₦airaland Forum

stevolinkon40:
Be careful. D man no too strong o

dopedealer:
^ stand still and wait for your time.. Dan-iska shege

midolian:
A new Anti-virus is about to be installed..The former one is kwarrupt and outdated... and must be uninstalled for proper functioning of the new one.


Sai Buhari

Gejpresident:
jeez!!!!! see body

jmoore:
Anyway, I will marry a virgin.

No need to worry if she aborted or fuc*** 1,000 guys.

Make una continue dey hide oh... When the truth forces itself out, be ready to bear the consequences.

marque:
The way my mum bad mouths my dad in our presence just to make us have resentment for him is troubling. So I came here to share the problem and see if I can probably put an end to it.

tchidi:
I want IV o.

crazygod:
I shudder when a fellow man qualifies another man like this

OrlandoOwoh:
No mind am. Amaechi was Speaker in Rivers State at the age 34 in 1999.

mercy1196:
Mr President... Come 2mao

Ilekeh:
Why? You planning on going back in time to snap selfies with them?

focus7:
What a baby president, always full of complains. No wonder Bisi Akande described his government as a kindergarten government.

b0rn2fuck:
You fail to include Mobuch, the old man who claimed he will run out of Nigeria if Buhari win

bellong:
Those you call averagely good husband can as well call you same.

The law of life, life attracts life. Same attracts same.
Iron sharpeneth iron. It is in science the case is reversed and few situations in life.

bellong:
Any man who can't handle whatever information you share is better to let go.
What you will gain from talking about it is because there is likelyhood that he will get the info outside and he will lose the trust, faith and love he had for you. It is not Hollywood movie.



Another truth is that I know men who have handled worse cases than yours. At least you never lost your womb.

You need to first understand why you are going into a relationship and the purpose. Anybody in relationship irrepective of gender should be given the opportunity to make an informed decision. Some may not be able to handle it but some will. There is always someone for someone. I have learnt to always sleep peacefully at night by not withholding information that may cause me grief if found out.

And like I said in my previous post, if you know what you are doing is detrimental to future happiness or joy, why engage in it?

hopeforcharles:
Now I think or am forced to believe you have a very sick mind to conjure all these things,
Smh.

bellong:
Madam,

Coming clean is the right foundation for every relationship. There is nothing hidden that shall not be exposed, either now or later. It is better you suffer the shame early than suffer a lifetime pain of agony.

It is unwise advising people to keep secrets from potential spouse. If issues later happen, same people would blame the victim for not coming out clean.

You have aborted before in Japan and it affected your womb, because you married in Nigeria, you decided to keep it to yourself. Your end torture will be greater than if you had confessed.

In any relationship, honesty, sincerity and openness are the foundational keys to success. Anything outside these is deceit and the relationship becomes a disaster waiting to happen.

If you know that what you are doing may ruin your future relationship, why continue in it or attempt doing it?

I don't advise keeping shut. However, wisdom and discretion are the principal things.

@story one, what gives you the impression that your husband doesn't know about the sorry tales?

soe:
did ur hero do any better? Yet u r making noise.

Let me tell you something.

Buhari made promises...yes...but all those who supported GEJ despite his oozing failure have no moral right to demand paradise from Buhari...okay?

hopeforcharles:
What is he later founds out?
My type of Man will never use it against a woman no matter what, but if he founds out outside it might be more disastrous than ever. What do u think she should do about telling him.

Mynd44:
Until he finds out by himself of course and hell breaks loose.

The balance is between asking for people who are psychologically stable and people who are not hence we have to protect.

babyosisi:
That is just my opinion
Try finding a woman who cheated and confessed and the marriage still continued
Men can get away with confessions of cheating,not women
If you were lucky not to be caught,repent and move on

Holywizard:
yes tnk u.

KELVIN086:
why you dey lie

denedene:
the people above me are the night crawlers of nairaland, mods I hail you too. meanwhile this Lebanese business mogul no carry these expired products go e country, hediot. so is this the end of cool n Wazobia FM?