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she's sexy and she knows it!

kentozybee:
A very young lady called me that she was
impregnated by a guy whose house or family
members she didn't know. She first met the guy
on facebook after which they began to meet at
restaurants and hotels. The guy promised to
marry her, gave her engagement ring and gave
her whatever she requested for.
When she discovered that she was pregnant, she
called the guy to share the good news with him
but the guy warned her very seriously never to
call his number again. That was the last time she
heard from the guy.
If all you have is his phone number, BB pin, his
brother's phone number, his facebook address,
his email address and you quickly change your
relationship status to "ENGAGED"  You even
went to your church and gave testimony for
divine connection, and all your friends are using
your relationship as a point of contact  my
dear, your relationship is as cheap as a SIM
CARD!!!!!!!!!!!
Because when he breaks his SIM, change his
brother's sim, change his email and facebook
address,for no just cause, Then your relationship
is automatically Over!
Be wise! Don't go into sex before marriage, you
may end up in shame & regret. And don't tie
your destiny with a stranger because a stranger
may be a danger! Know the person you are going
to commit yourself to very well, lest you later
blame yourself! Know his God, his mother, father,
brother, sister, friends, church, pastor, mentor,
past before announcing to the whole world that
you are engaged!
And if you and your life partner are not born
again, you are in trouble already!
May you not fall in love and fall into trouble in
Jesus name.

Amen! Women are very fragile. We are surrounded by possible danger at all times.

Can't wait to hear the responses.

tosyne2much:
See how them dey insult OP... Just here to read comments from the hypocrites.. Why some of them go shy when thousands of male species don bleep the hell out of their life, I don't expect them to be shy buying ordinary Pad

shocking

Stelvin101:
Your gf is a fisherwoman. If u r smart dude u will play along knowing u will never lack protein.

Lol! @never lacking protein

bigfrancis21:
Ghanians are more accepting of the black diaspora than Nigeria is. Ghana is the one of the first countries in Africa to officially throw her doors open to welcome back AAs, and afro-caribbeans wishig to return back to Africa. Their actions indicate a sense of welcome, openness and warmth to the returnees and make them feel welcome and at home. Subsequently, many have taken up permanent residency in Ghana.

Nigeria, on the other hand, has not taken any significant action to address the issue of slavery or instituted official programs that are directed sspecifically towards welcoming AAs and afro-caribbeans willing to return to Nigeria. Nigeria seems to just don't care about extending the hand of brotherhood to them. From the view point of AAs and afro-caribs, Nigeria appears cold and unwelcoming to them. Also, Nigeria's deep culture and strong attachment to one's village might make it hard to integrate returning diaspora blacks back to Nigeria. In the Nigerian culture where everyone is identified by the village he comes from and not by his state of birth, which is the method of identification of someone in US, if these returnees returned, what villages in Nigeria would they attach themselves to? Which village would they claim to be from? Which village and state would the children of these returnees born in Nigeria claim given that identification in Nigeria isn't by state of birth rather by state of ancestral origin? Of course the Nigerian-born kids of the returnees cannot claim, 'I am a Lagosian' because they were born in Lagos because the next question that would be asked is, 'what LGA or local govenrment are you from?' The question-answer session then becomes a dead-end. Also, are Nigerians willing to be wholly accepting of these returnees? Would Nigerians regard them as their own just as they regard other Nigerians or still see partially them as foreigners(called Obruni in Ghana)? Do Nigerian tribes have an assimilation system in place for foreigners willing to assimiliate into their culture and village? For sure, many Igbo villages are quite closed and tight to assimiliating non-natives into their village. Returnees of Igbo ancestry are bound to find it difficult assimiliating into the Igbo community. The Yorubas are more accepting of returnees than the Igbos are.

During the end of the slave trade era, some Yorubas and Igbos made it back to Africa. While many of the Yorubas returned to Yorubaland (Lagos especially) and were welcomed, given land for settlement(Yaba is one of them) and re-acculturated back into the Yoruba culture, the Igbo returnees dodged Igboland went to Equatorial Guinea instead for fear of being tagged slaves or 'oru' or subjected to slave status by other Igbos. These returnees understood deeply the Igbo culture how tight-fisted Igbos are towards non-natives and returnees alike and headed for EG instead. Only a few made it back to Nigeria, especially in the cities of Aba, Onitsha and Port-harcourt. The substantial Igbo community that headed for EG, combined with recent Immigrant arrivals established an Igbo community there and explains why Igbo language is a recognized language by the government of EG today.

In some way, our Jamaican, AA, caribbean brothers may be right after all. Nigerians may not be as nice to them as Ghanians.

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Very informative comment.

CrystalHeart22:
I would have to say that this is true. Ghanians are nicer than Nigerians because on the internet it is always a Nigerian who talks ill of black americans. It is even here in the USA that Nigerians speak badly of them. I read on forums of black american's experience of living or working with a Nigerian and it is always a negative experience.Nigerians call black americans akata which means nigger and an offensive word. Don't try to deny the word really means what I said, because you all know the truth. They even admit that they speak bad of black americans in their own country. I love Ghanians because they are better to accept people without relying on stereotypes that the white or jewish media paint to you. In America, they paint Africa as starving or being Tarzan roaming the jungles. There are probably still Americans who think their is still tribal warfare going on there.

I didn't know this ....

ismailaja:
fake bossoms, will u be happy if u guy get fake dick

if it feels like the real thing then I don't see any problem. The thing is cancer is common lately,its highly likely to happen to someone you know at some point in your life. I know 4 women of different ages who've had ovarian cancer or breast cancer and they need the partners love and support. Its not fair that when a bustard is I'll his wife is expected to look after him but when the wife is I'll men get a fresh younger wife. It doesn't help with the woman's well being. Men must just quit being selfish.

Truckpusher:
What's amusing you? miss Khukhi.

Nairalanders can be so insulting at times. Its always so funny how different people can view an issue.

AnonymustME:
Well, this isn't really a problem

guys usually have several backup girlfriends too. Ladies do you honestly believe you're the only one in his life?

Honestly.... no

Odunharry:
but why are some gals like that?

You can't eat mc Donalds everyday according to some people they need variety in they're lives.

Another thing is that if you love someone,sometimes they don't appreciate you and the other guy always does the things the current bf might not be doing.

Sometimes its just all about not being able to let a guy go cause they do it soooo well. Some people are gifted hey.

Odunharry:
Sagamite i agree with you....

4m what i have seen,heard and even personal experience, i have concluded that

Many Gals aint loyal

True story

ERCROSS:
O.p..
Do u still need to deliberate on this issue..
Or u like being a fish..

You guys are too blunt.

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Ezibless:
I remembered what my mom gist me when she went to the market to make her hair,and ALWAYS promo was going on.
Some guys where hawking ''ALWAYS'' round the market.

When they came to the shop were my mom was making her hair(full of young single girl too) and the guys were like ''buy always at an affordable price...''

come see how every1 turned deaf!
They even refused to look at them seff.
lolzzz

I can imagine!

mesoade:
Any one that can provide a "proof of ownership" owns me

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arimahoseloka:
please what did u smoke b4 opening this thread?

the guy is serious okay.

MisterLongman:
You've already started mading

Im in bed..laughing out loud.

Thanks for the great laugh guys. Will sleep before I started mading too.

Cokacola:
the girl just send me a pic of her and her dad in their shrine....i will upload leta

We are waiting Op.

laplace12:
I think you are already mad.

small girl oo!

Komex:
It is shocking babe...Someone wants me to decode a body language? Did I go to signs school(no offence to those schooling there).

Lmao! When you put it like that I get you. God must help men so they can decode a body language lol!

His d***

dein77:
I have had some terrible experiences with people when it comes to collecting back money lent to them. In the extreme cases, I lost both the money and the friendship.

Recently I lent an acquaintance 60K when he claimed his landlord was about to throw him out. He promised to pay back in days. It's being over 8 months, and he's yet to repay me. This guy would log off on Facebook as soon as he notices i'm online. Investigation revealed he never had a rent issue with his landlord.

Worse is, I met me around our axis. Guess what? He went to show me a Camry Tiny Light he recently bought.

That was the height of ingratitude and insensitivity. He promised to pay after we met the last time. He no longer picks my calls.

Why do people find it difficult to repay money they had borrowed?

Its a lack of respect for others combined with selfishness. Its a lesson learned for you to not lend what you cannot let go cause people are just selfish.

I've also had similar experiences. Now I just tell everyone im on a ln internship and broke so no one dares ask me for money except for my baby sisters

Lol Op...you said shocking secrets. This is not what I expected.

OK..maybe its shocking to men...let's hear what they have to say.

And I thought I had issues..
I don't think this is true. The guy who says this on his twitter account is someone who posted the dandest thing. Did you see his post about plaque...gosh!


Semen cuts plaque by 70%, suck a di*** ladies

Can't wait to hear what everyone else has to say.

morpheus24:
Nairaland is addictive and much more interesting

I've been to couple of SA forums. boring as hell or conversation is restricted to Afrikanner issues/complaints.

That's true. SA forums are quiet silly in my experience.

I posted this here because the government is making fools out of the families of those detainees changing the story every day. Today home affairs acknowledged the detainees after denying it for days. Its not acceptable and those detainees are important to someone somewhere. I don't see them as you do. I see them as human beings and I'm concerned.

temigracie:
hmmm.....You speak like my ex-boyfriend.....

..We passed through similar situation for 3 and half years......

Please just let her go.....She ll meet someone who'll love her equally and unconditional....If you continue in this relationship, you are just wasting her time....And thats the most annoying and painful part

Very annoying.

Truckpusher:
Op the tittle of your thread is in serious conflict with the narration of your ordeal.

From your tittle one can categorically say that you're involved with two different women ,The one you love and the one you do not love but she loves you.

Go home and think again ,come back with the full gist then we will gladly advice you on what to do.

You don't need to be afraid to say that you're dating two different women because you prolly think that NL folks with their bad mouth will take you to the cleaners.

Give us the full gist jare after all they say variety is the spice of life......Lmao

edgyslim:
Wisdom is profitable to direct. This is a step in the right direction from a govt concerned about the citizens.

Agreed. But it must've been a very tough decision to make. Its easy to critisize them as I my first thought was just how they can drop us like that but I guess we need to respect the countries decision.

It can be embarrassing at times. The last time I bought these things at a local shop there were 2 guys hanging at the till with the shop owner and when I told him what I wanted they were obviously listening in.

The worst part was when he responded that the brand I want has a better type that's better for me as they cracked and the guys told him that they couldn't believe that he was so well informed about the topic.
I laughed too bit it was not comfortable for me. I only buy these at a local supermarket now to avoid such scenarios again.

ismailaja:
not nice, wat did u want me too play wit

What happened to being a loving and supporting boy friend...you can buy her boobs after the recovery.

CoretGistBlog:
cont.

Women oooo! So she's dating this scary looking guy!