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Edusouls:
Females God give una too much soft landing u just Dey shed tears peacefully, tell us how Many rounds guy man Dey before cardiac arrest struck u don use Bleep send guy man to heaven, imagine if na man now I go don chop hell of a beating with accusations of rituals chai men don suffer

You sound like the NPF

reciprokal:
Cause of death is the first thing to be determined before arrest.

Don't let Nigeria impair your brains. And don't be too wide only to appear foolish.

When someone does, the first clue is a sign of struggle, crime scene check, body check for bruises and cuts and then the police take the victim to the hospital for doctors to confirm whether the victim is alive or dead and then a rough evaluation is carried out

Na only Nigeria person dey sleep and didn't wake up and they arrest anyone. Ever wonder why they don't arrest wives when their husbands doesn't wake up?

Na serious question be that ooh

Dzzzz:
That’s why some stories we hear about people dying in another persons apartment is not all ritually motivated..Some people can’t tell the police cause they know how they operate that’s why they either bury or slice the person up to cover..A girl fainted in my house for up to 30mins,I almost ran mad..

Hahahahaha... nothing go make me near her again

All these daughters of Jezebel at it again. If them no use one do better example the rest no go wise. When they see something good about to happen they come with their witchcraft to taint your image and damage your life. That was how one nonentity tried to taint Rudeboy and then she was later disgraced and arrested, I hope she's still in jail. This guy should not let this slide at all. They think this is the west where you can lie against a G and the laws will fall behind you? Treat her fvckup accordingly. See her hairy chest sef

blowjohn:
If u give gal Belle u shud be able to handle the responsibilities that come with it

So going to jail is part of the responsibilities? cos I don't see the reason for posting this here or you know them personally and heard he was running from her before being apprehended in the gym that isn't in a secret location? Make us understand?

Banhammy717:
This is a criminal offence.
Sleeping with a girl or lady or woman, you are not legally married to.
The parent or guardian can sue you to court for illegally having carnal knowledge of someone NOT under your pocession.
The only person you can have free sex with is a Sex Worker, i.e. after both parties agreed on a fee.

A lot of mumbo jumbo here... I want to believe you are joking

She opened her legs willingly, even suggested styles and then held him tight with her legs while he was making deposits in her. Now tell me how or where is the crime the boy committed. Like someone rightfully said it's just oppression cos she's not even a minor and she was not raped! What is wrong with our society If he didn't want that he would have made a home gym just like wise men do when some wives starts looking for excuses to have something else

SpencerForbes:
Divert which funds? You don’t even understand the Five-fold Ministry, yet you’re here dreaming of becoming a pastor? 🥺 You don’t know the difference between an Evangelist and a Pastor, Mtcheew.

Some of you have this warped mentality that a Pastor must wear rags and look hungry before you call him a "Man of God." Pure nonsense! 😤 You’ve forgotten that Pastor Chris Okotie has been a billionaire/presidential candidate for years. Pastor Yemi Osinbajo was our VP, and Pastor Umo Eno is a sitting Governor. These men have their own pedigree!

Yes, a few bad eggs might divert funds, but this lazy stereotype that "Pastor has a car = Pastor is a thief" is a lie from the pit of hell. The only thing I’ll agree with is that they are talented at "mobilizing" members to contribute for personal needs—but direct siphoning of church money? It’s not as easy as your mind thinks.

You’re not the one buying drumsticks or maintaining instruments, yet you’re shouting "Accountability!" 😏 If the church wasn’t there to help, wouldn't you have found another way to survive?

And let’s be real: How can a young man need 210k for hospital bills and he can't even provide a common 30k for his own treatment? Unless it’s a chronic, long-term illness, he has no right to complain. He’s just a lazy Christian looking for who to blame for his poverty. He’s also a fraudster for trying to use church money to enrich himself and he’s also using his sickness as a format. He should be restricted because if he gets used to it, he’ll be moving from church to church claiming sick because he wants to build a house. 😤

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Okay I see you have comprehension problems. First of I have never dreamt of becoming a pastor talk more dreaming? I know what an evangelist is and what a pastor is. You are just myopic. Like I said earlier, I'm not interested in your worldly titles or what you do with it. My only interest is the spirit within and in this case it's not the same as Jesus's simple!

Secondly nowhere did I mention a pastor to e miserable or look beggarly. All that is in your head and you need to get out of there urgently. A lot of pastors are earning a living outside the ministry and that should be encouraged without which is a recipe for disaster and frustration which can be a playground for all manner of temptations.

Again you keep dwelling on church administration like it's new. Being on earth alone requires money and the church is not exempted.

I still maintain that the cause for which the funds were raised should be the only focus where the money is driven towards and your closing remark is baseless here. The Op mentioned him being a member and not some beggar going from church to church seeking help.

Like God all I am concerned with is the spirit in you, nothing else matters...Now in your quiet time meditate on 2Corinthians 8 and 9. Not read but meditate on Paul's teaching and you will realize the spirit in you and those men you so worship is just the common spirit of Mammon. Enjoy your day

SpencerForbes:
Oga, what you’re typing is pure rubbish 💯. I grew up in an RCCG parish in Ikeja and I’m a direct beneficiary—they’ve paid our rent twice just because of house fellowship and they even give scholarships. This is first-hand info, not "outside knowledge" or hearsay. 😜😜😜

Have you ever even attended a church congress or year-end meeting? I’ve been a youth leader, choir director, and Sunday school teacher. If you see where they are doing the breakdown of Profit and Loss, you go tire. The process is tedious and transparent.

Let me burst your bubble on how the likes of Adeboye make their money so you can stop all this "yarns." Church money goes to church upkeep and member welfare. If the drums or sound system spoil, is it not money they will use to fix it? No be magic.

I can guarantee you that funds enter Adeboye’s personal account every hour because members appreciate him when his prayers work for them. Should he deposit his personal gifts into the church account too?

Any church asking you to "be a pastor" like that must be a small local one. Good for you that you’ve left. A church that can raise 900k is not small, and no pastor runs that alone without a Treasurer. Even Oyedepo gives account—or you think Winners doesn't have a Treasurer? Abeg, what is his job then? Una funny I swear!

Carry on with your business venture I really don't care. All of you claiming church are nothing close to Jesus Christ. Imagine asking if Elisha was a pastor. So he needs to be a pastor to justify diverting money? I know how the church finances work especially in those major big churches you mentioned. It's the reason the poor keeps getting poorer and keep shouting hallelujah while the MOGs fly around in PJ's. Same reason only the rich can afford the schools they build. I'm not here to argue about your church leaders bro. I'm only pointing out that they're nothing like Jesus Christ and that is 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣

Freshtruth:
the pastor kept the money for future walfare so the pastor is right and the sick man is greedy

No you and the pastor are crooks. The cause for the donation was for the sick man. When Elisha prayed for that widow who was in huge debt and at a point of losing her sons to the creditor what happened He prayed and the cans were filled with oil even more than she needed. Did Elisha demand the remaining ones to be given to him? Did he take it to save another or to use it for himself? You gullible followers don't even know the God you claim to serve you rather worship those liars in cloaks and designers suits. You claim to worship God but know him not. You are lost! Read your bible at least to journey well the journey you have decided for yourself instead of allowing a man like you to deceive you!

Wake d F up!!!

SpencerForbes:
Stop capping. This is pure fallacy! 🙄

How many churches do you actually know? Let me list just three that I know for a fact have solid welfare systems: RCCG, Winners, and Christ Embassy. >
These missions pay scholarships and feed thousands daily without even coming to the pulpit to beg for donations. Mind you, I’m not even a "church-goer" anymore, but I speak facts when I see them.

Secondly, unless you are attending a "one-man-business" roadside church, no Pastor has direct access to the treasury. These big churches have Boards of Trustees, Treasurers, and Auditors. It’s not a "withdraw-as-you-like" system.

Also, why do you people assume every Pastor is an illiterate? Many of them are Professionals—Doctors, Senior Advocates, and Engineers. Do you honestly think someone like Prof. Yemi Osinbajo (a former VP and Senior Advocate) needs your "peanuts" from the offering basket to survive? 🤡

Many of these men are only "Pastors" on Sundays. During the week, they are in their offices or running businesses. Some even earn less than 200k from the church, and some are even subsidizing the church from their own pockets!

Wash that dirty mindset. Not every Pastor driving a car is "thieving" church money. Some people actually worked for their wealth before the "Call."

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You are a liar. The only thing I know winners chapel does is provide platforms for job opportunities. I have been a strong member of winners and got baptized there, went through all the classes, played a major role in building one of the provincial HQ back in 2007/08 so I know a lot about the system and how it works not looking from outside in. RCCG too I know it in and out as it has been my church since I relocated to lagos and also baptized there again cos they requested it from me. They don't help shiiiii...

Now to the topic at hand. A brother needed help, the pastor did the right thing by making it known to the members to help a brother in need. There was surplus and he kept it for himself... That is a huge error!
Why was there a donation? For what cause exactly? From the story the cause was to assist a sick brethren, a member of his flock.

There was a surplus I used to be a strong believer and not just a church goer even now I'm being disturbed by certain pastors to come for my certifications... They want me to be a pastor (fortunately for me I have found the truth or my truth and it has nothing to do with a human construct to control and manipulate the gullible).
Now the surplus from the donation to the cause is not to be diverted. Why? for one, the one who "called" the pastor knows better and probably is providing in advance for the said brother who is sick as situations might arise needing urgency, so instead of soliciting for funds again just hold on and use what you have but greed which is part of human nature took over the pulpit master and he decided to play God on the matter.

Church goers believe in miracles from their God above in heaven. Now imagine a brother or sister prays to God for help and he gave it exceedingly abundantly as promised in the book. Can you imagine God taking some back for himself because this person has gotten too much blessings? So he says let me take some back cos she has gotten more than she needs. God never makes mistakes that's what I have been taught long time ago and if the pastor is genuine he would know better than to even divert that money for whatever reason.

What happened is greed, covetousness, love for money, disobedience and wickedness all combined. Except the pastor is not genuine his conscience definitely disagreed with his actions but greed took control.

Back then I used to say in certain situations that were confusing... What would Jesus have done in this situation I'm faced with? The pastor obviously isn't a follower of Christ but a con man in cloak

Ugly dragon 🤣🤣🤣

The rest of the world is celebrating breakthroughs in science, medicine, technology etc and my people are still on motor park in 2026... God what is all this!

The only time I allow such from a lady is the first time and if the energy doesn't match, I don't call. You will know as a lady that the sex wasn't all that cos you will be the one wanting it from me and I honestly wouldn't miss it if you don't give it. I have met a few who are into it and don't hide it. I believe it has a lot to do with our culture as Nigerians too. When some ladies express themselves sexually they get shamed, trashed as spoilt or something of the sort. The only sex I can't do without is with a female version of me, a real freak. Sex is just what it is and should be treated as such, sex. Not a formal business meeting. Truthfully most ladies know nothing because if they know it's something they should participate in and enjoy to the fullest while they can they wouldn't be holding back pretending. I can't even be fully erect for a lady that's not really into it. If I manage first time just avoid me or I might do it if there's no option closer and konji is holding me ransom. Another type is those who say you're not romantic but they have no single iota of romance in them. You want what you can't give. And when we replace them they call us all sorts of names. Many Nigerian bannies and their one sided thinking sha

Emotionss:
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What in God's name are you saying ?

She's not making any sense. Any woman that has issues with DNA testing or calls it mistrust or trust issues on the husband has dirty they're hiding because it obviously has nothing to do with trust but more of clarity. That she was even comparing it to lipstick on the face of a husband shows she's doing everything to avoid the truth

Sterope:
B always come before A in you people's book.

If you trust your wife, why would you want to conduct a DNA test!

Keep quiet there... Na them be this. Abusing the word "trust"

Gbolahan111:
Sorry for your loss bro.

A friend introduced me to Future trading last year. I lost over $2k. The sad part was while I was losing, this bros kept sending screenshots of his profits. He has over $30k, so it’s easy for him to make profits.

Spot spot spot

Rip. Seems like 84 is the age to go, same as the great Collin Powell. How time flies

By marrying a woman with principles and boundaries. Kids learn faster by example. What they see constantly molds them, and then you teach them the truths about life as they grow

Haahahahahahahaha... this false prophet with his fake miracles in his fake church. Now God uses a mobile phone? If the congregation can't stone him to kpai then they are far gone than himself. A certified crazy

datola:
Oh, so the Russian man is HIV positive!

Yeah and some of those ignorant husbands will now get infected. Imagine the explosion... I remember some rich HIV+ guys used to do this way back then in AbJ. Men and women still do this evil and then the cheating partner who thinks he or she is smart is ignorant of the fact that they are now carriers of the virus only to keep spreading to their legit partners and fck mates

They just killed him like a chicken. They should be caught by now though

Well... I just thank God for my penis 🙏🏾

Clairvoyancy:
Empty barrel.... I will willingly give you my location.... Me troll you? Lol.... I had to force myself to reply your shenanigans....

Funny enough how people like you can't express yourself without including insults, and when you are met with the same energy you dished out, you pick offenses... You had better don't mess with the wrong person if you love yourself....


Kids everywhere!

Okay lord king Kong, I hear you...

Clairvoyancy:
Rest bro, my comments aren't for boys.... Allow men engage me.... I'm sure you have married uncles, show them my comments let them teach you from experience ok....

Lol... It's so funny how you kids brag about your ages. You have no experience and going by your comments you are obviously still a boy at most in your late 20's / early 30's. Na NL dey give una wings like this na why but don't think you are completely anonymous. No let my hand reach you where you dey. Better ask somebody, real life isn't online trolling boy

pocohantas:
Good for you, but I will leave immediately.
It is not my body you will release strange demons and diseases into. There are women like you that don't mind, hopefully cheating men can find your type and marry you all.

Just make sure he's always protected physically and spiritually datzzoll

franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.






The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter

Gbamsolutely bro

Clairvoyancy:
Another good reason not to play the good guy in a relationship.... It gets boring to them as time goes, they love drama as it is an inbuilt thing, a follow-come trait to that gender...

So as a man, try your best to exhibit some kind of attitude that will raise her BP once in a while... That will make them love you more, but make sure you know when to stop...


They have that Stockholm syndrome in them....

Pure b5. Never ever play any script for a woman to get her acceptance. Only a f***l does that to himself. Rather be your own original self and be so strongly. Originally beats everything. You guys still have not learnt anything.

So you rather be fake for a woman to like you?
Na wah. And this one get mind dey advice people on women matters

Whem you keep playing to her scripts it's very easy for her to code and then she see's you for what you truly are....worthless. Then you get used and dumped only to disturb us on Nairaland with more senseless topics over and over again.

Common sense should tell you if you follow that your rule she becomes really bored fast cos you're just an actor in her movie and since she's the director and producer, why wouldn't she sort for better actors for the role?

Funny part is, na dem broke shame pass. You go see church rat girl dey condemn man and call him broke meanwhile she no get shishi... Na guys when dey try to impress dem I pity sha. You wan impress who no fit impress you. No be muyen be that

ednut1:
why e never catch regina daniel?

Na you she dey cheat with? Grown man asking d*#b questions

OgogoroFreak:
You people can install sub meters. It's sold in the market. With that, everyone get to use exactly what they paid for.

If you can't load tokens individually it's not really helpful cos your consumption for this month might not tally with next month and so on. I hate sharing bills with people