₦airaland Forum

ireneidiva:
Hypocrite? You made up in your own picture.

Mensah007:
I had to open another account to post this.
Me and my gf graduated from the school and are currently serving. I'm serving in Lagos while she is in abuja. She was actually redeployed from a far north state to abuja with money by her parents.
We re both in our mid 20s, We love each other so much and would like to marry asap if money comes. After we graduated from Uniben, she persuaded me to go over with her to abuja and search for greener pasture, i made frantic calls in attempts to secure a place to squat over there but to no avail, I had no relatives there and d few friends I have there aren't that close. I later had to go over to Lagos to hustle because i have a few relatives there. Even while i was in Lagos she was still insisting i come over to abuja, reasons that abuja is a more lucrative city. I truly agree to that fact but i seriously have nobody to squat with and I have nobody at all in abuja, not even been to abuja before.
At a time she managed to convince one of her mum's sales boys to take me in in his room but the guy disappointed at the last minute so I had to stay back.

Nysc came, I'm serving in Lagos, she was posted to Kebbi and later redeployed to Abuja. While in camp too, I tried redeploying to abuja on health grounds but I was redeployed bk to Edo state so i had to cancel the application and stay bk. She has been hampering that i redeploy to Abuja but i don't have the 50k fee to pay.

I'm now in Lagos serving in a school, during the holidays i always go out to look for a good job or a good hustle to do. I wasted transport fares and stress attending interviews daily and meeting people but nothing came out yet. Though i did one gig BA job and im yet to get paid. She is still insisting im lazy nd wasting away in Lagos nd i should come over to Abuja. I would like to add that I saw myself thru school with supports from my parents so I'm not lazy. One regret I have is that the hustles i did in uniben are not long term and can't be moved to Lagos. My plan is to find a good job or good hustle and ghost nysc . Im also looking forward to saving to buy a good laptop and starting online business because i have learnt a lot on Nairaland although saving 80k from 19,800 salary might take time.

I have managed to secure a room in a flat where im staying currently, I have resigned myself to be teaching in my ppa for the meantime and still be looking out . She recently became more persistent about the abuja move and gave me few days to come over or forget about her. She initially proposed to pay 50k for d relocation lobbying but relocation for my batch isn't possible until October ending. She however insist i must be in abuja this Saturday.
I have been thinking about this all week, i don't know anybody in abuja, I don't have accommodation there, how do i do my clearance in Lagos if I move, I don't even have money so I will live off her benevolence till I find something doing. Had it been i have a sure hustle/job to take up in abuja, i can make the sacrifice and leave my apartment in Lagos here. I'm just confused.
I need advice please

Ginaz:
Please give me a mention please please when they do. I don’t want to miss it for anything.

switlily25:
Monitoring spirit!
Tacha has an army and she can never go bankrupt!
Worry about yourself!

sgtponzihater1:
Frodd was arguably the most loved housemate when he came into the house. But he blew his
at chances from crying at every instance, to becoming a puppet in the hand of a 21yr old, to never accepting his faults, to backstabbing friends and having no regard for his father, and even dragging his father to the mud on national TV severally. The list is endless.

sgtponzihater1:
Frodd was arguably the most loved housemate when he came into the house. But he blew his
at chances from crying at every instance, to becoming a puppet in the hand of a 21yr old, to never accepting his faults, to backstabbing friends and having no regard for his father, and even dragging his father to the mud on national TV severally. The list is endless.

Frank65:
Sorry for taking long to respond to u. I had to confirm something

She is fine but the situation of things for her is not very funny. There are accusations and counter accusations of her management embezzling part of the money that was donated for her.

She wants to go live on IG and address us but I think her management is up to something. I really hope she gets a new management.

peeps4u:
Nigerians don't know the value off money, maybe because many BBN viewers are still being fed. If they know their value if money, they would know peter can't give 60m, Jaruma or what's her name can't give 50m. No one can just dash millions like that except there is a mutual benefit. 20million naira isn't 20k. They once spread fine rumours of Dino giving Tacha 30m

Bejusttoall:
Good one from you

Neimar:

U nr get brain i swear

teepha:
Biggie just decided to put frood on the spot. He should have evicted diane by himself since she doesn't have any coins

Starboytwo:
so your advice is I should take care of her, like she is my business, my property, my headache When I called her family, she was evicted from her house and now living in the shop... She uses candles at night and other shop owners are worried for their business and safety...

I'm a young man, tryna hustle my way up, if you have a 26 year old brother, graduate etc would you advice Him to take up responsibility of a mad woman? Ask yourself if you will advice such to your blood brother.... I await your answer

Starboytwo:
you indeed is a funny man

BBM:
Do you know who is Jaruma

Tacha God mother