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Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

Is that all? I clicked to read this just read that you caught him doing rituals at night or cheating with some tolo-tolo babes

Please this should not bother you. It’s called addiction.

Are we at war? Why should soldiers flood the whole cities in Nigeria?

clarkmos15:
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godwinstringed1:
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She get mind enter snake mortuary to steal embalmed snakes.

Wetin no go hear... Snake gods are angry now. Lala ..

arinze198:
A 34-year old lady, Ayomide Oyewole, has landed in trouble after she burgled a shop at a popular market in Lagos, stole dried snake and was caught.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the incident happened at the popular Igando Market in Alimosho Local Government area of Lagos.

The Police at Igando Division alleged that the suspect, Ayomide, broke into the shop at night, stole the dried snake and fish belonging to one Mrs. Morenike Taiwo worth over N360,000 including other items.

However, while she was escaping, she was caught by security men, who eventually handed her over to the Police for prosecution. The items she allegedly stole were recovered from her as exhibits for prosecution but later released to the owner on bond.

After interrogation, the Police found her culpable and she was then charged before the Ejigbo Magistrate Court, where she pleaded not guilty.

The prosecutor, Supol Kenneth Asibor, asked the Court to give a date for hearing since she pleaded not guilty to enable the Police to prove that she actually committed the offence.


Full story: http://pmexpressng.com/lady-arrested-stealing-snake-inside-market/

akelicious:
National President of Miyetti Allah Kautel Hore organisation, Alhaji Abdullahi Bodejo has said that Afenifere, the apex Yoruba socio-cultural group has no right to order herdsmen out of South West region of the country.

He urged all Fulani herders to stay anywhere they want in Nigeria and carry out their legitimate businesses, saying that Nigeria belongs to all. The Miyetti Allah leader made the statement in reaction to the order by Afenifere for Fulani herders to leave the South West part of the country in view of the several cases of kidnapping and killings linked to some of them.

Bodejo berated Afenifere for getting involved in politics, saying the organisation should transform into a political party. He called on the Federal government to monitor the activities of Afenifere, cautioning that the socio-cultural group lacks the authority to drive Fulani herders out of Yoruba land.

His words: “Afenifere should know that they cannot chase away the Fulani from their place. Let them not try it because the Fulani have a right to stay anywhere they want. Let them allow peace to reign.



“The Federal Government should monitor the activities of Afenifere because Nigeria is one nation. The Inspector General of Police should protect the Fulani anywhere they are; it is their right to stay anywhere in Nigeria to carry out their legitimate businesses.

“It is better for Afenifere to change to a political party because they are playing politics. They are telling the Fulani to go back to the North because they are a minority tribe in the country.

“The Southerners are everywhere in the North and we have not asked anybody to leave and go back to the South because we believe in one nation. All these people that are saying that the herdsmen are the cause of all these killings in Nigeria, are they police officers?

“They have no right to say that the herders are the people committing crime because the police, the army and other security agencies are doing their best to address the situation. But unfortunately, some people are trying to divert the attention of the security agencies and create more problems and tension in the country. I do not know why they are doing what they are doing. The Fulani should not allow anybody to chase them away; they should stay anywhere they want in this country. The Fulani are always the victims in all these crises in the country.

“If you investigate all these crises, you will find out that the Fulani are suffering too much because they do not hear English and do not have links with the media. They are usually in the bush and that is why everybody can tell all manner of lies against them.

“The Northern group calling on the Fulani to come back to the North is doing that because of the political interest of their members; we insist that the Fulani should stay anywhere they want.”

At a press briefing on Wednesday, one of the leaders of Afenifere, Ayo Adebanjo had ordered the Fulani herdsmen to leave the South West or face the consequences. Adebanjo who spoke on behalf of the group also warned the National Assembly not to amend the Land Use Act with a view to empowering the Federal government to allocate state lands to the controversial Ruga settlement project for herders.

https://www.sunnewsonline.com/afenifere-cant-order-herdsmen-out-of-south-west-miyetti-allah/

This meya Allah people seems to the original owners of Nigeria. They make and implement laws of Nigeria. Their voices are stronger than the presidency and law makers.

We are in trouble in this country because of cows /cattles.

GistmoreNG:
A businessman, Emmy Ezeafojulu Egbeigwe on Friday, shared a photo of a newborn baby presumed dead, found dumped at refuse site somewhere in Owerri.

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See more; http://gistmore.com/newborn-baby-found-dumped-at-refuse-site-in-owerri-presumed-dead

Wish she had given me the baby to raise.

Lekzyloaded:
An Arewa activist, Abdulaziz Naibi, blamed the LGBTQ community and homosexuality for the widespread insurgency, kidnapping and bad economy witnessed across the country.

Joining the campaign against the LGBTQ community by Arewa members, Abdulaziz Naibi, tweeted;

LGBTQ, Homosexuality and adultery are the major causes of insurgencies, innocence killings, kidnapping and Economic Recession.

The law in Nigeria states this about “Homosexuality”. “14 years imprisonments for same sex marriage contract or civil union” “10 years imprisonments for anyone who registers or participate in gay clubs, society & organizations”. Stay awake!!!

He also gave a fair warning to Southerners, trolling him over the tweet. According to him, they should back off, because they were given a break when they opposed the RUGA settlement.

“Dear Southerners when you unites together nd strongly opposed #RUGA we don’t ask you to stop cause you think it won’t be good to your society So we too #LGBTQ isn’t acceptable in our religion and in our culture. Please give us some rest” he tweeted.




Source: https://www.gistkit.com/naija-news/homosexuality-causes-insurgency-kidnapping-and-bad-economy-activist-abdulaziz-

A kindergarten student will boldly tell you that bad governance causes Homosexuality and adultery insurgencies, innocence killings, kidnapping and Economic Recession.

I am ashamed to read this post. I hope the world is not reading this .

clarkmos15:
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p in anyway, I school in Anambra and i really need to record my songs, buh things are really hard here
i don't know how any one can help me out

I can help you. Drop your WhatsApp number.

I so much like this stupid comment from a lawmaker.

That’s has shown his level of contributions to the growth of the nation.

I can teach you music, contact me if you are interested.

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I need a help. I love music and I have free time, I want who can help me with music production software.

It will really help me a lot to learn music production.

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Please music masters,

I need a help. I love music and I have free time, I want who can help me with music production software.

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I am using windows 7 laptop.

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Thanks

Where is your conscience? Who knows tomorrow?
Be careful what you wish for others.

HitlerGaddafi:
Later they'll start complaining that their alawee isn't enough. You should have let that old man be. He has just a few years ahead of him before he leaves you alone in this world to continue the suffering. You on the other hand have several years to achieve a lot and you're concerned about an old man.

Miracle112:
Please what business can I start with 117k as a student to sponsor my self in school?
I need advice and guidance, don't want to invest it in wrongly please..
My sponser which is my dad died, so my mum managed to raise the money for me to start a business and sponsor my self in school.
I study in the university of PortHarcourt and this money is just my school fee for two sessions.
Thing is I don't want to keep this money cause I might end up miss using it, want to invest it in something profitable. And alsoi don't want a business that will take much of my time, so I'll be able to focus on my studies.
Business gurus in house please help a brother.

I don't know if I am posting this in the right section but, since it has to do with education, I think here Is OK.
Pardon my write up
Please your ideas are welcome

Ice cream or snack business within the school. Remember that business means to be busy with a legal means of earning money.

Can you run a business as a student?

Every man deserves a respect and it is the birthright of every man according to my Bible.
Open your bible from Ephesians
5:22-33 and also 1Peter 3 to 22.

Man is the head of the family that need to be respected weather married or single , wealthy or poor.

quote author=funmisticqueen post=80426992]Not every man deserves respect, respect is not your birthright,you earn it.Stop being ENTITLED[/quote]

Tellemall:
But you keep emphasizing that the girls where you are are rich and white.

And how you spent 3M. In naira, of course.

Forgive us for thinking it's about money.

All women want money. Some want other benefits. That's why they come to you. Same thing goes for men. They always want something from you.

If someone is rich and humble and the other is poor and nasty, who will you marry?

I met the white girl and let her know that I want to marry from Nigeria and she permitted. The Nigerian girl is also from my village who knew how poverty wanted to kill our family before light came up us from God.

The summary is never allow any woman to show you attitude, let them know that you can live with or without them.

Every man deserves a respect with or without money.

Any woman who is ready to marry will always fight to protect her family .

I am not a Gold digger, She came to me, I never asked for money, I have a good job that brings dollars to me every month.

I have made money before meeting her. She is not after my money, I am not after her money.

Tellemall:
But you just mentioned that these women are rich. Aren't you a gold digger looking for made women?

All women are after money. Green, white, pink, black, yellow, gray.

What you call love might be something else she's after.

Yes

Tunagee:
My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.

My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)

All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.

Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.

The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.

Pls advise on what to do.

We are legally married.

I left a girl I supposed to marry due to this similar situation. I engaged her and paid some money when I arrived Nigeria from Abroad, a month later, I traveled back to my base so that I can get her a visa to join me. She started trouble that I was delaying her visa process after I have spent 1.3m for her visa . She started using has words on me as her life depends on going abroad.

I lost my job in abroad because I have to move to nearby country to get her visa as she have not traveled before. I even did an international passport matching my surname to enable fast approval of documents. Some rich white ladies I left because of her also gave me some money to bring her over as they trusted my transparency In our relationship.

As I could not bear her rude attitude, I called their family and cut off the relationship. Now, I have peace of mind. I am going to marry a white lady now. They cares for those who are good to them.

Since I have been dating my girl now, I have not bought a pant or makeup for her. She don’t need my money or the things that some Nigerian ladies will kill you for if you didn’t buy it for them.

It’s better for a white lady to divorce me rather than an African woman.

I spent close to 3 million naira for 2 and half years just for upkeep of the Nigerian woman. But I have not spent up to 300$ for over 5 years with this white young lady.

She love me die . I will marry her.

Just leave that your wife in her mother’s house, do your things , if she didn’t hear from you, she will come back by herself, then give her conditions.

Disconnect her from your social media accounts so that she will not know anything about you first

How can you drag over a living person? Allow anyone who wants to care for your son to care for him . Since his your biological son, you are not losing anything as he will grow up and still answer you as his father.

Please how much is visa to Sudan? It’s better to be in hell fire than In Nigeria. Those who voted Buhari and the senators that we have now , it How far?

Racoon:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/224888/

umahi88:
The Senate on Wednesday expressed worry over the increasing incidences of rape of women and defilement of minors in parts of the country.

Senators resolved that application of death penalty to offenders would go a long way to serve as a deterrent to the menace.

Apart from death penalty for rape offenders, the lawmakers also underscored the necessity to review relevant laws as well as open registers for rape offenders in parts of the country.

The resolution followed the adoption of a motion on increasing cases of rape, sponsored by Senator Rose Oko.

The Cross River North Senator, asked the Senate to take the lead by reviewing existing laws to discourage the trend.

Oko called attention to several alleged rape cases, including the one allegedly by the Pastor of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA), Biodun Fatoyinbo.

The worrisome trend of rape cases, she said, has become a national problem that should worry the Senate.

Senator George Thompson Sekibo, in his contribution noted that prescribing death penalty for offenders, would not only serve as deterrent but would also ensure that justice is served.

Sekibo encouraged parents to report rape cases as soon as they occur to enable relevant security agencies take the appropriate steps to apprehend the culprits.

He said: “When an abuse of such a situation takes place, let the parents report the issue to the police or you come to the Senate.

“I leant that when a rape case takes place, the private part should not be washed. They should go to the hospital and take the sample.

“To abuse a child of six months, is evil. No religion will take it. We should make it a death penalty. By the time you kill two people, people would have leant and they will stop it.”

Senator Dino Melaye agreed that drastic measures should be taken against rapists.

The Kogi West Senator noted that if stiffer penalty is prescribed, people will stop the act.

Melaye said: “This issue is not only satanic, it is also wicked. This is one of the satanic manifestations in the country. If we don’t propose stiffer punishment, people will continue to get away with it.

“When you report a case to the police, they treat it as if it is ordinary. Lecturers carry out sex for marks. I want to encourage the sponsor of this motion to go ahead and come up with amendments to deal with this barbaric act.

“There are now cases of male adults defiling small boys. These things must be cured and the Senate must take the lead in ensuring that this doesn’t continue in this country.”

Senator Oluremi Tinubu in her contribution also backed the death penalty proposal.

The Lagos Central lawmaker who was alarmed about increasing rate of the defilement of minors urged parents to take steps to educate their children on sexual awareness.

She said, “The issue is very controversial and scary. As a mother, if our children were the ones violated, we know what would have happened. If we look at the society at large, we have not done anything.

“Children are the most vulnerable group. Whoever is involved in acts like this, should face death. I think rape of a minor deserves a death sentence. This is what we need to do to stop this madness.

“Most of these acts are done by people close to these minors. This is time we stepped in as a Senate and protect this country

“Parents too should be given the orientation too on now to raise their children. Poverty is a major cause of this and we need to educate the parents to reduce this.”

Senator Aliyu Sabi Abdullahi also urged relevant agencies to establish a sex register for offenders.

The Niger North Senator said that opening a register for sex offenders would go a long way to discourage the act.

He said: “When these offences are committed, what happens? The lack of stiffer punishment is a major issue we must look at. From examples cited, we must make progress. It is time for us to look at our laws and put sex or rape offenders on a register anywhere in the country.

“The psychological effects can’t be understood. Some adults behaving in certain manners are victims of these acts when they were minors.”

Deputy Senate President, Senator Ovie Omo-Agege, prayed the Senate to look at sentencing guidelines.

Omo-Agege said, “The challenges articulated are very apt. We have enough laws to deal with the issues. The area we should look at is sentencing guidelines. There should be a minimum sentencing timeline, it will help.

“We need to look at the status regulating the prerogative of mercy. We have governors and state chief judges setting free prisoners. I believe we should focus on these areas. We should have the sex offenders register.”

The lawmakers generally agreed that urgent steps should be taken to save the country from rapists.

They also agreed that when constituted, the Senate committee on Judiciary, Police and others related, will push for the implementation of extant laws on rape of women and defilement of minors.

The relevant Senate committees, when constituted, were asked to review relevant legislations on rape.

The Senate further urged the Police to deal decisively with all cases of sexual abuse as a way to stem the tide.

The upper chamber was also worried that only 26, out of 36 states of the federation have so far domesticated the Child Rights Act.......Continue reading: https://www.newsvib.com/2019/07/rape-nigeria-senate-seeks-death-penalty-for-rapists.html

How about the politicians and the contractors rapping our economy?

Ellawa:
A bike rider, identified as Ahmed, has committed suicide by hanging inside his room at his house located on Shoretire St, #Agege, Lagos State.
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The incident happened this evening, shortly after he returned home from work. The father-of-three is said to be battling with debt.

See more photos; https://www.iszzyblog.com/2019/07/bike-rider-commits-suicide-over-debt-in.html

The last person that rode bike with him should thank God that he didn’t commit suicide with the person.

Electric keke?

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How come this grandfather come become 19 years?

Sparky12:
Operatives of Lagos State Police command have arrested a 19-year old cult kingpin who has led his gang to terrorise residents of Bariga, Lagos sttae.

A statement issued by Police Public Relations Officer, Bala Elkana on Sunday said on 26th June, 2019 at about 8.00am, operatives of Operation Crush from Bariga Police Station arrested one Ifeoeoluwa Dodo, 19 years old, a strong member of Aiye confraternity at Odo-Eran Street, Bariga.

He said the suspect has been on the wanted list of the Police for the murder of one Ojo Taiwo in February, 2019 in Bariga.

“He escaped after leading eight other members of his cult to carry out the murder.

He will be charged to Court,” he said.

Source: https://www.collinsuchendusblog.com/2019/07/19-year-old-bariga-cult-kingpin-dodo.html?m=1

From the direction which it was filmed, you can easily know who filmed it in your compound.

See as police stand Dey look them. If it’s Biafrans they for don dey shot with machine guns and AK47.

I am really learning that I have to protect my own tribe. Long live Biafrans !

I don’t like seeing this Shaki that doesn’t wear clothes. It irritates me. He is not also funny.