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Omar09:
The greatest fear is actually the fear of the unknown. And the beauty of life is exceeding the limits of The Fear of the Unknown. You do not have control over how things work. Man always make the mistake of controlling things that can't be controlled and trying to predict the result of something without actually taking action. Come out of that shell of yours, I'm not saying you have sex with her as you do not want such, all I am saying is stop predicting things, stop having control over things and most of all embrace change. She could say yes to your request but I want to let you know that you yourself will never know unless you try.
If and when you try, place it in your mind, memorize all the time, sing it all day She saying yes does not mean she is irreplaceable, the moment she is not giving you what you want, unto the next one ese

Hmmm... Very much logical just as someone told me to read my signature...

Thanks alot...

Akinbahm:
Bro, I understand ur plight u don't want to be seen as a fuckboy u want a more direct relationship(serious one) if so then follow the step that's my post h quoted...

Alright bro...Thanks a lot...

Martinez79:
*bring out my belt and deliver 24 lashes on your back*

You boys must learn to muster the courage and common sense to handle very simple issues in your relationships and dealings with women without the need to importune nairalanders for advice. If you are this weak, how can you be the head and leader of your household?

Ask her plainly "I like you very much and I want you to be my girlfriend. Do you agree to be girlfriend from henceforth?" She must give you a direct, clear, and unmistakable answer. Her response must be either a Yes or No.

1) If her answer is indirect or ambiguous eg. "Okay", "Whatever", "Very well then" etc. Don't assume it's a "Yes" because she is leading you on and when you regrettably discover that she has just been using you, cheating on you, and draining you off your hard earned cash, she will defend herself, to your dismay, with "but I didn't agree to be your girlfriend." If she gives an indirect and ambiguous answer, press her one more time for a direct answer and if she persists in not giving a direct "Yes" or "No", take it as a "No" and bounce.

2) If she says "No", respect her answer and bounce. Never be desperate and try to force the issue.

3) If she says "Yes", then you have a relationship.

4) If she wants you to give her time, grant her a period of two days to think about it. If she says that 48 hrs is too short a period of time or she insists on a longer time period (definite or indefinite), still insist on that 48 hrs deadline. If her allotted time elapses without any direct answer from her, take it as a "No" and bounce. Never be desperate and try to force the issue.

5) If she ignores you, to any degree, and doesn't want to respond, take it as a "No" and bounce. If she is trying to change the subject or giving you hints that she is not interested or that she is taken, bounce.


Omar09

Whilst reading this, I had some quick relief... But still, it won't be as easy as I have just read or pre meditated. Nevertheless, I have to summon the courage to do so.

Akinbahm:
Brotherly, make I burst ur brain. if u dare open up to her by requesting her hand in relationship she would start manipulating u (capital NO would b her answer) unless she want to tie u down with marriage.
Never u ask her for dating relationship. Just ask her to come over to ur side for lunch, follow d rhythm btw u pple and make move by planting a soft kiss on her lips chill a bit nd read her countenance if she consent to the kissing draw her closer for deep kissing never rush down to her pant step by step make one goes far. From there start acting like her boyfriend with freestyle and don't take it 3 personal till it get to ur advantage...

I don't want to fool myself neither do I want to play games. I feel the emboldened are for those who just want to be sex mates, other than that ,there's no need to define the relationship or ask her to be your girlfriend. A girl that would turn me down doesn't know what she wants or rather doesn't want me. My problem is initiating the convo that would lead defining what we mean to each other... I dont have a problem kissing her, but I don't want things to change between us either , and that's my fear .

Omar09:
Make a move. Tell her come over that you are cooking dinner... Then make a move... Lean in for a kiss.

I'm not a typical f**k boy, I'm neither a saint, tho I've got raging hormones. In my previous relationship my girlfriend tried initiating the romance of which didn't really go down too well because I'm kinda spiritual.

Anotii:
U might put her in a situation she doesn't wanna be in...just kiss her straight away in the moment, avoid talks and if it doesn't work out,you are still in the safer side

Is there no other way of winning a girl's heart over without pre-intimacy? I don't want to come off too strong or seem too needy by planting a kiss and she begins to think otherwise or categorise me as a perv... I just have cold feet doing this.

enesi009:
d greatest mistake u do is to ask her out.. Just start acting like d boyfriend... Neva u ask her out and make her invest in u by making luv to her dats d greatest investment ment to own her

Oh my... Someone told me this also. But why would it be a mistake to do ask her? Would she turn me down by so doing?

Richnerd69:
Do you love her?

I'm beginning to and i like her alot.

annford:
Ask her out already or watch some other guy take her away from you. Every request in life has a "yes" or "no" answer. The devil wouldn't repent if she said "yes", neither would it snow in Nigeria if she said " no". My take on this? Go ahead and make your feelings for her known to her and then see how it goes.

Hmm... I feel like i would be on the hot seat that day. I'll try.

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Every year, the easterners keep proving their mental strength and brightness by standing out academically and in innovations/creativity ... It's clear we are unstoppable and destined for a Glorious moment!

It shall come to pass!!!

Like if you think burna boy is ripe for a Grammy come 2020

Boss, I'm in PH and I've been following your threads closely. I'm a student trying to make ends meet . I won't say I'm a very good writer, but I write... I would love to write and publish a book like you. Please I need your guidance.

I swear I'm not coming down

mine

Pls has any student been called or has anyone received a success mail after the aptitude test that held last week?...

pls signify if there are any like that.

no one likes my post

Pascalville:
his fiancee.. he has already proposed to her on his youtube vlog.
How ever vitaly has been banned for life from any sport center. Including basket ball courts.. football and baseball pitch.. but guess what.. he still disguised with a white beards and was life at the champion league final yesterday.. he videod his GF or wife to be mins even b4 she got out.. they had it all plan.. the owner of the cloth lining company she wore yesterday.. that bikinis that wrotw vitaly uncensored made about $3.95million only for the few mins the lady turned up on the pitch.. and no worried.. vitaly have bailed her already from jail.. they paid a fine.. and she has been banned for life from any sport centre.. how i knew all this is cos i follow vitaly on IG and he posted every detail on his IG story.

Spot on. I never knew he would ever get serious with any lady, even to the extent of wanting to marry her. I follow him too, but I'm not too current in catching up with his updates. That dude is really crazy

Mutemenot:
He or she

I wasn't mincing words when I used the pronoun 'HE'. The lady in the photo is not vitaly, but one of his numerous vixens.

Vitaly is a famous Russian American YouTuber and prankster. He is known for making wild prank videos , some of which portrays nudity. YouTube sometimes do remove/delete his uncensored videos which shows explicit nudity, hence he decided to use another platform, a domain where he posts his UNCENSORED videos.

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Lmao


As a guy, that sounds so much gay coming from a fellow man . haba why call me dear

Tosinex:
Laura doesn't have a writing prowess but wants one
Laura is a law student
Laura wants to be a famous writer
Laura wants to delve into academics.

Laura should start somewhere.
Laura can start writing poems, poet or short plays.
Laura needs to start from somewhere, and
Laura can then move ahead.

However have typed Laura more than any words here
And that means one thing
Laura should be herself
Laura should be Laura!

seconded

They can't touch us

cc : lalasticlala

It's no news , that the edo based preacher , founder and president of OMEGA FIRE MINISTRIES WORLDWIDE, also known as The restoration Apostle, is a well travelled renowned evangelist whom has journeyed over a 112 nations, and hundreds of cities around the world including cities in nigeria , for his multiple preaching engagements and evangelism .
He has planted churches too in over 62nations in 6continents .

It was posted and confirmed earlier this morning on the church's facebook page 'WE LOVE APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN', just after he arrived Enugu state in a grand style for his Open Heavens evangelical and prophetic meeting with his newly acquired jet . He was highly welcomed as usual .

He just celebrated his 50th birthday. Who knows？Probably he got himself a birthday gift , or rather he was gifted . But with this blessing, he can travel anytime he wants to preach anywhere with ease , as that's the nature of his calling as an evangelist .


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I dont think you should just rush into marriage either, because you are pushed .I think it's better you wait till you find that special person, whom you get to 'know' well and 'understand' properly, before you walk down the aisle with her . Even if it takes a millennium to do that . I assure you will find her

I feel the rage . I enjoy when he talks . Its always mixed with a touch of humour even on a more serious note .

[quote author=donbachi post=77506582][b]My guy,try and have something good doing[/b]considering she must make demands tomorrow [/quote ]

exactly . tho i have something actually . im technically inclined . im a freelancer and i do other handy stuffs in arts .

love is a beautiful thing.many found it through social media and many also got scammed.watch before you leap.

noted

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stupidity:
im telling you, it’s not funny. had a first hand experience.


At the point of meeting I stood at the junction we agreed to meet. i texted her that I was at the meeting point already then I quickly pocket the phone while I was fiddling with another phone.

One smally came from behind and tapped me, with her wide mouth with surprise on her face, she asked “are you stupidity”??

I replied “no, sorry I’m waiting for a bike here, are you looking for someone?”

She replied “yes and he told me he’s right here already”

Me; why not call his phone to be sure.

Then she started calling my phone while the phone was dead silent inside my jean pocket.

I just Jejely waka comot, tear race back to base.

Blind dates is fvcked mhen.


The asx and buubz I saw on her photos were no where to be found. She con short join.

And her skin color was a clear evidence of over bleaching. I was very sure the center parting of her yansh will be black

lol...

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