Exjoker: Lol... Sure I didn't actually mean what I said but all the same, the thought of choosing a light skin as a partner is cool.
Maybe that explains why some of your brothers who already have their green cards and citizenship are marrying these big fat ugly white women in America, I guess the skin color makes up for the horrifying looks.
lol Really? So she can be as ugly as a baboon and as fat as a hippopotamus but if she has light skin she's beautiful in your eyes and will make you drunk in love? Again, really?
teeowl: Stereotypical aggressive behavior of black american women... throw insults as fast as lightning... always looking for fights and quarrels anywhere and everywhere they can get it... this is my last word to you.
teeowl: Stereotypical aggressive behavior of black american women... throw insults as fast as lightning... this is my last word to you.
You insulted me first and then you thought I wouldn't insult you back. How LAME of you. You said *what is it with you black Americans* *including a whole group* when it is only Kidstranger and myself responding, I decided not to include all Nigerians in my insult *generalising* so I took it to the lame person who insulted me, no generalising like you did.
teeowl: come... why are you still arguing and debating? just let it go! haba... what is it with you black americans self!
What is it with lame people like you? Take your questions to him and ask him why is he still arguing and debating with me? If we are debating with each other what is it to you? I don't remember conversing with you. Just mind your own business and keep it moving.
yodanyrd: Yes, Africans are diverse & have different features like i said before. Now do me a favor & stop putting words on me i never said. I do not understand how is racists by saying that our baseball player Manny Ramirez cannot pass for a West African because of his high European mixture?? U better calm down. If anything i have problem with this A.A. who started attacking my people,,, do no make it seem like i have problems with Africans just cuz of different idea of features or colors. I have respect for my Africans brothers...
You liar, I never attacked your people I only asked you to post some dark skined men and you found that offensive and denied having dark skin Dominican which I knew was a lie. You were angry because I wanted to see the chocolate men. All they have to do is read through the thread to know the truth.
yodanyrd: LMAO why r u so desperate? trying so hard to make urself believe that all these people could pass for Black Americans.. LOL
They are mostly of Europeans descent, majority of the pics i had posted, most people are mostly of European descent unlike A.A. who are 90-85% Africans. Manny pass as a light skin A.A. & YES he would be consider light skin by all A.A. stop pretending they won't
I mean, right now we are speaking of West Africans.. if you talking about Horners then that's a different topic.. but right now, we are referring to West Africans to be more specific. haha how many times u gonna be out? i already put u in ur place, hehe
yodanyrd: I dont know but your profile say that you are from California and for a person to find a Dominican in California, it has to take them months.. unless they go to a specific Dominican lil neighbor, which i doubt that there are any. Dark Dominicans are NOT looked down upon.. STOP lying!! Dominicans do not divided ourselves base on colors or races..
LOL Dominicans see Africans as inferiors? why are u lying.. are you jealous of us? Dominicans don't even know nothing about Africans but what western media tell them which we all know what it is.. I only show few White Dominicans bcs someone brought them up.. THERE IS NOOOOOOOOT such thing as "latino looking" you are very ignorant girl.. I guess the White Argentinians aren't Latinos because they all are White of Spanish/Italian/German descent?? Typical of West Coast Americans..
You don't know anything about west cost people and I see that my post about the truth of you Dominicans *which I am starting to doubt that you are* struck a nerve with you because the truth hit home. You even had to check my profile to see where I was from because you know that I am telling the truth. You can fool them but you can't fool me.
yodanyrd: If you talking about our black Dominicans, then yes, some could pass for A.A. but like i said, they features are different from black american bcs of their Southern European Spanish ancestry.. Manny cannot pass for an African bcs of his high European mixture, maybe for a Mix light skin A.A.
"racism" now you are accusing me of racism? LOL AM DONE...
Oh My Goodness!!! I get it now, you are just really, really, really ignorant. How can their features be different than AA because of their European ancestry when AA share European ancestry? LMAO at Manny passing as an light skin mixed AA, he's not even considered light skined. Now here is when you floored me, you said MANNY COULD NOT PASS FOR AFRICAN BECAUSE OF HIS EUROPEAN MIXTURE. You just don't know any better. *sigh* There are Africans much lighter, with keener features and curly/wavy/straight hair like the one you posted on this thread and lighter and they are not mixed. I am done with you, there is no reason for your ignorance, google is your friend. I will leave it up to the Nigerians to educate you if they choose to, I'm out.
yodanyrd: LOL Zoe the one who gonna play a very know A.A. woman in a coming movie? hehe She doesn't shame us.. lol i said that Dominicans don't care that much about her like A.A. do...
She is part PR bcs that's what she is too, & of course Ricans aren't different from Dominicans, Cubans, & other Latinos..
My first post consist of different looking skin colors & i did not showed the white & black minority Dominicans, how come i don't see you crying bcs i did not post white Dominicans in my first post ? haha if Dominicans wanted to hide our dark one, we weren't have David Ortiz LOL
LMAO Zoe is not representing us, she is ACTING, that is her JOB, that is how she gets PAID learn the difference.
yodanyrd: LOL Zoe the one who gonna play a very know A.A. woman in a coming movie? hehe She doesn't shame us.. lol i said that Dominicans don't care that much about her like A.A. do...
She is part PR bcs that's what she is too, & of course Ricans aren't different from Dominicans, Cubans, & other Latinos..
My first post consist of different looking skin colors & i did not showed the white & black minority Dominicans, how come i don't see you crying bcs i did not post white Dominicans in my first post ? haha if Dominicans wanted to hide our dark one, we weren't have David Ortiz LOL
You didn't bring out David until I continued to ask you to show the darker brothers and you know it, as a matter of fact you said they did not exist, so yeah continue the fantasy that you are all one.
yodanyrd: IDK you guys love when she "represent" you all. lol why would she be a shame? she is very smart but we Dominicans just dont care about her, we have better people & she is HALF PUERTO RICAN. Again, you are forcing it.. if u go to the first posts, u will see dark Dominicans.. so miss me with that
Zoe does not represent us or has ever represented us, maybe that is the source of your shame you thought she did, naaaah it's her darker skin. She is down for white America just like most of you. Why do you keep bringing up the fact that she is part Puerto Ricans, they aren't that different from Dominicans. Your 1st post consisted of brown/caramel people and you know they are not the darkest people on the island and you wanted to keep them hidden like most Dominicans do, but anyway thanks for bringing them out of your closet. PS I am done with your people dark skin phobias, I'm on to the next thread. PEACE!!
yodanyrd: LOL you really think these Dominicans can pass for
AA/African ? LOL you really forcing it now..
hmm my true self? to post the majority Mix Dominicans? HECK i didn't even posted White Dominicans until someone brought them up..
I said Dominicans who look like ur typical 50 cent or Tyrese are a rare thing because their looks is different than our black Dominicans because black Dominicans have a Southern European ancestry like Black American have a Northern European one.. and also the fact that black Dominicans many times have a very high Native ancestry.
Hmm i think you feeling some type of way.. jealousy & envy much? I posted fact of Dominicans viewing each other as the same & yet you couldn't reply to it..
LMAO Once again tell me how Manny and the other men you posted can not pass for AA/Africans, with Africans being some of the most diverse people on the planet? I knew if I kept pushing you the racism would come out. By the way, why haven't you addressed my post about the dark skinned Dominicans who told me about how they are looked down upon and how Africans are seen as inferior, yet you say Dominicans are one. I doubt if anyone will worship Dominicans on this website, you came to the wrong one.
yodanyrd: A.A. are mostly diverse in skin colors, maybe some features like a lil larger hair but no much for u guys to look different from Africans or Haitians. I already posted dark Dominicans.. I think we are getting things confused here.. We have to remember, Black Americans have different standard of what's light & dark.. while for Dominicans a dark skin Dominican would be consider light skin by Black American standard.. Cuz i posted dark skin Dominicans.. maybe for you they aren't enough dark, but for our standard, they are dark.. Once you brought up your issues, then i look up for very very dark skin Dominicans cuz i needed to go down to the standard of your A.A.
LOL there is no such thing as Latino looking people.. HAHAHA You meant MIXES looking people which are the majority of Dominicans.. all the people i showed 95% of them have some African ancestry.
I knoww.. we Dominicans don't care about Zoe neither but Black American put her in such pedestal LOL, just search her name in Y.T. & u will see what am talking about.. yet Dominicans don't even care about her..
HMMMM what "reality" ?? LOL you guys brought her up bcs you all put her in pedestal & love that her Mix Latina butt represent A.A. lol
How can Zoe represent AA she is not AA and identifies with white America and we know she is the shame of your people that is why we throw her in your face. Oh the shame, throwing her in your face is like throwing OJ, in our face, not because of the murders, because he was a source of shame before.
PS You knew exactly who I was talking about when I said dark skin people that is why you avoided them and pretended like they didn't exist. Dark, Brown, White is the same with you as it is with us. Anyway thanks for posting some of the more attractive Dominicans.
yodanyrd: Yeah many were dark skin, are u blind? i have no been evading nothing. LOL i showed it to you.. maybe you looking for "good looking" ones, i mean i could try to find them.. also you need to remember, black Dominicans do not look like your typical Black American.. Black American have some North European English/Germany mixture and this is why we Dominicans can tell the difference between a Black American & a dark Dominican. Among Dominicans, you won't find a 50 cent, Tyrese looking ones, maybe you could, but they are very rare because just like Black American, our black Dominicans have some Euro mixture and which is from our Spanish Southern European ancestry, that's why they look different than black Americans.
Now, looking like Haitians ( by the way, they aren't our "cousins", plz do not disrespect Dominicans by calling the people who massacred us "cousins" ) you can find some, but they are rare, unless they are Dominicanized Haitians.
All Dominicans represent Dominicans, i already posted very dark skin ones thou. Ima try to find some looking ones.. lol
Please tell me how those Dominicans you posted can't pass for AA/Africans? The more you post the more you reveal your true self which I saw from your very first post. lol you posted pictures of Manny, and the others yet you say Dominicans like Tyrese, 50, and Morris don't exist, you are contradicting yourself, but continue to do so, you are finally starting to entertain me.
yodanyrd: Well, i had talk to some Black Americans and every time they always brought up Zoe Saldana like if she is the only Dominican(half) woman or the only famous one.. when we have thousands of very famous & recognize Dominicans all over Latin America & the US. Puerto Rican are diverse, but not A.A. maybe diverse in colors but not in phenotypes, there are many famous Mix Biracial people who are attached to black american even thought they have a White parent or grand parent.
I don't know where you getting this lies from.. stop spreading this fallacy, Dominicans don't have no problem between ourselves, in fact, if you go to any Dominican no matter his race or mixture and you start speaking to them about race, many would look at you weird.. bcs Dominicans see themselves as Dominicans, we don't divided ourselves by different identity according to our colors like USAmericans do.
We pride ourselves in the dark skin ones Dominicans such as our baseball player like
Dominicans have been one of the most UNITED people in the Americas.. Here you can see a very old early 80's (35 years ago) feature by a "white" Dominican & a "black" Dominican.. even thought for us they are just Dominicans with different features/colors.
They are singing Merengue(a Mix Spanish/Afro music)
While Black/White Americans were hating/killing each other and having segregation.. Dominicans were already Mixing, seeing each others as the same, drinking & eating at the same place, our government were as diverse as the people, we already had our first black president in the Mid 1,800's "Gregorio Luperon".
That shows you don't know much about AA to say we are only diverse in skin colors. Why did it take me to bring up your prejudices for you to post or acknowledge the dark Dominicans, if I didn't you would have continued to flood this thread with nothing but white and latino looking people. That is why I made the point because I knew you weren't being sincere. PS no one cares about Zoe, we just bring her up to make you guys face reality. Thanks for proving my point.
xmich: From my personal observation I found out that women older than men in terms of marriage are prone of intimidating their husband in terms of husband and wife dispute.
Ridiculous, you probably met one couple like that.
Tallesty1: Listen dear, I am not here to claim I sabi too much but follow your heart is the worst advice to give a confused person.
Follow your heart isn't really an advice sef, rather it is a terrible encouragement to do whatever it is he wanted to do in the first place.
The assumption when the follow your heart advice is given is that s/he generally knows what they are doing, that they have all of the resources within them to understand what they must do in order to avoid mistake. But the problem is they don’t; that’s why s/he is asking for advice in the first place.
Do you think he will be here begging for advice if he can trust his heart?
Telling someone who asked you for advice to follow his/her heart automatically puts them back to the place they started: lost.
Jeremiah says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9)
follow your heart is the worst advice ever.
I am not married, and I don't see it happening soon.
Tallesty go back and read the post you quoted this from, I added more to the post.
Tallesty1: The emboldened is the worst advice ever.
It is very good advice, the heart is guided by the brain, and hopefully he is smart enough to weigh the pros and cons of the situation just as everyone should do when considering marriage, but not use something as ridiculous as a 3 year age difference to stop you from marrying the one you love and who loves you. Tallesty1 are you married? If you are you did what I advised him to do, you followed your heart. Is marrying a woman 3 years younger than you a problem? Incase you didn't know, someone 3 years younger or older than you is considered your age mate. If he is a man he doesn't need advice from total strangers he will know what is best for him.
deleib: Hello, Nairalander. I need your candid advice. I am in love with a lady who is a little bit older and educated than i am. I have tried hard to fight the feeling but she just keep coming and always admiring me. It's a confusing one. Now, my fear is that if i venture into d relationship, it might not last. Infact i even see her as a wife material but the age barrier sucks.
I am shocked. You have met a woman who is good to you that you love and feel she would make a loving wife for you and you are worried about a very very small age difference of 3 years not 10 but 3? I am just as shocked at people telling you there is something wrong with it. Please follow your heart and don't litsen to the nay sayers who are stuck in a time warp, to those who it applies, don't get mad atleast I didn't call you backwards. Narialand suprises me everyday, I guess that's what keeps it interesting.
yodanyrd: I been dealing with many black american like ur type, this is why i came to an African forum to try to re-educate Africans about Dominicans.. This lie about Dominicans have been spreading for the last couple of years by many black american for no reason other that u guys don't understand the Latin Dominican culture..
My type, What is my type. I am going by personal experience with Dominicans from Dominica FOTB, not the internet. These are the real dark skinned Dominicans not those faded out ones you keep displaying, and they told me how bad they are looked down upon, and how most Dominicans see africans as inferior to them, that is why you keep showing these white and latino looking people.
They aren't dark skin, I mean the true dark skin ones that you keep evading. The Tyreses, 50 cent, Morris Chestnut ones. The ones that looks like your Hatian cousins, you know the sexy ones. They represent Dominica too. lol @you.
yodanyrd: Zoe Saldana is HALF Puerto Rican, many black american think Zoe Saldana represent all Dominican women.. she does not represent the diversity of Dominicans.. you can check the first links i posted where you can find many black or dark skin Dominicans in the links.. you can obviously see them there. The African blood did not disappeared, i posted the fact of Dominicans ancestry.. i posted pic of Dominicans but for some reason the forum deleted them all, maybe because it was too many.
Americans know that she doesn't represent all Domnicans, we know that you are just as diverse as Puerto Ricans and AA, but you guys have an issue with the real dark ones.
yodanyrd: I mean, i wanted to show my people since i know most of you have never been exposed to us. But yeah my bad bro. Well, Dominicans see Africans as anybody else see them, i dont want to sound bad but u know how the typical image of Africans is portray around as all poor, asking for food, etc which of course i know its no true bcs many African countries are booming. The average Dominicans dont think much about Africans, and neither about Europeans, Dominicans embrace their African heritages, which is already blend in our mix culture. But the view of Africans is not that strong because most Dominicans arent expose to them but only throw the media and we all already know how the media works about Africans. Honestly there isnt much influence straight from Africa, the only influence we have is the one that came around 300-500 years ago. Dominicans dont look much outside of the Latin
America zone...
Am talking about the majority, but there are some minority Dominicans who would look up to Africans as a people of Africaness cultural influence.
Dont worry, if you meet a Dominican, they wont be racist or have a bad view about, many would threat you great as any person bcs we also have black Dominicans and we all see each other as the same.
LIAR LIAR LIAR You guys are some racist SOB"S toward Africans.
KidStranglehold: How are they weird? But more importantly their mostly Afro/Mixed Dominican women which the thread is about.
He dosen't want to show the darker ones like the actress Zoe Saldana, He wants to pretend that the African blood disappeared in all Dominicans over time. That's why it's weird to him.
yodanyrd: Where did you got this lie from? how come Dominican deny something we learn in our schools, high schools, university, college.. ? I hope you not getting this lies & fallacy from Black Americans who hate Dominican, Puerto Rican, Cuban with a passion because we do not identify with them..
According to National Geographic GEO 2.0 the average majority 65% Mixes Puerto Rican are 64% Spanish European, 25% Afro & 11% Native American. According to PLOS Genetics the average majority 55% Mix Cuban are 72% Spanish European, 20% Afro & 8% Native American. Yet only Dominicans get the most attack by Black American because they think Dominicans are the only people in Latin America that has some Afro mixture because we make border with Haiti. So no body question Cubans & PRican Afro ancestry, cuz they all think they are some kind of a new race.. Dominican get the heat the most because of our Haiti neighbor. 60% of Venezuela population have African ancestry from 90% to 20% or less percent Yet no body call out Venezuelan who population are majority Tri-racial. Colombia is the third country with more Black people in the Amaricas after the U.S. & Brazil yet no body call them out.
According to University of Panama, the average majority Panamenian is 38% Afro, 35% Native America & 27% European Yet no body call them out.
This fallacy about Dominicans came mostly from bias articles & specially the most bias & fallacy so called "documentary" call "black in L.A." where Dominican history,culture, tradition, ancestry was JUDGE & FILTER throw an AfroAmericanized experience, lent, point of views, history & social racism.. You cannot judge another culture throw your own cultural standard, that's just ridiculous.
Black American identify by Race & Color while Dominicans, PRicans, Cubans, & the rest of Latin America identity ourselves by Nationality & Culture. This is where the "dominican deny afro" came from.. because they think Dominicans are the only one who has Afro ancestry in L.A. for the reason of making border with Haiti... Black Americans equal Black(color) with African(race) ancestry.. they say, if you have some "One Drop Rule" of Afro dna in you.. you are automatically "black" & Latinos in Latin America did not have the racist "one drop rule" & this is why this doesn't apply to us, and that's the reason the majority Dominicans who are Mixes say " we are not black, but mixes" because in Latin America once you are Mix, you are not longer black or white or native. When a Dominican or PRican or Cuban say " am not black but mix" what he is saying is that he is not black as negroid pure looking but that he is a mixture of 2 or 3 races. Black American think by Mixes Latinos saying "am not black" they think Latinos are denying African ancestry, this is where the error came from.. this is the confusion. Black American think that once you have some Afro ancestry, you are just Black & nothing else and if you don't say so, you are in denial & you are a self hater.. This is why Black American are the most fck up psychological mental people in the Americas.
People need to respect Latin America identity where almost all people identify with their Nationality & Culture instead of Race or Color...
Black Americans this Black Americans that, you don't know what the hell black americans think, and you just showed how messed up you are psychologically with your long boring rants about black Americans who could careless about you people. I am black American and where do you get off saying who we hate and what makes you think we care about who you identify with, we sure don't need/want you. Now back to my post show pictures of dark dominican men, they are much more attractive.