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Its funny but women are more faithful in long distance relationship

I feel I need to share this – it wouldn’t be right to stay silent.
I started getting pimples at age 9. For me, the cause was mostly food intolerance — especially gluten. The real trigger was food my body couldn’t handle.

Once I stopped eating semo, rice, sugary things like Coke and Fanta, milk, and alcohol, my pimples cleared up almost immediately.

Meanwhile, before I discovered the food thing.... Some years back, I had the opportunity to travel to India. While there, I visited a hospital and was prescribed Fluconazole and Isotretinoin. The doctors warned me not to get any one pregnant until one year after the last dose.... because the drug could affect unborn children through sperm.

I took the meds for two weeks, and my pimples started disappearing from day 1 of the medication . I didn't use it for the next four months before I repeated the cycle a few times but eventually stopped. the drug was too strong, and I wasn’t sure about long-term effects meanwhile the pimple will only disappear for about 4 to 6 months while i have to repeat the med.

In the end, changing my diet was what truly worked.
The medication helped, but it’s hard to find in Nigeria — only available in very advanced pharmacies.

I hope my experience helps someone.

upson89:
Please, I’m really tired.

These pimples just won’t let me rest. I’ve tried different soaps, cleansers, and creams – some expensive, some cheap – and still, no major difference. One will go, and before I even smile small, three more will show face. 😩

I’ve cut down on oily food, tried drinking more water, even stopped using certain products… but nothing seems to be working long-term.

Is it stress? Hormones? Witchcraft? I don’t even know again. 😭

Please, if you’ve struggled with bad acne and actually found something that worked, kindly share. I don’t mind natural or over-the-counter options, I just need honest advice.

Let’s help each other abeg. What’s your skincare routine like? What finally worked for you?

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brain54:
I don't understand some of the issues you raised...

You want her data to never get exhausted?

Only God knows how some men end up with these kinds of women. But honestly, why wait until things have completely fallen apart before you start thinking of an exit strategy? Marriage is not a life sentence, and it is not by force. Nigeria did not send you to exile so if it comes to this, you can return home and rebuild your life with dignity instead of waiting till one woman put you into trouble and get deported

When a woman no longer loves you, it shows. Depriving you of Intimacy is one of the oblivious signs and no matter how much you try to manage or salvage the situation, it’s neither wise nor safe to remain where you're not valued. Love isn’t something you can force; it’s like a reflex, natural, effortless, and undeniable. And when it fades, as painful as it is, you can’t really blame anyone. The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, that means letting go.

So my brother I pray that God continues to direct your steps

I am not a fan of Tinubu's presidency, he took us back 100 years, inflated the budget, and increased fuel prices with nothing tangible to show for it.

However, I will not be among those who refuse to acknowledge the good works Tinubu did in Lagos when he was governor. I was old enough to experience it, and trust me, it was massive. Even my secondary school, Babs Fafunwa Millennium Secondary School, Ojodu Berger, was built by Tinubu about 23 years ago. Go and verify the structure of the school today (search it on Google); it looks like it was built just last year. Some modern buildings can’t even compete with it after 23 years, the evidence is there, and He built structures like that across Lagos.

He did a lot as governor of Lagos State, including bringing in a credible successor like Fashola, that in itself, is a mark of good leadership.

But his presidency? That’s a minus zero.

Ofunaofu:
When we tell them to show one school wey their D-lord, certificate forger, identity thief wey talk say one 13-year-old boy be him schoolmate for university in 1979 built from scratch without even calling anybody name, na so dem go begin vex

Dont worry our paradise is here not in heaven, soon we won't have to lift a finger , just eat and sleep because all works can be done by A.I then we would just have good land for farming.

MosakuAW:
Hmmm! Very soon a lot of work will be obsolete.

We are happy now, thinking we are progressing every year with tech. Yes, we are progressing but at what cost?

I am not against technology advancement but at what cost. Driver's jobs, Ehailing job and others will no longer be available in the near future. Africans will suffer the more. May God help Nigeria.

if he has a precondition , even if he takes one spoon of sex enhancement, na die

2special:
No be Action Bitters be that, what some guys they take 3 or more at once

If you are a completely straight man , i mean kaka straight , I mean a perfect 180 degrees straight line kind of man, then you can't sit down to watch Telemundu. Why are you ?

see how the western world has brain washed you, can you type 1 sentence of your native language?

Lordbinsmar:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

cho cho cho, must they review their tack ticks!!! this US self

In the past, phones were not automatic. People had to talk to an operator who connect their call by hand. Later, machines replaced this system, and people could dial directly. There was panic that jobs will be replaced by machine but eventually there were more jobs in the telecommunication fields but different from operators connecting calls. Now there are Network Architect, Wireless Communication Engineer, Satellite Communication Engineer etc

The same thing happened before, technology changed how we work, but it also created more jobs. That’s why I don’t think A.I. will steal all our jobs. Over time, it will help create new ones.

I would have advised you to scrab the idea of going to school but it will always hunt you so i suggest you go and satisfy your conscience, but it isn't really worth it trust me. Give yourself more time , maybe plan for 2026, but try to work harder and try to combine online presence with your building material business so that you can do business from any location and when you finally gain admission, you will be able to work remotely , sell building materials online and get people to deliver it to your client while you are schooling. If you try to grow an online presence starting from today, before the next two years you would have had enough customers that purchases building materials from you and that will be able to sustain your education.

Secondly , you need to write another waec so as to reduce your age because even if you gain admission right now , you might not be able to serve if you didn't finish school at the age of 30. You need to be very very careful , you can turn your inability to go to school early to blessing if you manage this well. Having street OT is a thing your friends won't learn in school and you already have it. That is the most important thing you need to run this town so you need to find a way to leverage on it , your story is not very far from mine, my father died when i was 14, my mother is uneducated and my father's family don't even care. The difference between my store and yours is that I was able to build a steady income at young age then later sent myself to school. But i wish i didn't even go to school because i would have been better off today. My business suffered while i was in school and if i had prioritized the business over school back then, by now dangote would have become my gate man.

I will also suggest that you call those your four friends to a meeting or conference call, explain your story to them. You didn't kill anybody so you shouldn't be hiding from your reality. They went to school because someone paid for it and you've got nobody so your story and their story is not the same. Call them and tell them your plan for 2026, they may even become your best support system.

I wish you best of luck .

I used to say this thing you just said but believe me, bad things can happen to anybody no matter how much you plan; I use to abuse people that allows fuel to finish in their car before refilling until it happened to me. You can plan all you want, and it gets to delivery period all the money you planed and saved for has finished before delivery. Abi no be this country that inflation is everywhere.

Except you have over 10m kept in one account, almost every man would want to exercise their options before paying over millions or above 700k for CS

delpee:
That's why one must plan well before trying for a baby. No one ever knows how the delivery process will turn out.

It's like you didn't watch the video , the man has health issue

richie240:
If he's still mentally alert, why not??
Donald trum is almost 80 years.

If na africa now, den go dey drag am!.



Here we go.
Oga na only 7 years e take senior trump o.
Should we also say ''americans are not serious"??

Sometimes the major problem is not that the husband doesn't want CS , but the fee is usually way higher than normal delivery

Its had to believe all these stories but if this is true , people dey try o , 500k for puna ... omo !!!

This one na lamba , just to calm us down , he won't do it. State police is a threat to these people

I wish she could decide to run. We seriously need a redemption in this country and none of these politicians can give us what we need.

ofcourse there's money in food business, if you find a good location and your food is good. An average plate of swallow is 1,500 naira with two meat. No matter how high the inflation is , you will atleast make 500 naira per plate , if you sell to 40 people per day , that's already 20k

Love800:
Is there money in dat?

A sincere question pls. Thank you.

Start selling cooked rice or swallow that's enough to do that business . Do it on an empty space

binary123:
With 500.000 I don't care the nature of the business, provided I can make 20.000 daily profit from it, with my capital still intact.any such business ideas please share.

All ideas are welcome.

If Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala decides to run for president in the 2027 election, it could be a big chance for the Southeast to finally lead Nigeria. A strong leader like her could help bring real change and might even defeat President Tinubu.

If she runs with someone like Aminu Tambuwal or another well-known and respected northern politician as her running mate, it would send a strong message of unity. Many Nigerians would trust such a team and believe in their plans for the country.

For the PDP or Labour Party to win in 2027, they need a candidate who is known across Nigeria, trusted by the people, and able to unite everyone. Dr. Okonjo-Iweala has those qualities and could help lead Nigeria in a better direction.

In your opinion, who do you think could really stand a strong chance against Tinubu in 2027?

Its not easy to set boundaries when you are broke, Okay if she says she's trying to get you a job by talking to her ex , what would you do, my ex who is married once called me to help her access loan from my bank. The husband knows about it but there was little he could do because he was stack broke and needed help at that time.

There are alot of shit you won't have choice than to swallow your pride and take , when you don't have money believe me. Pride and being broke doesn't go together it will just make you stagnant for a long time.

AllBlack:
Big lie.
If you can't set boundaries when you are broke then just have it in mind that money is just an excuse to feel masculine.

Why putting a private conversation online. All of you embraced the achalugo movie, how is this different

You or your friend can't do anything because you don't even have a job currently. It's easier to set boundaries when you have money.

Its very difficult to understand Arabs , Life is nothing to them , they knew what will become of them , you are fighting a country with iron dome , plastic dome you no get. Yet you went ahead with the war

My brother some men are bad , lets be since and some women can be very unfortunate so the best thing to do is to leave

eniorisha:
Sex , children, companionship, partnership etc. But overall with this her pending issue about her previous marriage, in all these & more, I can only rate her 25%

Since they don't see anything need for a proper divorce. Then tell them you don't want a proper marriage yet. You guys should live separately while you are verbally married but without any formal marriage or even family gathering.

Firstly, ask yourself what matters the most to you in marriage between 1. Sex 2. Children 3. Companionship.

Obviously you won't enjoy the first one because whenever a woman tells you her ex didn't have sex with her frequently in her last relationship, believe me it is because she's not good on bed and women can hide that shit. When I mean being good on bed, it doesn't mean the sex style, mostly it has to do with their libido and Virgina dryness. You will definitely experience what her ex-husband experienced.

Also, if having children is very important to you , then I will advise that you take this divorce thing to your own advantage which is by insisting on pregnancy before any formality. You guys should continue living separately while attempting to get pregnant. And once she's pregnant insist that the pregnancy must pass the second trimester before any formality or before she can formally move in as husband and wife.

If sex and children are not your problem and all you want is companionship. Then Go ahead with marrying her without any proper divorce paper, you guys can start the divorce paperwork while you are living together. It will also be better you start the paperwork before she moves in, just start the process or file for it at least , because apparently she will be too reluctant to make the move once she get comfortable in your house. And there might still be somethings they are not telling you, It's not so expensive to do divorce if the separation was mutual.

If all the odds did not favor you, leave the relationship asap, don't marry someone out of pity , if you have any doubt in your mind don't do it. There are too many single ladies out there , she will only cry for few months and move on, but if you proceed and there's an issue during your journey , you will cry forever.

You mean 20k student loan? and 77k when rent is now 500k for single room self contain and 5km transport is now 1k... all of you will soon loss your PR jobs

Ijoba85:
You are really penguin, oya go and make Tinubu lose Abuja. You think 2023 would be like 2027, dey play. Jagaban has touched every geopolitical zone. Corp members are collecting 77k , you can go to the university on loan from FG so you don't say you have nobody to send you to school over school fees. You guys should forget 2027, Tinubu has won already. Prepare for 2031

gathering of criminals, when the oil dries off , i wonder what will be left for your guys to embezzle

Henseforth i won't be taking this sensi people serious, PH should come right after lagos

IkeOnyia:
Sokoto ahead of PH The person who compiled the list must have been high on colos

That's still alot of money even for white people

Judolisco:
jst convert d money to dollars.... It's less than 250,000 dollars.... Osimhen makes more than that in a month.... Na our money Don spoil bro...