₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,325,110 members, 8,420,403 topics. Date: Thursday, 04 June 2026 at 06:36 PM

Toggle theme

Kkjoy's Posts

Nairaland ForumKkjoy's ProfileKkjoy's Posts

1 2 3 4 (of 4 pages)

FamilyRe: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by kkjoy(f): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2014
aisha2: Is she a child? Do we love her more than she loves herself? Why wait for help? Why wont she help herself first and others meet her halfway?
Why do we make being a woman sound like some handicap? Why let yourself be so helpless somuch that if strangers dont help you will die there?
NO ONE CAN LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF
When a woman leaves her home because of marital violence the first place she goes to are her family members, what of a situation where her family members see her as an extra burden and refuses o take her in, were then does she turn to... Pray never to be in such shoes because it is a terrible experience...many women die in such conditions because they have no other option or no means of survival wen they leave their homes
FamilyRe: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by kkjoy(f): 1:32pm On Jul 26, 2014
Forget all this preaching on violence against women in marriages, nobody is ready to rise and help them, even the police will tell u to go home and settle your problem, when the woman dies or is given a permanent injury they start asking y she didn't seek help... Our MR NIGERIA said he is going to tackle violence against women in marriages but up til today I have nt seen a single woman he helped save... May God help us helpless women
FamilyRe: 10 Ways Babies Are Smarter Than You Thought by kkjoy(f): 8:48am On Jun 29, 2014
Wedon: They will definitely remember songs because I know for a fact that they remember voices they heard in the womb.

From the day my baby was born her daddy's voice was the only thing that could get her to stop crying. Even the day she was born when she could barely open her eyes and wasn't seeing yet, she would always stop crying antime her daddy speak. Baffled me to no end . . Like my voice wasn't good enough for her. undecided
I tot you are a man
FamilyRe: Complicated Nanny Issues; Candid Advise Needed Urgently. by kkjoy(f): 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2014
quit ur job and start a business, tht way u can be wit ur child all day... But una get mind ooo, im very sure i will shed tears d day my son starts school because i will be imagining wat he is going tru, who is beating him or who is cheating him, not to take of a 7 months old baby
FamilyRe: Funny Things You've Ever Done When You Were HIGH by kkjoy(f): 10:41pm On Jan 10, 2014
myself and my bestfrnd went to see a male friend, he mixed calipso and pepsi and offered us, i drank more than everother person, i was already tipsy by d time we left his house, as soon as myself and my frnd dropped from d bus right infront of my house, the road suddenly looked very inviting to sleep on so i lay dow on d road.. My friend was just cry ' joy abeg na, no do me this tin'. When i entered d house finally, my sweet mum was trying to fight me for comming home late and i just told her to park her load and go back to her father's house.. Funny enough she was d one tht still took care of me the next day wen all the vommiting and headache set in
FashionRe: Let's Sew For Fun (**valisimo Fashion School Online Classroom**) by kkjoy(f): 11:20pm On Jan 06, 2014
i made mine for my sister

LiteratureRe: -shadow Of Love- by kkjoy(f): 11:06am On Jan 05, 2014
ride on Dan...
LiteratureRe: Love & Wisdom by kkjoy(f): 5:05pm On Jan 04, 2014
Temitope Daniel: Folawe and Ronke that could recognise them ran backwards, surprised and frightened while Fiyin and Sayo were staring at them. "Hope no wahala?"


Ronke was breathing in an uncontrollable way, so much scared, "so its true that dead people come back here.." She was thinking.



"Its us sister Folawe.". Her brother moved closer.


"Wait there! Don't try to move closer to me!" She shouted.



"No, that's not it. We didn't die." He replied.



"Huh!" She opened her mouth.



"They never died...." Durodola walked inside with his father, Tayo followed them.



They all turned back to see who just talked. "Yeah, really." He added and smiled.



"Folawe..." His father called.



"Dad? Em.." She stammered.



"Everything has its explanation." Durodola took his seat and smiled while his father watched him, "mysterious child."



They all sat down while the four friends were together, looking so afraid.



"It was a sunny afternoon, I was called from his school that he wasn't feeling alright and it was fatal and needed to be attended to as soon as possible. I ran there to pick my son, with the thought of taking him to my hospital for treatment, as a Doctor. I carried him inside the car and entered through the other end while I saw him laughing. I wondered for a while then decided to take off when he told me that nothing was wrong with him, he was in need of me to execute a project for him. I wasn't really surprised because I've been told by my pastor that he's a child that has come to the world to fulfil some purposes. He told me a family was in problem, that I must rescue for I have a reward, I was short of words." The Doctor paused.



"Ride on dad." He uttered.



The Doctor smiled and shook his head. "As I was saying, he described where the operation took place, your parents were almost dead, including your brother, before I got to the place to rescue them from the problem they were in. I met them in a pool of blood and rushed them to my hospital for further treatment, as explained by him. I was terrified and called the pastor to ask if I wasn't pulling the tail of the lion but he assured me that whatever he tells me to do, its real and has rewards. Without hesitation, I continued helping them and saved their lives."



Folawe was relieved. His brother smiled and ran towards her happily. "How come I never saw them since..." She wondered within herself.



"... If you had seen them, your destiny would not have been fulfilled." Duro replied her.



"How did you know what I was thinking?" She rushed to her parents happily, smiling and surprised.



"Its a gift." Duro replied her.



Tayo was short of words and was staring at them, also surprised and happy for Folawe.




"In life, there's destiny. You've never believed there's God, you lack that wisdom that's why God turned your journey this way. If your journey was straight and direct, you wouldn't have believed there's God. God can turn a man's journey around because of WISDOM. You lack wisdom of God, that was why you were entering into one trouble to another, you were in absolute problem that didn't solve until you believe hsi existence.




Another thing is that if everything had been working well for you, you would have continued to put all your trust in man, whereas you've lacked the WISDOM that your trust should always be in God and not man. Until the friend you trusted forsook you, you've never learnt how to trust in God. You passed through everything so that you can learn from them and forge ahead in all aspects.




To Mr Tayo, you destiny wasn't tied with Funto's own.." He paused.



"Huh?" Tayo stared at him.



"You all shouldn't be surprised at me, you are thinking on how I know your various names or what really happened? Its a gift! You got yourself stacked up with a woman not your wife, there's no way you can live together for long, same as Mr Lanre. Before you choose in life, pray for your true LOVE, not the one you really love, the LOVE of God should come to pass, not the love of your heart. Mr Lanre's wife died so that Aunty Folawe's destiny can be fulfilled, same Funto left and got into trouble so that Vivian's destiny would be fulfilled. Some marriages are trembling, they have worn out simply because God isn't in support of it, some aren't destined together but LOVE one another, until you meet you right LOVE, you won't have rest of mind oh!"




"This is beyond my knowledge." Tayo wondered.



"Another thing is about Pemisire. Whoever hates disabled children also don't prosper. Everything has turned out to be joy now because you also love the girl no matter what the situation is, LOVE is the greatest commandment and works in various ways, you must love all things God created, you must not hate God's creations, you must have the WISDOM of putting God first in all things, you must have the WISDOM of calling God whenever you are in problem. God does things that supersedes out ways of thinking. He got you into various troubles, until you got the WISDOM about him you never got to your promise land and until Mr Tayo and Lanre got their right LOVE, they also didn't get to their promise land, everything that happened to you all is based on LOVE & WISDOM." He concluded.



"This boy is wonderful!" Fola's father uttered.



"How have you been dear?" Her mother cried and cuddled her.



"Everything went bad, everything went wrong. Grandma is dead and Oyinkan, it was your friend Olawale that tried to kill you, he almost killed me also, if not for God's mercy." She explained.




"No man can end another man's life, its God that is capable of killing and creating lives. He tried his best but everything became futile and got caught, God just showed you how mighty he is, about the issue of getting pregnant, its a lie, don't mind the Doctor. Whoever aborts a child, to that Doctor the person won't be able to give birth again but its a lie, another thing is that no matter how hard it is, don't kill. You killed an innocent baby coming to the world with your hands, God had plans for how the pregnancy would just terminate, you'll just have miscarriage, but you took law into your hands that was why you suffered a little more."




"Pregnant?" Her mother faced her.



"Mum, all is well." She smiled.



"I even came to drop this cheque of 50 million, as the price given to the winner, not 20 million." Tayo uttered and moved closer to get the cheque.


Sayo, Fiyin and Ronke stood together, all smiling and happy to see how great everything turned out to be for her, truly this is LOVE & WISDOM.




THE END...






FROM WRITER'S DESK...




In all things, always believe there is God. She lacked that WISDOM and got punished for it, always pray for the will of God, not your will. Assuming Lanre did this, he wouldn't have gotten married to a wife who died at a tender age, pray for LOVE every time and WISDOM. God bless you all, really love you!


Dedicated to disabled children and those who do not believe God exist, he does! Know now!


LOVE AND WISDOM.

© 2014



Oyadeyiabimbola@yahoo.com
Dan, you are really good
LiteratureRe: Love & Wisdom by kkjoy(f): 4:20pm On Jan 04, 2014
Temitope Daniel: Folawe and Ronke that could recognise them ran backwards, surprised and frightened while Fiyin and Sayo were staring at them. "Hope no wahala?"


Ronke was breathing in an uncontrollable way, so much scared, "so its true that dead people come back here.." She was thinking.



"Its us sister Folawe.". Her brother moved closer.


"Wait there! Don't try to move closer to me!" She shouted.



"No, that's not it. We didn't die." He replied.



"Huh!" She opened her mouth.



"They never died...." Durodola walked inside with his father, Tayo followed them.



They all turned back to see who just talked. "Yeah, really." He added and smiled.



"Folawe..." His father called.



"Dad? Em.." She stammered.



"Everything has its explanation." Durodola took his seat and smiled while his father watched him, "mysterious child."



They all sat down while the four friends were together, looking so afraid.



"It was a sunny afternoon, I was called from his school that he wasn't feeling alright and it was fatal and needed to be attended to as soon as possible. I ran there to pick my son, with the thought of taking him to my hospital for treatment, as a Doctor. I carried him inside the car and entered through the other end while I saw him laughing. I wondered for a while then decided to take off when he told me that nothing was wrong with him, he was in need of me to execute a project for him. I wasn't really surprised because I've been told by my pastor that he's a child that has come to the world to fulfil some purposes. He told me a family was in problem, that I must rescue for I have a reward, I was short of words." The Doctor paused.



"Ride on dad." He uttered.



The Doctor smiled and shook his head. "As I was saying, he described where the operation took place, your parents were almost dead, including your brother, before I got to the place to rescue them from the problem they were in. I met them in a pool of blood and rushed them to my hospital for further treatment, as explained by him. I was terrified and called the pastor to ask if I wasn't pulling the tail of the lion but he assured me that whatever he tells me to do, its real and has rewards. Without hesitation, I continued helping them and saved their lives."



Folawe was relieved. His brother smiled and ran towards her happily. "How come I never saw them since..." She wondered within herself.



"... If you had seen them, your destiny would not have been fulfilled." Duro replied her.



"How did you know what I was thinking?" She rushed to her parents happily, smiling and surprised.



"Its a gift." Duro replied her.



Tayo was short of words and was staring at them, also surprised and happy for Folawe.




"In life, there's destiny. You've never believed there's God, you lack that wisdom that's why God turned your journey this way. If your journey was straight and direct, you wouldn't have believed there's God. God can turn a man's journey around because of WISDOM. You lack wisdom of God, that was why you were entering into one trouble to another, you were in absolute problem that didn't solve until you believe hsi existence.




Another thing is that if everything had been working well for you, you would have continued to put all your trust in man, whereas you've lacked the WISDOM that your trust should always be in God and not man. Until the friend you trusted forsook you, you've never learnt how to trust in God. You passed through everything so that you can learn from them and forge ahead in all aspects.




To Mr Tayo, you destiny wasn't tied with Funto's own.." He paused.



"Huh?" Tayo stared at him.



"You all shouldn't be surprised at me, you are thinking on how I know your various names or what really happened? Its a gift! You got yourself stacked up with a woman not your wife, there's no way you can live together for long, same as Mr Lanre. Before you choose in life, pray for your true LOVE, not the one you really love, the LOVE of God should come to pass, not the love of your heart. Mr Lanre's wife died so that Aunty Folawe's destiny can be fulfilled, same Funto left and got into trouble so that Vivian's destiny would be fulfilled. Some marriages are trembling, they have worn out simply because God isn't in support of it, some aren't destined together but LOVE one another, until you meet you right LOVE, you won't have rest of mind oh!"




"This is beyond my knowledge." Tayo wondered.



"Another thing is about Pemisire. Whoever hates disabled children also don't prosper. Everything has turned out to be joy now because you also love the girl no matter what the situation is, LOVE is the greatest commandment and works in various ways, you must love all things God created, you must not hate God's creations, you must have the WISDOM of putting God first in all things, you must have the WISDOM of calling God whenever you are in problem. God does things that supersedes out ways of thinking. He got you into various troubles, until you got the WISDOM about him you never got to your promise land and until Mr Tayo and Lanre got their right LOVE, they also didn't get to their promise land, everything that happened to you all is based on LOVE & WISDOM." He concluded.



"This boy is wonderful!" Fola's father uttered.



"How have you been dear?" Her mother cried and cuddled her.



"Everything went bad, everything went wrong. Grandma is dead and Oyinkan, it was your friend Olawale that tried to kill you, he almost killed me also, if not for God's mercy." She explained.




"No man can end another man's life, its God that is capable of killing and creating lives. He tried his best but everything became futile and got caught, God just showed you how mighty he is, about the issue of getting pregnant, its a lie, don't mind the Doctor. Whoever aborts a child, to that Doctor the person won't be able to give birth again but its a lie, another thing is that no matter how hard it is, don't kill. You killed an innocent baby coming to the world with your hands, God had plans for how the pregnancy would just terminate, you'll just have miscarriage, but you took law into your hands that was why you suffered a little more."




"Pregnant?" Her mother faced her.



"Mum, all is well." She smiled.



"I even came to drop this cheque of 50 million, as the price given to the winner, not 20 million." Tayo uttered and moved closer to get the cheque.


Sayo, Fiyin and Ronke stood together, all smiling and happy to see how great everything turned out to be for her, truly this is LOVE & WISDOM.




THE END...






FROM WRITER'S DESK...




In all things, always believe there is God. She lacked that WISDOM and got punished for it, always pray for the will of God, not your will. Assuming Lanre did this, he wouldn't have gotten married to a wife who died at a tender age, pray for LOVE every time and WISDOM. God bless you all, really love you!


Dedicated to disabled children and those who do not believe God exist, he does! Know now!


LOVE AND WISDOM.

© 2014



Oyadeyiabimbola@yahoo.com
FamilyRe: Yet another Nigerian Murders Wife In America ( 9 months pregnant) by kkjoy(f): 6:36pm On Jan 03, 2014
my mother will say.... GO AND BEG YOUR HUSBAND AND RETURN TO YOUR HOME,IT IS A DIFFERENT TIN IF YOU DIE.
CelebritiesRe: JAMES AVERY (uncle Phil From Fresh Prince Of Belair) Is Dead @ 65 by kkjoy(f): 11:27pm On Jan 01, 2014
OMG
LiteratureRe: Love & Wisdom by kkjoy(f): 11:13am On Jan 01, 2014
OMG OMG Oooooo my God!!! mr chucks is lanre's father.......oooooooo nooo
LiteratureRe: Love & Wisdom by kkjoy(f): 7:42pm On Dec 31, 2013
Temitope Daniel: Now, this is d question:::: who kidnapped PEMISIRE?



200 AIRTIME OF ANY TYPE U WANT.




B4 I UPDATE BY I BREAK D SUSPENSE BY 12 AM, 1ST OF JANUARY, 2014....


p
HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE!
michael kidnaped her
FashionRe: Let's Sew For Fun (**valisimo Fashion School Online Classroom**) by kkjoy(f): 10:16am On Dec 30, 2013
im wit u all d way
RomanceRe: The Worst Action Your Partner Took After A Breakup? by kkjoy(f): 5:33pm On Dec 28, 2013
mine wasnt just a relationship, it was marriage and after seperation, i began to see my face on naked bodies and opened pussy flying all over d internet....
EducationRe: Professor Kunle Lawal Dies by kkjoy(f): 11:21pm On Dec 25, 2013
RIP
PoliticsRe: Former Lagos State Commissioner Of Education Dies by kkjoy(f): 11:15pm On Dec 25, 2013
RIP
HealthRe: Photographer Captures Baby Fresh From Its Mother's Womb by kkjoy(f): 10:15pm On Dec 25, 2013
dasparrow: @Bolded

And what of those mothers who suffered to carry their baby 9 months in the womb, gave birth to it and threw it in the dumpster? Truth is, most babies begin to look really cute as they grow older. The newborns with their wrinkled skin due to being in a sack of water for 9 months don't look that cute but become cuter as time goes by.
not all babies come out wrinkled ooooo. mine was smooth all over nd bbbbeeeaaaaauuuutttttiiiiiiffffffuuuuuullllll
HealthRe: Photographer Captures Baby Fresh From Its Mother's Womb by kkjoy(f): 12:34am On Dec 25, 2013
nekaa: you know I never get what people see when they call days old babies cute or beautiful, they are usually not so pleasing to the eye.
mine was very cute as soon as he was brought out from my tommy..... oh my God! he was very pink nd beautiful
FamilyRe: My Nipples Are Sore From Breast Feeding by kkjoy(f): 11:45pm On Dec 24, 2013
jeffizy: Eeya,
chissom's bossoms hurt.
Pele.


I think you will just need to get used to it.
I heard from wifey it gets worse when baby starts growing teeth.

Sorry sis, babies cannot be told how and what to do at that stage.
no it doesnt get worse wen they start having teeth, d sore actually disappers after a while, only tht they start biting d nipples wen they start having teeths, i never got any sore from biting only from d initial sucking, nd my mum says d sore is normal
FamilyRe: Man Training Another Man`s Children. by kkjoy(f): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2013
do u mean d woman actually came out alive to tell d story??
FamilyRe: My Nipples Are Sore From Breast Feeding by kkjoy(f): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2013
u have to near d pain oooo. i dont tink any mother had it easy, as for me i was practically crying during the first few months
FamilyRe: Lesson On Child Training And Character Development by kkjoy(f): 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2013
nice one........ i will flog out every attitude of his father from my son
EntertainmentRe: Don Jazzy's Father To Play Lead Actor In Tunde Kelani's Movie by kkjoy(f): 6:58am On Dec 22, 2013
hmmmmm
FashionRe: Sewing Machine Problem. Let Discuss. by kkjoy(f): 6:54pm On Dec 18, 2013
@Ehonda, u remember u came to assemble my weaving machine in my house @sabo area of ikorodu.. I hope u remember me.... The weaving machine is begining to give problems, the thread passing tru the needle keep cutting and i dont knw wat to do as i have changed needles several times... Wat can i do b4 calling u to come over
Jokes EtcRe: Olodo Facebook Status by kkjoy(f): 11:54pm On Dec 15, 2013
the rejected stone shall be the corner kick
LiteratureRe: The Diary by kkjoy(f): 1:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
Slickest: sadMy views and posts are not encouraging sad cry
haaaaaa, it is very very scary, i dare not read ur post at nite.. But u are a very good writer, keep it up. Im so so scared
CelebritiesRe: GEJ Meets And Thanks Young Organiser Of Africa's Largest Fashion Show by kkjoy(f): 10:25pm On Dec 06, 2013
i must be there
HealthRe: Why The Fear Of Caesarean Section By Nigerian Women? by kkjoy(f): 9:06pm On Dec 06, 2013
satellitedaisy: I ve had one normal delivery and two C/S and I still prefer normal delivery to C/S.

With normal delivery their is pain but its instantaneous, it is over once the baby is out but the pains of C/s last for months. Even after 4months, there are still some things I can't do with ease + that your tommy will take like forever to go down.

Secondly, fear of the unknown. Anything that partains to operation in this part of the world is fearful because we don't trust our medical experts. Anything can happen, like the doc being high on weeds grin grin

Thirdly, it is only possessed women(Ogbanje) that cannot deliver through the normal way. Lol grin grin grin
i had a C-section and the pain lasted only 2 weeks, after 4 days of the CS i drove myself home in my manual car, by 5 weeks i went back to school with my baby
Car TalkRe: Why I Hate "Danfo" Buses! by kkjoy(f): 7:06pm On Dec 04, 2013
when you are well dressed for an occassion especially wearing white, and a pepper seller from mile 12 sits beside u wit her basket full of pepper and tomatoe
RomanceRe: PHOTO: The Okunniyi Twin Sisters Wed The Okonweze Twin Brothers by kkjoy(f): 6:17pm On Dec 04, 2013
wonderful

1 2 3 4 (of 4 pages)