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ComeToJesus:
For her to go this far, it means there could be a genuine case of sexual harassment against her.

I wonder why the committee didn't invite the accused and the accuser for a dispassionate and fair hearing.

Its a very big embarrassment for Nigeria.

No one should be treated and muscled this way .

Fair hearing!!

Please change that username. You can't be using such username and celebrate the manipulations of the devil.

dynicks:
Since Akpabio became the senate President, it's been one form of mis-yahn and mis-doings here and there.......That man has so been intoxicated by power that he feels he can do whatever he so wishes to do not minding its thought of consequences........

Oh so that makes him guilty of the accusation she levelled against him?

The heart of man is evil and desperately wicked.

Drugs are destroying families. From my department that graduated from Yabatech, we have 7 known junkies. I don't mean weedheads, these guys use hard f..king drugs.

olisefom:
Friends do turn enemies too. When a home is successfully managed, people assume they married right. We've seen sweet relationships/marriages break into pieces. It's a management issue when things degenerate to these type of scenarios...or let me say, not knowing when to walk away (which is still a management issue)

True talk

NobleStag007:
That's because the person changed.
If falling out of love happens.. make dem just scatter and walk apart instead of murdering one another

Supported 100%

NobleStag007:
I'm not talking about material love or handsome or Beauty love.

Character and sensible love. It does not change

I meant exactly what you are saying. You must have heard the term "falling out of love".

NobleStag007:
Marry whom you love not who's ready

Who you love today can be who you despise tomorrow.

Marrying your enemy will bring out the worst in you.
Please young men in the house, pray that may you never marry your enemy.
Many good men became wife beaters and wife killers because they married their enemies.

franchasng:
Natasha is a stubborn, possessive woman that lack respect for people, maybe because she believes that she is too pretty based on how men flock around her and based on what she was doing in Abuja before she joined politics fully, that's one.


Godswill Akpabio too lack self control. Nobody should doubt the fact that Akpabio did made romantic abi sexual advances on Natasha and she probably refused, of which he should have moved on and not use it against her in the Senate house affairs, which is why she decided to cry out.




My anger is not even that Natasha accused Akpabio, my anger is about Akpabio, how a Senate President would stoop so low to wanting to bonk his female colleague; a married woman that has given birth, what's romantic or appealing about her? With your influence and wealth as a former Governor, former NDDC Chairman, and now Senate President, you can get any single lady of your dream; be it from Nigeria or anywhere in the world. If your fetish is Caucasian ladies or mixed race chicks or Indian, Moroccan or even Arab ladies, you can assign your Aides to get one for you without you stressing.


Honestly many men don't know their worth and who they are. Some influential guys like the other mumu music star Burna Boy was even promising a Runs Girl heaven and earth just to have sex with her, a supposed music superstar that ought to have quality hot chicks begging for his attention and time was busy promising a Runs Girl what he cannot afford to give away just to have sex with her, tufiakwa.


All these Nigerian men should please do better. At every point in time, I always remember my worth and who I am even at my small level talk more of these influential and powerful men disgracing their generation because of expired pussies

So if a local champion in your vicinity tells us that you want to bonk her, we should believe her too?

96ACE:
I understand that like a dog, you’re a political as$ licker so I’m unperturbed by your inability to recognize that your destiny and that of your kids, that’s if you have any is being trampled upon by bad leaders dishing out bad governance. If not that you’re not reasoning properly, can 10 of Apkabio match up to 1 Donald? The decisions Donald is making is for the overall interest of his people most especially for their youths and children, he is positioning them to continue to dominate you, your kids and your grandkids and you are here spewing rubbish. What has any of the leaders you are licking their as$ done to safeguard your future and that of your future generation? that’s even if you’re going to have one.

Stop vibrating emotionally dude. You spoke against old people in the Nigerian political scene and I referenced Donald Trump who is also an older person but doing well for his country. See I am not pro-Akpabio but between the corrupt politician and the female senator begging for attention with stupid feminism, I go with the former.
By the way, the senate president is still the senate president while the undisciplined senator was embarrassed out of the chamber and has been banned for 6 months. Hope this goes down well with you.

Sometimes these distribution companies act like demigods. This time around they met madness

Good riddance. The Nigerian senate is not a joke.

The one on long-sleeve shirt is a very good technical fighter. No matter what, he didn't lose grip of his chokehold. His chokehold prevented the other teacher from having an impact and rather drained him. Whether they get sacked or not that teacher got my respect.

96ACE:
If not for the docile and ignorant youths, what are people like Akpabio and his likes still doing in our political scene? How old were Gowon and Murtala when they became heads of state? The funny thing is that those that their destinies are being trampled upon will still find everything wrong with these questions.

So you'd rather a gold digger like Natasha or an unintelligent mind like yourself running the political scene? The USA has Donald Trump a man heading to 80 as president so your opinion holds no water.

Must they kill themselves? Nsobu nsobu mentality....

Savingrace678:
Hello nairalanders, pls I need matured mind on this.
I created this account to post this.

My marriage has been stressful and draining.
I have really suffered if not for the help of my elderest brother, we would have died by now.
My husband has been in addiction since we got married 5yrs ago. that has never allowed him to take care of us. In 5yr we married, he has changed More than 5 jobs all wasted effort. We have two twine children. A boy and a girl. 4urs.
His addiction has been the reason I never want to have another child ever since then.

Right now my husband's uncle, a father figured to him has invited him to come home to the village, so they can advise him and my elderest brother has asked me to pack my things and the children, as soon as my husband left for the village, he will relocate us and my husband will not have access to us again.
And he said, if I declined, he will take his hand off my matter. He has been the one taking care of our rent, school fees and upkeep as my husband's money goes to addiction.

My fear now is, my children are so used to their father and I'm afraid if they can cop without their father. Especially my son.
Secondly, I'm so scared that I don't know how I'm going to handle more brokness in my life
My life is so scattered right now.
And lastly, I don't want my brother to take off his hands off me. He's the only person helping me out with my mistake.

You didn't mention the type of addiction he is into. But I will take it that he is into the popular type of addiction these days - hard drugs addiction. Most likely because it affects his jobs. In this situation, your elder brother is not just your financial help, he is also an advisory help. Let him relocate you and your children ASAP. Being in poverty is worse than sustaining a father-son bond. Your husband needs help and he needs it as soon as possible. Encourage his uncle and family to treat him. But untill then, for your life to have meaning, you need to separate from him for at least 8 months so he can get himself. If he is a better person, you can accept him back else you move on with your life.
Drug addiction destroys families.

Madam you double-dated. If your doctor boyfriend double-dated while dating you, you for cry fire and brimstone.

What I know is that Ned Nwoko no send any daughter of Eve. He doesn't lack them

Sorry for the traumatizing experience. It has happened to a few people I know.
Back in the days I have been approached by strange guys asking for direction to a place that does not exist. Immediately, I start repeating "blood of Jesus". I don't care to know if they are charmers or not, I just do it so in case. Or I just shake my head. Engaging them in a conversation is when their charm can hit you, so I heard.
You will replenish in no time.

Nothing you will tell me, these men are homosexuals. Bobrisky in white garment.

Never envy wedding ceremonies where they showoff and do like they're the only ones that found love. You never know how it ends.

Trump said he was going to end the war. And he is ending the war. Let Zelensky fund the war and lose more terriitory to Russia.

The man may be summarily executed being a staff of their enemy - the Nigerian Army.

Build another bridge ASAP

Poor dude. You married your enemy

Make it a family issue. He must be rehabilitated ASAP else his life will be messed up totally soon.

ebubeson:
One of the best presidents of Nigeria.

During his regime, dollar may be less than 100 Naira.

During his regime there were several jobs.

During his regime there was no "mad" japa syndrome.

During his regime, there was better security than now.

Every regime comes with challenges. The problems that were then were way lesser than the issues there are now. It was under his regime kidnapping began with foreign expatriates in the Niger Delta. Yeah he was good, but not that terrific.

Not just successful men. Any man they don't like.
An old trick and their biggest supporters are men, not all men but the simps amongst us.

salem1996:
That is even the part that got me feeling bad.
First, it seems a long term case so how can you just said the girl is right because she seems to have the right narration that is well articulated?
Next, the questions should be;,

" What was her efforts to let people know she's being raped? Did she shout?

Is a university, you'll literally find people around all that times.
Next, she was on trousers. I've never pulled an old lady's trousers so I can't tell how hard it is to do that but, I've pulled those of my siblings children (male and females) anytime they are with me and want to ease themselves. I can tell the rigour of doing that. As an adult, I believe if she doesn't want sex, the time it'll take her to fight before getting her trousers pulled off, plus the shouting she'll have made would have been enough to scare the man and or at least called someone attention.

Another one is, if the place was a lonely place when she entered the office, the moment he went out and lock the passage gate and office, pulling down window blinds, it'll have been enough to suspect and threaten him with "open the office or I'll shout that you want to rape me sir." It's an office and also day time. He can't think of killing you because eventually other workers would be coming soon.....

Lastly, being a first time offender [if really it wasn't consentual], a lifetime imprisonment is harsh.

Yeah the part of he removing her trousers got me. I know how difficult it is to remove a woman's trousers during sex. I wonder why the lawyer could not use the questionable evidences the lady provided to prove she could be lying.
A woman told me outrightly that men have to be careful when it comes to cases against women in Nigeria. The judicairy is rigged to their favour. Most cases of domestic abuse and assault are handled by female judges and these actors are so eager to ruin men's lives. Men really have to be careful.
The bolded is not just harsh but evil. His life and that of his family is summarily finished.

If by anything you are no longer high-chief, simply know that your current wife won't be your wife no more.

justwise:
I ask you again.. why was he not embarrassed that Elon musk shows up in Oval Office wearing t-shirts, jeans and cap? Why did rule apply to Zelenskyy only?

While many of you are shamelessly worrying about suits he is worried about his people getting killed daily

Shamelessly my azz. Elon Musk is not a fellow president. President to president, you must dress formally. There are formal military uniforms that he could wear. Lol who is killing his people daily? Your lies are so 2022.