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ahnie:
Kkjoy.a.k.a kachycouture,honestly you are a slow poke.a very disgusting one at that.please go fix your life n stop stuttering like a child with hot coal in her mouth.

Do you think that am a COWARD like you?you have bn calling me out since morning,but I ignored.

Listen,I dey fearless o,so immuned to incentives and the rest.i am ahnie,i am isoko,and always bold to say whatever I want to say.i have told benny what most of you were scared to say,and it ended there(in my,diary) when benignasweety insulted me,i let it slide.so why wud i waste my precious time to painfully create another moniker to bash benny.

Fucking piece of insecured shit,with messed up personality.you came to my diary,read what I wrote on benignasweety and decided to create anoda Moniker to cause confusion.stinky copycat with hairy chest.

Stupid polyandrist,coward in sheepskin. .

Chai sorry for the womb you came out from, see how you just described urself up there...you are so so classless... please go back to isoko let them weep for the day you where conceived

ahnie:
Katchycouture you are a coward,please go shake your gaddam tambourine elsewhere.look at this battered kangaroo hiding under a new moniker.

Looking at yew with isoko eyes.

God forbid I ever turn to a coward abi na wetin you call am, check the moniker it has been operating long before katchycouture.... all ur family members are battered kangaroo...hide for wat na? look at this fool do you think if you meet with me in person u will be able to talk to me...bia madam e don do u...never never ever u try insult me again....you foolishly called out someone on ur thread with insults in the name of advice, I only used this account in replying you because this is the account that has been following ur god damn life story... bia no let me talk oooo... na u go cry last last..

[quote author=ahnie post=62273389][/quote]What ever that means I dash it to u in 100 folds,elenu yamayama

ahnie:
Are you done talking?because the way you take carry this stale marra for head...ko ye mi rara. .

Yes I'm done, at least I've made u understand that people don't do things the way you have done

ahnie:
Madam mcphee,did I tell her that any marriage z perfect?I only advised her,and went my way.even the benignasweety earlier insulted me in her diary. I let it slide.
Before you throw jabs,go to my diary and reread before jumping into absurd conclusion.

Advising her in public is very petty of you

ahnie:
Benignasweety this z just a piece of my mind:
So tired of reading your sordid tales...haba for jupita's sake.every marriages has its challenges,but yours z too much.

Maybe there z something you did that ur husband knew about and you re scared that once you take a walk ,hs gonna publish it and exposed you.

I remembered your last issues,and how your husband was busy saying nonsense about ur personality and your getting stitched up after every birth.he succeeded in describing how your female Nikita looks like.who does that?

You need to work on your low esteem,you re beautiful,intelligent and better than you think.dont let any body bring you down.

You swore never to go back to your husband again the last time,but with a wave of his anambra preek you fell yakata like konga.com black friday sales and invited him into your Rebecca's court.(oshey)

Face the fact...your husband would never change,no matter how hard you try,even if you like climb the highest pinnacle.he go only pretend to be sober for awhile,then strike again.once an abuser,it takes the grace of medusa to change.imagine him dating ur neighbour in the same compound.and the bullshits.

Continue updating n let people bee dashing you free likes(online sympathy)no help ur self,I would gladly attend you burial proceedings.(that's if the asoebi isnt costly)

People would not help you until you help urself keep decorating your self with,self pity.
You are well lettered,look for alternate means of livelihood and seek for temporary separation.self pity no epp any body.

imagine stressing you ontop starvation...even when me n my husband de fight ,he de make sure say food de dey for house make we for get strength take dig am out.

Pls pardon my venom,I said it outta love.kisses to Zion.

Madam you didn't have to call her out here, u should have adviced her in private or better still look the other way, no marriage is perfect and that u make us believe ur home is full of roses and no thorns doesn't give you the right to bring Benignasweety like this in the open. It is her diary please so just read and pass or read and talk to her in private. This is just cheap publicity

What can I say??
Until you pass through it you won't be able to say for sure why women stay in abusive marriages.
I was a victim for a little bit over 3 yrs, I was beaten up and humiliated all the time, I tried running out of the marriage but my mom won't hear of it, I went to the police but I was sent back home, d police told me it was a family matter. At a point I realised he wld kill my baby if I didn't leave him, the love I had for my son was wat gave me the courage and strength to run away from home. I ran back to my parents empty handed and till today I'm still struggling to make ends meet but I'm happier and feel safer this way.

Nice

Osisie:
Molar? Do u still chew meat?

Infact na 3 teeth I don commot.. Nobody eat meat more than me

Pulling your tooth shldnt be a problem if you go to a well experience qualified dentist.. I've removed 2 teeth and believe me I eat anytin I want 2hrs after extraction..
Extraction is just the only way to end the pain

LaRoyalHighness:
I tried... He doesn't care ... Honestly. Any other idea?

.tht is the only method i use on my son (almost 3yrs)..infact he wants to be taller than my dad so he eats anytin i give him... you have to be patient, my younger sister ate only noodles for 11yrs of her life but she is 16yrs nw and eats everytin...and she grew quiet well..he will eat when he is ready or you can just stick to the golden morn if he takes that

LaRoyalHighness:
Some children no dey hear word... Ask them to eat ... But No.. I wish I could learn.. I want to force feed by son sef. (But you can't do this to a 3 years old) #sad.

convince ur son that eating will make him grow taller than his friend or brother...make it sound as if there is a competition for growing tall, believe me he will eat anytin u give him.....works for me all the time

when i wanted to pay my school fees, i wrapped my 80k in a handkerchief and put in my bra because i knw i wld sleep off once i enter d brt..abeg it is better to loose an empty handbag than handbag full will money

my fabric

the duplicate cloth of Mercy Aigbe was made by me....KATCHYCOUTURE:: visit is in ikorodu or send a pm to me

i buy powder every week because my boy wld always find a way to d powder and bath himself with it

i wish for is continues good health for me and my son....once there is good health other good and sweet tins of life will come my way

ok...will check it out now

I'm Joy... Katchy couture offers a wide range of fashion designing, we also train interested people.... call/whatsapp 07030679838.. we are located in ikorodu Lagos

justdream:
Happy birthday shugs

thanks a lot

i rep october 10

disloman: Shey na only ikorodu get culture ni?Wey b say na everytime dem dey do ORO ni.Some of my colleagues no go come work b that oooo.Won't b surprised employers not employing pple live in ikorodu cos of these rites.make dem dey rent a room 4 100naira.can't live there.

Get yours fact correctly before saying it in public, who told u a room in ikorodu is 100 naira?? There are plenty places in lagos that ikorodu is far far far better than... Wait till the road is completed and see if u won't join the queue to ikorodu

I once left my son with my sister and she slept off leaving the boy awaKe, I entered d house to pick something only to realise that the whole sitting room was flooded, my son sat down and quietly opened 5 bags(not sachet ooo) of pure water. When I stepped in he just said " I drink waaaatttterrrrrr".. I cldnt cry, I just gave him a packer and we started paCking the water into a bucket. He was 1yr and 8 months then

ephee: Read tru ur story and discovered I was also in the same boat as u but in my own case.my hubby made me stay away from my mum and family members which made me isolated and he reported evey misunderstanding to his mum and siblings who supported him. After d last incidence of his strangling me and got rescued by my neigbours Ifinally informed my mum tru d help of my boss.I packed all my stuffs and my baby's stuffs into a hired cab and left finally. My husband neva bothered to look for us coz he belived I wil run bak after a while not until it dawned on him that av left for real. Not even his family called.I am a happy single mum now and I belive God wil send me a helper to take care of my finances.my mum has relly been trying for me and baby.

I love to hear/read about women being very strong, my own issolatted me from other family and friends but he never succeeded in seperating me from my mom, anyway the best is that we became stronger and moved on.. May God be wit us single mothers

cococandy: Happy for you that you came out strong at last.

Thanks.. I had no choice because I have a son I need to bring up well

aisha2: Again an adult should be responsible for herself. Thats what adulthood is about, first its a husband she wants responsible for her next its an NGO they want to take responsibility for them. Grow up already. When the man fails problem when the NGO fails wahala what exactly does she do for herself?

Wait let me use myself as an example, when I meet my husband I was just in my 1st year in d university (unilag dli), I was also working in a cyber cafe, along the line I requested to learn handwork (fashion designing) it took me 3 yrs to master this craft while I got married inbetween, I also had a baby within this period, I had to stay at home to take care of my baby but I had all my sewing equipment which I use to sew from my house, then it all started, the beatings, the injuries and all of tht, infact it got to a point I was chased back to my parents, inlaws came down to lagos with the disguise that they wanted to make peace, and they took everyting I had, my car, my sewing machines, they joined had with husband to give back the apartment to the landlord and they took every single pin tht belonged to me and my baby in that house, ever since then I have been with my family, it is 1 year already and I've moved on and I now have my own fashion place with the help of my parents... Now put an orphan in my shoes or put someone whose family can nt support her or whose family is financially handicapped in my shoes, what choice wld she have that to stick to such useless marriage..

aisha2: Again why should an adult fully functioning woman put herself in a position where she cannot survive on her own?
Why make herself dependent on everyone else but herself?
Forget divorce, what if he dies? She will carry the kids round and start hunting for sympathy abi?

From 21 years or even 18 a smart woman will start developing herself, finding a skill that brings in some income, even if your husband gives you heaven and earth always find something and use your hands.

Well many people make that mistake of being dependent on d husband but sometimes that is what the man wants...but wen the mistake has already been made is it a reason for the woman to die in the hands of a man... Our problems now should be finding a lasting solution to this marital violence... Our police tht is supposed to be the first place to run to will send you back, I know an organisation that claims to Carter for such women, instead of finding a skill or sueing the man in question they send the women to sell pure water on the street