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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 12:10am On Jun 23, 2013

missylizzy: Get the latest jobs in Nigeria on jobberman. They have more jobs than anyone else. And it’s free to search and apply for jobs.http:///19UlQvq

i use jobberman..but no progress.i always get scammers who dmand money from u for a job...i nid genuine assistance here...God bles u...

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 12:07am On Jun 23, 2013

missylizzy: Get the latest jobs in Nigeria on jobberman. They have more jobs than anyone else. And it’s free to search and apply for jobs.http:///19UlQvq

i use jobberman..but no progress.i always get scammers who dmand money from u for a job...i nid genuine assistance here...God bles u.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 6:17pm On Jun 21, 2013

is it ok if i send my cv to u?thanks

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 6:06pm On Jun 21, 2013

[quote author=JOB-ENERGY]ANY ONE IN NEED OF A JOB IN THE ENERGY SECTOR SHOULD VISIT www.job-energy.com AND UPLOAD YOUR CV[/quote]i wil check..but i just need a fair payin job to start up for nau...else i go crazy here..wil apreciate genuine help sir

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 2:07pm On Jun 21, 2013

wil chek the link imidiately...thanks a bunch

Romance › Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by kristofa09(m): 10:42am On Jun 21, 2013

esere826: Your suggestion actually waltz me towards the subject I initially intended to pursue. i.e the dwindling pool of male lovers:

My observation/hypothesis shows that the 24 to 29 age demography of women (lets call this Dxx)
have a short supply of 'right' men in that same 24 to 29 age demography (Lets call this Dxy)

In Nigeria, The 'right' men can be found more in the 32 to 42 years demography (Dyy)
Unfortunately, Dyy men that are single are few

Consequences:
1) As the Dxx ladies gradually approach the nothern age boundaries of their demography they unconciously or conciously start 'lowering' their standards for mates
2) With Dyy type males in 'short' supply, and a strong need to satisfy the aspirational instincts to mate with Dyy type men, Dxx ladies tend to throw themselves at the few single Dyy men. In the absense of this, they 'tend' to cheat with Dyy men that are married

esere very beautiful write up...honestly we need to talk...especially on d love axis.i still feel love can make things tilt.

Jobs/Vacancies › Urgently And Badly In Need Of A Job by kristofa09(op): 9:31am On Jun 21, 2013

My dear nairalanders. I need a job and It's urgent. Pls help. I am a graduate, and I have a B.Eng in Polymer and textile engineering..i also have diplomas in computer engineering and another in Compter appreciation and Microsoft office suite...finished my NYSC about 2 years ago.kindly help a brother.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CNSSL Recruits Call Centre Agents..it Closes Today 11:59pm by kristofa09(m): 9:05am On Jun 21, 2013

Miss Ope: Oops so sorry dear....but where exactly do u stay?
BTW i must commend cnssl for the pay it's actually 50k for 5 hours ...
OTher consulting firms e.g mactay consulting payed their contract staff 45k for 10hrs and it's the same job description.
Anyways ill let u know when anything else comes up.

Miss Ope,good day...can i stil apply?can you help me with a job.i finished my NYSC two years ago and i realy n despirately need a job...i will be imensely grateful if you can help me out here...God bless u wit the good job you have been doing...my email: reks4all@yahoo.com

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CNSSL Recruits Call Centre Agents..it Closes Today 11:59pm by kristofa09(m): 8:59am On Jun 21, 2013

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: List Of Fake Employment Companies. Stay Off Them. by kristofa09(m): 12:33pm On Sep 17, 2012

Jummsy: baturejummai@gmail.com

jumsy,chek ur inbox.d numba is there.thank u.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: List Of Fake Employment Companies. Stay Off Them. by kristofa09(m): 7:37am On Sep 15, 2012

Jummsy: Yeah, we are enjoying the place and from what we were told, the recruitment is still on. Just be hopeful while trying others. God'll grant you a good job. I'm sure of that!

i realy hpe so...pls kip me posted o.infact,drop ur email so i can send my number acros.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: List Of Fake Employment Companies. Stay Off Them. by kristofa09(m): 7:49am On Sep 13, 2012

Jummsy: Don't mind them! The sad part is even the fact that after all this their story telling, some gullible people will still go ahead and dail that number.

helo jumsy.hw r u.sup wth wth those guys at bua?hpe they r doing u guys wel?whts their pakage like,n r they stil recruitin?u cn email me.

Politics › Curruption In Nigeria:who Realy Pioneered It?ibb?obj?buhar?abacha?who? by kristofa09(op): 9:42am On Aug 31, 2012

Some school of tot asserts that, corruption started from Gowon. Murtala tried to stop it, he was killed in the process. Obasanjo sustained Murtala's vision, but shagari dropped the vision and allowed corruption to kill his government. Buhari/ idiagbon attemped to stop it, they were removed. IBB institutionised it and made it a national culture. Abacha incorporated it at the corporate affairs commission and listed it at the Nigerian stock exchange with additional investment from the central bank of Nigeria. Therefore it became a PLC. From 1999 Obasanjo, Jonathan, the governors, local government chairmen, members of the houses of assembly, ministers., commissioners, councillor and all other government officials had no choice to buy shares in the company. The foundation and head office for corruption was laid and buit with concrete and iron by the former military leaders and those that have been rulling the country for 37 years, out of Nigeria 52years of independence.

Only God can save Nigeria.

Bt my take is:curruption started rite frm when we dis covad crude oil.bt again,obasanjo cmpletely made it a culture in nigeria.and these has plagued d jonathans administratn eva since.
Whats ur view?

Travel › Re: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by kristofa09(m): 10:46am On Aug 25, 2012

Hugoboi: Those are common home bomb making components. Persistent internet activity centered on things like the items listed above could place the user on the 'suspicious activity' watch list. As an African immigrant, that is the least kind of exposure needed

Travel › Re: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by kristofa09(m): 10:45am On Aug 25, 2012

Hugoboi: Those are common home bomb making components. Persistent internet activity centered on things like the items listed above could place the user on the 'suspicious activity' watch list. As an African immigrant, that is the least kind of exposure needed

thts very tru.a lot pple r just ignorant of d fact tht their most frequent n consistent activities on d internet r been monitored by agencies..gues u've heard of phishing?those r hackers software..

Travel › Re: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by kristofa09(m): 10:41am On Aug 25, 2012

berem: you better don't derail so face the topic!

lol...na vex ni?ok...crs-ogj?

Travel › Re: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by kristofa09(m): 10:31am On Aug 25, 2012

berem: hmmm! You wanna start another heated argument? Pls can you explain your comment?

wht part of naija r u frm?tht ur name.sory 4 derailing.

Travel › Re: 10-Things You Shouldn't Do/Say Outside Nigeria. by kristofa09(m): 10:01am On Aug 25, 2012

Gues stella hit d nail here.here's som mre:

-when u spik,try nt to imitate d white.b natural n spik slowly..esp. 4 those job huntin.
-b careful wth akata them!lol.
-dres wel n stick to light cologn..esp 4 men.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Paying To Get A Job : How Reasonable? by kristofa09(m): 9:09pm On Jul 31, 2012

Bisjosh: Many of these agents are serial liars!!!!! taking advantage of jobseekers to get rich . Some even advertise vacancies that don't exist and say that the job closed cos you applied late(which must have been after you bought their yeye form )!! Be wise gal but in the main time, you can go to companies on island to submit your CVs especially headoffices. Goodluck!!!!!!!

bisjosh pls help me wth d names of sme cmpanis in d island tht i cn go n submit my CV pls..these agent r kiling us o.bin searchin 4 a place 2 start

OP pls b careful.job 4 hand money 4 hand

Romance › Re: Must A Guy Pay A Lady's Transport Fare When She Visits? by kristofa09(m): 8:24pm On Jul 31, 2012

Acid,mayb they tot u r there guardian naaa.there respnsibility.

www.nairaland.com/962599/must-d-guys-always-foot

Romance › Re: Must A Guy Pay A Lady's Transport Fare When She Visits? by kristofa09(m): 8:16pm On Jul 31, 2012

sosoluv: Happy 101 Thread Day! its not an obligation on the guy to pay for fuel or transport, the lady should also pay for it herself sometimes

sup girl...were av u bin?

Romance › Re: Must A Guy Pay A Lady's Transport Fare When She Visits? by kristofa09(m): 8:12pm On Jul 31, 2012

slimyem: same old story of crying broke-assss men !
Hia!

r u one of them.?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Height Of Desperation!! by kristofa09(m): 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2012

spicy v: ROMJL. Kaiii! Naiiiraaaland! No. 1 online comedy centre!!!

honestly i tot u dnt laf!u've bin spewing ur guts n al d bile u've got on ths page!nice.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Height Of Desperation!! by kristofa09(m): 5:51pm On Jul 20, 2012

mehnn....i gues i've got to resolve to ths if its gona fetch me a job o!since getin a job in nigeria has bcom a family afair.infact gota put pen to paper to pafect my plan jare.haba!

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Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Tell My Wife How Much I Earn Per Month? by kristofa09(m): 9:54am On Jul 20, 2012

Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Tell My Wife How Much I Earn Per Month? by kristofa09(m): 9:53am On Jul 20, 2012

[quote author=$ugardaddy]Thank you for your wonderful advice my dear friend. Each time I look at my beautiful kids, I feel the pains they will have to go through as a result of their mother's stupidity 'cos I haven't seen any alternative to divorce for my marriage so far (still seeking an alternative though).
In the estate where I leave, there is a banker that has been out of job for over two years now and the wife has been solely responsible for the upkeep of the home and the kids without any quarrel. The wife even had to opt for her company bus to and fro work daily while the husband uses the only car that is in order just to hustle. Thank God I have been able to invest in real estate enough not to depend on my wife even if I don't have anything doing again, but I don't see her having the kind of heart this my neighbour's wife has which is why I strongly feel it's better we go our separate ways now.
Op, sorry please. I have no intention to derail you thread but na wetin man see him dey take make parable. Best of luck to you and family.[/quote]stil explore other avenue...bit d urge 4 a divorce..let me tel u one tru tin,it is "totaly" up to d man to pul his family tru...to make his family work..so,take a gd dcision today to smile tomorow.NEVER do d divorce tin cos ur case is even sooo beta!
@OP: U Knw ur wife more than we do.so i gues u knw d rite time 2 tel ha.bsides,both of u r one.so y cnt u tel ha?bring down tht ego n do d dew!its even beta she knws so she knws ha limits in spendin.hpe ur wife has a gd characta sha.
Bt al in al,stil let ha knw when she ask...u cn do it when u guys av retired to ur room in the nite...then av tht intimate discusion with ha.God bles u jare.

Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Tell My Wife How Much I Earn Per Month? by kristofa09(m): 7:32pm On Jul 19, 2012

[quote author=$ugardaddy]OP, let me share a personal experience.
I was earning 3ce my wife's salary before I got married and was very open about it, she opened up on hers as well and everything was fine. About 7 years later, she got a better offer that pushed her salary to almost same as mine. Then, her salary became a top secret and no discussions around it was welcome. She introduced the concept of "my money" rather than "our money" and on several occasions, blatanly challenged my authority at home even in the presence of outsiders sometimes. Thrice, I confronted her and informed her how her sudden lack of openness and respect was impacting on the marriagea and she paid deaf ears. A few months later, I got a much awaited breakthrough that made rubbish of her new salary. And yes, it was time for pay back. I informed her that the much awaited news has finally come and then, I changed the rules of the game -no more contributions to the home from her under any guise or form no matter how little, the new law became "keep your salary and do whatever you want with it but do not spend on anything for the family". If there's anything the family requires, I provide everything 100% and her opinion no longer counts in any decision-making process in the home. I solely take all decisions now without letting her know what my plans are. It's been over a year now and I have effectively regained my respect and control of the home back even though I notice she's beem very, very uneasy with the development. Unfortunately, I hardly forgive especially when I feel I have been deliberately hurt. My final resolve is to crash the marriage anytime now for her challenging my authority just because of a mere pay rise.
The clock is ticking ..........slowly but surely![/quote]Sir,there r other altanativ to dvorce.channel ur determination towards making ur mariage work.i hope u av children?hav a serios cnversatn wth ur wife,n strike a new bigining.let ha knw were she went wrong.let ha realise ha mishap...n make ha undstnd d pain u went tru.bt tel ha u r wiling to 4giv n forge on..bt on a cnditn tht she wil b a submisive wife..
There r always altanativs sir.its ur choice.GOD bles ur mariage.amen.

Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Tell My Wife How Much I Earn Per Month? by kristofa09(m): 7:25pm On Jul 19, 2012

Guyman02: I have tried to make her change and realise that money should not be the ultimate in the home but it doesnt seem to work. She would rather pay so much as tithe and tell me that is why she is getting blessed than give me the money to solve urgent issues

Thanks for the advice. I am an adult not an adolescent and when I married her I didnt see some of these traits because she was just a struggling youth corper and whom everyone said was homely and I thought so too, but when the money started rolling in for her everything changed. I have tried to be the best husband and father as much I can. Somethings I have to walk back from work to save money to buy bread and things for the kids in other to have my respect before them. I tried to report to my inlaws after every other thing failed against my pride, but because they see their daughter as successful and are happy for that, they find it hard to scold and probably she sends them amount which I cant afford to send to them.
I dont want to derail this thread but the point is that you have to know the kind of wife you have before becoming too open. Better to be quiet, but dont lie to her...

sir,i realy feel ur pain.though i am nt marid,bt i dnt knw if i shld say ur wife lacks wisdom.i just pray it occurs to ha tht she has to change in orda to av a blisful home.

Man,i cn only imagine d emotions n pains u r goin tru.pray tht ur wife change n nt necesarily that u must earn more than ha.peace is beta than war n cmpetitn btwn a hsbnd n a wife.i pray 4 gd tins to cme ur way.GOD wil intavene.

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