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cococandy:
They keep ruining Nigeria’s reputation abroad.
Not to mention giving the impression that you can become a nurse without going through due process, all the clinical experience , necessary prerequisites and actually passing the boards on merit. That’s why you meet some of them and wonder how they even got a license. Because they don’t understand basic physiology or simple biochemical processes necessary to adequately care for sick people

IMAliyu:
If i could leave i would.
I can't live in a country where i want to progress 10 steps forward, surrounded by backwards people trying to drag me back 20 steps.

Obrigardo:
Imagine Kamala Harris being President, [b]it will transform America and the World in ways we dreamed of the old days of love and joy. [/b]Trust me on this.

So if you are in the US , and you can talk to someone to vote, know that we all have to ignore the polls no matter how good it is and vote! vote! vote!

Kaycee54321:
Who is the family?

Is she not part of the family?

You can choose to view it the way you want, to be honest.

I bet though, that 9 times out of 10, if you ever make your wife insecure by agreeing to some sort of cosmetic surgery to make her look better, she will do everything possible to look better.

"Add money make my belle flat well well" naim grammar don full everywhere. Meanwhile, na you notice say e no go bad if belle flat 😶

Kaycee54321:
The koko is not whether you're for or against cosmetic surgery oh, bros.

If you want your woman's belly to look better; then you have a very reasonable woman if she'll bring 6m and ask you for 2m.

In fact, na wife material pro max. Independent Beiby.

Your play is to bring the 2m and help in doing the body work. Because na still you go follow enjoy the belle after the panel beating 😁

Not come online and open thread to call your wife unreasonable so strangers can call her names.

bukatyne:
Guide children as what? That there are two fathers or two mothers?

Besides children would never be a result of their liaison. They should stick to the fruits of their laboutlr mbok!

Kaycee54321:
The koko is not whether you're for or against cosmetic surgery oh, bros.

If you want your woman's belly to look better; then you have a very reasonable woman if she'll bring 6m and ask you for 2m.

In fact, na wife material pro max. Independent Beiby.

Your play is to bring the 2m and help in doing the body work. Because na still you go follow enjoy the belle after the panel beating 😁

Not come online and open thread to call your wife unreasonable so strangers can call her names.

Kaycee54321:
A woman is very sensitive about her partner's perception of her body.

Your biggest mistake was agreeing that she needed cosmetic surgery or what you called Body Work 😂

Flip the table around and imagine that your woman agreed with you that you need to "enlarge your p.enis" after you people finish giving birth...

You go dey feel say all her moans na fake and you go wan borrow money to hugify your preek ASAP...same way she's feeling her boobs are not firm again.

Na you cause gbese for yourself.


She even said you should bring 2m so she brings 6m...e don reach money, you don see say some things are more important than others.

Balancing, this is simple cause and effect.

Because you weren't emotionally intelligent enough to reassure your woman that you love her just the way she is and body work is not necessary, the effect is, she now wants to use small japa savings to look good while suffering in Jand.

It is what it is.

bukatyne:
Why should homosexual couples adopt children?

Ishilove:
They are also banned from adopting children. They are banned from being parents

Cesarr1:
Are you a lion
because I can picture u lion in my bed tonight
Or I'll be like
I was going to offer you a snack but u already are one ...

You grab

pansophist:
Life is so unfair babe

I just googled "miss Nigeria" and it's shocking to find out that you're not the one

bemeruca:
it would be okay if it were a black man saying it. I get you. your problem is not the Shithole, your problem is white people. Racists like you sleep with a white man that is why I find your whole life a joke.

Blue3k:
Yes it is. Reddit has a block button. Seun is lazy about site improvements. He puts in minimal effort and gets paid well. It's not like anyone is going to leave if he doesn't improve website anyway.

Zooposki:
This chatGPT comparison is just too stupid to even bother with. Or is that your own analogy?

Zooposki:
Go read this study and stop the foolishness.

musicwriter:
What you called "Western culture" is actually African. It's adoption by the West is relatively recent.

Women even ruled nations in ancient Africa. Yes, there were women Queens in Africa before you heard of anything like that in Western culture.

Women weren't considered as human beings in Western culture and weren't allowed to participate in anything. You see that in your Bible.....in the new testament. Up to 1920, women weren't allowed to vote in Britain, the US, etc.

Not allowing someone to read your phone messages is a matter of privacy, which African women enjoyed from time immemorial.

Nothing was introduced into this world by white people until recently. It's just a question of them adopting something - like a gay couple and imposing it on others....even when a country like Saudi Arabia and Malaysia had been pro-gay before the West.

wirinet:
Exactly.
I believe what Israel is doing in Gaza and the West Bank can be regarded as low-grade or covert genocide. Of course you don't expect them to indiscriminately start bombing the Palestinians without any excuse or just ship them to gas chambers like the Nazis did in WW2.

They need to start a war in order to have justification for bombing Gaza and West Bank, thereby driving the Palestinians away from the land.

Israel often looks for triggers to prod the Palestinians into violent reactions in order to look for excuses to start bombing apartment buildings, schools, and hospitals. This Israel does by expanding settlements into occupied territories or arresting Palestinians and locking them in Israeli jails.

There is no way Benjamin Nathanyahu will tell the world that he was not aware of the October 7 invasion of Israel by Hamas commandos. MOSSAD that had infiltrated the Iranian security agencies and Hezbollah could not infiltrate the less òrganised Hamas?

wirinet:
I hope you are not tone deaf, as the post above summarise the whole thing.
Isreal and Palestinians have been in a state of war for decades. Conflicts had broken out on a regular bases almost on a yearly basis since the occupation of large swaths of West Bank and Gaza. The Palestinians have been under occupation by isreal who give then no rights whatsoever. They cannot vote, they cannot hold passports, they cannot leave the enclaves provided for them by Israel, nothing can come in and out of West Bank and Gaza without the permission of the Israelis. In fact these places are regarded as the largest open air prisons in the world.
Obviously, you would expect violent reaction from the Palestinians.
One of the paradoxes in the world is that the same people supporting Israel indiscriminately bombing Palestinians homes, hospitals and schools will be the same people that would criticise the Nigerian government if they carry out the same policy in Aba, Umuahia or Enugu, should the government start going after IPOB or Unknown gun men for killing Nigerian soldiers and policemen by bombing homes and hospitals.

IMAliyu2:
It seems you didn't take correction.
A population and birthrates only falls when a genocide has been successfully carried out.

I guess I'll repeat myself, The criteria used to determine a genocide are not based on it being successful. It's based on the intents and actions of the accused party, not their success.

Also another correction this conflict has been ongoing for a while, it didn't start with oct 7
Though Hamas being a group i would say fundamentally is built on genocidal intent towards jews aswell, just made things worse.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nakba
Read to understand who started what.

wirinet:
Lawyers can't exploit "sex instincts" to defend rape same way lawyers can't exploit "hunger instincts" to defend stealing food. Although some societies insist women must cover up from head to toe to avoid rape because they are of the belief that men cannot control their sex instincts.

I never really understood the rational of valuing a fetus more than the woman that is to suffer the pains and consequences of birthing, and then caring and raising the child. Anti abortionists have no stake whatsoever in the child outside primordial religious/moral sentiments. They are just like Muslims preventing others from eating just because they are fasting.

States have no business checking the viability of a fetus much less contemplate carrying out an abortion at any time in the pregnancy. That decision is to be left for the intending parents. women.

have a cousin that had tried for decades to have conceive a child for her husband that had been married for 17 years. When she got pregnant at about 45 years of age, the doctor after scanning informed my cousin that the baby would suffer some sort of deformity and recommended abortion. She vehemently refused and insisted on birthing the child. The baby, a girl was born with slight deformity and autism. She and her husband provided the best medical care for the girl. Today the girl just celebrated her 30 year birthday.
States or governments deciding for a woman or a couple to abort their baby or not is an over reach, to me it's tyranny.

According to the legal definition of a person, the fetus become a person the moment it leaves the womb. Any unaliving then is regarded as murder.

What converted me to a strong pro choice advocate was when I saw a newborn floating on the lagos lagoon beside behind NPA on V/I. The baby was obviously birthed that morning and just thrown into the lagos lagoon. Thar memory traumatised me till date. I would rather the fetus be aborted early in the pregnancy than murder a fully born baby in the most gruesome manner. There are lots of examples of mothers dumping new born I'm dustbins and even soakaway. I believe the baby and mother need not go through these trauma.

Obrigardo:
Had to read this part thanks to budas response and I just shook my head.

Let's be objective. What gives you the right to say Abortion isn't the norm? I'm not attacking you, just asking a plain question. I'll guess your obvious answer would be your Religion.

More religions than you can think have nothing against abortion. Judaism is one. So if you want to be fair, why must you use your Religion to make laws for everyone and for a majority that don't ascribe to your Religion? Let's be honest here bro.

Religion clouds our minds and moves our focus away from our complex reality. Most women don't just decide to have an abortion like they are drinking water. There are lots of complexities involved. I believe those who say they are anti-abortion are afraid to grapple with the harsh reality of life.

budaatum: Just so we all know barbarism still exists.
She threw her one-day-old infant into the gutter
https://www.nairaland.com/8234942/housewife-dump-day-old-baby-gutter#132352199

BadNews:
Woman subjects her 12-year-old stepdaughter to horrific abuse with knife, cutlass and fire for eating food without her permission (Video)


A Woman has been arrested for the alleged horrific torture of her 12-Year-Old stepdaughter, Amarachi Emmanuel, in Nekede, Owerri West Local Government Area of Imo State.

A journalist and activist based in the state, Chidiebube Okeoman, who confirmed the incident in a series of Facebook posts on Tuesday, October 8, 2024, said the woman subjected the minor to abuse for eating food without her permission.

The Victim and her siblings lost their mother before their father married the suspect, said to be a teacher.

The victim said her stepmother allegedly used a knife, a cutlass and other harmful objects to torture her.

She also said that the suspect pushed her into a fire.

According to the journalist, the victim has been admitted to a hospital for immediate medical treatment.

“Just left Umuguma General Hospital in Owerri and I am happy to announce that little Amarachi Emmanuel, 12, whose step mother disfigured for eating food without her permission has been admitted,” he wrote.

"This happened after several hours of delay. Please thank my elder brother, Dr Uche Ewelike who intervened and made sure that the poor girl was given a bed space.

"Thank you also, my brother Ikenga John Mayor Mbubaudele, the Deputy Director, Social welfare, Owerri municipal council who raced down to assist me.

“Before living, I went to a nearby supermarket and got the little girl and her sister all they needed. This girl and her sister are out of school for two years now.”

See Graphic Photos And Reactions Below:

Source: https://www.facebook.com/okeoma.chidiebube/videos/8599904210057365/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

LordReed:
Ah, ok. I thought it was you who said back in Covid19 era that you didn't support the vaccine mandates.

Humans have been performing abortions since the prehistoric age when we only had herbs to aid us so no abortion is not a recent development.

wirinet:
The supposed guests are not yet your own children, you are yet to meet them physically.[b] I might not have engage in coitus out of my free will, my coitus might have been a result of rape, inebriation by alcohol or drugs,

or share raw uncontrollable sex instincts taking control.

Its not every time a woman engage in coitus that she will to get pregnant.

I don't understand. You mean nature is forcing a woman to have sex and then getting pregnant through hormones?

Agreed, but the imposition of millions of unwanted children is detrimental to society as a whole. Its leads to gradual erosion of the fabrics of society. This was why Rome imposed monogamous marriage where both parents are to raise their children upon its empire.

The Unborn Victims of Violence Act of 2004 (Public Law 108-212) is a United States law that recognizes an embryo or fetus in utero as a legal victim if they are injured or killed during the commission of any of over 60 listed federal crimes of violence. The law defines "child in utero" as "a member of the species Homo sapiens, at any stage of development, who is carried in the womb."[1]

LordReed:
BTW didn't you oppose vaccine mandates? Was that not society's autonomy on display?