₦airaland Forum

Its high time fatoyinbo started preparing to plant his church branches in other states, after police complaint has been resolved, talking about turning negative news to positive all for the glory of God

GoTV:
I don't know why we Christians refuse Ruga settlements in the south in order to restore peace. We complain about the destruction of our farms by herdsmen and alleged killings yet we reject Ruga settlements meant to isolate Fulani herdsmen nationwide. What do we Christians really want? Don't we want peace in this country

Do you live in Nigeria?, have you seen the latest development in the east where the community that hosted some fulanis became victims and how they they fell victims, check nairaland besides the land or plot that where allocated to them was extended to other peoples land as they continue to grow, would lead to doom, fulanis unlike hausas are rebellious and radical in nature, check the history of places in Nigeria that have hosted them in time past and check the current trend, they are not peace loving or should I say they were but now their normal short dagger and stick meant for controlling cows and protection has turned AK 47 and stick, think ahead both the positive side and the negative side u with discover the negative out weighs the positive the people have spoken

LegendHero:
These Fulani guys are biting more than they can chew, they are preparing Nigeria for disintegration with all this useless statements. The south will have no other alternatives than to unite (SE, SW, SS) against this and that will spell doom to this union called Nigeria.

Your people are killing the inhabitants and you got no solution to that but all you wanted is to establish a ranch without much consultation and agreement with the locals. Who is even advising the government, they have to settle the issue of insecurity the Fulani herdsmen perpetrates first before any thing can be implemented or achieved.

The people said they don’t want RUGA, why can’t the North accept this in the interest of the nation.

really true, that would be a common ground the geo zones would stand since the beginning of this country

they want to force Ruga on south and if not achieved use it as a reason to cause more trouble... if the government won't stop being silent and stop crime perpetrated by the Fulani herdsmen and uphold justice then we at the south should be ready to defend ourselves and retaliate when needed, at least that one go make govt begin talk

they haven't been given lands in the name of Ruga to start their community all sort of criminal acts are being perpetrated by then, Ruga would only encourage them more and give them legitimate reasons pose a threat to the host community

moreover, if you think Ruga would stop defiant Fulani herders from open grazing you need to start thinking, it would only give them legitimate reasons to roam about and kill or rape whoever they feel like raping, because one thing is certain they will continue to expand before you know we would be the ones begging them for mercy, they would also complain that they could not afford to feed the cows in their community or there is no much grass there etcetera and other reason there by giving them legitimacy to do what they like with anybody

Graduateacher:
Wow

you need a better job

one of my greatest fear in relationship is ending up with a woman that can't cook, if that happens to my enemy he would be so miserable.

Jacinthe:
I actually agree with your second paragraph.

Most times it's men who brandish their money to swoon women. Before you ask them what they do, they've already started telling you things that are suggestive of their financial standing. One in particular asked me "Jacinthe, why don't you want to eat my money na?".

Another one located my cousin on Facebook and was telling him if I respond to him, he will chase his wife from the house and spoil me with money. From a man I never met physically.

So, really, if the average man presents himself as someone who only has money to offer a woman, he shouldn't complain when women who only want money on offer, flock in his direction.

with this I draw a conclusion we men are the architect of how problems, any thing nice under the skirt we are ready to go bankrupt for it, Se won fi Se was in?

anonymuz:
even if you give money,love and attention they will still cheat. Its their way of life.

not all women, but it's in their DNA sha

AkataWoman:
Oh you silly goose.

OH LOOK! Another stereotype that flies over most black Americans' heads because they don't relate to the majority of us.

Most people (of any race) do not participate in or watch Ghetto Gaggers porn. Black American women don't marry white men on a large scale. But if he married a black woman he wouldn't be racist, would he? All whites are not racist just like all Africans aren't AIDS-infested scammers, yes? And black American women don't shoot black American men.

But continue.

e ti wo porn jina gon o, we nairaland no go open porn thread so

victorian:
Yea I do

bro you just won a jackpot n she is pretty

AmazonHippolyta:
It is your fault because that is what you have told the ladies you can offer. Nor be only cherish naija men.
They cherish them because they behave like gentlemen over there unlike the rascals they are here when they get abroad their brains immediately reset.
Some Naija men have the brains of a chameleon ready to change at any time in their deceitful ways.

GENERAL PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT

Since the female folks are blaming men for believing that girls only love money thereby spoiling them a lot, Nigerian men must desist from the culture of spending on their women because it seems they cherish love and gentlemanliness than the money we spend on them, we should all suffocate them with care, kill them with love and finally be gentlemen at all times to them, they don't like money I repeat they don't like money, it has now become a crime to spend on them and it is a crime to say they don't like money

Seun and lalasticlala and everyone in concern kindly take note

BlackSaints:
in Ghana they don't date Nigeria men,because they believed most Nigeria men are fraudsters, drug dealers and money ritualist.

really!!! they don't date Nigerian men?, say it again pls I am just laughing at you right now lol

even though I believe he wan the last election but man is a scam like buhari

VisioDirect:
Why is no one talking about splitting this damn country?

let's be sincere this matter of splitting the country only if all Nigerians agree but that can't happen cos divided we fall n not all of us could stand to watch us fall, the only way is going back to regionalism since federalism can't be sustained

chisomdoris:
Northern Elders, Forum, NEF, has asked the federal and state governments to escalate measures to halt what it described as the harassment of the Fulani and their cattle.

It also urged them to de-escalate inciting rhetorics regarding the now-suspended Ruga Project designed for the settlement of herders across the country.

NEF made the call in a statement yesterday by its Deputy Convener, Amb. Yahaya Kwande.

The Forum asked the country to remain sensitive to its rising deficits in security of lives and economic assets.

The statement read, “Federal and State governments must adopt policies and positions which address the harassment of Fulani and their cattle, de-escalation of inciting rhetorics and actions and short and long-term solutions to the problems which could damage the livestock industry, worsen community relations and threaten national security.

“The nation should remain sensitive to its rising deficits insecurity of lives and economic assets, and must do everything possible not to escalate tensions and distrust among Nigerians.”

The Forum also said it had taken note of the diverse positions adduced by groups and interests from the South and those from Northern Nigeria.

In particular, NEF said it had taken note of the representations made at a Press Conference held by the Coalition of Northern Groups on the latest developments related to the failure to find solutions to the problems related to management of the livestock assets of Nigerians, particularly cattle of the Fulani.

While the Forum said it had also taken due notice of the intense reactions which the statement by the Coalition generated across the country, it added that it has been contacted by a broad spectrum of interests and opinions to use its position to calm nerves and assist in the search for a practical and fair resolution of the situation.

NEF also acknowledged that the Northern Governors’ Forum Chairman, Simon Lalong, has also made similar overture to its leadership and a meeting has been fixed for next week.

“In consideration of the appeals of many well-meaning leaders and Nigerians including the Forum of Northern Governors, and in the exercise of its responsibility as the platform of Northern Elders, the NEF advises the Coalition of Northern Groups to exercise responsible restraint and take no further action in view of the potentially productive involvement of Northern governors and other respected Nigerians.

“Most Nigerians recognize the genuine grounds for raising serious grievances in the light of provocations and apparent lack of sensitivity to a matter that affects the North and indeed the rest of Nigeria in a most critical manner.

“Northern Governors’ concerns and commitment to finding solutions to a problem which is not being adequately addressed and one which has the potential to create additional security and economic problems for the nation is welcome. NEF will engage with the Forum and the Coalition and any Nigerian who seeks genuine solutions to the problems being faced by Northern Communities and the livestock industry.

“Finally, as we urge the northerners to heed the call for restraint made by the Coalition earlier pending the outcome of the meetings with the Northern Governors when NEF shall come out with a definite position on the matter,” NEF added.



See more here https://thickmatch.com/northern-elders-beg-buhari-governors-stop-harassment-fulanis-cows/

they started by saying the government should tackle the problem of harassment of herdsmen and not the source

they continued with Nigerians are sensitive to provocations and not the matter that affects the north

furthermore they stated and emphasized on the smooth running of cow business and herds men while adequate security for everyone in this country was not given regards to and the solution to herdsmen mayhem wasn't addressed at all in all their statement above

they are even calling on the fed to curb the activities of the government which is aimed at protecting the people they govern so bad

We are living in a cow era where cows and harmed herds men are more important than harmless citizen

Is it because the herdsmen are not causing havoc in the north that is why this group or whatever are so insensitive ?

Make Buhari do finish come dey go if any southwest vote northern presidential candidate again na God go punish the person

this government is making jona's era look like an era run by saints

Did someone just say when she comes out of bbn her olosho business of 5k would rise like bit coin? CHI!!!!!! I am laughing out loud but it is the truth, it is better to have no kids at all than having bunch of wayward children just 23 when she is 28 her body count would be dripping like olive oil

shey better guy no dey dat house wey go yansh am like some people did in the last season?

chinchum:
It is not a joking matter by the way.

really I thought it was a joke... she needs a special attention

Ttipsy:
you just answered my question, why the insults now

it was a silly question pardon me for the insult

Ttipsy:
you just answered my question, why the insults now

it was a silly question sorry for the insult

Ttipsy:
you just answered my question, why the insults now

it was a silly question

doggedfighter:
As if it's not men that spoiled her. Throw your girl child away when you give birth to her

men as how, some girls no matter what you provide for them they won't be satisfied that wayward spirit won't lay low. if probably I have girl child I will make sure I pay attention to her are needs, instill decency in her and be more then her parent but her friend, girl children need special attention I will try, these end time girls dey fear me

Ttipsy:
must you be Igbo to agree to that?? don't you have sense ? Nigerians shaa

its a question Yes I do I have sense more than you do, it seems you don't have at all just worried for you

NaijaOlosho:
In a bid to find a lasting a solution to herdsmen-farmers’ clashes in the South East, the Ohanaeze Youth Council (OYC) has passionately appealed to governors in the zone to provide funds for farmers in the zone to indulge in cattle business and other livestock farming.

In a press statement issued by the national president of OYC, Igboayaka O Igboayaka, and made available to our correspondent in Owerri, the group contended that if such assistance was rendered by the governors, it would not only encourage indigenous cattle rearing in the zone but also reduce unemployment.

He also noted that the idea would end the constant herdsmen and farmers’ incidents in the zone.

According to the statement “in view of the raging war in these past years arising from settling of cattle herders in the South East and South-South regions, the Ohanaeze Youth Council, OYC, ably led by Comrade Igboayaka O Igboayaka, has seen reasons to urge governors of the Igbo extraction, to mobilise funds and empower indigenous farmers in the region to embark on a large-scale rearing of cattle and other livestock, using the ranching method for adequate production of milk and meat to meet the agricultural needs of our people.

“To break the ethnic monopoly of the livestock business since it has grown to become a problem for all, our governors must step in swiftly to grant loans to our local farmers who engage in cattle ranching. We must break this monopoly, not only to sanitise and upgrade the livestock business and make it more rewarding, but also to put an end to this imperialist, wanton killings and territorial claims.

The statement further reads: “OYC believes that this system will definitely improve the quality and safety of the beef and diary products suitable for export and our local consumption.

“On that note, the OYC is urging the Igbo governors to establish modern ranches to be operated by indigenes of their respective states and any other Nigerian who decides to key into it by meeting the requirements for enlistment. It will also go a long way in eradicating the dangers of nomadic cattle rearing if the governors would work together to reinvent the defunct Eastern Region’s ranches that were destroyed during the Biafra-Nigeria war.

“It is sad that after the war, the entire southern Nigeria appeared to have given up on agriculture as a business allowing the North to take the initiative. While we were growing up, we learnt of the Obudu Cattle Ranch and other ranches from where local varieties of livestock such as cows, goats and sheep were reared. These varieties which were indigenous to the evergreen vegetation zones were much more nutritious and highly prized than their lean and long-legged Sahelian counterparts. In fact, the northern livestock were generally looked down upon as inferior to the southern breeds.

“For instance, when you hear an Igbo chief hailed “Ogbu efi” the cow so referred to does not refer to the Sahelian, long-legged cows which today trample our farms and gorge on our crops. It refers to the shorter but heavier forest oxen which you do not find on the roadside butcher’s table. It is a delicacy for specialized ceremonies reserved for titled chiefs and those around them. Before the war, people kept those local varieties of livestock as the subsistent business behind their backyards. It is time we went back to this practice.

“Beyond the subsistence level, state governments in Igbo land can establish ranches and parcel out portions for the youth who are interested in livestock farming to embrace them. These youths should be trained to run these ranches as profitable businesses modeled on best practices around the world. Improved varieties of this livestock should be able to supply meat and dairy products that will make preferred alternatives to the nomadic Fulani cattle.

“Therefore, our governors must help our indigenous farmers by investing in cattle rearing and drive innovation in the agricultural sector as the high demand for beef in our states guarantees good returns on the investment. If this is done and the laws against open-grazing are firmly enforced in Igbo land, there will be no more room for armed pastoral militias and their sponsors seeking to steal other people’s ancestral lands under any guise of cattle colony or Ruga settlement,” the statement said.

>>> https://grovenaija360.com/breaking-news-igbo-youths-declare-intention-to-commence-cattle-rearing/

I am not an Igbo but I agree with this a 100 any person that does not agree with this initiative he or she is a backward thinker and a donkey, they should encourage the youth so that the SW can also adopt the model that rearing of oxen is the main deal

Na Tacha kinds dey make me fear to marry con born girls, she looks young in the pictures meaning she don spoil tey tey no b today

chinchum:
Can people give recommendations on how to sexually satisfy a circumcised woman? It seems that is the problem that the op's wife is encountering.

As long as the op's wife is not getting sexual satisfaction from sex, she will struggle to have sex most times...... The op might have to identify her other trigger points like boobs, hair, back of knee, neck e,tc

Edit: https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-have-sex-with-a-circumcised-woman-and-make-her-orgasm

eleyi deep o na Tb Joshua or fatoyinbo fit solve that kind shittt o

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

she should even be the one craving for it but since reverse is the case watch her closely or hire a private detective to investigate her but before you do try to talk to her to know what's happening what is she mad about or if you have done anything wrong if she says nothing then proceed, women emotion and love switches easily like change over especially when they are not attracted to you anymore. if found cheating run for your life brother your death is near

someone said she takes care of the kids bla bla bla true, the man is out there as well working his ass off to keep them from begging for alms on the street, he is out there trying to keep his family out of poverty, she should understand and fill in for him were he has short comings plus she has her business in where they live habah

if there is anything talk to your husband if you have to disturb him by calling his attention to it pls do but some women won't talk, they would be expecting you to do otumeme abraka dabra, mind ultimate search to know what's on their mind haba

A month straight up no sex ha are you guys still emotionally attached sha

if after investigating whatever u can do, it is a 100 percent sure she is not cheating bro? you are the architect of your problem find a way to appease her, talk to her mother or her married best friend any person who is also important to her to who could tell you what you have been doing wrong or not being doing at all

CeeJay9ja:
No, I haven't

And he was not assaulted. So what is your point?

you said no! even if you just maltreated a girl before coming online to comment would you talk ehn?

He was not assaulted sure but did you know what manner of things her friend she was defending said to him, from the little I know abt the issue... its like a customer vomited in the ladies shop probably the owner of the shop got angry and probably insulted the person who vomited who knows whether he was trying to defend the customer and harsh insults came out of the shop owners mouth and out of anger he wanted to deal with her and before he could her friend defended her and the while slap issue came up, who knows? bro let him be who knows if probably you were abbo you would have done worse


He has apologized

dia4iam:
Sadists you say? In better climes, he would have done the needful since... but in Nigeria, well, in Nigeria. Btw, Shey if it was your mother that was assaulted that way, would you be happy until he got served his due punishment? It is easy to say these things man, but it is not half as easy to experience them. Well, if you are inclined towards the notion that some animals are more equal than others though, you and your opinion is vindicated He would not be a good example/ deterrent up until justice gets served to term.

abegi if it happened to my mother and afterwards he apologized and it was a sincere apology I am dropping all contains and charges against him I am not God let's learn to forgive, it won't bring me happiness to see him stripped off of his position after his restitution, in those civilized country you made reference to I would say yes of course they would have stripped him, It always bring them joy to see people in power fall for some unreasonable reasons, I have watched a live program where a prospective minister was not allowed to take a ministerial position because his friend o not even him attempted to rape a girl when he was in high school and a lot of allegations were brought against him but only one which was credible but he wasn't among but was just watching, it's their culture to bring people down no forgiveness but I would rather see looters stripped of their position and held up in jail but non of that is happening not even a protest, it's not worth the punishment anymore

Pepperoniq:
What is Sacred in that country?
Men behind closed door committing the highest type of Sin.

I wonder what is sacred about there even isreal is not sacred, northern Muslims they always pretend to be just watin concern una herds men problems the kept mute they didn't say a thing they are not complaining u guys are doing the complaining for them

I don't blame wizkid though cos those kids mother are making it hard for him to show love to his children fact

Rubbiish:
Thank u
Those calling for his resignation got evil mind
Someone has apologized and these few days has been bad for him. Even the name calling is more than enough punishment, they still want him to resign.

dont mind them awon werey

CeeJay9ja:
What lesson? That they can always get away with crime?

if he is your brother would you wish for him to be stripped of his position go sit down jare u acting as if you haven't beaten a girl befor for assaulting you or other reasons