₦airaland Forum

Proftruth:
My wife divorced me after I confessed to her that I cheated once in 5 yrs of marriage. I was faithful for the 5 years we were married until she traveled and a friend disturbed me that she wanted to know my place. She came and tempted me until I fell that was it. My wife came but my conscience disturbed me for about a week until she asked me what was wrong and said I can tell her anything. I opened up and that was it.

I would have kept that secret till death but she left. I have long remarried but I still regretted telling the truth. The truth did not set me free as I expected. Please guys and girls there are somethings your spouse MUST NEVER KNOW.

She was only managing you an waiting for you to mess up and she go for the man of her dreams.
Doo you want to tell me that if it were Davido that married her, she would still divorce him?

zenburster:
You clearly have comprehension issues.

Yawns

Let a Nigerian philanthropist relocate this girl and pepper these barbaric people.

I feel for Charles Taylor family.
Papa in jail, son in jail and wife eventually joining to live the rest off her life behind bars.

zenburster:
They are both cultists means they being to the same cult?

Read for understanding

He didn't mean cultists helping cultist by saying Big 7. He helps non-cultists too and says Big 7.
You can read and still not understand.

zenburster:

They are colleagues in cultism.

The statement is a dog whistle, signalling to "Jews" into believing that if you "belong", your cult will always have your back.

Burna boy claims to be a Muslim; Isn't cultism Haram in Islam?

Funny enough they're in different frats. Poco lee is a bird.

Why won't the Adelekes be successful when they are intentional abut lifting themselves. Unfortunately, we don't choose the families we are born into.

I hate when politicians make elections a religious duel.

How can you love your husband but abuse him and make him a victim of your rage?
She could only do this because she didn't have a toxic husband. Sharp sharp, na she go pack her load run.

yewit37486:
That second line is so unnecessary, attack the individual, not an entire people group.
All your other replies are right on point.

I'm Sorry you're right. I put myself in the shoes of his parents reading such insensitive stuff from a child they nurtured.

sleeknaija:
Na another person I quote, na u dey take panadol on top another person headache.

There's no rule that you cannot respond to another's quote.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.
One derogatory word in Yoruba and Sowore Baba was really pained.

It is apparent that Sowore can not swallow the insults he heaps on others.

So in your world, everyone who gets insulted and responds is pained? You're a work of some level of intelligence

sleeknaija:
Weirdo wey fit feed u and your whole family for life?

MC Oluomo wey fit feed your own family for life nko? Bandits for North weey fit feed your family nko? That is the regular retrograde Nigerian mentality that says because someone is very rich, they are faultless.

Mirasteel:
Hahahaha everyone have a past abeg.

If I was an armed robber or kidnapper in my past, will you welcome me into your home?

Proudlyngwa:
See as people are shouting 200k

And people will still claim no money in Naija

What is the percentage of people earning 200k in this country

And why should the elderly need 200k from a child

So 3 children giving 200k is 600k

Una dey try with this una fake life

The OP is out of the country and spending 200k est $140 for the people that nurtured him should not be a big deal.
From your moniker, your side never really had the value of parents for love and respect so the opinion is not surprising.

Auxtan:
₦25,000 to ₦50,000 is very okay. It all depends on if you're the only child and the cost of living of where your parents live. If your parents are pensioners, adding that to what they are paid monthly will give them a good quiet life as expected at that age.

That's so much sef.
Just send them 10k, since you are trying to revenge on them for something.

WantsandMore:
Make sure whatever amount to intend to start sending is sustainable within the first 5 years without burden on your own finances or that of your own family (wife and kids) make them no begin blame your innocent wife when things begin tight and you begin reduce your hand . Since they receive pension; and you have the intention of sending 200k, half it in 3rd , 25k to Mom and 25k to pops every 2 weeks of every month, reinvest the remaining 150k in a mutual fund, eventually if they begin to complain it isn't enough, improve it gradually by 10k.meanwhile, the money you put in mutual funds will be multiplying, that extras , you withdraw and lavish it on them during anniversary or festivities. Rinse and repeat. Abi how you see m?

You will get older someday.
Hope if your children use this strategy on you when older and is coping to keep yourself healthy, you no go vex.

Nah he's not a popular pastor, else his name will ring a bell.
Na most likely babalawo that tried to use fetish means to succeed as a pastor and as it failed went back to his original faith.
Goodluck to him, no religion is by force.

SonOfDSoil01:
which kind English be this one “ intending married man” kwa

Na error. No vex. No one is above mistakes.

If you are an intending married man, please pray the prayer below:
"May I not marry my enemy"

dominique:
It's either Nigerian men are getting stupider by the day or they've always been stupid, we simply didn't know. Has any woman divorced her husband in Nigeria and got any of his properties? Has any court mandated anybody to transfer his or his property to their partner because they're legally married? I'm yet to see any specific example where women or men have benefited or be at the recieving end at the aftermath of court wedding so what exactly is the brouhaha?



What if she's the one with the generational wealth or are you trying to say that you've never met a well-to-do lady from a well-to-do family? That means you sef no get level, na your likes you dey attract so don't complain.

Hey Mod, I gave my opinion, you had a choice to either reply politely than not insult me.
Perhaps you are in every single divorce related court case in Nigeria to know best.
Wonder why you are having high BP over the issue, whatever caused it, my sincere condolences.

Men should stop acting like simps.
Tell her that the wealth in your family is generational wealth that was invested in you and you will invest in the children, etc.
If she doesn't see sense in that, then find another. She loses most.

Davido I heard is commisioner for Youths and Sports. He's currently collecting salary for doing nothing.

Left my dad because she thought he had an affair.
And started cheating with a married man years later.
Women are something else.

Trump is just a blabber.

Davido's uncle that has been Osun State governor for 4 years with little or nothing to show for it nko?
Davido is commissioner for Youths and Sports, how many times has he worked in that office?

It's like Sanwo Olu is bereft of ideas to solve the environmental waste issue.
terrible governor.

One of the main enablers of this tout and beggars are Nigerian celebrities who always have money in their cars to give them. The showoff has created a sense of entitlement in them that once somebody is seen with an expensive car, these touts feel it is their right to get money from them.

sheikh Gumi, your sons are the ones that did it. Criticize them appropriately.

This man is the most romantically unstable Nigerian musician. He should just embrace polygamy, simple!

RightToReject:
She's a conqueror since she wasn't consumed by the experience and was able to tell herself the truth that she did make a mistake with her choice. She deserves goodwill, not condemnation, at this point and henceforth. This is with an assumption that she has now quit the industry.

Checked her page, she dropped videos recently and will still drop.
she's just expressing regrets not saying she's quitting.

MarketDispatch:
People that are saying Polygamy causes problems, this Peter Paul & Jude fighting each other are product of one man one wife.

It's really a shame how 3 brothers of the same mother and father cannot settle each other because of money

Cain and Abel were not from a polygamy either.