans who have been living off the backs of black Americans hard labor since the beginning of America's existence. |
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 11:40pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
francizy: -------------------------------------- Why wouldn't I like sex, I'm human, Buncher will be blessed to have a woman who loves being intimate with him, and giving him all the love that she has inside of her to him and only him.  Seriously now, would you prefer a woman who doesn't desire you or fake enjoying your touch, or lays stiff like a lump on a log or a woman who's body temperature rises from just the thought of her man making passionate love to her, and she craves the touch of you and only you? -------------------------------------- You dominated this thread.. You too like sex jor.. 
Buncher is in trouble..  |
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 6:51pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 3:28am On Apr 12, 2015*. Modified: 12:26am On Apr 13, 2015 |
alexbch: .....abeg dnt bring catholics inside dis talk If the shoe fits wear it, besides I didn't bring Catholics into this conversation, they were already brought in pages ago. |
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Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2015 {nominations & Verifications} by khia: 7:30pm On Apr 07, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Characteristics Of Your 'Right Woman' by khia: 1:14am On Apr 07, 2015 |
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