DonMarkuzi:
Welcome home princess.

This is not her home.

lastmessenger:
Muslims can lie to defend evil. You are a Muslim

I am no muslim. I am a christian. On leah's issue, why dont you make an effort to free her?
I will provide your transport to the North East

Amumaigwe:


May the same date befall your daughter or granddaughter. Amen

Back to Sender. You just put your female descendants under a curse unnecessarily.

wiseoneking:
May your love for your children and descendants take thesame path of fulfillments, and also move on in agony as she passing through. May this be your portion of what it takes to adjust to love. Ndi uchu.

Back to Sender. You are obviously a fool. Why not do something about Leah's situation. Go to the Northeast and rescue her from her Boko Haram husband. Cowards who can't lift a finger are those that criticize the most.

lastmessenger:
only a heartless Islamist who worship a child rapist will make such a comment.

I am a Christian. You that is better, why didn't you buy an AK47 and enter into Boko Haram strongholds to rescue Leah and stop her from converting to Islam. Na mouth you get.

vibratingpenis:


So how she was forced to convert islam is good?

Stop putting words into my mouth.

We know you will never admit.

yewit37486:


I read that in the papers when the mother was interviewed, she mentioned they were 3 parents initially bringing forward the case and the two withdrew. And how does her being a single mother have any bearing to the case? I read ALL the details including the man's part and how he told the mother that nothing would happen.
He is a despicable sick human being that is better off in jail.
No one is debating that injustice exists, however in this case the evidence was strongly against him, so calling his conviction an injustice is itself an injustice.

I say it again, if guilty let him serve his term.

yewit37486:


In this same world and country where fathers molest their own children.
Read through the details of the case involving, and then ask yourself how all that could be false accusation. Mind you, 2 other parents had accused this man in the past but it was silenced. Secondly, why did the school ask the parents of the 2 year old "what they can do to end the case"? I can go on and on, all I will say is please read the details.
God is not a God of injustice and when we refuse to seek justice when we can, it is actually an act of injustice.

I followed the case. No 2 other parents accused the man of such in the past. Maybe it happened in the media story. Also, the 2-year old had only one active parent - a single mother. I have read the details. You should read the man's part of the story too.
God is a God of justice yes. But in this world there is lots of injustice going on that justice will be brought to. Justice can take a minute, a day, years or even centuries. But it will happen. Or you want to tell me that everybody serving a jail term is 100% culpable?
Like I said if he is guilty, let him serve his term.

yewit37486:
Sad

I certainly don't trust these "rich" schools. They are out to protect their reputation at any cost. That was how Chrisland hired a SAN to defend the teacher who sexually molested a 2 year old.

Any parent covering up for their child when they do wrong will eventually be consumed by the greater evil that child will commit in future. It's a question of time.

The chrisland case of the 2-year old girl is a very dicey case. The teacher, a 47-year old man at that time has been sentenced to decades imprisonment. The man's life has been destroyed based on an accusation which may be true or untrue. I don't know but I dont see how a father of 2 girls will sexually abuse a 2 year old girl. If he's guilty let him serve his term and if innocent, let him be exonerated.
As for the Dowen college case, it is good that the lives of those 4 boys were not destroyed too. We have to be 💯 sure before making a strong accusation of murder and poisoning on Teenagers.
At this time, i think it is time to hand the case over to God.
May we never be falsely accused, the Nigerian system and social media will find you guilty.

Leah is a mother. She loves her children and most probably loves her husband.
Time to move on.

Stevenbright:


If you gat the story, the girl didn't tell him her father is occultic (ROF) but that he is traditional. So, she was being crafty if not deceitful with the hope of manipulating the guy to submission by saying "I told you before".

Being traditional doesn't mean you are an herbalist or an occult. Most traditionalist simply believe there is God but don't believe in accessing Him through any of the well known imported religions but through ancestral worshipping where they mostly use local drinks, colanut etc to do their thing.

Your first paragraph is so on point.

grandstar:
kingthreat

Ogboni pre-dates colonialism. Just like we have Masons in Europe, so was Ogboni amongst the Yoruba's.

As a Jehovah's Witness, as long as your wife to be is also a Witness, whatever the father is is irrelevant.

Generally, I have no problem with Ogboni or religion. Just that this guy wants to be a Christian. It's just sad that a parent's beliefs can affect a child's marriage.

NairalandGOAT1:



Hahahaha.... 😂 😂

Hope you got the message though?

Lol. Yeah for him.

malvisguy212:
you leave very important information. her state of origin. her tribe.

Man is Igbo, Girl's from Southwest.

NairalandGOAT1:


If everything you said up there is true about your "friend"... Coz it might be you anyways..

Back to the matter..


What if after marrying the girl you find out that her father has sacrificed all the children in her womb to his god(s)?

Remember, the spiritual will always control the physical and note that it doesn't matter if you believe this statement or not!

Lastly, what's the full meaning of ROF?
Or are you already scared that the cult members might hurt you if you reveal their name since they can even see you opening a thread about them on Nairaland?

It's not me

Lol, I could hear her saying you released in my mouth . Dat small girl get power sha. Small but mighty.

MMempire:
Who be this OP? Na same minimum wage we dey earn? Bia, be careful there!

DSTV is not a government-owned company. Nothing concern them with your minimum wage.

AbuTwins:


As baseless as the argument is you still can't directly respond to it.

So you agree the Bible can be used to justify anything as you seem fit?

There's nothing I will contribute to make you see otherwise. Energy to waste on that can be expended on something more useful for myself.

Lagos state government has been getting away with demolishing buildings and spoiling businesses for a longtime.
Seems Endsars that happened was karma. These APC politicians should not provoke another karma.

Kudos to the observant citizens. Sometimes minding your business indirectly supports crime

Good move by the father. If you want to be a simp, that is your problem. But the family is not involved.
Older generation needs to take a stand when their children choose to be foolish.

Dele Momodu has never been for the people.
Majority of those he featured on Ovation Magazine then were the corrupt and those whose wealth was questionable.
As usual, he will defend his friends and clients.

Corruption keeps fighting back against the system in every country.
But in Nigeria corruption wins 80% of the time.

NoToPile:



What do you define as a christain marriage? Just curious.



As for your friend, it's better he let's her know his decision on time not rigmarolling around it so she can consider other offers.

Occult and Christianity to me is like light and darkness. If he wants a marriage following Christian values, the fiance's background especially with the father's influence might bring up challenges later. That's my opinion. Well no marriage is without challenges. It's up to him at the end.

2shure:
Shameless dunce. Na always him,meanwhile na u.ode

You are the only one calling me insultive words here out of the blues. Hope you are alright.

2shure:
Idiot. Whi h him.
Always lying. U know all of these so much.
Alaye na u .free the gal run. Which dirty friend.unless u r gay.liar

The sooner you take the advice of checking into a mental facility, the better for you.

This is the most baseless Biblical argument i have ever read.
Some people just go into the scriptures for fault-finding and error seeking.
If that is the job the devil gave you to do, believe me you go see wetin you wan see.

Thanks all for your comments. From what was shared here I was able to give a better advice to my friend who I talked to over the night.
I told him that if he wants to run a serious Christian marriage, the background of the girl will affect it so it is better to quit now except the girl is ready to be a prayer warrior and have less to do with her family. But if he wants to run a normal marriage, he can go ahead.

My guy told me he wants a Christian marriage o. He told me he just spoke to his uncle pastor about it and the Uncle told him to quit. One, for him to complain that means he is no longer 100% sure about the marriage and that can raise issues in the future. Two, he said most occult men do spiritual things that eventually affect their children and marrying her will be fighting unseen battles he had no idea of. It is better he finds a way to breakoff slowly or let the lady know that his parents are not comfortable with the marriage because of her family background. He himself knows that his family will not accept that but he is willing to turn rebel and do what he wants to do. But now he's having a rethought.

At a point I could hear sounds of crying in his voice over the phone. Guy is still saying that this is the best lady he ever dated. Chei

You cannot force someone into responsibility.
Let them live with the consequences of irresponsibility. No water for them.

fyzaila:
You wrote all your words in full but decided to write and acronym of the main word

I wrote both ROF and Ogboni

Let him not try and use force. Let him use wisdom. A woman with multiple sexual partners sees a child as a hindrance. Talk to her family members that your move is in the best interest of the child and she is welcome to see her child anytime. Using force will make her use the child as a weapon to hurt him.

Reflect7:
Welcome home, our daughter.

We don't know her from anywhere