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It happens guys. I was in a catholic church today. I hardly understand what happens there because they speak of terms only understood by they're members who've been to they're classes etc. Instead of sleeping I took the car keys and went to listen to the radio and took selfies till the service ended. I just didn't feel connected to what was happening in there. I felt like i WAS in a foreign country. GUYS NEED TO STOP FORCING THEY'RE GIRLFRIENDS FROM GOING TO CHURCHES THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND.CATHOLIC CHURCHES ARE WEIRD WHEN YOU'RE NOT CATHOLIC. |
MY B.F IS OBSESSED WITH KIM K..MAKES ME WATCH KEEPING UP WITH THE KARDASHIANS AND I HATE IT. I decided to pay for less channels from August. ![]() |
lol! NA LIE!!! |
donbenedict:She's very pretty hey...Nthabiseng. She just acts really ghetto..like we need to hide our cosmetic bags when she's around cause she's really dangerous about everything...food.liquor and she can make a man spend hey. But maybe that isn't a bad thing after all. ![]() |
Bilabong:Yeah I know .Hence I said its a complex issue you know..in a perfect world we could ignore them. |
Vanquay16:Fabulous shoes! ![]() |
hunger is hunger my man! Dood's is this true? Does it really happen? What am I saying though cause I have a friend like that we ladies avoid cause she's dangerous. She wants to try everything she sees in our house lol! |
And one think a man will never know about rape survivors is that every time we hear that another woman has been raped we cry...inside. Sometimes you get teary eyed and sometimes you weep privately because you worry that another young woman has to go through that in this life. I was with some friends last weekend ...actually we were on holiday And everyone was like...my brother always says he will kill anyone who ever rapes me...blah!blah!blah!... I just sat there quietly. Cause I wondered why my brother didn't kill the bustards. Its messed up. I know. |
The worst thing about RAPE in africa is that it is so common and so many cases go unreported. A woman is scarred for life after such an incidents. Lack of education is also a problem with our parents,this girl was supposed to have been taken for counselling and maybe even removed from this area until she is able to deal with this situation completely. Look ...I am an honest person and I am not shy/embarrassed to say that I dealt with something similar when I was 17 and i'm glad that my family was very supportive and I moved to an area where no one knew me and it took months for me to recover. The effect is psychological. I remember that I used to have nightmares...dream the guys were in my house and I wake up in the middle of the night out of fear and to double check that its just a dream. Its a pity that she did not get counselling I believe it would have saved her life. Another thing is that I had elder women who came to me and related to me that they had been raped before and this made me feel that I'm not alone and they helped me through it. The problem with our society's is the taboo associated with rape when it is never a woman's fault. May her soul rest in peace and may you all reach out whenever you can.
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Skywalker5:Its such a pity that even if we do appoint a new president,change takes time. Human rights/workers right's rather is a very big deal and we can only hope the workers will lobby for this to change with the new leadership in the country. On the other hand I really feel for buhari because he has so much that needs to be done. I hope the civil rights movements will keep shouting until they're voices are heard because that;s all we can do....Oh i just remembered that I need to blast my political party on facebook for not replying to my mails after 3 weeks. |
Gejpresident:okay i will wait and hear what other people say it is...it looks like an iron with wheels?... |
i can vouch for salt because my mums pastor uses it in preparing healing water for those who need it and my granny throws it on the roo when there's hectic thunder because in southern africa lightning can be used as a weapon by evil people. |
I think BH/ISIS should be denied any entertainment as they thrive on media/social media attention. We should start a #ignoreterrorists something and see if this theory works. This is what all media personnel/columnists have been saying all along. Its a pitty because they get more gruesome each day and we do need to know what is happening in the world....I guess it's a very complex issue. |
what is that Gejpresident? |
smartgenius10:What one English word ends in -mt? "Dreamt" is the expected answer to this question, but there are a few others: the abbreviation "amt" and the words "adreamt" and "undreamt." ...gotta love google |
bastien:amen to that |
millstone: ![]() NL will always lift my spirit when i'm down . |
Skywalker5:I noticed that it seems acceptable in nigerian society for bosses to slap employees/maids/servants. It should not be acceptable to be little another person because that's partly discriminating against the person because of they're occupation (since they're inferior to the boss). In SA u can take the boss to the CCMA for such a thing and they will be fined heavily and will have to compensate you...im not sure what action he can take there but maybe he should have a discussion with the boss and bosses boss to explain that the situation is unacceptable and should never happen again and what will happen should it happen gain. He should make it clear that he can easily slap him/her back but chooses not to do so out of respect for his/her position and for future employment relations between the two. |
Miley Cyrus has bagged herself a Victoria's Secret model ... and during a break from filming a new music video Tuesday night in Los Angeles ... they locked up in a heavy make-out session. The girl's Stella Maxwell, and she and Miley have been hanging out quite a bit lately. Miley posted a photo with Stella a few weeks back and captioned it,emoji_miley The photo and video were shot Tuesday night in the parking lot at The Palm in Bev Hills. They both saw the cameras and clearly kissed to make a point, and it did not seem like a typical Miley gag. We had to blur the video because Miley's hand goes south with Stella's help. Miley has said recently she's bisexual. Read more: http://www.tmz.com/#ixzz3efqeyuGO Personally,I cannot believe this. Read more: http://www.tmz.com/#ixzz3efqWTYNU
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yorke1:Very strange question for a mum to ask. ![]() |
oh my word : R1849660.800 FABULOUS!!!Spendind in the club is the coolest thing ever and if you can afford it then why not.I just wish the dood was my buddy. ![]()
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let me google 30 million naira...brb |
mhhmmm.. interesting. Look forward to everyone elses comments. |
pet2ten:Lol! Then you have to upload your pictures together on each other's social networks starting with NL okay.Will keep checking your profile pic for any updates . |
Brothers do not think that way meehhhhhnnnnnn!!!! Get your head out of the gutter. ![]() |
lol! At believing there's no hell ![]() It certainly does make him feel better. It's quiet similar to a drug dealer who prays to god to bless his hustle. ![]() |
bastien:U self why u no upload am...... huh? Anyway I used to do that to. I would dump my b.f almost every week but you need to be resilient and tell her you don't appreciate this type of behaviour and she might think long and hard about it and no longer do it. Maybe she doubts you hence she's upset about the social media thing. Why does she doubt you still ? |
adeekiti:True...but some sisters need to hear this man. |
*i forgot the word i wanted to use.... |



.Hence I said its a complex issue you know..in a perfect world we could ignore them.
Dood's is this true? Does it really happen? What am I saying though cause I have a friend like that we ladies avoid cause she's dangerous. She wants to try everything she sees in our house lol!