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Culture › Re: Somebody Lied "African-american" Ain't African by khia: 3:30am On Mar 10, 2015
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Culture › Re: The White Manz' Perception Of Black Beauty Is Different From The Black Manz by khia: 3:05am On Mar 10, 2015
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Politics › Re: The Blackman Is Still A Slave! by khia: 2:35am On Mar 10, 2015
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Their Fat Wives All Across America by khia: 11:03pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Romance › Re: What Sort Of Devilish Wife Did I Marry? by khia: 10:29pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Crime › Re: Nigerian Woman Allegedly Murdered By Husband In Houston, Texas ( Photos ) by khia: 10:16pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by khia: 10:09pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Education › Re: Mummy Cried: Nsukka Boy’s Presidential Scholarship Story From London University by khia: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Culture › Re: How Can You Marry Someone From An Ethnic Group You Claim To Hate? by khia: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2015
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Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia:
Traware and his pathetic inferiority complex is on display as always. smh
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia:
cyprianlah:
Normally i don't quote sex addicts undecided But since u insist, be my guest''
senior mo.ron have u ever heard something like ''remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy??
No! sex has soo eaten deep into you

Go act p.orn na...Idio.t
How is a married couple making love *a gift from God and a part of God's plan* not be holy?
Please explain mor.on. So you see a married couple making love on Sunday *which isn't the sabbarh by the way* as sex addicts, what a suppressed mind you have. I will leave the porn making for you and your boyfriend. grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 7:56pm On Mar 09, 2015
PhweshyJ:
Nope. smiley

Your interest and unending arguments in this sex section is enormous. Lady experience! cheesy
Show me endless arguments in the sex section, and how would you know unless you were there. Experienced? It only takes one good partner to teach you many things if you are willing to learn and not pretend to be holier than thou.
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia:
cyprianlah:
All you people saying they is nothing wrong, I ''piri''you

For cryin out loud u are goin to church, and d last thing u did before goin to pray to God is have sex, dats soo unthinkable

They should have waited and have sex in church na, since they are married

You people don't knw dat sex is more than wat u see it

Tell me wat will be goin through their minds wen seated in churchhuh Maybe something like ''sweetheart u we're good I really enjoyed it''

Pleaseeeeeeee SMH
Man, after 5 years on Nairaland I am still shocked at the mor.ons on this site.
How long will it take you mor.ons to understand that sex was created by GOD and it is not something evil and ugly especially for married people.
Don't you know that the essence of sex was put in the human body, and soul as a GOOD THING to make sure we continue to procreate and populate the earth. *Sigh What is wrong with some people*?
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 10:05am On Mar 09, 2015
disloman:
WORD n thanks.They r my joy n life.
Awwwwwwww!!! Bless your dear heart, are they your wife/woman and child or family members?
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 9:38am On Mar 09, 2015
disloman:
WORD
Yes!!
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 9:22am On Mar 09, 2015
disloman:
I respect u n believe dat ur man will find it difficult 2 chase all those tonshi gurls where he knws what he has at house. cheesy
Thanks for the respect and understanding, you know we women who aren't sexually frigid are willing to try new things with our men. grin grin
What a beautiful picture on your profile, it makes my heart glorious. smiley
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 7:50am On Mar 09, 2015
disloman:
Missionary?can' remember when last i did dat.We gat 2 spice up our sexual life.
LMAO grin grin I hear you, for myself being the sensual woman that I am, the missionary has to be the most boring *wanna blow your brains out* position there is. grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 6:40am On Mar 09, 2015
disloman:
U mind them?Some don't knw when u enjoy sex most is at dat odd time n odd places.
lol grin grin I can only imagine how boring their sex life must be *missionary only*
Nairaland General › Re: Why Do Africans Call Black Americans And Black Caribbeans Akatas by khia: 6:31am On Mar 09, 2015
otipoju:
"Akata"... Refers to the unpredictable nature of many African Americans.

It is a term coined to reflect the high tendency to get extremely angry and upset at minor things.

It refers to the lifestyle where many are really less bothered planning for tomorrow .

it is about the prevalent lifestyle of a woman beginning to have kids at 14 and by 30 she has 5 for 4 different fathers...of guys doing the same.

Of many smoking marijuana everyday both male and female.. All these things we struggle to understand.

So Akata is a stereotype that means being being emotionally unstable, volatile passions and doing very silly things.

And don't try to play the saint cause you guys also denigrate Africans.. Calling them "Awawa".. Because if the way they pronounce " how are you". You believe they are unsophisticated and have no business in america.

Most of your guys hate africans because they take advantage of opportunities that some of your crew refuses to see because they choose to believe that the system is against them.

I try not to get too involved in all these though as it dies nobody no good and I respect those who are civil.
LMAO grin grin
Everything you stereotyped AA"S to be is a reflection of some Nigerians.
Crime › Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Hemp Smoking by khia: 6:15am On Mar 09, 2015
Yungwizzzy:
When have you seen someone run na.ked under the influence of weed, alcohol yes, weed no. --------------------------------------

Ok continue

till run naked in the market
Crime › Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Hemp Smoking by khia: 5:41am On Mar 09, 2015
Yungwizzzy:
what useless inspiration do you get from it?

Quit weed it can makes one run mad
Weed doesn't make a person mad, it is relaxing just like a glass of wine. It is a plant that's natural that God created unlike alcohol which is man made.
There has never been a case of someone becoming psychotic or dying from weed, but alcohol abuse is deadly.
Crime › Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Hemp Smoking by khia:
Mega2010:
Morning Nairalanders
Am still awake at this moment thinking of a way to go about my younger nephews smoking habit.This bothers me a lot,there is nothing we have not done to stop this guy from smoking,he gets restless anytime he didn't smoke for a whole day,am always with him so I really knew his attitude towards that,this 20 years old guy sneaks out when others are sleeping at night,goes to our car park to smoke weed,my uncle and his wife has said a lot and at some point gotten tired of the whole scenario,I just love this young boy,I have also talked to him,I really need to help my nephew..You can imagine how one can stay sleepless because of another persons issue,am 6 years older but he still can't buy my advice..Smoking hemp is not the issue but forming it as a habit is just my problem.Dont forget he disappears from church to get it somewhere,there is always a way he can buy it...He is just too young for all this...Place yourself in my shoes people..save my nephew please.....
I really need you kind replies....thank you



Note:He is my uncles only hope( both male and female)
I'm sorry that you are going through this but Thank God it isn't METH *A Soul Destroyer* I'm going through the meth addiction with someone who is dear to my heart, unfortunately there's nothing that can be done for him unless HE wants help, and usually they have to hit rock botton before they cry out for help, the person I'm talking about started smoking weed when he was 15 he's now 27. I guess he became use to weed from smoking so much of it in his youth and needed something stronger to feel the high, God forbid this happens to your nephew.
One thing I do know from experience is that you can't be a crutch for him.
Don't give him money.
Don't cover for him
Don't make excuses for him
Continue to talk to him and don't stop loving him, I know that they can make it hard to love them at times but hang in there. smiley
People will tell you to get rehabilitation but trust me that can only work if the person realises that he has a problem and wants help, otherwise he will go looking for it as soon as he gets out of rehab.
Personally I don't have a problem with weed if done in moderation, alcohol is much worse and deadly. My concern with your nephew is that he does it so often and his behavior to get it. Pray for him and pray that he doesn't seek something stronger.
Sorry for the essay, but this topic hit home for me.
Goodluck with your nephew. smiley

PS.. Don't stress yourself out about this matter, stressing will only make you sick.
Let go and let God!!
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 3:41am On Mar 09, 2015
PhweshyJ:
I think early morning hours are the best time to do it, but I don't know about Sunday morning oh. cheesy
Sunday morning is fine, do they stop being married because it's Sunday?
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia:
JoeCutie:
Shebi love making in marriage is allowed? Shikena! But this one strong sha oo. grin

How composed do you think the lady would be in Church? What would she be thinking as the service/mass is going on? She'd be lost totally. First off, she'd be tired and overtaken, both physically, mentally, emotionally and even spiritually. Her body go dey totori am, in such a way that the Man of God would say "In Jesus Name", and while the others are responding with "Amen!", she'd be shouting "Harder!". cheesy

Na that time you go know say that "the world is a small place" no mean say you go fit trek from Lagos to Oreh. That you're free to bang as a married couple doesn't mean you should do it right in front of your kids. God go catch you. cheesy

In every rule, there are exceptions. grin
Childish crap. The op didn't say anything about doing it in front of the children they were in the privacy of their bedroom and had every right to make love when and however they wanted to. ALOT of Catholics still believe sex is a sin unless you are married and having it for procreation only and not for pleasure. grin Are you Catholic? Just asking. grin
Romance › Re: Is It Okay For Married Couples To Make Love Before Going To Church? by khia: 3:23am On Mar 09, 2015
MissMakas:
I was at my friend's place the other, and I experienced something I'm confused about. My friend got married last year, and they were to go for thanksgiving for their One Year (wedding) Anniversary, and she invited me and some other friends of ours. The day's mass was supposed to be by 6am, and by 5am I had already woken up to start preparing for Church. As I was about going into the bathroom, I heard noise. It was my friend moaning...as early as 5:20 am when the time for mass was just 40 minutes away. I was surprised. Though I absolutely have no problem with what they do and how they choose to do them, I still find it kind of awkward and somehow, ungodly? I don't know.

I didn't tell or ask my her though, because she might just misunderstand me or even misinterpret the whole thing. I decided to throw it open to the floor here.

Is is okay for married couples to make love just before going to Church? Thanks. smiley
How on earth could lovemaking between a husband and wife be ungodly at anytime? Not making love is ungodly for a married couple. Smh
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Find This Attractive (photo) by khia: 10:48pm On Mar 08, 2015
keenn:
I have always puzzled the reason behind the media exaggerating how biased ladies are over macho guys, while in reality it ain't. I could be wrong though!
Yes you are wrong. grin grin
Romance › Re: Check Out Some Of My atutupoyoyo(ugly) Pixs by khia: 1:26am On Mar 07, 2015
The topic makes sense. grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by khia: 6:11am On Mar 06, 2015
L2CD766:
where did i mention that I lived in Nigeria? affirmative action has really done more harm than good.
Where did I mention affirmative action and how has it been harmful?
Affirmative Action was created so that blacks and other non-whites could attend colleges and universities who in the past weren't aloud simply because of their race, it didn't matter how intelligent they were, only skin color mattered.
TV/Movies › Re: Download And Request For Your Seasonal Movies Here - Direct Download Link by khia: 3:01am On Mar 03, 2015
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Romance › Re: Best Love Songs Top 20 (my Favourites) by khia: 1:09am On Mar 03, 2015
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