CAN A CHRISTIAN DRINK ALCOHOL?

An educated Christian gentleman was traveling in the first class section.

An air hostess approached him with a complimentary drink, this was an alcoholic drink,

But the man politely refused.

The air hostess returned but this time brought the drink on a platter, designed to appeal and impress.

However, the Christian man again politely refused, explaining he doesn't drink alcohol.

The air hostess was concerned and informed the manager.

The manager approached the man with another platter, now designed with flowers.

He questioned, “Is there something wrong with our service? Please enjoy the drink, it is a complimentary offer.”

The man replied, “I am a Christian and I do not drink alcohol?

The manager still insisted that the man take the drink.

Then, the Christian proposed that the manager should give the drink to the pilot first.

The manager stated, How can the pilot drink alcohol, he’s on duty!

And if he drinks there are all chances for the plane to crash.

The Christian passenger replied, “I am a Christian and I am ALWAYS on duty in order to protect my FAITH and if I Drink Alcohol I will crash my whole life.
I AM 100% ON DUTY!"

Maybe yours might not be an alcohol,

it may be tempting you for sex as it was done to Joseph, battling with how to control your anger, your dressing, your attitude towards people not sharing the Word.

Do you know that souls are dying because of those reckless behaviours ?

WE ARE 100% ON DUTY

I shared this with you because I am on duty!

BE WISE!

If you must miss any place, don't miss HEAVEN.

If you must miss any appointment, please don't miss THE RAPTURE.

The end is no more NEAR, It's HERE.

This is a personal evangelism.

Remain blessed 🙏.

THE PRAYER THE SPIRIT STOPPED ME FROM PRAYING

In my days as a pastor with the RCCG, a particular woman joined a parish that I was privileged to be pastoring.

This woman became very consistent within the few months that she joined us and never missed a single service. She never missed Sunday service and weekly services, most especially prayer meeting.

She would gladly give generously towards church projects and programmes.

At that point I began to like her. You know there is no pastor that does not like members that are committed. I don't think there is any pastor who would not be fond of members who attend church services regularly.

It then came to pass that she came to see me for prayers at the end of a Sunday service.

"Daddy, please I need your prayer" She said.

"What will you like me to pray about, ma?" I asked.

"I'm trusting God for the fruit of the womb. A male child to be precise. I've been married for three years and there has been no issue" She said.

"Where is your husband, ma?" I asked

"He's not based in Ado Ekiti, He is based in (name of town witheld) in Ogun State. He comes and goes. He will be coming home soon and I want my meeting with him to result into pregnancy this time around. I believe in the Anointing of God upon you, sir" She said.

Moved with compassion, I asked her to kneel down for prayers. She obeyed.

I then laid hands on her to pray.

As soon as I said, "Father in Jesus name!" I suddenly saw myself in front of a big Television Screen. It was like I was watching a movie.

The television showed this woman I was praying for fighting very hard with another woman over something the woman was holding in her hands.

I was still wondering what the vision I was seeing meant when I suddenly heard a voice whom I know by discernment and experience to be the voice of the Spirit saying, "Ask her what position she is occupying among the wives of the man. Ask her if she is his legal wife."

Immediately, I stopped the prayer and asked, "Ma, please don't be offended by what I'm about to ask, "Please, you are wife number what?"

"I don't understand, sir" She said.

"Ma, the Spirit told me to ask if you are his legal wife" I said, reluctantly.

She paused and heaved a deep sigh.

"Sir, let me tell you how things really are."

I paid rapt attention

She continued, " Actually I am not his legal wife. I am not even married to him. His wife is based in Ogun state with him. The challenge he has with her is that she has four female children for him and according to him she is not ready to bear more children. He said he needs a male child desperately and he has promised me that if I can bear him a male child he will marry me and take very good care of me."

I was shocked but I was able to conceal my emotions.

"So, you are not married to him?" I said

"Yes, but we've been together for three years now and he is ready to take my relationship with him to the next level on the condition that I must get pregnant and bear him a male child"

"Ma, so what you are indirectly asking me to do is to pray for you so that another woman's home can be scattered, right?" I asked.

"No, sir. Haba! I just want to have a male child for him, that's all. The man is rich and generous. The house where I'm living here was rented for me by him, a three bedroom flat and he's taking good care of me financially. Daddy, you will enjoy me sef if this prayer can be answered. I've seen and heard of how God has used you for a lot of people and I know my own should not be an exception." She said.

I tried to catch my breath.

"Well, ma, I am so sorry to inform you that I cannot pray for you as touching the fruit of the womb because I will never be a partaker in scattering another woman's home. However, I can pray for you that God should bless you with the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh." I said.

"Sir, I love this man."

"Ma, you don't love him. It's his money that you love. Besides, the man belongs to another. And the Bible says what God has joined together let no man put asunder." I said.

"So you mean you are not going to pray for me?" She asked

""Yes, I will not" I answered.

"Then I'll have to go to another man of God who can pray for me then."

"If that is your decision, it is okay by me but I will never pray for you on that issue"

She left the church that day, disappointed in me and that was the last I saw of her.

She never stepped within the four walls of our parish again. That was how we lost her. But can I really call it a loss?

Dear minister, the importance of spiritual sensitivity and discernment when praying for or ministering to people that need your help is something that can neither be overemphasized nor underemphasized.

Don't be in haste to lay hands on some people and pray for them without having a clear signal from the Holy Spirit.

May we not be partakers of another man's sin.

Rev. Akinola Tunde

She drove to the church hastily because she didn't want to be late for the SERVICE not knowing the small WALLET containing her two phones and some cash was not in the big bag she carried.

Became worried when it was OFFERING time because it's her custom to always GIVE to the Lord.

She stylishly tell the woman sitting next to her to give her any amount on her to drop for offering.

She looked at her and said Mummy are you sure of what you're saying or you're just pulling my legs because I know you well very.

I'm sure she replied, the woman reached out to her bag and gave her #500.

She was driving home after service when she saw the woman that helped her with the offering trekking, stopped bye and ask why she didn't enter cab.

She said I gave you the LAST money on me, I can't say NO to you because you want to give it to God.

The woman unlock her car doors and told her to come in, drove to her own house, gave her 20 thousand naira and some food stuffs.

She said Mummy, I only prayed for God's blessing this morning and I didn't know this is how it will come.

So God wanted me to SOW so that I can REAP, hmmm thank God you're a fertile ground, my own offering was #200 but I release that #500 because of your status.

Life is give and take, you must always drop something to pick up another in the journey of faith.

God sometimes test our heart to see if we can handle what He's about to release to us and many people have FAILED such tests.

The widow of Zarephath and her son would have died after that meal if she didn't obey the word of Elijah to make provision for him first.

Don't HARDEN your heart when God speaks to you.

Shalom!.

Toye James

WHY I WEPT !
A young gospel minister came over to see me with a demonic envelope he called "Father’s Offering “ and asked if I could become his spiritual father.
According to him, the Lord told him he has outgrown his real spiritual father because he now pastors a bigger church than his spiritual father.
He told me how he is no longer getting inspired by his pastor and he needs a minister with a bigger and more popular ministry that can challenge him and give him spiritual coverage.
I couldin’t hold back my tears as I listened to this wicked young minister run down the spiritual father who had brought him up and nurtured him in life and ministry.
What an evil generation of unfaithful and unreasonable men. I couldn’t imagine that degree of callousness from a supposed young ministers of the gospel. Probably he doesn’t understand that that same seed will grow and produce same results in his life.
Even tradition believes that what goes around comes around.
I felt the pain so deep because I had been a victim of many backstabbers at previous time of my life and ministry but for the first time I am privileged to be sitting in front of one and I could only imagine what those that back stabbed me said about me when they were soliciting for the so-called covering from other bigger ministries.
I got up from my seat and worked this young man out of my office advising him to go back and apologize to his spiritual father or remain a spiritual bastard for the remaining days of his life.
You can never back stab a man who brought you up spiritually, that helped you, gave you his back to climb on your journey in destiny and expect to prosper in life and ministry, you are already under a curse even without a word from your father.
Unfortunately , I have discovered that our deepest wounds are from the stabs we get from those who we have trusted to be our friends and family.
Many of us today can identify with this ugly phenomena in the body of Christ, and it is so sad and shameful that some ministers of the gospel have accepted it as a way of ministry.
I discovered that the people I have helped, catered for, given cars, millions of Naira, spent time counseling and on several occasions given my back to ride on are usually the same people that back stabbed me.
But there is nothing to worry about, even Jesus Christ was stabbed by Judas. So there is no prayer or anointing that can deliver us from back stabbers.
There are times that God will have to cut down the grasses around your life so you can see the snake hiding around you.
Back stabbers are usually very difficult to identify because most times, people will stab you in your back and ask you why you are bleeding.
They are everywhere, if they have stopped talking to you, know for sure that they have started talking about you and bargaining the cost of betrayal.
But that is fine because when it begins to happen, just know that God has began the elimination series on your haters.
The saddest thing about betrayal and backstabbing is that, it never comes from your enemies but those who pretend to be closest to you. But God will expose all your back stabbers, give you true friends and pay them double in their own coin.
This is usually my attitude to those that back stabbed me..... here is your knife Mr/Mrs backstabber, I finally got your knife off my back but I am sure you will need it for your next assignment but I am sorry if my back hurt your knife.
My advice to every spiritual back stabber is to either be humble enough to truly apologize to your spiritual parents or wait for the harvest of your seed. But be rest assured that a bad seed does not require irrigation, it will grow and germinate in the life of the sowers.
You are free to have a thousand spiritual fathers if you so desire, but be careful how you bang the door when you are leaving, you may need to open it again.

Rev. Yinka Yusuf

I married as a Virgin so I was really ready to get pregnant immediately. I didn't expect to have any issues ,meanwhile I had certain fears.

Unknown fears!

Somewhere in my mind, I just prayed against not having to wait because I have seen Women wait and my God, THEIR STRENGHT CAN ONLY BE SUPPLIED BY GOD.

No matter how much you celebrate science, it will never take the place of God especially as regards CHILDREN. GOD GIVES BABIES!

IVF fails!
Surrogacy can fail!
OVULATION calender can disappoint!

Ask Women who have had to wait including me no matter how short it is, I will tell you GOD GIVES BABIES AND HE WILL DEFINITELY GIVE YOU YOURS �

I have said it here that there was a false prophecy that I would be barren. I heard that a day after our wedding. That almost compounded my fears, however, God made sure HE REACHED OUT TO ME IN EVERYWAY.

EVERY WAY!

First of all, one of my Mom in the Lord that I have lost her number called me two weeks or a week after my wedding and told me not to be afraid that I will give birth �. She told me not to forget to use folic acid, vitamin b , pregnant care and some other routine drugs that I haven't heard about. I only knew of folic acid. Thanks to out mentor who have told me about Folic acid.

Meanwhile, it still didn't happen immediately. God began to reach out to people because my mind was too clouded.

One day, I heard a certain instruction from the Holy Spirit to go pick a book that was presented to me in Zamfara. Lol! That was like 10 years after. I never ever read that book. I was angry that someone would give me such book as a young lady �

Why would you be telling me to read about waiting when I don't even have a Boyfriend talkess of planning to get married �

I went to look for that book by Pastor Abioye's wife of living faith Church. The book is titled "You too shall be FRUITFUL". I read it and that was it, my faith jumped higher.

I became less worried because my husband wasn't worried ��. Nah me dey worry because I am the WOMAN.

May God bless everyone waiting for the fruit of the womb in Jesus name �

The month I got pregnant, I didn't even know. I thought it was my menstrual pain and I wasn't ready to go through that ORDEAL. I use to have terrible cramps that landed me in Hospitals. I told myself that I wasn't ready abeg to go the pain, so I used felvin, the only drug that stands face to face with my type of pain if I use it a day before though...

I used it and the following day, I still had cramps yet no menses, the third day, samething . I called my Best friend over Fagbamigbe Damilola Oluwanifemi and while we prayed at a corner in my room because I felt really sick and was bothered about another form of menstruation instead of pregnancy that should at least put an end to menstrual pain for 9months. Well, why she was praying, she said ore miii, God said you are pregnant and immediately named my daughter ADURAGBEMI ���

Well, I wasn't so sure too and I wasn't really bothered but I felt this strange sickness and remember my cramps and symptoms are not ordinary �

The following morning, the HOLY SPIRIT woke me up and asked me to open my Bible to ISAIAH 54 .

I woke my Husband up and told him to read the scriptures to me and boom it was more than a promise but a reality of my Children surrounding my table, my children being taught of the Lord and other amazing promises.

That same day, I walked to the pharmacy and got a pregnancy strip and boom, I was pregnant �

God did it when I least expected but at HIS TIME.

I remember seeing other Women pregnant and be wondering that one day I will also be pregnant.

The reality is, ONE DAY AND SOON YOU WILL ALSO BE PREGNANT ����

God loves us too much and He knows you go through this phase.

You have so much strength and I am certain you are BIRTHING GREAT CHILDREN ��❤

All of us go use Nursing cover las las ���

Cheer up, because like play like play, your BABIES ARE HERE TO STAY.

#SusanBanjoOladosu

On the wedding night, Bro. Bobo and Sister Baby retire to their room.

Bobo: Sweetheart, we need to start everything with prayer.

Baby: No problem, prayer is the master key

Bobo: I am glad I married a spiritual person.

Father in the name of Jesus..

( Bobo keeps praying for hours until they fall asleep. Sis. Baby is not pleased but she bears it. The next day, they return from fellowship in the late afternoon. It is night again. )

Bobo: Sweetheart, we must pray o. All the enemies that want to hinder our progress must be put to shame.

Baby: ( hiding her displeasure) Okay.

( They pray till they fall asleep)

(It is day three. They spend most of the day shopping. It is night again)

Bobo: Honey, we must fight serious battles in prayer tonight.

( He barely ends talking before Sis Baby screams)

Baby: Stop eeeeet! I say stop eeet! Tonight, you must give me what I have been waiting for.

I: Biko, what has she been waiting for?�

Why would a newly married man be like this?

ON THE PASTOR ACCUSED OF CANCELLING A WEDDING BECAUSE OF 5MINS LATENESS

DO YOU KNOW THE SECRET TROUBLE PASTORS ARE GOING THROUGH?

For two weeks this Man of God was given a negative spotlight all over the social media for a one sided verdict, and just yesterday Pastor Essa Ogorry, the GO of Fulfilling Word Foundation Portcourt Rivers State, passed away. It was said that he cancelled a wedding because the couple's were five minutes late, how is that even possible or realistic?

Here's the truth because this Man was my Pastor while I was in PH, and we've been communicating on WhatsApp until after his birthday on the 9th of February, I was even saying I didn't see his birthday wish on my wall on the 15th February, never knew that was his last day on Earth. The said couple insisted that he must be the one to join them, Pastor Essa had come to Lagos for medical treatment he's been suffering silently without telling anyone, while always looking good and smiling to everyone, so on that wedding day he had to suspend his treatment and go back to Ph for this wedding, still feeling weak, he could only sit down to wait for the couple for almost ONE HOUR, when his strength could no longer carry him, he said to tell them that he's going to his office upstairs, that they should just come there let him join them in his office, but the glamorously dressed couple who wanted a drama show to their friends and family on their wedding day, took it the other way around and boom, that was the beginning of the spoiling of Pastor Essa's name all over the social media, and even now in death, this Man have become more popular than when he was alive. Pastor Ogorry who just did his wife's one year memorial church service on the 14th of February, died on the 16th of February, the same day his wife died of cancer in 2020 unfortunately. What do you think must have added to his death? Could it be only the prolonged illness he's been battling with? Of course not, the emotional stress he's been going through from this wedding scandal added to it.

Do you know the secret trouble Pastors are going through? Let me remind you:

Criticism by church members and fans.

Family problems as many pastors struggle with high spiritual and financial expectations by church members, friends and family.

Stress, the pastor’s life is one of emotional highs and lows, the very nature of a pastor’s call into ministry can lend itself to seemingly unending stress.

Depression, this is the very secret” problem of every pastor.

Sexual problems, these problems are most often in two categories, it's either pornography that'll lead to masturbation to ease off tension because of sexual abandonment, or it's marital unfaithfulness.

what about financial problems? most of the world hears about the few pastors who make huge salaries. The reality is that the majority of pastors struggle financially to pay their rent, children's school fees, house upkeep, Church administration funding, personal care funding, members need funding, and the cost of living and dressing up to the expectations of his members and fans.

A Pastor is just a Man and a human being, but we expect them to be super men and women who should be more perfect than The Master they work for, a Pastor is the only Man who doesn't have a pastor, he's the one who belongs to everyone but no one belongs to him, he's the one who must always have while no one gives to him, he's the one who stays up every midnight praying for hundreds of people while no one prayers for him, he's the friend of many but has no friend, he's the most lonely and alone loner who has no shoulder to cry on, he's just a man who can step out of line from time to time, and when that happens, nobody will care to know what really happened, but people will immediately escalate the lies about him and turn their backs on him just as it was done to Our Lord Jesus Christ.

On that faithful day he passed, Pastor Essa who turned 56 on the 9th of February, told his sister that he's tired of everything and all the problems in his life, that he wants to go and rest, and without any struggle he closed his eyes and died.

I've written as the advocate of the accused and scandalized dead Pastor, I've written as his former daughter, I've written as his friend, and I've written in agreement with his other son's who are all Pastors on their own, I've also written as an Evangelist and a journalist.

© Chikodinaka Rita Mosses.

I am a Nigerian Youth and my father's house is leaking...

We eat barely 2 times everyday...

I have not gotten a good job and the parents that trained me are growing older in hunger...

And I know that they will soon die...

If God does not open door for me, no matter how much I love them, soon, they will die without enjoying anything from my hand...

Even my siblings are stranded in destiny...

Uncles and aunty don't look at our way...

In the village, my father cannot make any suggestion because he is poor...

And the way things are going, what happened to him is about to happen to his children...

As it is now, there is no trace of glory in my father's house...

But every day, I am infront of television watching BBNAIJA...

Last 3years, I watched it and Efe won 25 million...

Last 2years, I watched it and Miracle won whatever million...

Last year, I watch and Mercy won...

They didn't give me one naira...

My father's house is still leaking...

And this year, I have started watching them again...

When will I wake up?..

When will the condition of my parents force me to abandon the television to go inside and make demands from God to change the condition?..

Why will a witch be holding the financial destiny of my family?...

Why am I comfortable seeing my siblings sleeping with men just to get money to buy underwears?...

Why am I waiting for pastors to beg me to take God seriously?...

With all the talents I have, yet, I have nothing to show...

When will I begin to hate pleasure and press for the heaven over my family to tear?...

Why do I want to escape into marriage?...

Why do I want to give birth to children that will grow up to start going from prayer house to prayer house...

Paying the price of prayer I refused to pay now that I am young?...

Jesus, please, help me!...

I don't just want to stop watching BBNaija and still be addicted to wasting time on television when things are still the same way in my family?...

Just save me from myself...

And give me hatred for anything that will not bring me closer to You...

I want to make impact in my Generation...

Being current with the recent movies cannot change the shameful story of my family...

Please, help me!

Let us pray!

Lawrence Oriaku

Sometime ago, we were planning to shoot a gospel film and we needed a very beautiful house as one of our locations; so we approached the owner of a beautiful house (who happens to be a Christian) and asked if he could allow us to make use of his house, he declined and said, "No way! I can't allow my house to be used for such things"

We left in peace and stumbled upon another very beautiful house owned by an Alhaji. I was reluctant at first to approach him. But we eventually did and to my greatest surprise he said, "Please go ahead, feel free to use it, it's your house. After all it's the work of God you want to use it for"

I therefore came to the conclusion that Goodness and Kindness are universal and not necessarily tied to one's religious belief. A good man is a good man irrespective of his religious belief.

Rev. Akinola Tunde

Happy 79th Birthday to Pastor William Folorunso Kumuyi.
Founder and General Superintendent of the Deeper Christian Life Ministry

Thank you sir for Pioneering such a Great Move of GOD that has birthed Revival in diverse territories all around the world.

We celebrate you for the Father and Mentor you are to Millions all over the world.

Thank you for consistently being a blessing to us in ways we can't ever ignore.

We love you sir..

We pray that GOD causes you to reap tonnes of harvest in this faithful work you are doing.

PRIESTS

A rare picture of Husbands praying for their Pregnant and Unpregnant Wives, decreeing safe delivery for those pregnant, praying over their unborn child(ren) in the womb...

This is what a MAN is meant to be:

A LIFE PARTNER who also possesses the capacity to be a SPIRITUAL PARTNER

"And MEN ought always to Pray"
.
This was how our fathers of old operated.
They were men who didn't just RAISE children, they PRAYED children.

Men like Isaac who prayed over his 12 Sons and everything he said was so for all of them.

Rueben received a curse (unstable as water you shall be) and It stuck.

Men who would pray for their wives and it was so

Genesis 25:21 And Isaac intreated the LORD for his wife, because she was barren: and the LORD was intreated of him, and Rebekah his wife conceived.

Men like Jacob who used their office as priests to decree what will befall their children and it was so.

Isaac received a blessing and even his Father (Jacob) who decreed it couldn't reverse it.

May we Marry Men and Woman that can PRAY for and WEEP with us. Not just people that can PLAY and SLEEP with us.

As a lady,
Don't just marry any Man who can PAY your Bride price, marry a Man who can also PRAY your Life price.

Marry a Man who understands his spiritual position as Priest of the Home, not one who thinks all he owes you is upkeep Money, sex and children.

Marry a Man who has found himself In Christ, who can lead you to Christ, not just the bedroom.

Marry a Man who can stand in his position as priest of the Home and roar some decrees and orders to ensure the enemy is unable to touch any member of his family.

He doesn't have to be a Pastor.

He may just be a brother in the congregation, doesn't matter, as long as he LOVES the Lord, KNOWS the Lord, and FOLLOWS the Lord in truth and in spirit.

Dear lady, Marry a spiritual Man

Because MARRIAGE is SPIRITUAL

#Musa Gift
#MARRYWELL
#RELATIONSHIPHEARTBITS

[Amen]Great one. Great faith taught in simple ways.

More anointing Bro[/quote]

First, How we think…

If someone has a minor health challenge...(example ‘runny nose’ or slight cough)

We think the person should simply have ‘faith’ and confess that he is healed.

But if someone has ‘cancer’ or HIV, etc

We think of…’call the bishop’, take the person to a prayer mountain, 30 days prayer and fasting, 7 ‘night’ vigils, sow a ‘mighty’ seed, etc

We tend to think ‘more effort’ is needed to solve the greater challenges compared to the lesser challenges

We feel…the BIGGER the problem, the HARDER it is for God to resolve!

Hmm…

BUT SEE HOW JESUS THINKS…

There were 4000 men who were very hungry and needed a miracle of food provision

‘…And Jesus saith unto them, How many loaves have ye? And they said, SEVEN, and a few little fishes…’ (Matt 15:34)

And Jesus performed a multiplication miracle of 7loaves ratio 4000 people.

BUT…

There was another time when there were 5000 hungry men who must be fed!

Now our human thinking will suggest that if it takes 7 loaves to feed 4000 men…then we should be needing MORE THAN 7 loaves to feed 5000 men.

Lol…

‘…Andrew saith unto him…There is a lad here, which hath FIVE BARLEY LOAVES, and two small fishes…’ (John 6:9)

Jesus did not say: ‘…Andrew, you should know that won’t work…if it took 7 loaves for 4000men…this one is a greater challenge…we will need more than 7 loaves to feed 5000men…’

Hmm…

When he multiplied 7 loaves….He had 7 BASKETS left…(Matt 15:37)

But when He multiplied 5 loaves…He had 12 BASKETS left! (John 6:13)

What have you noticed?

The BIGGER the problem, the EASIER it is FOR God.

That is Heaven’s mentality.

When Gideon was to go for war against an 'UNCOUNTABLE' number of enemies…

It was humanly logical for Gideon to go with an UNCOUNTABLE number of soldiers…

So Gideon took 32,000 soldiers!

What was God’s response?

‘…And the LORD said unto Gideon, The people that are with thee ARE TOO MANY for me to give the Midianites into their hands…’ (Judges 7:2)

I love Heaven’s mentality.

Guess what Gideon did?

He reduced the soldiers to 10,000 men.

Wow…Lovely right?

But…What was God’s response?

‘…And the LORD said unto Gideon, The people ARE YET TOO MANY…’ (Judges 7:4)

So how many soldiers did Gideon eventually go with?

‘…And the LORD said unto Gideon, BY THE THREE HUNDRED MEN… will I save you, and deliver the Midianites into thine hand…’ (Judges 7:7)

What a Gracious God.

How did the ‘three hundred men’ defeat the Midianites?

Simply by blowing ‘trumpets’.

‘…And the three hundred BLEW THE TRUMPETS, and the LORD set every man's sword against his fellow…’ (Judges 7:22)

The GREATER the challenge, the EASIER the solution.

Hallelujah!

By now I believe your mentality is already changing and aligning with Heaven's mentality.

Can I quickly add one more scenario?

7 disciples were trying to pull out a NET LOAD of fishes from the water to the land but the Bible says:

‘…they were NOT ABLE TO DRAW IT for the multitude of fishes…’ (John 21:6)

A great challenge?

But one of the seven disciples, Peter saw Jesus at the river bank, AND RAN to Jesus.

Listen, when you run to Jesus (in full appreciation of His work for you)….you have invoked the supernatural.

Jesus told Peter, go and bring of the fishes.

Follow carefully:

‘…Simon Peter went up, and DREW THE NET TO LAND full of great fishes, … and for all there were so many, yet was not the net broken…’ (John 21:11)

What 7 men could not draw…Just ONE man (who ran to Jesus) drew to land!

Indeed, when it comes to Jesus…

The GREATER the challenge, the EASIER the solution.

Are you experiencing any ‘BIG’ challenge presently?

-a severe sickness
-a financial challenge
-a family problem

Whatever it is.

Hand them over to Jesus.

Even if the challenge came because of your mistakes or disobedience in times pasts.... RUN to this Gracious Jesus.

He came to die for your 'mistakes' too. (Romans 4:25)

Hand them over to Jesus.

‘…Casting ALL your care upon him; FOR HE CARETH FOR YOU…’ (1Peter 5:7)

See the challenge as little to Jesus.

Say to Jesus: this is NOTHING to You.

And I thank You for You are bringing a testimony out of this.

You will see His Grace at work for you.

Praise Him, delight yourself in Him, meditate on His Super abounding Grace and unmerited favour for you.

‘…And the peace of God, WHICH PASSETH ALL UNDERSTANDING, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus…’ (Phil 4:7)

Amen.

Pastor Akinyera Damilola

Sexuality doesn't respect spirituality.... When it comes to Sexuality, you can only WIN by embracing the truth of your Sexuality and living in the CONSCIOUSNESS of what you know about yourself.

As a pastor, a very close sister once asked to be accommodated in my house and I was living in a big house with extra rooms... Zama and my son were in Cape Town so it would be me and that sister living in that house.... So I told her that I couldn't help her since my family weren't around...I sent her some money and encouraged her to find who to share a space with.... She got angry and blocked me even here on Facebook... She was disappointed that I even mentioned that something could happen if she moved in to my house.... But I was just being honest. She's a grown woman and I'm a young man.... We are not related and the Sexuality of a man doesn't understand "He is my mentor or she is my mentee"... So embracing your own truth will help you make good decisions.... The pastors who usually get into sexual troubles are the ones who always feel like they are DEPUTY JESUS.... You see, once you exaggerate your ability to withstand sexual temptations as a man, you are a fool who is about to litter his seeds all over the place.

Embrace the truth that your Sexuality is louder than your spirituality.... You can slide from speaking in tongues with a sister to kissing her.... It doesn't make you a false prophet but it just means that you were religiously arrogant to think that your spirituality can protect you from your Sexuality.

Before you remind me of self control here, please calm down.... Follow patiently.... We are going somewhere.... The best self control you can exercise with regards to your Sexuality is to FLEE..... As far as you share that private space, boy oh boy, what makes you a man will manifest and you may mess up an entire generation for over exaggerating your own spirituality.

To sisters, I don't know who you are but you feel disappointed at a very great man who became like bread in water when you both shared a private space, please heal your soul.... He was a man who ignored the truth about his own Sexuality.

To men, if you don't want your erection to give you direction, you must be conscious of your strong Sexuality and stay away from private spaces with the opposite sex. This is not about renewing your mind.... Some churches used to teach us to renew our mind and share spaces freely but soon, young girls in the church started aborting pregnancies for pastors.

So the solution is not big grammar, the solution is FLEE, BE UNAVAILABLE, ESCAPE, RUN.... God who created you knows what you can handle and what you cannot handle hence the Scriptures instructed us to FLEE.

Charles Awuzie

A young boy of about 25yrs called me earlier this year and told me how much of a blessing I am to him, how much my life has impacted him and all that!!!
After all been said, he demanded I mentor, father and guide him in his musical journey!! After much persuasion I agreed. The next thing he asked for my account number ( he wants to sow a seed) I reluctantly gave him. Few days later he sent me #10,000. I called him and thanked him. Middle of February he sent mtn recharge card of 5k ( me still feeling good. Everyone likes that son in the ministry that'll always give them gifts especially financial gifts). End of February he sent me another #10,000. This time my spirit started fighting me.
FAST FORWARD TO 2ND OF MARCH!!

I called him and started asking him qtns!!
Me:: thank you for all the gifts. But what do you do for a living?
Him: I work sir
Me: wow!! Where do you work??
Him: in a company
Me: me Being inquisitive. How much is your salary?
Him: 25k
Me::: my heart panting fast! So how do you manage?? For two months you've sent me 10k
Him: God is helping me.
Me:������. How much do you save at the end of the month?
Him: nothing for now
Me: still surprised! Where do you live?
Him: I'm squatting with a friend
Me: OK. How long do you think you can keep squatting??
Him: my friend is a nice guy. We've been friends since we were babies
Me: OK. Can you save 15k every month till end of November for me
Him: yes sir.
Me: keep saving by end of November I'll tell you what to do for me.

Early this month he called telling me he has saved 135k ( I monitored him every month to make sure he was saving). He said he wants to send the money to me��������. I told him to help me get a house In Nyanya close to his office ( the cheapest he could get). He got one for 70k and I told him to pay for it from the 135k and buy a small mattress of 20 or 25k. After everything, he asked what next sir?
I sent him 50k and told him to buy kitchen utensils and start his life. He was shocked and started crying bla bla bla bla.

Dear mentors please before you start collecting from this young one's in the name of being a father or a mentor, ask how much their income is if not you'd be destroying their tomorrow!!!

I'm not against receiving fromm people but please don't receive at the expense of their future!!

Guiding them aright is also part of mentoring, fathering and all that.

Don't end your mentoring on only collecting from them, also impact in them wisdom!

My Name is Sunny Pee!!

Amos 3:3 "Can two walk together except they be agreed?"

Everyone has a PERSONILTY TYPE, and then beyond personality type, PASSIONS.

You must take cognizance of this when falling in love and saying I DO.

Don't marry someone with PASSIONS extremely different from yours.
Don't marry someone whose LIFESTYLE is a far cry from yours just because you want to be married or because they are Nice.

Marriage works because the couple have mutual interests and passions in core areas of life.

And Marriages break and couples get pulled apart because the couple have very contrasting Passions that lead to arguments and fights daily.

If you are a party type, marry a party type.

If you are a herbalist, marry a herbalist

If you are a Marlian, marry a Marlian

If you know you love church, praying, and bible study, don't marry someone who doesn't even go to church, nor takes prayer and Bible study serious... Otherwise.....

There's nothing as sweet as husband and Wife doing things together.

Praying Together.

Reading together.

Going to Parties together (if that's your thing)

Rasing the kids together with a mutual life pattern and principles. .
Not one that confuses the kids.
Daddy is doing one thing, Mummy is teaching another...

Don't Marry someone you will start forcing to change after you marry them. Marry Well

Musa Gift
#MARRYWELL
#RELATIONSHIPHEARTBITS

If you mention the name of Keneneth Copeland, some of us will call him a thief because he has several private jets...

If you mention the name of Reinhard Bonke, some of us will call him a saint because he had no private jet and was giving out free books to people in Africa ...

But do you know that Kenneth Copeland was one of the biggest financial sponsors of all the crusades Of Reinhard Bonke?...

His money was part of the money that paid for all those hundreds of millions of free books, large posters and mighty billboards over the decades? ...

Do you know that, Perhaps, if not for Kenneth Copeland, you and I would never have known Reinhard Bonke ...and the 70plus million souls might never have been won...

Friends, this journey get as e be ooo...

Do you know that one woman that died of cold on the streets of Minnesota while working to raise money to support missions work might receive more crown than those we see on our pulpits?...

That is why long ago, I have thrown away the pen I use to help God write the names of those I think are not going to make heaven.

I no do again!

As we are celebrating this great man that modelled the gospel of Christ for generations to come, heaven is also celebrating all those that were sensitive enough to allow God use them to make the ministry of this man efficient...

If you think it is easy, check how you struggle when you want to send some one just 10k...

Ask yourself how much has left your bank account to sponsor God's work any where in the world...

It's not easy, friends...

Kenneth Copeland and other sponsors denied themselves a lot, sponsoring these crusade for decades...

I was there Live at one of the first times he visited Aba in the late 1980s ABA CITY WIDE CRUSADE...

I saw native doctors,,prostitutes and armed robbers, rushing back home to bring and surrender their charms and guns to the nearest churches... They grew till they became Sunday school teachers and pastors...

Till today, some of them are still burning for Jesus...

As we are thanking God for Pa Reinhard Bonke...let us also thank God for Kenneth Copeland and all those that took care of the Bills that ran into tens of hundreds of millions of dollars...

Why won't Reinhard Bonke be as anointed as he was?
Why won't the dead rise when he came to Onitsha?...
Why won't too many crippled people throw away their crutches and start walking when he came to Umuahia?

When there are people paying the bills, praying looks like picnic... And OIL must increase ...

Personally, I know many mighty, genuine and passionate crusaders that folded their movements because there was no money to foot the bills...

You don't know how Satan is celebrating their withdrawal from the mission fields...

This testimony is a very ugly reality ...

For me, I have made my choice...
The narrative will change in our time...

2020, by the grace of God, I will foot the bills of one or two genuine evangelistic works going on in any part of the world...

Please, Jesus, see my heart and please, put the resources in my hand...

Evangelists must go back to the field again in our time...

I don't know about you, friend...

Just know that It will be a shame to us if we watch our passionate evangelists who are called to be on the field turning into mega church overseers, rolling out handbills and posters every week...

Dragging members with other churches nearby so that they will have mega churches, when they should be on the field making Jesus known to the heathen...

Sister, if we have more Kenneth Copelands, we will have more Reinhard Bonkes..

There is a potential Reinhard Bonke close to you...

May God use you to bring him out into the limelight where he or she will win more souls for Christ...

May God use your church, company or family to partner with others to sponsor their evangelistic penchant...

You and your generation will never finish reaping from it...

May God keep us all... In Jesus Name...

Let us pray!
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~ Iyke Oriaku

It's funny when I hear some ladies mention words like "can you afford me" and the people making these comments actually don't understand what makes a lady expensive.

Yes, a Lady has a price

But that price isn't MONEYtery
It's VALUEtery

Jesus didn't die on the cross for you because he wanted to sleep with you.
He died because you were of value (useful to him and the kingdom)

A Lady isn't expensive because she's a Woman, has 2 Breasts and a Vagina.

It's just like saying because I'm a Man, and Men are scarce, then I'm expensive.

When as a Lady you conclude that you are something a Man should be Rich to afford, you are reducing yourself to a commodity for sale,

You make yourself into something a Man pays to OWN.

He could afford you in terms of having enough money, that's why you are with him.

You open up yourself to a Relationship prone to abuse, where you have no respect or voice, because he's PAYING and that's why you are STAYING, remember "he who pays the piper dictates the tune."

You blind yourself to the fact that there's greatness inside of you as well

You reinforce the idea that a Woman is good for nothing other than her body parts.

The Prov 31 Woman is priceless not because she's a Woman but because she's a VIRTUOUS Woman, and Virtuousness is scarce.

Women are not scarce.... They are in fact in excess.
VALUABLE WOMEN on the other hand are scarce.. And will remain scarce till Jesus comes.

As a Lady, before you say I am expensive, and ask a Suitor if he can afford you, please remind yourself the Value you have to offer him too.
Not just body parts and Sex

As a Lady

1) Do you have Spiritual Value? Can you pray?

2) Do you have Financial Value? Can you make money?

3) Do you have Mental/Intellectual value? Do you have sense?

4) Do you have Emotional Value? Can you keep a Home?

How expensive you are depends on the answers to the above, not on the size of your chest and shape of your waist.

Musa Gift
#MARRYWELL
#RELATIONSHIPHEARTBITS

1. He is an employee of God, not the church
Every pastor, first and foremost, owes his service and duty to God. As a result of this, do not expect him to be spending the church money on you.

He may be supervising a large congregation, but the church money does not belong to him and you shouldn’t ever think that your marriage will never have financial challenges.

2. He will entertain ladies
Another key thing is to cut out any form of jealousy when you see your husband with other ladies. As a pastor, he is bound to entertain ladies and you will have to learn to accept that.

You don’t expect him to only speak to men, because he is a pastor for all, whether man or woman.

3. You must have a welcoming heart
Being a pastor’s wife is not an easy thing. Both of you have a reputation to maintain so you have to do everything to keep your husband going. To do that, you need to have a welcoming heart that accommodates everyone that comes your way.

Don't create enemies for your husband and for yourself as well through your attitude.

4. Learn to sleep alone
Another key thing every pastor’s wife must learn to do is to sleep alone.

Pastors are generally busy people due to their workload. This means that he could be engaged in frequent travels, leaving their wives and children at home most often.

I once remember a particular missionary journey that took me away from my family for about 12 days. Thank God for the grace upon my dear wife that was mightily at work.

5. Learn to be hospitable
A pastor’s wife is also expected to be very hospitable. People are bound to come to you for counselling and irrespective of their stories and backgrounds, you must welcome them.

6. Limited romance
As a pastor’s wife you should also know that you cannot have romance every day. This is because a pastor has many responsibilities at almost every point in time.

At one point he could be preparing a sermon note, at another point he could be fasting, and you can’t be ‘disturbing’ him with romance at such times. LOL!

7. Be the perfect wife
No human being is perfect, but when you marry a pastor, you are expected to be as perfect as you can get.

Expectations of you are higher and you must do well to keep those standards and not disappoint by the grace of God.
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No one sees us now under these hard conditions, tongues will only start wagging when we become successful.

David Oyedepo
1985

WHEN THE POWER CHANGED HANDS.
- Mike Bamiloye
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Many years ago, when I was so envious and jealous for Jesus Christ to make Nigerian Christian movies available for us to watch. I was angry at the secular movies that were existing then.
They were very few. Nollywood had not started then. But there were films of Hubert Ogunde like: Aiye, Jayesinmi, Aropin-Nteniyan, Ayanmo. And there were films of Moses Olaiya (Baba Sala) like: Mosebolatan, Orun Mooru, Diamond, and the earlier movies from Ade Afolayan (ADE Love) like Taxi Driver, Iyaniwura, etc. The curent Nollywood had not began then as we know it now.
In one of those days, I was burning with zeal in me to do films for Jesus Christ. I was angry at those secular movies and I was angry at the foreign Christian movies they show in churches and crusades that we would not hear what the Oyinbos were saying and the interpreters would be saying something else. Those were my anger, jealousy and envy in those days. I wanted Nigerian Christian movies for Jesus.
So, I went to watch Hubert Ogunde's "AIYE" at Oduduwa Hall, University of Ife, then. The movie finished around 11pm. I got out of the hall, and my heart was full of the thought of doing something for Jesus.
I was sad. I was sad that there was no single Nigerian Christian film that could preach on the power of Jesus Christ, the way the movie AIYE had preached on the Powers of the Witches and Wizards. I was sad.
So, I got out of the hall at 11pm and began to think on how I could do movies for Jesus that would counter what I had just seen in the theatre. I was thinking and walking back home. And I trekked from Obafemi Awolowo University (then, University of Ife) to Urban Day in ILE Ife in the city, that would be several kilometres.
I was engulfed in the thoughts of doing a Counter movie. And I trekked that long distance in the midnight back to my house alone.
Few months later, in 1986, in Ilesa, the same thing repeated itself. I had gone to watch Hubert Ogunde's "JAYESINMI", a sequel to AIYE. The movie show held in Ilesa Town Hall at the centre of the city called Roundabout. I was teaching then and the ministry had just began.
The magnification of the Powers and Witches and Wizards continued in an advanced stage. I shivered through out the film show. I was more sad and angry. I came out of the Hall around 10.15pm. And, like a mad man began to walk home on feet from Roundabout Ilesa, to Oke-Omi Iru. It is a lot of kilometres too.
Along the way, I saw an open air crusade, where the church was showing a foreign Christian movie to the people and the interpreter was talking along with the characters. I shook my head in more sadness. I wanted our own.
I wanted Christian movies by us either in English or local language the poeple would hear without an interpreter.
I got back home and crumbled beside my bed in prayers to God to launch us out to do something for him.
That was 1986.
Seven years later, 1993, the Lord came out with
AGBARA-NLA (Ultimate Power) that shook multitudes of people to their very foundation, as the Telemovie serial projected the Power and the Glory of Jesus Christ to high Heaven.
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The General Superintendent of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, on Friday announced the abduction of five pastors of the church on their way to the Annual Holy Ghost Convention.
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The five pastors, whose identity has yet to be revealed , were reportedly abducted at Ijebu - Ode, Ogun State.

“They were coming from the Southwest state of Ondo, or so, ”said a senior pastor in the Church who did not wish to be named .
Our source revealed that the abducted pastors were coming for the pre - conference ministers’ meeting, as the annual Convention actually commences on Monday.
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Source: Punch

Dear Single Bro/Sis
9 SIGNS YOU WILL BE A BORING SPOUSE
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Many years ago I was headed down this path, but with knowledge came enlightenment, I was able to have a paradigm shift of sorts.
It took me time, reading book after book, losing out on friendships and great memories to get here.
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My wish for you is that it takes you only this post.
9 Signs that reveal you will be a boring spouse...
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1) YOU DON'T DANCE ...
No I'm not saying you don't know how to dance, that's different.
I'm saying you don't dance.
Music is going on, and you frown your face like soldier ant,
You are of the opinion that only sinners dance,
That alone reveals several things about you,
Studies reveal that people who love to dance irrespective of how good or bad they are in it are happier people, healthier, more interesting, and, wait for it....... Make better lovers.
Besides dancing is an exercise.. How can you hate to dance?
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2) YOU DON'T LAUGH EASILY.
Again, frowning is not a sign of Holiness.
All this religiousity, strange fire that can not even boil water.
You'll be carrying face up and down like old ten naira note..
Smile oh, Laugh, Be Happy,
Don't be among those who intentionally frown all the time, so they seem pious, serious, and mature
Is a lie,
if you like starch your face, my brother, if you're not mature you are not mature.
Even God used to laugh. Who are you again?
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3) YOU DON'T JOKE.
I once counseled a lady, her Man hates jokes, he doesn't crack jokes, and if you did, he wouldn't laugh. It wasn't psychological, it was intentional
She couldn't even play/joke or have a funny jovial moment with him. I sha told her to run for her life.
Marriage is not Barracks,
If your spouse cannot laugh and joke around you, wetin you gain?
When you always squeeze your face like you are going to audition for the lead role in the Angry Birds cartoon.
If this is you, please begin to change, begin to allow the light shine and illuminate your dark heart and soon, you'll be amazed with the result.
Stop fighting Fun.. Otherwise you may soon be fighting Hypertension
Let down your guard, give in to the fun of the moment,
let it take hold of you,
let it fill your heart,
let it guide your lips into a smile, and then laughter.
You'll feel good, and your marriage will be better for it. Trust me.
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4) YOU THINK PLAYING IS FOR KIDS.
Is lie oh, adults play too.
In fact, adults play more, they just play with sense and discreetly.
Single? Better be warming up to play hide and seek, pillow fight, snake in the monkey shadow (whatever game that one is) with your wife /Husband if you want an interesting home.
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5) YOU ARE STINGY
You are stingy, what else do you want to hear again?
What's interesting/funny about a stingy person?
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6) YOU THINK PET NAMES ARE FOOLISH.
Me, that I've already kept Jane's pet name one side,
leave me to be foolish oh..
After all the bible says that ".....God has chosen the foolish things of these world to confound the wise?"
But then, you won't know what you are missing out on.
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7) YOU PREFER TO BE ALONE.
You enjoy solitude than you enjoy people's company,
You hate going out,
Then why even get married?
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8..) YOU DON'T LIKE TRYING NEW THINGS
It's over na.
If you don't like trying new things, your Marriage is in for it,
I mean, all the things to be learned that can be used to improve your marriage life, and you chose to be stuck in yesterday.
New words, New places to go, New za oda room activities and you are already satisfied.
B O R I N G
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9). YOU DON'T OPEN UP
When you are highly secretive,
You don't like engaging in conversations that exceed a minute.
You don't like to talk
You rather say "fine" than say "I am Fine"
All the time you keep pushing friends who want to know you away with "I don't want to talk about it" and your lack of interest in talking,
Somehow you think that's how a Man should be.
How will your spouse enjoy the marriage?
How will the resultant marriage be interesting?
Or have you not read "COMMUNICATION IS THE LIVE WIRE OF ANY RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE"
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Start to change intentionally today
Be a more interesting Man/Woman
IT'S YOUR MARRIAGE MAKE IT INTERESTING.
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MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK

By: Dr. D.K. Olukoya

Many years ago, I used to interpret the saying Marriage is not for small boys to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.

I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?

Beaming, she retorted; My son, The Expectations you bring into marriage will either Spell its Doom or Success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable.

So, I married without High Expectations from my husband but simply to make him Happy always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my husband and boil hot water for him to bath. I iron his clothes he would take to work, kiss him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in return? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.

YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG !!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your husband or wife always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn't rattle.

She continued, my son, *Never Carry "How Rich or Poor your Family is" into Marriage.* After all, you knew very well the status of your family and decided to marry that man or woman.

Love only Compels/Leads would-be couples into Marriage but it Doesn't Sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.

Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business partner, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. *So Minimise your Expectations in Marriage.

To cut the long story short, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a couple should resist at all cost in marriage:

1) Never say you have made your wife or husband somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.*

2) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial,* *economic,*
*physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the couple's life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.*

3) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in giving you a child, have every reason to live a happy marital life.*

4) Sex is a major morale booster after a hard day's stressful life. Try to be sexual beings and not "Angels" in that marriage.*

5) Resort to God often and less to men to solve your marital disputes.*

6) Let the women " Make up" their characters much more than they make up their body.

Indeed, marriage is not for small boys because small boys struggle to forgive, demand everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.

Make every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us !!!


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EIGHT WAYS TO PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE!
I've observed during my counseling session with the married who have challenges in their marriage that many did not prepare for marriage but only wedding. This also applies to many singles I've counseled.

1.ACQUIRE KNOWLEDGE
Knowledge acquisition is very paramount in preparing for marriage. Some are of the school of thought that experience is the best teacher when it comes to marriage, but I would tell you it's not because you could possibly learn from others mistakes through knowledge acquisition.
A married man came to me sometimes ago for counseling and I asked him how many books he has read in his five years and above marriage, he said he has not read one?
How can you acquire knowledge?
Reading relationship and marriage books. I expect you to have read a minimum of 15 books about relationship and marriage before getting married.
Listening to relationship and marriage messages.
Attending relationships and marriage seminars and conferences.
Learning from the married.
Knowledge acquisition is not enough but the application of it in your relationship and marriage - WISDOM.

2.DEVELOP QUALITY RELATIONSHIPS WITH GOD.
This comes by being genuinely born again (freedom from sin), sanctification of your mind and Holy ghost baptism.
This comes through personal study of the Bible, prayer and constant fellowship with the Brethren.
You should know how to hear God clearly.
You should have grown up to an extent you don't need any prophet or Man of God to say this is your partner.
You should know how to commune with God.

3.DISCOVER AND FULFILL GOD'S PURPOSE.
If you have not discovered your purpose on earth, you are not supposed to be in a relationship because you would abuse yourself or your partner.
Purpose first before relationship.
Ask God to show you the reason he created you.
What are the things you Love doing even if you are not paid?
Your calling could be to be an Evangelist, Apostle, Pastor, Prophet or teacher of God's word.
You can manifest any of the above in preaching, singing or drama ministry.
You need to discover yourself and start fulfilling purpose when you are single.

4.CULTIVATE GOOD CHARACTER.
It's better to stay alone unmarried than to leave with a man or woman of bad character in marriage.
Good character talks about SELF CONTROL.
Can you control your SEXUAL URGE as single?
Are you still maintaining VIRGINITY or PURITY TILL MARRIAGE?
Do you address people with respect or talk anyhow with no regards for men or women?
How often do you get angry? Can you control your anger?
If your mouth still runs like tap water while addressing people, marriage is not for you yet but taming your tongue.
If you easily get provoked and destroy things, marriage is not for you yet but taming your anger.
Bad character not tamed as single will ruin marriage.

5. OUTWARD APPEARANCE.
Are you aware that you will be mostly addressed the way you dress?
Dressing good and smelling nice is very good and it does not mean you are not spiritual.
Oversize skirt is not a measure of spirituality!
Flamboyant and express way trousers is not measure of spirituality!
Colour combination is very important as well.
What about having a nice Hair cut?
Let your Hair Do glorify God as a sister...
Iron your clothes with gator Buroda..
Shine your shoes...
Develop good Spoken English...
Don't be like Bro. Akande in the movie "final contest"
Don't say "I was here to proposal to you"

5. BE DOMESTICATED OR HOMELY .
If you don't love cooking or you can't cook as a sister, marriage is not the next thing but cooking training.
Learn how to serve food properly in the dining as a sister ...
This doesn't exempt the brothers from being a good cook as well.
You are not marrying a maid but a wife as a Brother.

6. LIVE WITH THE MARRIED .
You can learn the good part of your parents marriage if they are still together.
Staying with the good married people will give you a clue of how a model marriage should be.
What about taking care of their kids?
What about helping them with house chores?
Celebrate the married!
Love children and take care of them.

7. BE SINGLE .
Singleness means being able to stand on your own without attaching your life to any brother or sister in a relationship.
You can be single and PURPOSEFUL!
You can be single and not STUPID!
You can be single and not CURSED!

8. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
Endeavor to take financial, spiritual, academical responsibilities when you are single.
Stop blaming people for your failure, lack of money and inadequacies.
Lead your life successfully before thinking of leading someone else in marriage.
Prov.4.7 - Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Prov.4.8 - Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her.

I asked an aspiring couple how they were preparing for marriage and I was told they have have planned all the food, drink and venue for the wedding day
People prepare for school, job, health and other spheres of life but do not prepare for marriage. The saying "Proper Preparation Prevent Poor Performance" also applies to marriage. A marriage you don't prepare for, you cannot enjoy. May you your marriage be beautiful than your wedding in Jesus Name. Amen
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HOW TO FIND YOUR WIFE
by Pastor Sam Adeyemi
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Some guys come to church because most of the beautiful girls are found in Church.

Let me advice you ‘uncle’, if you are not serious with your spiritual life, the people that you will attract will be people whose values are compatible with yours and they will also be the one who are not serious in church.
You don’t pay tithe, you don’t belong to any unit in church, you have not attended any of the training in church..the girls that are spiritually serious won’t follow you.

Personally, you need to make a commitment to God and to grow and to prepare to be an asset to whoever it is that will marry you.

Having done that, the rest is easy.. When you feel you are prepare, the next thing is to position yourself where someone can see you and where you can see someone.

To the guys first, he who finds a wife finds a good thing. To find something, you have to look for it. There is no point staying in the bedroom and fasting for 40days, all you will see there will be angels. Is not that prayers is not important, prayer is absolutely important. But I’m just simply saying you need to ‘watch and pray’

The first time I took Nike to see my parents, after we left my aunty told me later that one of her friend asked her; how did I see such a beautiful girl? Because your nephew doesn’t look into people’s faces, how did he see a fine girl like that? So I said to my aunty to tell her that I’m a pastor, that when I stand on the pulpit, I tell people to stand up, lift up their hands, close their eyes, worship the Lord…i said I ‘watch and pray’.

Church is one of the place you meet people. You won’t meet people, if you come, sit-down, as soon as we close the service or even before we close the service, you carry your bag..you won’t meet anybody that way!
You meet people in the place of service, in the place of commitment to God’s work because He said that you shouldn’t worry about what others worry about, you should seek first the kingdom of God and His Righteousness and every other thing will be added to you.

I found my wife where I was serving God and she was serving God so passionately.

Join a small group in church, serve actively, there is where you will find people with similar values with you. You can also meet people at work, you meet people in your neighborhood, get involved, maintain your relationship with your relations and your friends, visit people..

Pray once you find someone that you think he/she is the person. Pray more and do research, ask the person as many questions as you can about her background, what she likes and what she doesn’t likes, her values and so on..

Get some of your friends who are spiritual to pray along with you. If you feel stronger about it, mention it to a pastor or a leader in church. These are your safety net, this is one of the most important decision you are making in your life, get other people to help you to pray about it

Someone asked me to pray for him many years ago. He said; I have found a lady I love somuch. I have never love a lady like that in my life.
I said to him ‘okay’ just give me short time to pray before you lunch your manifesto.
Few weeks later he came to me and asked; sir! How far? I said I’m still praying .

He came back again after a week to ask same question, then I said to him that if I am to be honest with you, I don’t see both of you together in my spirit.
Few days later he came to me again to thank me because he discovered some hidden secret about the lady.

I pray in the name of Jesus Christ that the God of covenant who has a plan for your destiny, that God will move on your behalf. Your marital destiny shall be built on revelation. He will guide you, instruct you and show you favor in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. I prophesy by the power of the Holy Spirit for everyone who has made mistakes before, with God there is restoration. I prophesy healing in the name of Jesus and I prophesy restoration. I prophesy by the power of the Holy Spirit, your divine connection in marriage will come by revelation.


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APOSTLE BABALOLA’S KIND OF PRAYER
By Pastor Daniel K Olukoya
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The great Apostle Babalola went to preach the gospel in a demonic town and he went to the king in the place to ask for land to build the church.
The king who was also a demonic person (our forefathers had lots of demonic satanic intelligence), the king who was not interested in the gospel, who is also practically a demon in his own right gave the man of God the forbidden bush A bush where nobody goes.
When pregnant women die they throw them there
When people with familiar spirit die they throw them there
Nobody goes there.
Those who have ventured to go in, they did not last 24 hours there before they die. That was the place the king gave to the man of God.
(Babalola) thanked the king profusely, while the king was just looking at him, ‘why is this one thanking us’. And Apostle Babalola went out, took his prayer warriors and they went to the bush.
When they got there, the man of God began to pray
Some of those who were there that day with cutlass to cut the bush, they are still alive, they told us what I am telling you.
As they got there, the man of God rang his bell and with a very loud voice (because) the man had a loud voice
In their days, there were no microphones and they addressed thousands of people
He said ‘O God arise and let your enemies in this bush be scattered’
That was all he said
Suddenly, they heard some people running and as they were running, they were colliding on each other.
They felt that people were falling and rising up inside the bush
Some were jamming themselves into the trees, they never saw anybody but they heard the sound of the scattering.
Your prayer today shall release confusion into the camp of the enemy.
They were running helter skelter.
After some time, there was calm and he ordered them to begin to cut the bush.
As they were cutting the bush, from the mountains, they saw a mighty python crawling down.
Those cutting the grasses wanted to run away.
Baba said ‘stay there’, continue to cut your grass.
They continued to cut and the serpent came majestically, the kind of python that could swallow a human without trace.
The serpent did not go to anybody else but Apostle Babalola
Babalola watched this snake coming and was not impressed at all.
AS the snake approached, he just said ‘let the fire of the God of Elijah fall upon this serpent’
It was as if electricity passed through this serpent and it just dried up.
May any serpent assigned against you dry up!
In the name of Jesus.
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Learn humility, you will need the help of others in getting to where God wants you.

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Gbenga Oke releases new single "Ogo"
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Prolific music minister Gbenga Oke returns again with a powerful praise tune title OGO (Glory). This one was produced by the dynamic Kunle Oniyo for Talkingbeatz Records.
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He has a point
More grace sir