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TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena:
I dey go rewatch Squid Game like this.

RomanceRe: I Need A Very Intelligent Person To Explain This Please? Winner wins 10k cash. by Kolena: 12:54pm On Jul 27, 2022
Badboibipo:
You are the one person that sincerely understood my topic and my experiences. Now I know I’m not a mad person. God bless you G.
You're welcome Bro.
RomanceRe: I Need A Very Intelligent Person To Explain This Please? Winner wins 10k cash. by Kolena: 9:48pm On Jul 26, 2022
Note: I DON'T NEED YOUR MONEY

I once sent you a message via email, when you created a topic on an issue that was bothering you. I know you own the deactivated account- prettydevil, because your posts and topics are very similar to his. I'm not bragging when I say I'm very good looking. This, I've been told by numerous individuals. Yesterday, I wore a yellow T-shirt on blue jeans to work, and I'm not exaggerating when I say I don't think I've been stared at with admiration in the last 10 years like I was yesterday. (I was totally unconscious of my looks). Today, I decided to try a green top on black stripped jean, alongside a black sneakers. Lo and behold, I was totally snubbed by every human that walked past me. This happened when I was going to work in the morning. (I was totally conscious of my looks). I had a very hectic day at work today, which led to me being totally fagged out. While going home, I received a lot of stares just like yesterday. I've asked a very good friend of mine this question and he told me that the main reason why people snub you when you're at your best is this: INTIMIDATION. I don't need to explain what I mean by this, cos it's self explanatory. Like I said earlier, It also occurs when you're totally self-conscious of your looks. I experience this sequence frequently, and sincerely, It doesn't bother me anymore. I'm not living my life for anyone. My hustle is first, and every other thing is secondary.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 12:01pm On Jul 21, 2022
It pains me when I see guys behaving foolishly when around women. Like why? Do their brains not tell them that they are not behaving rationally?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 11:52am On Jul 21, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
Bruh I tried bringing some comments here but I could only go so far before running out, that thread is a potential trigger that could push niggas back to blackpill grin , if you know you’re not sufficiently medicated on your pills here, avoid that thread.
I just checked it now. She said "She loves you though; that's your daughter". Is that supposed to make the guy sweep the fact that she cheated on him under the rug? Imagine what that lady commented (@ the last picture). Some women lack shame and common sense. Imagine the first two comments; some guys are very irritating. Spits!

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 3:36pm On Jul 19, 2022
LionelEmmanuel:
The rational male: the players handbook, is out. It's the latest in the series. I just downloaded it.
Bro, can you send it via email?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 2:06pm On Jul 19, 2022
dhiqson:
Make it make sense to me bro..
A nigga said the only thing that matters to him is wat put bread on his table
And you're saying he should care about what others think about him?? In your subsequent paragraph you said "moderate redpill" grin
You're actually not the one ready for truth.... The only thing that mAtters in my life presently is,.... And what puts food on my table
You disrespecting or not liking me as long as it doesn't affect what I'll eat this night? I couldn't care. Less
Bro, I'm just seeing your post. He's trying to tell me to live my life to please people. SMH
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 8:46am On Jul 19, 2022
tosaino95:
in one words Dem women in man form be that grin
I dey tell you grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 6:43am On Jul 19, 2022
Uglybwoi:
Thought I was the only one. Matured women make advances, married women have the 'i want you' look written all over their face. I don't know if it's just me giving the wrong vibes or aura or something
Lol, AWALT...
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 10:41pm On Jul 18, 2022
Junnior:
100%

I had a neighbor that was beefing me simply because I refused to relate with her like the other guys in our lodge.

She would occasionally knock my door and ask to know what I am cooking. I would not entertain her. Later on, she began holding a grudge. grin...

It's funny how even the unattractive ones want the attention of and access to every guy around them. grin
Yours is better. Two married women on my street, who are old enough to give birth to me have tabled my matter. Women can't/don't hide their hatred. Being rejected/snubbed literally kills them; this is one thing I have noticed. I've also noticed that I attract more of mature women than young girls recently, and I really don't like it.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 7:20pm On Jul 18, 2022
tosaino95:
is like we are the same grin.
in my street i don't talk to any girl even the one i used to talk to before i don't talk to her again. And the hatred no be here some even say i have pride and i don't care, because i talk to housewives and elder women maybe that make them despise me like i bellitle them and yes i do because am ahead of their game imagine one of these girls telling an elder bro that he should give her money to do hair pesin wey no dey fvck you she no fine sef and we're in the same compound.

Those girls ehn grin if pesin no wise with them
Na grave or sufferness you go wise when dem don milk pésin finish.

Lastly WFT is wrong with street guys why are they that way.
Lol, they just can't handle rejection. Some guys piss me off more than women.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 9:52pm On Jul 15, 2022
ashewoboy:
Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slaverycheesy.
Lol, I just noticed that you follow only female monickers. grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 9:33pm On Jul 15, 2022
OfficialDJ:
you're delusional...
Alright
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 9:31pm On Jul 15, 2022
Calibrator:
There is a reason why it is said that "no man is an island"



Your reputation matters... Moderation in applying redpill tenets is advised at all times especially in a closely knitted society like ours where everybody's nose is in your business.


Receiving negative vibes means that something is fundamentally wrong with your approach to life..... Redpill ought to make you respected not disdained.




Shalom!
Lol, I walk to my workplace everyday whilst minding my business and I'm a very quiet person who hates unnecessary associations and conversations. What's wrong with my approach to life? You need to understand that some humans are very toxic (guys included). Ubunja, CaveAdullam, Martinez39s. Please, I need your input on this.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 8:48pm On Jul 15, 2022
tosaino95:
I can relate bro grin
I've conditioned my brain to not give a f*ck about what people say or think about me. I receive negative vibes from some ladies and guys on the street leading from my house to my workplace. Their reasons are best known to them. Some humans be hating on you for no reason. While going to work today, a fair lady passed by me and sighed. Why? Cos I didn't look at her. Lol...
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 2:37pm On Jul 15, 2022
Females just can't handle rejection. They can hate on you for not noticing them; some can go as far as smearing your reputation when you don't even know them. This applies to all women (both young and elderly).
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 9:33am On Jul 07, 2022
Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said alot hardcore things in this thread, and I totally agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much smart guy.

My problem with female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys alot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're high quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes female shit test, the solution to the problem is actually the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Wierd, right?

Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teachers test? First off, you view your teacher as higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be purnished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allow you have access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low quality guy, and then she'll not allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

Mtcheew...To be frank, there are lots things that's wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

Think of it, if you see of yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't really give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.


Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different form:
* it can come in form of her throw confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problem, and they often feel they are above men.



When a girl allow you sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've pass her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favour and non-financial favour, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favour for her.

Crazy as it sound, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the test like a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then then you later realize she's has giving you HIV or gonorrhea.

My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't really mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuse to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not an high quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving a good advice...because passing a woman's shit test actually shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are smart guy.


Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she want to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.

The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or act like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls from who act like entitled bitch. I am totally harsh when it comes to this. Infact I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl start saying nonsense or start misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid sentence talking. I don’t give a shit wether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that do not value me.

The funny things is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they be like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....."what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior, and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating actually feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guy hosted a little get together... so we were just chilling and have fun. They were couple of ladies around. I started interacting a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriend who was also present with us.

I and this girl conversation was actually flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for guy that'll buy her Brazilian wig; basically she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid sentence. I didn't even looked back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Through out the the rest of the get together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homie, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out on shopping...I didn't really mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me actually increase more after that incidence. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was walking away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.
On point!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 10:00pm On Jul 02, 2022
ubunja:
alright.
I've sent it. Looking forward to your reply.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kolena: 7:36pm On Jul 02, 2022
Ubunja, I'll like to ask you some questions. Can I send a mail?
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena: 9:52am On Jul 02, 2022
Baddestguyp:
by far the best superhero/ comicbook series I've seen

Only Invincible comes close
Ok, thanks
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena: 9:52am On Jul 02, 2022
DieRich5:
1000% worth it
Alright
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena: 8:34pm On Jul 01, 2022
DieRich5:
cheesy cheesy u smart bro

Dat guy don already cast the most important info in the boys ND na just one week remaining, bro u fit drop am, I give up cry
I'm thinking of downloading this series tonight. Is it worth it?
TV/MoviesRe: Netflix Seeks Recruits For Real-life ‘squid Game by Kolena: 3:51pm On Jun 16, 2022
Here's the link for application: https://www.squidgamecasting.com/
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Kolena: 9:01pm On Jun 15, 2022
Harry Styles 'As It Was' on replay since morning.
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena: 8:04pm On Jun 15, 2022
Guy you wicked o.. You dey download 2160p video quality grin grin grin grin grin grin That's like 4k quality. Na wifi?
nani667:
⬇️
RomanceRe: 12 June - Happy Birthday Ubunja by Kolena: 3:47am On Jun 12, 2022
ubunja:
it's that time again,, Happy birthday to me myself and I. Wish myself many more. wink
Happy Birthday Bro! I must say I've learnt a lot from you these past few years. Everything would be better if more guys were like you.
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Kolena: 4:42am On Jun 11, 2022
DandeNumeruno:
Michael Jackson was a black man who had a skin condition called Vitiligo. People assumed that he bleached his skin, but in reality, his skin lightened over time because his immune system killed his melanocytes (cells that produce skin pigment). He went public with the news in an Oprah interview and admitted to having plastic surgery done to aid the condition.

So basically, his physically transition from black to white wasn't voluntary, it was completely out of his control. It'd be a travesty if someone other than a black man portrays him in a biopic.
DandeNumeruno:
Not really. Michael Jackson was a black man who had Vitiligo. There is no question about whether he was black or white because he was clearly black. Casting anyone other than a black man to play him would be as ridiculous as casting a black man to play Jack Chan in a biopic.
Certain factors will need to be taken into consideration when producing this film. For example, I'm wondering how his skin and hair change will be portrayed. I just hope it goes well, because MJ is almost like an historical figure.
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Kolena:
blingxx:
I wonder who will play mike .. either a black or white man , this will cause alot of issue on the internet tbh mj's life is confusing
My thought exactly... The director will also have to consult with his family, because they will have the final say on the production of the film. This will be one very tough production.
TV/MoviesRe: Which of these TV Show Scenes Broke You? by Kolena: 10:02pm On Jun 10, 2022
ghettowriter:
I shed tears when Tokyo died.


The scenes that lead up to her death where some of the greatests i've seen in a while.

Same as that kid killed by mahone in prison break. Plus, when Chrisbrown was shot in Stomp the yard
You mean David Apolskis?
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Kolena: 9:54pm On Jun 10, 2022
Karleb:
Anything Michael Jackson touches is gold.
This film will do well globally. I'm sure of this.
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Kolena: 9:44pm On Jun 10, 2022
Lemme hear say this film no blow pass Bohemian Rhapsody

TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Kolena: 9:06pm On May 31, 2022
Chibudollar:
wait I am confused, you people are deliberately downloading reality TV shows to watch on your phone?
Lol, a co-worker of mine sent it. Why are you surprised?

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