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AccidentedCars:
I want to address the men specifically.

Some of you actively discourage your women from working. From learning skills. From building businesses.

You tell her "I'll take care of everything."

And you mean it. Genuinely.

But what happens when "everything" becomes more than you can carry?

You don't become less of a man because your wife earns income. You become more PROTECTED.

My mother used to say:

"A man who builds a house with one pillar is not strong. He is foolish. One earthquake and everything falls."

Two pillars. Always.

You are WRONG
Marry a woman who loves you.
If you marry a woman who you love but doesn't love you, it would be a bad marriage.
If you marry a woman who is useful but doesn't love you, she would be useful to herself not you.
But if you marry a woman who you love and loves you back, it would be a great one. Eventually you can teach her to be useful and she will oblige.

RollinTNDA:
We all have those short kids in school who always report to teacher

Messi and Vinicius Jnr

Better rescued than paying ransom.
God bless our military.

“All people see online about me is the character, I’m more mature when I’m alone.”

A matured man doesn't have to say he is matured.

“My parents did not get married and gave birth to us. I want to break that curse and get married.”

Marriage wey go break. You that is doing marriage to boost your ego, your breakup na banker. I give you 7 years.

If there is a war in Nigeria, similar will happen.

Y'all want to be mothers. This is the price you pay.

Kemical23:
Rugged that is it, asaba is just the victim here

But guyman no try. He for just sort the babe. Na where him dey at fault.

2special:
Seems she still went to meet the Abuja guy but they wor wor for their family.

Lol if you talk this kind thing for Social media, dem go chew you raw

CJStarz:
Her parents failed her. They weren't even there to give her strong emotional support

Parents that are claiming 7 Million medical debt under 24hours. Parents wey wan cash out.

ikeno:
Even if him send 30k give the girl and told her he will balance up later She for no reason him matter.
But my question be say why she come kpia herself cause of N50k e no make sense atall

My brother some people are willing to die and are looking for someone to go down with them.
That girl had mental issues and Odogwu's bad treatment was a trigger. And she didn't wanted to go down alone so she decided to drag him down with her.

AMINDA:
Makinde may likely come distant 5th but that hasn't stopped you from harassing him and even calling him a "betrayer" despite not being in the same party as your tin-god. The fear is not necessarily about whether he will win or not. It is about the perceived damage that they believe he will do to Tinubu's chances.

I have no tin-god. Because I do not support Peter Obi doesn't mean I support his rivals.

Three is no need to assassinate you. Distant 3rd is a sure banker.

afangide:
In a hotel room you codedly entered?

So entering a hotel room with someone is license to be raped?
A woman's no is a no. Forced sex is a no-no in every situation.

I feel all Africans should abandon South Africa for tourism.

Dghold:
You must do it, it's tradition. There are consequences for not doing it.

What bloody consequqnces?
The poor people wey die and them no do am, what were the consequences?

Wait so if the money is unavailable, what will now happen?
Or these wicked people don't mind if the corpse rots in mortuaries to have their way?
This is one reason I like Islam. After death, burial the next day and life goes on.

Borrow2222:
If the chart is true, the guy should present it in court.

Looks to me like a deal gone wrong.

She is angry because he didn't pay her a reasonable amount.

Once money is involved, the issue of rape might be ruled out.

It's now a normal transaction with a runs girl.

Did you read the part of "my virginity wey you take forcefully" ?

Macphenson:
The girl committed suicide because she felt her long guarded virginity was lost for just #10k.

This guy messed up. He would have pampered this girl considering she was disvirgend by him. He was supposed to have spoilt that girl with gifts and funds. He is too stingy. After forcefully disvirgining a girl, you give her just 10k, haba, instead of telling her love stories you are threatening her. She was even regretting not going to aAbuja to give it to that man as he would have paid her nothing less than 50k.

In other words, he made her feel like faeces.
How can you force sex on a girl and still not give a damn about her?
He must have been doing a lot of heartless things and got away with it. She was his waterloo.

Just checked her profile.
She does every single thing in this life. Just one person o

if he was wise, he should have disabled his social media handles.

Parachoko:
The FG should hand over the control of some of the rehabilitation centres to the States

Nigerian prisons don't rehbilitate

The men killed were the sacrificial lambs.
Once you enter this world as a man, it is -1 for you.

Ashirioluwa:
He joined the wrong party

He was dancing when he should have made moves to join the right party

DeltaBachelor:
Chai. Things Dey occur sha. I would have said it is the OP talking to himself if I haven’t witnessed something like this first hand.( Because I am surprised how he created the initial thread in 2024 and is sending us the continuation in 2026 )Honestly, THINGS DEY OCCUR SHA !

That’s why it is better to do COURTSHIP first and a long time before marriage, to avoid stories that touch

Courtship no dey save anything bros. Women change pass chameleon.

Aren't you guys charging exorbitant amounts from airport passengers?
They are talking like they aren't part of the problem.

They should be banned for life from air travel.

gigabyte13:
She spent quality time with you physically but you want it continue online.
My brother no be everybody wey dey online dey available for chat oooooooooo.
Thank God, she get work and you didn't even tell us the nature of her work.
Get busy with your life too
If e shack you too much
Marry her put for house.
No carry your raggea spoil another person blues.
If you are not okay with that
Find guy wey go use call and message finish you.
Na you go run
If you jam such girl.

Calm down, he has a right to make an issue out of it. There's nothing wrong with him or the babe. Just that on communication, they are not on the same frequency. If he's not a communicative guy, they will go perfectly together. They are not compatible, period.

Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .

Some people naturally have a communication problem. I have felt it before. It may not be her fault but that's her nature. Means you who loves communication is trying to marry someone who doesn't like communication. Remember Marriage is a lifetime decision.
I advise is keep your doors open, you have a right to choose who will make you happier.

Trying hard to defend gullibility will make you sound Gullible.

Adewale1603:
she gave voice to the music.

She wasn't the composer of the lyrics. There are people that compose songs and lyrics for those artistes

I know. The singer is as important to the song like the writer.