₦airaland Forum

Prevho:
This is very risky but you don't have a right to hold her dream, she will always refer to It. But if it was me, she must stay back.

But on the bad side, the more exposure a woman gets, the chances of cheating increases exponentially, it is left for her to be culpable.

18months is too long to rule out the possibility of cheating and I know she will kick against pregnancy.

Oga, either you follow her or you prepare for the worse during that time frame, be strong. At least, she wants to marry you.

brother ...the type of girls we have these days are nothing to write home about. times are bad

tayo60:
Why not free her then? Since there is possibility of infidelity between the two of you. Go your separate ways and find yourselves better suitors. Simple!

"better suitor" as in, the one that u can cheat on right?

besides am not the person in question

lomprico:
Let her school here o!
My guys marriage is a mess right now because his new bride travelled abroad for study 6 months after their wedding. I dont want to go into details op but dont let ur wife travel oo! Unless u go follow am join bodi.

brother give details abeg....besides nobody knows them...thanks

sekxy:
as long as you trust your wife, then allow shit rest,,but just try and impregnate her shaa

sekxy you seee... even you no say its a dicy situation...the chick go cheat

mode take this thing front page. serious opinions are needed here. thank u.

HeWrites:
Everthing go don settle down for her body before departure

but really most women are deceitful...i told him to let her study here but dude say e go be like say him no wan make the lady make use of the scholarship the school one give her abroad

IamLEGEND1:
Make him nack am give am Belle..... Then allow her to travel.

At the very least you know your first child would be yours,you no go drag pikin with another man + dual citizenship.

and if she dosnt want to get pregnant na? hope you no say woman wey no wan pregnant no go pregnant? them know their way

HeWrites:
I go lay charm for'am any dude wey wan fvck her go die or better still


Do a charm that will make her ugly and scary when dey wan sample her


#Y0l0

your wifi no reach Europe na

HeWrites:
If am in your shoes

I will tell her that

Go Abroad my desr

Alotta pvcci plenty for naija to enjoy before you arrive... No need to worry bouh me

Simple!

guy your own sef no good o. so u no mind guys dey straff your wife?

I have got this dude of mine who met this young lady who had a job later as a lecturer. they dated for a year and half and thought it wise to do the nuptial. the lady hasn't had a shiny past as such. She is supposed to further her studies to grow along the academic line. she has an option of going abroad or studying within the country for her masters and PhD. Traveling out should be be two weeks after her wedding. dude seems not to know what to do thinking the possibility of infidelity. Guys, if you were in his shoes, would you allow her to do it within or without? honest and straight answers please.

i think opinion from married couples will count here.

cc: lalastica

Eteo:
Op, reading ur post reminded me of the story of the six blind men who went to visit an elephant and each described d elephant based on d part of the elephants body that was touched.

When u mentioned d meals in cross river, I didn't see Afang soup, edikang ikong soup, abak (banga) soup, afia efere (white soup) , ekpang nkukwo, coconut rice, fisherman soup....these are the real deal in cross river. kindly go back to Calabar, (not Ishibori or Obudu or Akamkpa) and sample all these meals that I have mentioned ; and then come and open a rejoinder thread.

No 7 is fallacious...Calabar girls are the real deal. Calabar girls are extremely neat, Atam(northern cross riverians) girls are far from neat, not in appearance o, I mean go to their homes, watch them organise.

The best Atam cook will not willingly enter a competition wt an average calabar cook.

Calabar girls are mostly reserved and restricted children,soft spoken and well versed in pampering a man, Atam girls are mostly promiscuous, sharp tongued and are yet to learn d skills of making their man feel like a king. Oh! The atam men sef dream of marrying a calabar girl.

Calabar people generally are well educated, due to their early encounter wt d missionaries...so when OP said the pple are lacking behind in terms of education, it is erroneous. King Eyamba the 5th some centuries ago wrote to the whites to " come and teach our people how to read book and how to know God" he went on to say how " plenty sugar cane live here" and went on to implore the white men to come and teach us what to process out of sugar cane ( please Google King Eyamba the fifth)
Calabar has recorded a lot of firsts in Nigeria (Google is ur friend).

Let me take a pause here...

WHOEVER THIS PERSON IS, YOU ARE FUNNY...why trying so hard to bad mouth some other persons opinion? as far as i am concerned the opinion posited by the OP are absolutely CORRECT....by the way i live and work in calabar...seen it all...

CzarChris:
Chai!!! FUTO who no go, no go ever know. That school makes a genius look like an extraordinary dunce, you only know your worth when you start working. Believe me, I am a testimony to that.

I just hope the standard hasn't dropped.

#proudfutoalumni
Class of 2008

brother you just hit the nail on its head!!!! i am a product of FUTO and i stand to say FUTO products RULES.....i STAND OUT wherever i work.damn ..that school is one hell of a journey.

BrutusOj:
One compatibility is missing. Traditional/Cultural compatibility. I think it cancel the last point on your list. If you marry a lady whose cultural background and traditional beliefs are different from yours, there will be trouble. As a Benue man(idoma from Ogbadibo) our tradition doesn't permit a married woman to allow another man to have any form of sexual contact with her, if she does and the hubby is aware and keep mute,eats from her pot, he( hubby) is in trouble, while a Plateau, Nasarawa, Niger man can over look it and nothing will happen to him nor the wife.

do we still have people like this in this world?

I got an invite for a job interview.pls I urgently need clarifiction if it's real or fake I stay in PH, n d interview is in lag.


INVITATION FOR AN INTERVIEW. Please take this message as a notice for an interview at IGNITE Nig.LTD Venue: Plot 5, block 3,Otunba Kolawole Street, Off Otunba Toyin Abass Avenue, Off Adesoji Ajose Stret by ATUNRANSE DIVINE CARPET, Along Oworonshoki Express Way, Alapere Estate Bus/Stop) lagos state, Date:fri 17th of oct 2014. Time:10am. ensure you come along with ur necessary credentials.REF CODE: PGT/58/2UB

I got an invitation for an iinterview from ignite gas/ignite nig ltd

INVITATION FOR AN INTERVIEW. Please take this message as a notice for an interview at IGNITE Nig.LTD Venue: Plot 5, block 3,Otunba Kolawole Street, Off Otunba Toyin Abass Avenue, Off Adesoji Ajose Stret by ATUNRANSE DIVINE CARPET, Along Oworonshoki Express Way, Alapere Estate Bus/Stop) lagos state, Date:fri 17th of oct 2014. Time:10am. ensure you come along with ur necessary credentials.REF CODE: PGT/585/2UB




who knows this company.is it for real ?

kismo:
Dear NL, kindly find below a copy of a mail I received today from SURE-P. In case you also applied and have not gotten any response, I will suggest you check your junk mail box because I also got this from my junk box. It might be useful.


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brother can you send the doc to me or the link.I registered but not gotten yet..okimchristopher@live.com

any one gotten sms for invite from cross river state? it's supposed to hold 28th Aug

pls what's the nature of the question for the second round?...will need a prompt response.

funny..this thread is more than a year old..just passing by!just hope necessary adjustment has been made in our lives as a result of this thread!

some women and money...GOD!

phellycia2013: see let's nt derail frm D̶̲̥̅̊ topic, the picture D̶̲̥̅̊is lady presented Ơ̴͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ herself is not materialistic @ all, women wants aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ unlimited, and I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ economics we were taught dt wants generally both I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ male and female are unlimited, its nt abt guys buying D̶̲̥̅̊ most expensive car 4 their gals....D̶̲̥̅̊is gal jx needs a li2 more attention frm D̶̲̥̅̊is guy, U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ making it look as if she jx wants D̶̲̥̅̊ money, dts too bad!! I knw D̶̲̥̅̊is gal can afford 2 take good care Ơ̴͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ herself buh please support her, show her U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ thr 4 her, my bf will take me 2 D̶̲̥̅̊ most beautiful eatery, we will eat all I want, buh sometimes am so broke, I cnt ask 4 cash, and even if he notices he wld act like he doesn't, seriously what do U̶̲̥̅̊ expect me 2 do I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ situations like dt, I think D̶̲̥̅̊is lady is I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ a dilema like dt.

what does he expect u to do?...n i guess ur guy to an extent av been caring.did u try to find out if he is under any financial pressre?if there r other ventures he realy needs to invest...u statement startled me "what does he expect me to do"...as in u go leave am?

the ladies on this thread seem to be leaning towards one corner...i agree totally that we guys av to do as much as we can...but ladies...its not a hard and fast rule!learn to appreciate ur man and assist him in whatever way u can....ur state kinda lean to the conclusion that if he dosnt "pay",u will "hop-out"!

all the same maintain constant communication with him,and let him understand things from ur own perspective..try not to be selfish when u talk to him...above all,understnd and love him.

hoodboi: Thanks seriously planning on it.. I saw a young couple today, they were both extremely young and i was thinking to myself, who said i had to finish school before i tie the knot, as soon as i'm comfortable and making good money i plan to do it.

Another thing is that women need to start looking more at a guy's future. They need to start asking themselves questions like is tomorow looking good for my guy and what can i do to make things better. I can assure you that every guy will love a girl that was there from the start through thick and thin rather than one that will come later. The appreciation is always more for these kind of ladies.. From my own point of view

u just hit it on the head man!uone needs a woman to grow along with.a woman who looks forward to your future and surports and believe in you.that kind of woman wants to build you and not take away everypossible thing away from you.that woman wil love,respect and appreciate you.she understands you everystep of the way and knows your every state without you saying anything....those other ones commenting up there are serioisly trasing their future for what they can get today.they end up marrying the rich they desire(if they are lucky) and live a loveless life...no smiles..no genuine care..
i am happy for you man.go for it.God placed her in your hands dont let her slip.
the woman i have,am trying to work on her and closely observing her.she is not completely innocent,but i hope she changes for the better..kudos to you man!

hoodboi: I totally agree with you guys women nowadays are mostly about what can you give and not what can d both of you contribute to d relationship. But why most guys are scared of giving is that, most of us are scared that what if the lady leaves, won't I have lost, or how am i so sure that she isn't double dating and things like that and also most guys don't want a girl to look at you as a maye. One thing i used to do before i met my fiance was that i didn't think of the giving like i was giving to a lady because we are in a relationship, I gave like well, I was giving to a friend who needed it. I could recall a girl i dated bout 2years ago, i could tell that relationship wasn't going anywhere cus she practically told me to my face that if her husband should eventually end up poor she would leave him and even while we were going out i knew she was going out with someone else and she taxed us both on d regular. I always felt reluctant to give her cus i knew dis one was not for me.

But come my fiance, while i was still in school she always said that I am a student and she is also a student and that she doesn't expect anything from me. I could recall that she never asked me for a penny, all the giving was on my own accord and she got a lot of things even a phone. This same girl gave the phone i gave her as a shiloh sacrifice in church and i was moved. What i am trying to bring out of this is that. Now i am on IT and not a regular student like she is and i noticed that i don't feel reluctant to give her because i know i am securely engraved in her hearth and that she is mine completely. She currently just learnt an handwork and i footed the bill completely even though it was not comfortable for me.

i thank God for the current relationship that u are in now.hold her very well.and marry her as soon as possible.those are the kind of ladies that are good to be wifed...and not the ones that are materialistic in every sence of it..my dear she is a material.congratulation..and i hpe some of these girls on this thread gt to read this your post.

l2l: I'm sincerely nt in support of female askin..Only if it's gettin' too much..nt as in d case of 1k for d whole life of a relationship...what i expect a guy to take care once in a yl recharge card..bb subscriptions and nt actual physical cash..am also in same ditch..my gurlfrnd asks a lot too and too frequent after i recharge once in a week wif lik 200naira..pays monthly subscription on a monthly basis..buy gifts for b.days nd extends cash once in a yl..d funny thing is if she wanna buy stuffs lik fones and expensive gadgets..i supports wif minimum of 5k..the funny tin is, she earns more dan i du..*we are both fresh graduates*

my brother u get tired sometimes ..and it gets u thinkin..were is this relationship going?...when u dont giv cos u dont av genuinely,she changes her mood.so what happens when the guy looses his job or seriouusly cash strapd?...is the relationship gonna be hinged on cash?..that she is happy when u giv n not happy when u dont realy av to giv..for God sakes,should this b a hard and fast rule?...our nigerian ladies are seriously loosing it...i could remember what my girl once told me "u have to take care of me and spoil me o,u know am a girl and i hav needs ..and i have to look good always"...like am ha father or husband.not that i cant take care of from time to time but not completely..that one done comot forr wife material...mtchewww

hello niki.i just dent a mail to that address.kindly assist me.thank you.

miss ope,i am just a bus away from igando.thank miss!

Miss Ope: Come to the call centre tomorrow....
Ask of Mr Paul he' ll tell u the next thing to do.

miss ope,please can you assist me for an interview?i realy need to hook up there.can i send my cv to u for asesment?i wil realy apreciate.thanks.

Chinne: I applied for a Business Development Manager role in www.job-energy.com and I got called for an interview. I didn't get the job though but the site seems effective. you should visit the site the look tells of it's quality and niche

chinne i tried the site service was down...tel me how ur interview went pls...wil chek again later this evnin

ItoroHost: Guy, try n look for a computer school and act as an instructor while still looking for a job. it keeps your brain fresh

u r very corect dear..i tot computer and mathematics in a school once,it did developd my numerical and analytical skil..but to the compter school,there arent much around..n the ones i tried priced me far below my basic expences for the month..thanks anyway.