₦airaland Forum

PunkyOh:
But you can't tell just by looking at them if someone has an addictive personality or not, now can you? Hence I'd rather not even go there once I find out someone is into that sort of thing. The fact that they're smoking it & it's more than once, is an addiction all on its own so who is to say they won't try other things that'll give them a more potent high than the one they get from the weed. Hmm..

PunkyOh:
Bang, bang!!

Btw, I'm not judging weed heads because I know quite a few that are outstanding citizens & I say puff away I just wouldn't be with one because well, that's my

choice. I find that in most cases, weed is often the gateway to hardcore drugs. Not always but it often is the case, going by studies done on junkies.

PhweshyJ:
I got it. You're very interesting though.

PhweshyJ:
No, dearie.

Truckpusher:
I never said so, all I'm saying is that the time it takes for two people from two different cultures to understand each other wouldn't be the same when you're dealing with someone from the same culture.

I can give you an example: I got the culture shock of my life when I told my foreign girl friend to give me a glass of water while Sitting on the couch and she responded by telling me that she's not my slave and this is something that a typical Nigerian girl would have done for me with no hard feelings if she truly loves you .Though I paid her back when she asked me to give her some money for shopping, I simply told her that I'm not her ATM we went back and forth always quarreling and separating every now and then and making up again until it dawned on me that this is a different girl from a different culture and I have to drop my mentality and ego else I'll always appear as a caveman to her .And all the things I wouldn't do for a Nigerian girl I started doing them and I learnt a lot though it wasn't easy for her too because she was bent on changing my orientation while I was bent on remaining an African a black man

Op's thread didn't do justice to the black woman especially the Nigerian women.
Simply put , you foreigners also have your bag and baggage and it could be more difficult compared to someone that knew my mindset and orientation right from birth

searching4love:
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U are shameless # no offense

lawanson44:
My parents never had the time to sit me down to tell me how sly and devilish the yorubad race is...I experienced it firsthand and so I will live to tell my own children. And please...please...I can never have anything common with an mgbati-mgbati person! NEVER!!

lawanson44:
You are one of the few igbo girls remaining. Marrying a yoruba man is like dining with the devil in hell

GodMode:
Were Israelites christians, did/do they believe in christ as the son of God or as a prophet?
Just asking?
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I knew u were going to say its "old testament"... Most christians do that a lot...

in my opinion:

When the bible writes "israelites" its talking about christians...

In this 21st century... Land inheritance also means Assets and Finance...

I don't debate religious passages cos the debate will have no conclusion...

Don't give yourself headache over a rule millions of people have already broken even before this 21st century...

Chommieblaq:
That why u still searching for love. Jisike n happy searching.

Richy4:
God has a very good sense of humor.
Way back, I said I did not like a certain university. That was were I ended up.

God please I don't want to serve in Bayelsa state. I hated water. That was where yours truly was parcel to.

God don't let plumpy lady come my way, na wetin I dey see now. Most with good heart. The type you can take to mama.

I have resolved never to voice out what I do not like. Because it will show up at my door step.

PhweshyJ:
Well I'll surely learn one day.