Ambode ma man.
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The only afonja with a difference.

Hs

Amen.



Wait, I didn't even read the post sef.

NairalandDSS:
There is always an amount of responsibility and obligation that drives you to think that you are no more independent and this raises several relationship problems including insecurity. While being in a relationship, it is important that you retain your individuality in your own way. It must never occur to you that now living life without your partner is impossible or difficult.

Here are 5 ways to be independent in a relationship.

1. Give him space – It is critical that you give him abundant space to be on his own. It is something every man needs and something he will love you for. Do not nag him continuously and if he has said “no” for something, let him be. If he does not like to accompany you for some party, do not pester him and go alone. You will earn respect in his eyes and this in turn will strengthen your relationship.

2. Make your own money – You must be financially independent. For the purpose of household expenses, it is fine to live on the expenses made by your partner but never become wholly dependent on him for cash. You should always have a source of income that will keep supplying you with a certain amount of money on a regular basis which will not let you slip into financial dependency, which will not let you be independent.

3. Never check up – This is a habit you must discard if you have at once. Never ever call up your partner and ask him where he is or what is taking him so long. Do not send text messages saying: “Why haven’t you called back?” because he might be enjoying a nice chat with old friends and answering your ridiculous query might turn him off. When you let him be, it shows how much you trust him and the same will be reciprocated when you will need to be on your own.

4. Spend some time alone – Learn to spend time alone. Think of the time when you had not met your partner. There were ways in which you kept yourself busy or spent your free time. Go back and do those things again and do not always stick your partner every time. You will discover that there is plenty of stuff you would want to do without your boyfriend/husband. Also, encourage your partner to do his own thing.

5. Trust him – Last but the not the least, you have to trust your partner. The very fact that you trust him and let him be will give enough encouragement to both of you to be independent in the relationship. Do not become so needy that you cannot stay for more than 5 minutes without talking to him and you constantly need to check up where he is or what he is up to. Trust him and you will see how healthy your relationship will become.

http://www.jeloser.info/2016/12/how-to-be-independent-in-relationship.html

MYND44 LALASTICLALA

Ok

ruemujerome:
Who e epp?

Hmmmm, I wish it was a real gun and his target is that kunu-sipping dullard in aso rock.

Gf

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Tell me something

Which connection?

Is it NEPA connection or network connection?

fistonati:
That is the sign of a government that has human feeling for its populace.
While some states {especially southwest} are owing massively and dishing out excuses, a governor is paying as at when due.

BEFORE YOU QUOTE ME WRONGLY, am from oyo state {southwest}
God Bless that state.

Afonja, we see you

Chai, Buhari, even corp members too?

Ok

Ok, we yaf hear.

Just that I don't know who to throw jabs at, you or d mod (I feel like calling d mod a mumu but I no wan chop ban again).

Finally, the kain thunder wey go fire the mod wey ban me for what I don't even know, believe me na 4000 kilowatts of energy e go possess.

If na lie ask Fashola aka the rocket scientist.

And as for all the threads that I missed out in commenting on......

bantudra:
any nigerian that believes this rubbish is an black-assshole!..

i dare anyone to believe this rubbish and accuse our warriors,that are dying day and night for us to have a bit peace of mind to try it!!!...

loyalty only to nigeria and biafra...sai!!!...

**** please indicate the part in the post where our warriors were mentioned.

But if it has something to do with blaming GEJ you'll subscribe to it right?

Buhari why?

Proudly NCAN

We'll soon hear DSS raiding pastor's homes

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Buhari

25ahmad:
I take primary 5 for my primay school. they will came late, slow in writting and responding to what i am teaching them, but fast in making noise because they are aboue one hundred i.e two register. my problem is they always take me backward due to

I couldn't help but notice the bolded, in short, your entire composition.

Is this what you teach them?

Dyt:


Dyt came from Idayat

Idayatu, so this is where you spend you whole day and money?

Your papa must hear this

Mumu, that is not your glory.

And point of correction, the so-called prophets of doom actually meant that Nigeria will be in trouble starting from 2015 and that


Is YOUR glory.

Ok.

Rapsino:

that word RANGED was a mistake. also am not political... I hate politics.. so am not APC not PDP.. am not sure I will ever vote. that's me bro

You sabi vex o!

Person no dey use you get likes

Rapsino:
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...you can be the change PMB is preaching about. keep doing good.

This is where you spoilt the whole story

And the part where you said the phone ranged explains why you're a PMB advocate aka zombie

Buhari why?
But wait, did the story say beautiful?

mynaijainfo:
[size=18pt]Farooq Kperogi Denies Accusing Buhari on "Ear Infection" Trip, Blames Vanguard[/size]


"I didn't make up the allegation that Buhari spent 6 million pounds to treat his ear infection. It's been around since June. It was even reported in the Vanguard of June 9.

The presidency must be aware of this allegation. Why haven't they denied it and set the records straight? Well, it's probably because they didn't or don't want to lend wings to an embarrassing revelation. If they were never aware of this allegation until I brought it up in my column and status update, then they are more clueless than I thought.




SOURCE: http://mynaijainfo.com/2016/09/farooq-kperogi-denies-accusing-buhari-ear-infection-trip/

Ok, this is the part that interests me

engrshakespeare:

So u had to quote d whole thing to say this, who ur vex help

Thank God u got d message

sharpden:
FG Have Commence New Process To Rescue Chibok Girls - Lai Mohammed



THE Federal Government has stated that it has commenced a new process aimed at rescuing Chibok Girls, Information Minister, Alhaji Lai Mohammed at a press conference today in Abuja announced the new move.
Mohammed said past efforts to bring back the girls were all made impossible due to infighting among the Boko Haram members, as well middle men who were involved in the process just for financial gains.
Speaking further Lai Mohammed also said that fresh demands by the group in the middle of swaping stalled the process, however according to the Minister he said the Federal Government has commenced new moves for the rescuing of the girls.
Read The Full Statement below:
Good afternoon, gentlemen of the press.
Members of the public may recall that when the present administration came on board, Mr. President pledged to Nigerians to ensure the security of lives and property of every Nigerian, provide employment for the nation’s teeming youths and fight corruption. Since that time, the security agencies have been saddled with the responsibility of dealing with the threat of terrorism which has ravaged most parts of the Northern region.
You will also recall that from the physical destruction of communities and strategic institutions, the terrorist elements also engaged in abduction of women and children in the affected parts. Most painful was the abduction of the School girls in Chibok at the twilight of the past administration in 2014. When Mr. President assumed leadership of this country, he immediately directed security agencies to urgently fashion out strategies to trace, locate and ensure the safe and successful release of the Chibok girls. This was the mandate given to security agencies.
Gentlemen, it was consequent upon this directive that the security agencies, comprising of the Nigerian Army, Air Force, Navy, Police and the DSS, commenced action in June 2015. To this effect also, the DSS established a special tactical unit to review the gamut of actions so far carried out to secure the release of the Chibok girls, establish why the action has recorded no success as it were and to present a roadmap for possible success.
In this process, the DSS and the other security agencies observed the following:
Many persons or groups posing as negotiators actually had no veritable intelligence nor the reach to facilitate the release of the Chibok girls;
The efforts were clouded by persons with very partisan interests and whose main objective was solely to score cheap political points. It was obvious their approach had no relevance to the release of the girls;
Some informants or persons volunteering to be negotiators or facilitators saw and treated the girls’ fate and indeed the situation as a conduit to enrich themselves, thus making the whole thing a pecuniary venture; and
As a result of the conflicting and partisan interests, issues were muddled up to the extent that reasonable and fruitful leads either failed or simply came too late for any useful action.
It was therefore found that in the midst of these strong competing interests and unnecessary rivalries, nothing was achieved before the 2015 handover date. It was based on these that the security agencies set out to work for the release of the girls.
First, there was the need to identify those with relevant intelligence on the groups holding the girls, as well as establish sources of contact in touch with the group. This exercise was found not to be an easy task. On those holding the Chibok girls, there was also a high level of mistrust, as they too found many approaches or groups claiming to be in touch with them as false or unreliable.
In this new bid, many offers ranging from credible, not credible to outright off-mark information came to the Government. Some international bodies and countries also provided leads. It was out of this that relevant security agencies were able to strike a chord. By the third week of July 2015, a contact group was in touch with credible assets who had the reach, and who attested to the fact that some of the Chibok girls were alive. Mr. President was then briefed of these assets and intelligence and he gave his assent for further negotiations on the Chibok girls.
Precisely on 17th July, 2015, the DSS opened negotiations process with the group holding the Chibok girls. However, in return for the release of some of these girls, the group also made some demands. These included the release of some of their fighters arrested including some involved in major terrorist actions, resulting in several fatalities, and others who were experts in manufacture of locally assembled explosives. This was difficult to accept, but appropriate security agencies had to again inform Mr. President of these demands, and its viewed implications. Again Mr. President gave his assent believing that the overall release of these girls remains paramount and sacrosanct.
Meanwhile, following the above development, Government and the security agencies had sufficient leverage to work out the modalities of the swap. These included creating the safe haven, or necessary place of swap and working out the logistic details. Based on this, the DSS availed other critical sister agencies of this new situation. Immediately, the Nigerian Army and the Air Force sent some specialists to commence a detailed arrangement for the swap. This was during the last week of July 2015 and 1st week of August 2015. The officers representing the various agencies worked out the logistic details, such as the number of persons to be swapped i.e. number of girls and detainees to be exchanged, the vehicles and aircraft, as well as safeguards, i.e. safety of the persons, including the location of the swap.
When it was finally agreed by all parties, Mr. President was again informed that the preparations were concluded, and the first step for the swap would commence on 1st August, 2015. Mr. President robustly gave his approval.
On 4th August, 2015, the persons who were to be part of the swap arrangements and all others involved in the operation were transported to Maiduguri, Borno State. This team, with the lead facilitator, continued the contact with the group holding the Chibok girls. The Service was able to further prove to the group its sincerity, as it established communication contact between it and its detained members. All things were in place for the swap which was mutually agreed. Expectations were high. Unfortunately, after more than two (2) weeks of negotiation and bargains, the group, just at the dying moments, issued new set of demands, never bargained for or discussed by the group before the movement to Maiduguri. All this while, the security agencies waited patiently. This development stalled what would have been the first release process of the Chibok girls.
It may be important to note that in spite of this setback, the government and the security agencies have not relented in the bid to ensure that the Chibok girls are released safely. By the month of November, precisely 13th November, 2015, another fresh negotiation process with the group was initiated. This time, there was the need to discuss a fresh component in other to avoid issues that had stalled the former arrangement. There were however some problems that many may not discern, but should be expected in this kind of situation. Some critical persons within the group who played such vital role in August, 2015 were discovered to be dead during combat action or as a result of the emerging rift amongst members of the group then. These two factors delayed the process. In spite of these, negotiation continued on new modalities.
By 30th November, 2015 it was becoming glaring that the division amongst the group was more profound. This affected the swap process. By 10th December, 2015, another negotiation process was in place, but this failed to achieve results because of the varying demands by the group.
Gentlemen of the press, the security agencies since the beginning of 2016 have not only remained committed but have also taken the lead to resolve the Chibok girls’ issue. In spite of the current division amongst members of the terrorist group, which has seriously affected efforts to release the girls, renewed efforts have commenced using our trusted assets and facilitators. However, this job requires diligence and ability to deal with a group that can easily change its demands without notice.
Officers and men have sacrificed their time and energy, and some have already paid the supreme price since the abduction of the Chibok girls, fighting for the safe release of the girls. Many friendly countries and organizations have equally been very forthcoming in providing their human and technological resources to assist in the process. They are still doing so. We cannot as a nation ignore these sacrifices.
The Government and its security agencies remain committed to ensuring that the Chibok girls are safely released in fulfillment of the Presidential mandate. Let me emphasise that Government appreciates the resilience of Nigerians in the fight against insurgency and terrorism, and will continue to call on fellow Nigerians to hold that much is ahead and therefore support Mr. President’s resolve on this matter. I cannot end this without appealing to the parents and relatives of the Chibok girls. We are with you; we feel your pains and shall not relent until we succeed in bringing home our girls and every other citizen abducted by the group. It is important to appeal to all those who have shown concern in resolving this matter to continue to trust the efforts of Government to deal with the situation.
Thank you.


Source: http://www.socialtimesng.com/2016/09/fg-have-commence-new-process-to-rescue-chibok-girls-lai-mohammed/

A distraction from the plagiarism saga ko?

God go punish APC (and the mod wey go find this comment offensive) for life.

I am vexing seriously.

Recession is supposed to make us creative and not this