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Progress321:
Stopeet 😂 😂 😂
There are people who earn that amount bro, but omo na to see where dem dey see the job dey hard sef

SpencerForbes:
The people you are talking about are those really struggling—the ones pulling in just ₦30k or ₦40k—and doing it all alone.

The critical difference is that they don't have a hardworking partner, side income, strategic planning or any spousal support. That lack of teamwork is what really kills them. That’s why we keep selecting ₦100k from both parties as the leverage point for discussion. I once read a book, The Millionaire Mindset, which distinguished between people who are actually rich and those who just want to impress others with the perception of wealth. The author noted that those who lived moderately always had spare cash to give than those who went the extra mile to maintain a lavish appearance. Below average income is a struggle, but hitting above minimum wage by both parties definitely gives you the leverage to start planning.

I know a perfect example: A man with multiple shops in Ladipo International Market was intentionally living in a room self-contain. He had the money but firmly decided not to buy cars until both his children had finished university. Now, that man owns more than three cars, and both his daughters are doing exceptionally well.

If being raised in luxury was guaranteed to produce successful children, we wouldn’t have examples like Elon Musk’s child or even children of high-profile political candidates struggling with issues linked to bad influence and a lack of proper home training.

There is no two ways about this:

Luxury without proper training will always create a problematic child, but an average life backed by solid values will always create a good child.

Zanzibar1:
Just know you are in for a very rough start if you are the only one earning and your wife isn't earning other than having a petty shop.
Things works in marvelous ways tho but not always .

All that aside, where are you people seeing jobs that give 100k? I'm willing to send my CV

NewLife14:
I came across this beautiful post about the above topic here https://www.nairaland.com/8571178/someone-earning-100k-naira-should
In the comments, many great minded Nairalanders argued for and against "Marrying with a 100K income" from many perspectives.

This post is all about putting the theories in figures. STAY TUNED .

Now the man (From a supportive family) earns 100K and decides to Marry. That is #1,200,000 per annum (1.2M).
His expected expenditure should look like this:
➡️Cost of wedding =Free (Family Sponsors).
➡️ House rent =Free (Has 2 rooms in his family house).
➡️ Electricity Bill (2K a month X 1 year) = #24,000.
➡️Feeding with wife and kid/s (At least 2K a day X 1 year)= #730,000.
➡️Clothing =Nil (He doesn't change clothes ).
➡️Wife Expenditure = Nil (Her parents supports her and fends for her in his house )
➡️Baby Diapers = Nil (Baby wears Napkin).
➡️ Water (Sachet water and others) =Free.
➡️Baby Food and Groceries (Milk, etc, 5K per month X 1 year) =#60,000.
➡️Transportation to work (500 Naira per day X at least 270 days a year) =#135,000.
➡️Recharge card and Data for our man and wife (#200 a day x 1 year) = #73,000.

TOTAL SO FAR =#1,022,000 (1M, 22K)
Our man will be left with #178,000 (178K) at the end of the year in review.

⚠️You will observe that I was extremely prudent in the expenditure, in the hope that both his family and the wife's family support the marriage which is most times unlikely; what applies is that you the man is the one supporting them instead.

⚠️ I only added basic RECURRENT costs and didn't account for emergencies like Healthcare, or even miscellaneous. I also obviously avoided school fees, baby wears, etc.

❓Can you marry with 100K income? YES & NO!

You can if you already have a room in your parents house, your family and her family is supportive financially and otherwise, you like stress and you are comfortable with your current financial status (as marrying at this stage will give you little room for financial improvement and growth)

But if you desire to grow financially, break the chain of poverty, value your peace of mind, want to give your family the best and live in a city where you pay for rent and other things, then it'll be a suicide mission to marry with a 100K income.

My 2 cents

SpencerForbes:
I’ve got some questions:

— What if both of them are earning #100,000 ?🤔

— If you’re able to save 30k monthly, what’s stopping any of them from starting a side hustle like POS or provision sales?

— Let’s imagine the lady is industrious and has a skill (hairdressing or make up skills) what’s stopping you from marrying her?

— If you’re above forty but you have a house and everything is put in place, why shouldn’t you get married?

— If the family is supportive and don’t need an elaborate wedding for now till you’re okay, should you still boycott marriage?

ebukal67x:
Ekweremadu should continue his jail term in the UK. No option B.

trutharena:
We should just let this matter rest. Ekweremadu has suffered enough.

chudez0147:
May her soul rest well.

But wait O! Who climb dis woman? Some men can be so disgusting. Hmm

CountinBlessins:
Are you employed ? Like do you have a job?

aswani:
I once knew someone whose girlfriend had a friend that put her friends relationship at serious risk.

Why, because she was dating a simp and her friends were expecting their own boyfriends to reduce themselves to his (very) low standards.

I never found out what happened to the other relationships after my friend moved on.

God will punish some men.

Yorubastardz:
Abroad guys feeling funky

If no be this demonic APC Who send una??

We know many of you there don't have shishi
That's why you run when they ask for help

Werey go dey America for 6 years
Dey sleep inside him car
Dey collect food stamps to survive

Ask am to send ordinary $25
Werey go begin dey run around the bush

We know say shishi una no get

Na to dey snap picture say you dey America just for bragging rights.
To come back Christmas be like war
Flight ticket money you no get

ChizzyBuna:
I pity simps bro

It is a crime as a Man to lack OT

I knack one babe a day before her traditional marriage. That night I go Facebook

Her husband tag her for Facebook dey thank her and shower her praises for being his wife

A South African man, Dr. Bakhe Dlami, has revealed that his wife has full access to his phone and his bank account “belongs to her.”

The marriage counsellor and psychologist disclosed this in a Facebook post on Thursday, November 20,

The father of three said he owes his woman loyalty, commitment and treats her like he would want his two daughters to be treated.

“Husband of 1, father of 3, always home latest 6:00PM (unless work demands), my wife has FULL access to my phone. My bank account belongs to her, hers belongs to myself; we are one. I'm in this marriage thing a 1 000%,” he wrote.

"I don't do half commitments. And yes, I'm there for the fun. If there's no fun, intimacy, connection: I don't want it. I believe in being a "gentleman", chivalry, decorum. I'm not a simp, I'm a leader. Not a dictator, but a leader.

“I owe my woman loyalty, commitment. I have 2 girl children. I treat my wife like I'd want my daughters to be treated. I strive to be a better husband & father each day. I come from a painful background; have to do better. I can't fail myself. Foolishness is stumbling where your predecessors have.”

Melezenawii:
Atiku Abubakar to Return to PDP, abandoned ADC coalition

Gotocourt:
Democritus ---Greek philosopher 470-360BC
Leadership centers on the importance of reasonableness, self-control, observation, and prioritizing the common good over personal gain.

ceejay80s:
Bet 9ja just 5 odds and u are a billionaire
Lol

spiSeyi:
You don't need this bro that same money you take buy iPhone can create a business empire that will buy loads of your iPhone or whatever . Back to the OP:
1 you can start grilling business all you need is a good location around campus or busy road. If you don't mind selling BBQ or shawarma (500k is enough to start plus you can add POS biz ) . This was my main biz few years back and I can boldly tell you that I now have a tech startup with the proceeds

2. You can start selling UK Used iphones just get 1 piece of iPhone 13 (400k) and 2 neat UK Samsung
S21 or Note 10 for (450k) . You can put them up for sales jiji, FB or even enter campus. This can earn you 20-30% profit
. If you plan well what you have is enough and don't be ashamed to start small, do not despise the days of your little beginnings.

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kings59:
Police fit Don pick am


Check all police stations around

Dotherightthing:
13 is age of consent

Before you crucify me, go check the section 218 of the criminal code act of 2004

fergie001:
I rooted for her, she was my candidate.

I saw her master plan for Anambarians and she indeed does have a good future for the state.