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Em seun....................silence? Answer me now

i think you hit the nail right on the head, yeah i do agree with you but what happens when you are dealing with a person who half of the time is sweet, but the other half, he is a manipulative shark?

personally, i really don't see much wrong with it as long as both of you are sure of yourselves, you know where you are going and most importantly, that you WILL eventually end up getting married, becos sometimes somepeople just disregard the whole idea of getting married after they've had kids and are comfortable. Then again, my parents must not hear me say this so ssshhhhh!

Seun, please tell me how you can be strong and sweet at the same time. I think there is a bit of a contradiction here. Personally, i try to strike the appropriate balance in this aspect. HELP!!!!

Don't fret gurl, i can assure you he will call back. Most DEFINITELY.

ha, heard that before on a nite of a thousand laughs. u should see the demonstration, u would die of laughter.

just stumbled into it

It's quite interesting that u raised this question, because really, guys are always curious to know what's in a ladies' bag. what do you think? Condoms?. I have this male friend, who has this compulsion to check my bag everytime i see him. Anyways, guys if you must know in my hand bag, i have:
Make up
Cellphone
mints
Pepper spray( for perverts and rapists out there): Precautionary measures are good you know!
Wallet
Car keys
Perfume
Yeah, that's about it

The fact that i'm alive!

I guess sometimes when you are not happy in a relationship, u become tempted to cheat on a guy who gives u the attention u lack or supposed happiness you desire. But really, why don't u call it quits instead of cheating. Besides for a lady, it is a bad reputation to be known as a cheat. It is okay for guys, not only because it is in their genetic make-up, but also because we leave in a society that makes "men cheating", a generally acceptable norm.

What God has put together......................................... fill in the gap. i'm sure it's quite self-explanatory and even a fool knows it's wrong. But then again are Nigerians morally upright?

Goodguy, i am most obliged. Thanks!

Omo, dump him O! i mean...Duh!

Attend for what now? Obviously, the fact that u have been dumped makes painful feelings inevitable so there is no need to lie or deceive ourselves. Would you really be happy to see the man u once thot u'd be walking up that aisle with, take another lady instead? not to even talk of celebrating with them. Heavens Forbid! C'mon peeps, unless of course u want to keep a front. Let's be realistic now. As for me sha, i would not want to be responsible for my actions, so i would respect myself and keep away.

The right person for me is someone who is God-fearing, completes me perfectly and in whose eyes i see a million possibilities. Once i feel that spark, i'd know i've met him.

All i would say is this: Beauty could take you to the spot, but intelligence keeps u there. So to me real beauty comes with brains. ain't that true ladies?

All of you that seem to find no problem with the woman at work while the man lays his lazy tired ass at home, watch out when deep insecurities arise!

Hmmmn. You know deep down that he's been cheating. Accept his lame explanations with considerable doubt, and be alert from this point. You know what they say about everday for the thief................. Yep, he'd get caught someday!

This just calls for a period of deep reflections. Is it me or is it that this year in particular has been plagued with so many disasters? I just think we should all be more prayerful and thankful to God for keeping us alive and covering us through these periods of hurricanes and plane crashes. It is really true that we don't know when God protects us. My deepest condolences to Mr President. May her soul rest in peace.

I am quite new to the site, but i must say, i find layi's responses quite interesting and thot provoking. You've got a strong personality and i admire that. Well let's see, what would i do? dump his sorry ass and keep my girlfriend on locksdown, far away from future potentials. (u won't blame me would you)? I mean he was probably not worth it in the first place, cheating on me with my friend. what a dipstick! Such profanity!

You know what they say about what you don't know won't hurt you. Then again should you be living in ignorance? i suggest u could have a flick through to confirm any suspicions. abi o ro be?