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Josh44s:
Iranu. My gf is in London doing her masters. Talk another thing please

Ayobamie123:
Hello nairalanders, I had to create a new account to post this. please I need your sincere advice on this issue. I am a 26year old lady, dropped out of school when things suddenly went south for my family. I accepted my fate and started doing every kinda odd jobs i could get to sustain the family. I have 3 siblings in higher institution that I struggle to pay their tuition and also provide for their needs. Because of my responsibilities, i couldnt afford luxuries compared to my friends but it didnt bother me one bit cos I believe a day will come when God will answer my prayers and I will finally have all I need. So the thing is, I met a guy last year. We met online. He is not based in Nigeria. Told him I dont like distant relationships most especially people staying abroad due to stories I've heard. After a while, I accepted his proposal and we started dating. However,I didnt tell him anything abt my financial condition neither did I ask him for anything. To cut it short, he returned to Nigeria and we met in person...it was great. He made me feel special and I thought finally, I have met the one for me. After I left his place, he stopped picking my calls, no calls from him either.
The 7th day, he called and said that everything isnt about me cos there are several others who calls him. Also that he cant deal with my kind of person because
1. I use sheabutter (I use sheabutter and natural black soap cos of my dark skin).
2. my clothes are outdated and cheap. That if he was close, he would Burn my clothes and take me to a boutique even though it'll be at my own expense. That he doesnt like the kinda clothes I wear bla bla.(most of my clothes are okrika but i try to always look good in them. My hair is always neatly done and I try to smell nice at all times).
3. That if I must be with him, I have to upgrade and spend money on myself.
I have been so down since then. Is it a crime to come out real to the man I thought loved me? Is it a crime to be contented with the little I have? People compliments my looks all the time but this guy made me look like trash. This was the same man who said he can marry a pepper seller as long as she is hardworking and committed. Its as if my self esteem has been brought down to zero. I love him but I love me more. Pls what's your take on this?
NB. Pls I'm not trying to solicit funds or sympathy, I just need to share cos its eating me up.

Cc Lalasticlala

Ayobamie123:
Hello nairalanders, I had to create a new account to post this. please I need your sincere advice on this issue. I am a 26year old lady, dropped out of school when things suddenly went south for my family. I accepted my fate and started doing every kinda odd jobs i could get to sustain the family. I have 3 siblings in higher institution that I struggle to pay their tuition and also provide for their needs. Because of my responsibilities, i couldnt afford luxuries compared to my friends but it didnt bother me one bit cos I believe a day will come when God will answer my prayers and I will finally have all I need. So the thing is, I met a guy last year. We met online. He is not based in Nigeria. Told him I dont like distant relationships most especially people staying abroad due to stories I've heard. After a while, I accepted his proposal and we started dating. However,I didnt tell him anything abt my financial condition neither did I ask him for anything. To cut it short, he returned to Nigeria and we met in person...it was great. He made me feel special and I thought finally, I have met the one for me. After I left his place, he stopped picking my calls, no calls from him either.
The 7th day, he called and said that everything isnt about me cos there are several others who calls him. Also that he cant deal with my kind of person because
1. I use sheabutter (I use sheabutter and natural black soap cos of my dark skin). Be Yourself Always and Be Happy Always....Bleep Him.....You are a diamond...Trust me...please never ever let anyone break your spirit or talk you down...be proud of yourself
2. my clothes are outdated and cheap. That if he was close, he would Burn my clothes and take me to a boutique even though it'll be at my own expense. That he doesnt like the kinda clothes I wear bla bla.(most of my clothes are okrika but i try to always look good in them. My hair is always neatly done and I try to smell nice at all times).
3. That if I must be with him, I have to upgrade and spend money on myself.
I have been so down since then. Is it a crime to come out real to the man I thought loved me? Is it a crime to be contented with the little I have? People compliments my looks all the time but this guy made me look like trash. This was the same man who said he can marry a pepper seller as long as she is hardworking and committed. Its as if my self esteem has been brought down to zero. I love him but I love me more. Pls what's your take on this?
NB. Pls I'm not trying to solicit funds or sympathy, I just need to share cos its eating me up.

Cc Lalasticlala

Chikita66:
Ehen Na, that's the only thing their smelling mouth is meant to do.

GIDIBANKZ:
Must u open trend for rubbish

bebe2:
U go girl, let the court decide.

The uneducated / educated illiterate naija man is the most brutal human on this earth.

They are rude, red eyed , tramadoled up to their eye balls, codeined to the feet and always angry. And looking for who to pour their frustrations on.

They scare the Hell out me

Oya start to show urselves.

Demonicide:
hope its free