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Gues we end relatnshps 4 gd n solid reasons..bt toxic relatnshps nid b set aside..hw do we do ths?i recorn we've bin comunicatin tru d rltnshp,so tht shld cme in handy.sit ur partner down,break d sad news to him or ha.bt dnt 4get to outline 2 hm or ha d reasons 4 d break.kip a straight face n b consistent truout.getin al emotnal abt it could b temptin atimes,making u wana reconsida..wel afta tht gradualy drift away.its beta u dnt cal.stop seeing ha.jst try 2 avoid ha.but do al these with sense and cmplete tactics.
And for d record,kindly dnt break anybodis heart.its nt a gd tin.especialy when tht person lovs u so much.i tel u,u kil somtin inside tht pson.

Am not writing this peice for any
one to get mad and offended at
me but just to inform us that in
the name of 4 letter word "LOVE",
many guys have got it wrong. I
have seen relationships that
were beautiful, but now, dey are
crashing. I am a guy, and I have
learnt to love and to care for any
woman i meet. Even when I was
in a relationship, it flowed like
milk and Honey. Both of us
enjoyed the REAL LOVE and CARE
to each other.
But, just as My friend UDY
MADUMERE said:
A boyfriend is neither a father
nor an uncle nor a husband. He is
just a dude who is in a
relationship with a girl he likes
and vice versa and also a girl he
is contemplating getting serious
with. He is not under any
obligation whatsoever, to foot
the bills of a girl he is neither a
father nor a husband nor an
uncle to. Let truth be told, the
level of foolishness perpetuated
by BOYFRIENDS of our generation
cannot be compartmentalized.
Majority of boys and girls in a
relationship do not know that
the meaning of a relationship or
what being in a relationship
entails. People who depend on
others for survival, yet deem it
an obligation to foot the bills of
another. My Bible neva told me
that. I think, they are fools of no
comparison. They have been
thoroughly misguided to believe
that giving a girl an allowance or
satisfying a lady with all u have
got signifies love for her. You
can't be in a relationship and be
paying your girlfriend a monthly
salary and also footing her bills.
One of my guys told me of a girl
he loves but each moment, the
girl kept demanding for money
and school fees. They are just
8months in the relationship but
he has bought 4 phones for her.
Sadly, the girl hasnt spent a kobo
on him. Dis guy is running dry
and blinded by a wicked type of
love. What are some ladies up to
in this life? It is hightime Ladies
change from being MONICAs to
LOVINAs. Then our society will be
good. If a guy is bad today,
maybe, he has suffered from too
many heartbreaks from bag girls
that claim they love. Some Ladies
have learnt to walk out of any
Church whose Pastor preaches
"IT IS MORE BLESSED TO GIVE THAN
TO RECIEVE". Why? because dey
are always at the recieving side.
Why on earth should a guy pay a
lady monthly salary for being his
gurl. That is a serious case of
maga mugu of the mumu
enterprises. . . Nigerian Guys,
PLEASE WISE UP. If u dont corect
dat ur girlfriend who is
misbehaving today, she will be
mad at u in future when she
realises that she wasnt discplined
during the relationship

Kockane: Thanks guys, I'm going for my medicals 2mao. Heard derz also HIV test... Not like I'm scared o, it just sorta gives me dis uneasy feeling.

"uneasy feeling"hmmmmm wetin u don do b4?i kinda suspect u oo lol.cngrats man.

he was my VC while i was stil in school.he was like a father to us catholics at schl then.a humble man n a humble family he has.a VC that was down to earth.n very aproachable...saint thomas aquinas catholic chaplaincy FUTO,n the entire FUTO comunity wil mis u..

lololo5: Pls do not waste ur money ooo....they r notin buh scammers....take my advice

pls tel us,y do u think they r scammers?av u experienced them b4?
Bsides i got d mail...there is no harm writing a test.bt when they ask u to part wth ur mney,mennnn run away!

To d guy cming frm abj,if its solely 4 d test then i may av 2 tel u sme tin:generaly speakin,a test is nt a guaranty 4 d job.u may cme if u av enof maney.bt when u get there DO NOT PART WITH UR MANEY O!

Pls anybdy feel free to tel us abt ths cmpany...info pls.

we bles God for this opotunity he gave us-writing this exam.A great thanks to damilare for being able to initiate the circulatn proces of the SHL material.God bles u.n to al of us tht helpd,God blesings n favour to us al...as we begin d waitin game may Gods grace b suficient 4 us al.

And lets kip ths forum goin.whateva news tht emerge,post it here.wheneva d shortlisting bgin,we wil let us knw.

Mean while make atempts at other cmpanies...k.

DailyNews: Which is why women have for years inherited HEART BREAKS, & NIGHT CRYING! Seriously, the world of women is a weird world that deserves pity cos they truly don't always know what they want in life & when they want it! Simply, pity the women & their weird world & not the so-called nice guy cos most nice guys do graduate into.... & by the time they do, they destroy so many minds (not heart)....lolz!

u just hit d nail on its head..d ladies sims 2 b cnfused...kai ilusion bad o.

gbam!Wel spoken..

Ogoja state is long overdue.

www.nairaland.com/932167/we-r-lov-wit-each

Obiagu1: Those saying that Ogoja is the oldest untouched province in Nigeria, was Abakaliki not part of Ojoga province?

my dear abakaliki was inside it.u av ur state already-ebonyi.ogoja dservs a state dear.

to those writing the test tomorow,cme bak n post ur experience 4 us o...

I wish al of us the best in our exams..amen.

Skoopy: Ogoja; the oldest state being clamoured for in Nigeria, hope it become real this time.

my broda,ogoja is indid d oldest province tht requires a state.it has bin cheated 4 so long.

Andre Uweh: From the south south, the only state that requires urgent attension is Anioma state.
What the Ogoja people need is boundary adjustment. The Efiks in Cross river state should be merged with their Ibibio kins in Akwa Ibom.
With this arrangement, Cross River will be a non Efik state.

my dear,ogoja state is long overdue..evry rite thinkin nigerian knws tht.ogoja is d only old province tht has nt bin given a state..wel i lov ur opinion abt calaba merging wth akwa ibom,bt d only altanativ is to gve ogoja a state..THEY DESERVE IT..they av d largest land mas,n by fa d largest populatn..
My broda,hpe u undstnd me nau.

Kockane: Whao! Thanks a lot guys for the barrage of advices, I'm totally planless for wat to say. Aldoe its a decision I've alredy made, and dat is to defer ma admission and start off wiv gtb @ d moment, I still pretty much appreciate all the inputs. I graduated with a B.sc in Anatomy, 2:2, but I really don't see myself goin bak to d healthcare, I really fo have a flair for banking and intend to pursue a career in it.

I wrote my tests and had my interviews in abuja, in march dis year. I understand lagos and abuja recruit independently of each oda, so I really can't say on how to go about it from lag. D haruna musa email addy was legit as at february sha, lotsa peeps sent their cv's to it and got called for the test. I also know some pple just wrote anoda exam like a coupla weeks ago, in lag, and dey r srill awaiting d interview. As for abuja, I believe dey haven't written any tests since d march batch.

And about d pay, yea I've done my research, really coooool. Not even d devil can make me change my mind again. #teamGtbank.

kokaine,u've heard it al.take the job,then u av 2 option for ur mastaz:1.work 4 a while n take a study leave in d UK or USA,tht way u retain ur job.2.four mnth into ur job enrol for part time MBA in nigeria,also tht way u dnt loose ur job..
Mayb i shld ad numba three sef.3.dnt do d MBA at al..lol.
Bsides hw old r u nau?

hyman288: pls i want to know if the interview u ar expected to attend in gtbank is the just advertised vacancy by gtbank?pls i need your response,because i applied for the just advertised mass recruitment of fresh graduate

pls when did u aply?n was it tht haruna.musa@gtbank.com tht u used?

damilarelr: Mails delivered

i got it man.thank u n God bles u.

damilarelr: Guys take it easy, Dragnet is a well-organised recruiting agent. Everyone gets a different date and a different time..mine is slated for May 31, others' will be different. Just make sure your phone is working and you check your email at least twice daily (when you wake up and when you want to sleep). However, all those who drop their email address should check their mailbox. I have sent a study pack of the likely questions. Mind you, for each section you have 17 minutes to solve 20 questions..meaning that your full concentration is needed to respond well. Meanwhile, the Verbal reasoning requires two answers per question, the two must be correct or else you miss the mark for that question. Go to the venue fully prepared, be in good state of mind and health. You might not need calculator because of the little time. Good luck!

pls kindly send d study park to my email.: okimchris@live.com

God bles u

kristofa09: T22,
am looking at nigeria 4 nau cos am gona be sponsoring myself..aint gat d backing 4 an MSc in d UK of which i covet with evry fibre in my bones...bt u could stil make surgestn in d UK 4 me..i trust ur judgement.
If u've gat prospectus,u cn email it 2 me..we r frnds already..Mennn hw i lov d IOCs...

T22,
REPLY to my post pls.

tanimola22: Hey kristofa09,

Where do you desire to pursue the MSc? An answer to this question would help us know how to counsel you on how to go about the admissions process.

I leave the engineers to counsel you on the right MSc to go for. I can then follow up with details as regards admissions and application packaging.

T22.

T22,
am looking at nigeria 4 nau cos am gona be sponsoring myself..aint gat d backing 4 an MSc in d UK of which i covet with evry fibre in my bones...bt u could stil make surgestn in d UK 4 me..i trust ur judgement.
If u've gat prospectus,u cn email it 2 me..we r frnds already..Mennn hw i lov d IOCs...

tanimola22: Thank you, especially for point number 1. I wonder where people get their theory of man know man employment in multinational oil companies. People like dwelling on exceptions rather than on rules. I wonder for them.

Well, oil companies have so much weight that people can give up so much just to be there. The oil industry is the main place to be in naija. My guy, a regular petroleum engineer who was managing just a few years ago, should be a very big boy now at Total. Very few people his age in naija can match him now. All these happened in less than 4 years.

Only God knows man's next destination.

T22

T22,u r doing a gd job on ths thread.
Kindly help me out here,i av a B.Eng in Polymer and Textile engineering,2.2,i wil like to diversify to oil n gas as petrochemical industry r nt tht mch lucrativ in d coutry...advice me on MSc to go for..tel me hw to go arnd it pls.thank u so much.