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all of you calling for his prosecution are sadist what would it profit you, the little he has experienced in the last few days for his action is enough to serve as a warning to him and others that war is coming if such happens again

he should be left to represent is people
he should be taken to court it's enough

this list is incomplete what about fire boy, teni konzept take your info back it does not reflect the current trend my list goes like this

Burma boy, Naira Marley, wizkid, fire boy, Rema, Teni, Zlatan, Q dot, t classic but I think he needs to dish out more hot singles to maintain a prominent spot cos right now him leg dey shake and Olamide with tor tor lol the sing get as e be and followed by others, go n do ur research well

Yyeske:
Too bad, some of these countries come to our waters in the ocean, catch the fishes and take it back to their home countries to process and we go back to them and import, very pathetic.
Imagine importation of bottled water too, if it's possible for Nigerians to import air that they breathe, they'd gladly do so because it's imported air. We love everything imported

our love for imported things is just too much that is one of the main reason why the country is short of employment opportunities, for a business man especially those rich business men and women this country especially the rich billionaires who are Ijaws who call themselves king and queens of water without a fishing vessel, they left that aspect of the economy to local fisher men who catch in small quantities in their locally made boats, what about if a buoyant business man sponsor an exploration of Nigeria water to know the species of fishes available and quantities, purchase a small fishing vessel for a start catch big and sell to Nigerians we consume crazy amount of fishes in this country daily not to talk of yearly our water is not well explored or should I say it has not been explored at all other countries not African countries go to their fishing shores and see the way they run fishing and fishing business you will be amazed, there is a program on Natgeo about fishing if you watch and see how they run the business and the prices of some species of fishes in unit are sold to big hotels and restaurants you would wonder if it is cocaine they want to sell I have not left the shores of the country but they have several times and eaten expensive sea foods they know the deal it won't hurt if you take a step in a business direction that has not been tapped or less tapped compared to what it could offer

thesicilian:
Even Kyrgyzstan! How do Nigerians even locate such places?

I wonder o, I have been trying to pronounce the name of the country for the past five minute with no success, Nigerian can risk anything to live in the middle of no where around the globe how would he get justice now oga o

Imagine having a lot of fishes around you but not being able to afford to buy one, that is poverty

Until I see Mike's audition I disagree with this edited clip

it is the school policy set religion aside and obey!! is that too hard for you some people sha they want to trend by force

you said someone made a comment and said his generation can't be trusted with power, I would like to say his thought is so narrow judging an entire generation a a persons action so wrong n unfair, many people like him are those who speak against domestic violence in public but beat their wives to stupor when they get home not withstanding I think abbo should be punished for his action n not stripped of his position cos he was actually sorry after the whole drama of social media

Funmmyastic:
Aunty Kemi is not right here,she ought not to do that,this is a breach on someone's privacy.Now Totoyinbo supporters will start trolling her,they may even go to the extreme of digging out their dirty lies to discredit the lady's story like Busola's case.And to even think the rape issue has been trending for almost a week means this is no longer a child's play.What I am very certain of is that the truth shall prevail.

I don't like her at all but she did the right thing in are entire false investigative journalism life, what that girl did was slander and if I were fatoyinbo I am pressing serious charges immediately, it seems like some people just derive joy in bringing others down besides if he actually rapped her she should file a complaint against instead of going the path of Busola whose claims does not prove she is innocent of the crime as well

though I don't fancy big brother and I think it is boring but not all times, let's be sincere we are all hypocrites why? simply because we pretend we don't like the show but whenever the threads comes up u will see same people making one or two comments, either complains of how participants are picked etc n we wrap it up by saying the show is disgusting really?, we say we don't like the like the show but win the winner emerges same people would be the first to flood the front page to know who is the winner and how he or she spends the prize we still create time to vent their indecency let's be realistic some of us when given such chance we would do worse, if we don't like it or let's say some part of us is not interested in the show by now all threads related to big broad should have no comment n we won't pay any attention to it, but that can't happen reason being that there is this part of us that like it n another DAT don't but we pretend we don't like it all reason why I called us all hypocrite

in as much as its a shitty show, it still adds up

sometimes I wonder if our sea and ocean has no fish that we keep importanting fishes form China from Brazil from Togo

valuedammy:
He can't get my accolade on this, this is an already finished project.
What I want from him now is to fix all the pot-holes on all the major roads in Lagos as soon as possible. Guys you need to the deplorable state of our roads they really need urgent attention!

oga why are u like this do u want him to abandon unfinished projects and n start fixing pot holes ? he could do both at the same time and also initiate new projects kudos to the governor sanwo Olu and the former

1984och:
He just insulted this generation.

So guys, you'll prefer to dance masturbating dance and showcase immorality than sane ones?!


Someone should tell him that Kafayatu is still in the game and doing fantastically well in the dance business.

she don relegate since tey try, at the moment there is no king or queen of dance in the country

dominique:
And the person that gave someone money to terminate a life is what? An angel?

c if a lady of her status says she couldn't avoid the pregnancy in the first place that is a fking lie, she can't swear she has not been using PT to test if she is preg ever since they both had unprotected sex o sure me die say she has from they one but willing refused to use contraceptives immediately they had it, she is a donkey and a gold digger simple

Omudia11:
How exactly did she lose? The baby will definitely be much closer to her plus she's in the UK already and will marry and move on with her life as most UK residents and citizens are non discriminatory towards babymamas.

She can also always use that baby to get money and other stuff from him.

In the end Olamide will lose. He will have a bastard child he'll get to see once in blue moon while still sending money occasionally for his/her up keep.

who told you olamide is even interested in the child and what assurance is even on ground that olamide won't pull a star boy (wizzy) on her if she is trying to exploit him lol, she go just loose for nothing

so in conclusion now olamide has joined the baby daddy league, no a leat artiste in this country without a baby outside wedlock, shey dem use irresponsible do una ni

Omudia11:
@ bolded. So Olamide didn't know what unprotected sex would lead to.

he is just being a guy man, but he should have used CD sha cos u can't tell who is who with diseases these days but I Still blame the lady o, olamide was just trying to have fun with her but she turned it to sometimes else habah

I bet his special adviser has advised to pretend and speak about is woeful performance to win our sympathy, u know the trend know show that u are rumours and win the sympathy of ur followers I am very sure he does not mean what he says if he meant it he would have improved on his performance in the last few months abegi vamoose

the girl is nothing but a scam, why did she use contraceptives after they yanshed each other some girls mad gan o, I believe she knew what she was doing she knew unprotected sex would lead to something like this but waited till it manifested, I wondering what her thought would be like during the sef... Olamide wow we are both having sex, a star that has an organized life, all those yeye boys didn't even propose to me the belle ehn this one? I go keep am we die here today, crazy bitshes

if it was me na the pikin we both get deal but the mother if she one try exploit me with my pikin e no fit work shi shi she no go see, since she wants a baby from me so bad she must also take half financial responsibility of the child till he comes off age

Aonkuuse:
Sone whe did the right thing. If a guy ask you to abort, just try and give birth to the child and give him to kill simple

this one weak me

I am not impressed neither am I motivated, I am not a lover of too much cars three clean cut cars would serve me and my family, to dey park cars plenty no be my thing

lilyheaven:
So if this man by mistake win, he carry our NiJa money to Britain?
Big brother una no try

fact gbayi, the naija they added to big brother is scam, I sometimes wonder why on earth they canceled big brother Africa

I wonder if mike showed up at the audition at all, well we know the system n how it works, big brother would have given him an automatic audition once they hear he is rich, the form which they sell normal price would have been sold to him at an abnormal and outrageous price while people were sweating it out to get auditioned lol... well our brother is here for the fame not the money, big brother house is a relaxation n break spot for him

nlanded:
First go to a probate registry in any high court, request for a letter of inquiry to mandate the bank to give the deceased account balance. This can be given to one or more family members of the deceased on presentation of relevant documents.

After getting the account balance, the probate registry would issue you a letter of administration.

You bring that letter to the bank and proceed to open an estate account linked to the deceased, you or any other family member would be signatories of the account. All you need to open such an account is 5k for a probate registry search.

The funds from the deceased account would be transferred to the estate account and you/family can do whatever you want with the funds.

The bank where I work you can get all the funds within 2 weeks at most.

PS: Funny how people are talking about next of kin and all, it doesnt matter here when it comes to this, the bank doesnt give a damn who you wrote on your account details as your next of kin, all they respect is the letter of administration brought from a probate registry by any family member. Next of kin on paper is just for formalities.

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but come o, how could someone go out and rent an hotel room each time he or she wants to have sex with his or her partner when there is a home, It can't be convenient at all also consider the cost, stress, and imagine one or two neighbours seeing you too almost constantly in various hotels or at a particular hotel you dont have to say a word or two before that neighbour start propounding theories of what might have led you and your wife to the hotel or hotels in the first place, since it only happens when your mom or hers is around, plus imagine if konji catches you in the middle of the night how will you go about it?, just fix the damn bed or buy new one and regulate your fuckery, whenever she wants to give u ring tones regulate your workforce or caution her n see if she can adjust, for me such idea is a nono konji is no respecter of ones situation

miltonchux:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MALE READER:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Man? fix the bed or buy new one and tell your wife to mend her mourning when she is in cloud 9 shikena, If after that she still complains, you are the man of the House not a push over tell your wife to talk to her mother if she is not willing then do the talking yourself in a polite manner she will understand but if she doesn't baba just calculate her stay in the house hold body till she leaves then blow her trumpet like never before na mean

The elders in the church have to make him the senior pastor he was before the cocck and bull narrative of Busola, I have already said it the story lacks fact and accuracy, no evidence yet we are not sure if he is guilty or not but many didn't care they all nailed him for what could have been consented sex, well they should be happy now he is no more the senior pastor, but they should have it in mind that they are not invincible it could happen to them as well, for the so called celebs if music nor dey pay acting nor gree pay, go get a job!!

Chriswazo:
My best read on this episode;

COZA Rape Controversy & The Age of Social Lunacy by Dodoh Okafor

1. On what basis did hundreds of people abandon their morning chores this Sunday to go picket the premises of the Common Wealth of Zion Assembly Church in Guzape Area of Abuja and Lagos?

2. Because a certain woman alleged (without any scintilla of proof) that she was raped? Because 5 women said the Church Pastor had inappropriate sexual relationships with them? Or because Segun Awosika said he has "30" women willing to testify against the COZA founder in law court?

3. What really was the essence of the nasty, rowdy, uncoordinated protests? To embarrass the church? To humiliate the pastor? To get the pastor to step down?

4. Pray- are those protesters really interested in pursuing a strong campaign against rape or were they on a vendetta mission?

5. I do not know what other people may think but here's what I am convinced about: many of those who jumped into this rape issue are being manipulated, misled and used as pawns in a complex game of chess by those who are adept at using the media to manipulate the gullible.

6. The man who conducted the interview that sparked the outrage is a certain Chude Jideonwo- one of the many crafty revisionists Nair El Rufai, Bola Tinubu and their lackeys employed to market Buhari in 2015. You are entitled to your opinion but I am convinced by Jideowno's involvement that a lie is involved, that a campaign to hoodwink the masses has been set in motion and with what I know of social media- a mechanism for creating a media storm has been activated.

7. The lady is probably dishonest and no rational thinker should believe her without at least asking a few important questions. I consider her motive to be suspect at best- reason being- what does she intend to achieve by coming out to tell a story that sound poorly fabricated, lacking in substance and designed to bring opprobrium to a man she had a choice to either deal with or avoid.

8. Many would remember the old Igbo adage that can be simply translated to imply that a raging ocean cannot drown a man whose feet it did not see. Fact is- Mr Fatoyinbo never dragged or nailed the buttocks of any man or woman to his church. Anyone always had the option of walking away the minute you became uncomfortable with his body body language or suggestions.

9. Mr Fatoyinbo did not just see anyone and grabbed her by the waist neither is there any report that he ever saw anyone on the street and pulled his car by the roadside, pushed her side and "opened his zip"

10. To be certain, I am not one to support the violation of trust by anyone in authority especially people from whom much is expected. Pastors, priests, teachers, uncle's and aunties, office superiors and village elders have a great responsibility to carry themselves with dignity and restraint at all times.

11. I am not one to blame the victim but when forceful sexual acts keep occurring and the victim never summoned up the courage to report to anyone but rather submits herself whenever her molester comes around for me has a different interpretation.

12. To imagine that the said Busola Dakolo kept submitting herself to Mr Fatoyinbo, attending his church, singing in his Choir, and as I heard- allowing him to wed her tells an entirely different story. It does not add up. Mrs Dakolo in my estimation may not have told us the entire story or perhaps she is playing a terrible game.

13. It pains me to see Nigerians swallowing that story hook line and sinker because some known social media influencers bought into it. This says a lot about how we have deteriorated in our capacity to think and reason.

14. When did we sublet our thinking power to social media influencers and celebrities? If these men and women care so much about rape- why are they not protesting against the mindless rape and killing of women by fulani cattle rearer/terrorists across most states in southern Nigeria?

15. If they care about women, where were they when a certain Elizabeth Ochanya was raped to death by a man and his son? How much did today's sudden philanthropists donate to support the prosecution of the perpetrators of what undoubtedly is a grave act of wickedness?

16. How much social media awareness did they raise when Eunice Elijah was killed by a band of lunatics in Kubwa Abuja? Why are they not interested in seeing that those behind the dastardly act are brought to book?

17. Where am I driving to? Again to be clear: I would be eager to see rapists and other criminals or those who violate the trust of young girls prosecuted and made to serve their punishment. But I would do everything I can to stop the triumph of online mob action against an assumedly innocent man.

18. Accusation is never conviction. Speaking emotionally while being filmed does not amount to presenting a hard evidence before a court of law. Has social media replaced conventional courts or is there something I am unaware of? Aren't injured people supposed to take their matter to court?

18. Is Mrs Dakolo seeking for justice, revenge, emotional appeal, to create mischief or just to destroy Mr Fatoyinbo? What exactly is this all about? Blackmail or some publicity stunts because none of it is clear to me.

19. Again I ask: what was the protest about? Was the protest against Fatoyinbo or COZA? Shouldn't a protest against Mr Fatoyinbo happen in front of his house? Why did they go to disrupt church programs at COZA today? Shouldn't COZA and Fatoyinbo be separate entities? How come the so-called lawyers who lined up at Guzape today missed this point? So COZA should be brought down because a certain woman told a disjointed story to Chude on camera?

20. Why are people so silly? Where's Stephanie Otobo? Why did she stop regalling us with tales of how Mr Johnson Suleiman "raped" her in Jamaica?

21. I would conclude by advising everyone to be circumspect about what's presented on social media. Truth is- the social media in most cases is structured to weaken your capacity to think, steal your power of logical and deductive reasoning from you and what else? Make you a fool.

22. Buhari and his handlers understood that it is very easy to sell lunacy on social media and the leveraged it to come to power- Ill prepared, with a vindictive mindset and you know where that has landed Nigeria.

23. Interestingly - the same group that sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015 are behind this Busola Dakolo rape tale. I insist that there's a whole lot more to this hullabaloo.

24. You ask- what of the other 1000 girls that also accused the pastor of rape? I reply with: when did public opinion become the basis of adjudication in matters that require sensitivity and tack? Remember millions of people have voted for Buhari since 2015. Does that confer on Buhari the administrative skill he does not have?

25. What else? Who remembers the women who came forward to accuse Brett Kavanaug of rape soon after he was nominated for a Supreme Court position? When are we picking the US Supreme Court?

Let me end with an advice: never sublet your thinking to anyone- especially people whose agenda you do not understand.

her story lacks facts and accurasy , if it actually happened the way she narrated it, dou I don't think COZA pastor is not really innocent of the crime but I believe Busola is not innocent as well, and her motive was that of grudge and vengeance and to some degree I think Timi is also caught up cos I read they were still attending the church before they got married so the question is what must have happend between them and the pastor?, what would have prompted them to quit the church?, lay back for some years, dig out the past occurrence and then hunt him?, until the pastor narrates his own experience, and witnesses of the incident are ready to speak up including those who know the pastor and Busola very well and have seen them together are ready to speak, this case still remains an accusation with no concrete evidence and to some level a mystery

Omoli oboli is not objective enough

then Ruga settlement should start from that community in the east, fed can also seize the opportunity to see our workable it is in the east since they are willing to give out lands, this is a welcomed development

JimohMomoh:
Fulani are Normads/Migrants that conquered the Hausas a long timeago, the Hausas accomodated them and slowly they grew in numbers and took over the Emirship.

Aren't you surprised that most of the Emirs in the North are Fulanis, it's not coincidence but a calculated and we'll thought out plan.

now I gave a clue of what Buhari is trying to do, By scattering them all around in the name of Ruga people must fight against this with their lives if not we are all in deep shit there is nothing like watin concern us in this all the geographical zones that is not under the north must speak out against it, this is a dead on arrival idea,

same thing they did in Ilorin

blackpanda:
No o. Don't change mouth o. No to ruga for u. U will come up north to purchase the beef at twice the price. Na una go beg last last

How much meat them they consume what the SW,SS,East consume alone, bro they need the money the mist the owners of the cows won't wait till customers come to them bet on it, the best thing is to follow that mans advice and also provide a well functioning logistics for them, rather than scattering them all around there by creating more room for community unrest

MobilityExpress:
Even the North should not allow Ruga settlements. The Jos I knew in the early 90s / early millennia used to be probably one of the most peaceful places on earth, but look at what fulani herdsmen militias have done to the place, and they don't have Ruga yet. Same thing, the Benue I use to hear of was about promiscuity, not insecurity, but look at what Fulani herdsmen militias turned it into today, and they don't even have Ruga settlements yet. Imagine what will now happen when Ruga settlements are in place. These Ruga thing will be nothing but sleep cells for terrorists that will later be used for violence and war against the original settlers. I'm not a political person, just a concerned citizen that can see beyond his nose. Any Northern state that allows Ruga is only laying the foundation for ISIS-backed terrorists to turn the North into another Caliphate, and the Christians there better speak out now, because their plan is to wipe out all Christians and Churches in the North, while retaining Mosques and Muslims in the South. Look at what happened and is still happening in the middle east, from Iraq to Syria to Yemen to Lebanon,they have wiped out entire Christian populations, taken over their lands, destroyed their Churches, captured people like the Yazidis etc, killing their men and turned their wives and children to sex slaves that they sell in their black markets, all in a bid to end Christianity in the Middle East. Ruga settlements may look innocent now, but the truth is giving them Ruga in 11 states, means they are giving the Fulanis 11 states out of 36 states in Nigeria, because only a matter of few years, the Fulani militias will take over every state they settle in with violence and terrorism. They are different from Hausas, hausas are more peaceful, Fulanis are like Arabs, they have a war mentality, the only reason the Hausas were able to coexist with them peacefully and stylishly was because the Hausas yielded to them and intermarried with them, so as to prevent mass murders and systematic takeover of their lands. No to Ruga, and if APC implements this programme in any state, then they should forget about 2023. God punish devil.

If it were hausas they are most welcomed they are peaceful but Fulani they are the other way round I still believe that tribe or whatever was forced on Nigeria, we only know three major ethnic Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, which one be Hausa/Fulani ?? those set of people think backward and are just too crude and violent in nature