₦airaland Forum

Congratulations on your new car Obagoal.. It's your money nobody should teach you how to go about spending it

But I'll seriously advice you invest heavily too now if you haven't started or if you've started that's a wise decision too

So that when you retire, you won't go broke again but flex your investment

I heard of the advertisement some time back when I was still serving but since I've not any good proposal myself, I shunned it because I don't want to collect this money and go to another country to lavish it

If it's really to ordinary Nigerians, I'll say kudos to the federal government and congratulations to the recipient who merits it and hope they use it to develop their dream dynasty in businesses

Can't wait to hear testimonies from those who are beneficiaries and made something extraordinary out of it

gbaskiboy:
someone commented before, goan check

twas the op that still wrote.. So he's still de ftc

I don't know who to trust but a think a thorough investigation without any bias should be carried out to determine whether the money was been laundered or as they said were given to them by some people to their relatives

Even if they cannot be trusted but I think some people too can give them money for someone especially to their aged relatives who might not have the time to operate bank accounts or go through the hurdles of managing one

Any which way may justice prevail

What I actually feel is the unhealthy rivalry between the supporters of these clubs

The supporters especially from the ones I've noticed in Nigeria doesn't like the progress of other English teams and Europe hence the bashing anytime they loses

Anytime they meet the only thing people are expecting from them are loses so as to Jubilate and you can never see any congratulations even if the win

Also English league is assumed to be among the best league in the world and when they are beaten by a those from the Spanish league it just seems as if the side that won them just won the best team in the world

That's my opinion though

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These things are only seen in the papers and not reflecting in the lives of the ordinary masses who take out time and exact enough energy to survive on a daily basis

We need to try move these stats from papers to translate to the people and I think Nigeria will be better off

But this also goes to show that we are still better than other than other Africa countries even the ones that people are clamoring to go to

realityone:
So living peaceably with all men means you should pack all men into your house to live permanently with you? I

I wanted to just answer you yes and leave but i don't want to be the cause of your restless sleep

She's having a problem with her mother in law and that's what I'm saying she should sort out thereby bringing about the peace I'm referring to

Sweetcypress:
I'm not, but does singlehood affect people's reasoning? It's just my point of view

it doesn't jare

Your intelligence speaks volumes hence my inquisition into your marital status

BTW I'm single too

Do you mind chatting me up

Sweetcypress:
I don't see anything wrong with that. Your husband's mother should be your mother too. If you're too good to her and treat her as your mother, she won't bite

are you married??

Mayflowa:
To be harshly frank with you. My mother is an angel to many people but there are some people my mum don't just like. No matter how will talk her out of it. The look on her face when such people come near or do anything, u go believe. lol. So my wife would be dead duck if she would be one of such few persons. Anyway such coincidence won't even happen!

For sure, some people are really skilled in studying people and getting warm to them. You are lucky to be. That can't be spoken of the generality of people especially wives who think their position is threaten and facing imminent usurp. Like you, I too can live with anyone peacefully. But I understand the difference in people and can't hold them accountable to it.

we have a lot in common I guess including understanding people

But why should a wife's position be threatened when the mother-in-law isn't just a baby mama of the husband

But ladies will always be ladies

mnairaland:
Suppose u can't afford to build a house for.her and your father is dead and she is aged and needs care and attention.What will you do. I hope you know the same bible says children should take care of their aged mum.

don't mind that guy who just jumped into conclusion just to comment on half baked stories of the op

Jokerman:
For this purpose shall a man leave father and mother and cling unto his wife, and dey twain shall become one... wat therefore God has joined together, let no man/MIL/woman/FIL etc... put assunder...

Don't go against God's words. .... I will never allow my mum come live with me except on visitations. ..

I built a house for her, let her stay with her husband (my Dad)... she has no business to meddle in my marriage life except I ask for her input. ..

I love my mother buh my love for my wife must be greater....

and because the op hid under the guise of a friend to say she wants to stay permanently that's why you are saying all these??

Are you sure the so called husband built a house for his mother?? You just jumped into conclusion here I must say

BekeeBuAgbara:
Is it scriptural to comment on Nairaland?

help me ask am o

Even the scripture he's trying to bank on says live peaceably with all men and the daughter in law isn't obeying that and he's here quoting scriptures

realityone:
That is not scriptural. Don't accept the wrong thing because of emotions so that you don't blame yourself in the future. Let her stay with her own husband in the village and take care of him while my wife also take care of me.

and what's unscriptural about this??

Is it the mother staying a few days or is it the lady not at peace with her mother in law

Mayflowa:
Ujoan! Ujoan!! Ujoan!!!. How many times I call you? Nor go there oooo. There are people you can't please no matter how much you try. Most of these people come in form of mother-in-law. Trust me on this.

don't be offended by this simple question and I don't want to make you offended by it

Do you see your mom as someone like that??

I don't see anybody that I can't cope with

Atleast give me a week with such an individual and after that we've gotten along pretty well

This issue only arises because the so called daughter in law's brain has been set to think that mother-in-laws don't like them and they can construe an ordinary get me water please to drink to mean she's just riding them and making them look like a slave

What I see from the ladies who comment here isn't just any thing reasonable walai..

I just see them saying it's not right just because the mother-in-law isn't getting along with the daughter-in-law.. How many of you ladies commenting here is married for two+ years and getting along with your mother in law really well should quote me and tell me your experiences..

Note any hypocrite that quote me will be fished out

My mention isn't meant for hypocrites

First of all op what has been the cause of their misunderstanding let's know and start from them

Friction doesn't really occur between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law all of a sudden

It often emerges from culmination of different but little things that should have been overlooked by a party

For whatever reason a mother-in-law shouldn't be barred from his son's house because his wife and his mother doesn't get along well

It lies on the daughter-in-law to allow her come in, study her and try to get along well

It doesn't cost a thing.. I and my parents get along well than any of my other siblings because I don't talk back at them but hear them out and make dem see reasons of my actions and inactions and thereby curbing any uprising

Again know what she likes and where she usually attacks you from.. Is it about the meal meal or any other thing and try to avoid it.. It doesn't make it a slave rather it saves you from unwarranted talks

Get along with your mother in law and you'll surely enjoy it

Op pass this to your friend and hear testimonies later

If this is so we should really be holding the right people responsible from now onwards

I hope all Governors are taking notes of this and the local government chairmen too because we'll surely come hard on them if they fail in their responsibility of protecting the lives of the citizens who voted them in or who the robbed of the right to a better leader through rigging

May God continue to protect us throughout the remaining days and months of this year

Amen

I thought we were supposed to have 109 senators in total but what really happened??

From the report above, I saw only 40 senators and probably plus the deputy Senate president making 41.. And all of them even those who failed to attend will still collect sitting allowance running to over millions of Naira

Change should really begin from the National Assembly

Its either others absconded this sitting or I'm ignorant about something

Can somebody come lecture me please

BTW congratulations the newly promoted judges.. Make equity and fairness your watchword and not justice for the highest bidder

It's not everyone that will surely align with your purpose and aim in life and that's the reason why we should always bond with those who encourages our visions and propels us to achieve it be it a spouse or a friend

Choose your friends wisely because they have a way of making you either attaining your full potential or destabilize you from achieving your goal

Having said that, cutting off from friends who are not propellers is to simply start ignoring them and then stop craving their indulgence either in not hanging out as usual or by telling them to their face about your decision

Everyone is responsible for their actions and inactions and if you fail to accomplish your goals, they'll still be the one to mock you at last

Think, act and act wise before it's too late

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Pierocash:
Rubbish post!they wrote several letters to NJC whc they refuse to honour.
On d issue of disciplinary measures.is this Illegal luminary telling us that Judges can't be arrested because they are Judges.Is as gud as saying Medical Doctors can't be arrested because NMA are the ones to discipline erring doctors.Military personels are been arrested by police and DSS and arraigned before a magistrate nt to talk of a bloody corrupt civilian.
NJC can only discipline on matters that are plainly on ethics of d profession and Dss can arrest and interogate a judge on matters partaining to crime.

and what crime do they commit

Don't tell me financial crime because it's not under the purview of dss to handle that

This one agencies that should collaborate are having frosty relationship that will portend big danger to our democracy o if what we are practicing is really democracy

Every lawyer just going the path that suits them well

Sagay saying they're right to carry out because it can cause a breach to internal security while Mike saying it's not in their purview since it's bothering on financial crimes.. We can never have a unified voice in anything no matter what

I'm actually waiting to see where this will end.. Whether like others over a year without trials even with so called incriminating evidencesss or this will be uniquely different

This is a right step in the right direction but as someone has earlier pointed out let there be stiff penalty for non participation and let the commission to be formed to spearhead the debate be those of unquestionable past records

On the scheduled date for the debate the masses should be made participants and should be given opportunity to ask questions and making it televised for wider audience

In case lala epp you

Some of them no really de hear word and dem de behave anyhow thinking they're above the law but alas it's not so

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