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RomanceRe: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by kunleben1: 8:40pm On May 14, 2019
[b]Been through it before. Its difficult but with time, you will be fine and when you do, you will so much hate her that you will even question yourself why you were acting so silly over her. wink

Your main problem is OBSESSION. To overcome it, follow the following simple rules

1. Never spend your time alone. spend 95% of your time with crazy friends not bookworms or dull people. If you don't have, find but be careful.

2. Never attempt to avoid her completely. The more you do that, the more you will get hurt emotionally. Accept your weakness for her. I believe she's matured enough to understand that its not easy for you. If she greets you, greet her back. you can also greet her first. But if she hates you so much that she doesn't even want to talk to you, don't force it on her but just say within yourself that you are better than her. But in all you do, never hope that she'll ever come back. What i actually did in my own time is to swallow my pride and approach her to help me get over her by pretending we're still dating. She was very matured and she accepted. we started talking as though nothing was wrong. no special treatment from either of us. we just talk like casual friend. As time goes on i started seeing how inferior she was to who i am and who i aspire to be in the future, something love has blinded me from seeing before. I started seeing beyond the beauty or whatever it was that possessed into obsession. Gradually i started retreating from her till i was strong eneough to move on even when i see her and her new lover cuddling. If u cant do what i did, u might need to arrange with a lady in ur house or lady course mate or someone who is willing to help u out. most ladies do oblige out of pity in that kind of situation but make sure u are honest about your end game. Never break another person's heart in trying to mend yours.

3. Get busy like crazy. Find a crazy project you want to work upon and start doing researches about bringing it to fruition even though it might not end up being successfull. If you are not innovative, re-channel your anger and energy towards being successful. After all, the best revenge is to be successful.(sorry no time to edit)[/b]
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 2) On 7th March 2018 by kunleben1:
The match will go in juve's favour. My prediction is 2-1 in juve's Favour. Higuain and dybala will score for juve while son will score tottenham's only goal. Bet9ja guys, that's expo for you. grin grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Why She Abandoned A Recent Job Interview by kunleben1: 6:52am On Mar 02, 2018
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PhonesRe: Which Mobile Data Provider Is Currently The Best In Terms Of Cost & Reliability? by kunleben1: 9:00pm On Feb 09, 2018
freemanbubble:
airtel all the way...here in Benin City. am enjoying my airtel now

when i try glo unto their cheap data for 4gigg for 1000 naira i nearly cry. God protect me from cheap things this year.
The only network where signal can go for about 3 days,
the only service whereby if you on your data connection you will have to wait for 5 minutes before browsing.
The only network where there will be signal in your toilet, corner of your room and beside kitchen cabinet only..
glo internet speed is slower than injured snail
you might give your life to Christ before you finish downloading a porn movie with glo
and now self i even hear say glo don reduce their data. make thunder fire them
I remember those days common to make front page for nairaland go dey hard me because of glo useless slow network

but now with airtel i dey make front page anyhow
Please no kill person with laughter here o
grin grin grin
BusinessRe: Is It Compulsory To Join Photographers Association In Nigeria? by kunleben1(op): 10:52am On Feb 06, 2018
MrMcJay:
Eeya, the Excos of that association are about to enter prison and they don't even know.

Section 12(4) of the Trade Unions Act states that
"Notwithstanding anything to the contrary in this Act, membership of a trade union by employees shall be voluntary and no employee shall be forced to join any trade union or be victimised for refusing to join or remain a member."


OP, the day they seize anything from your shop, go and report to the police that they came to your shop with dangerous items, threatened to kill you if you stood in their way and made away with your cameras, various items and a heavy sum of money.

My brother, God has picked your call. Not only would the court jail the miscreants for armed robbery, you'll still sue them for assault, battery, trespass, malicious damage and every tortuous remedy and collect millions in damages.

Lalasticlala, Dominique, Obinoscopy, pls let more people see this and learn.
Thank you sir for this exposure. I will keep this in mind. Hopefully the police will not take their sides.
BusinessRe: Is It Compulsory To Join Photographers Association In Nigeria? by kunleben1(op): 1:06pm On Jan 31, 2018
suyamasta:
I dont think those fools should have any say in your choice of association, inform the police (good police o) and if possible consult a lawyer, the choice should always be yours to join or not!
Thank you sir. Lol @ good police o. How do I know good police at the station? smiley
BusinessRe: Is It Compulsory To Join Photographers Association In Nigeria? by kunleben1(op): 10:17am On Jan 31, 2018
Thank you sir. But am I to join them because it's what others do or because it's a lawful requirement? Remember majority of Nigerians don't even know what their rights are. If there is a law backing them to force any one doing such business to join them, then I won't hesitate. But what I want to know is if there's such law in the first place. I'm just trying to be cautious not to fight a lost battle. I am ready to engage them legally if there is no such law. That is why I need an advice from any nairalander that knows the law well.
BusinessIs It Compulsory To Join Photographers Association In Nigeria? by kunleben1(op): 9:09am On Jan 31, 2018
Please knowledgeable nairalanders, I need an expert advice on this issue. I have been receiving threats from the photographers association that I must join them before I operate the business further. They threatened to raid my shop and even promised to invoke higher force/authority if I refuse to join. But I thought there is freedom of association as stipulated by the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria. Should I succumb to their threat or should I wrestle them out in the court of law should they carry out their threat indeed?
CelebritiesRe: Nina Chinonso: Meet BBNaija Housemate 2018 | Biography & Profile by kunleben1: 5:13pm On Jan 29, 2018
another ashawo in the making grin grin grin
EventsRe: Malaysian Man Buries His Father With N2.7m Cash Filled Inside Coffin (Photos by kunleben1: 5:33pm On Jan 23, 2018
ritual thing...
CelebritiesRe: Mother-In-Law Of Eldee The Don Is Dead (Photos) by kunleben1: 1:26pm On Jan 22, 2018
Gaddafithe2nd:
Abike Dabiri is not his mum. The OP is definitely right. Are you telling us, a grown man like Eldee doesn't know his mum?
In Africa, we consider our parents-in-law as our parents also if there's so much love between the two families. Eldee is only being african.
CelebritiesRe: Mother-In-Law Of Eldee The Don Is Dead (Photos) by kunleben1: 12:51pm On Jan 22, 2018
Misleading caption. Eldee's real mum is the popular abike dabiri
PoliticsRe: "My Fulani Story"; Pastor Narrates His Experience With Herdsmen In His Farm.PICS by kunleben1: 12:07pm On Jan 22, 2018
I will only advice u to thread with caution sir. Not all snakes are poisonous but the question is, how do u know which? It's OK to join the Lions in prayer but what happens after the prayer? So, I'll advice u to steer clear of those seemingly harmless herdsmen. They might attack u and they might not but your friendliness is not going to stop them when they want to. They won't warn u when they want to attack u sir.
EventsRe: 83-Year-Old Ugandan Woman Weds 90-Year-Old Man (Photos) by kunleben1: 11:10am On Dec 28, 2017
Felixalex:
cheesy grin grin cheesy

When taking the marriage oath they should add "soon" to that line.....

Till death do us part SOON grin
wicked sohmbori. grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Tekno Chills With Rapper Drake In VIP Section Of The Canadian Rapper’s Show by kunleben1: 3:28pm On Dec 09, 2017
Tekno is showing wizkid what 'come closer' really means grin grin
Music/RadioRe: Wizkid Wins AFRIMA 2017 Best Male West African Act. Beats Davido by kunleben1: 11:04pm On Nov 12, 2017
The AFRIMA award's so so boring. Did anyone else notice that? Jokes are so dry, Akon trying so hard to make it lively. The people were acting like they were forced to attend. mtchwww. Why were the artistes making wave at the moment all absent to receive their awards? The organisers should be called together and flogged. wetin ycee dey sing? why not sing the track straight? chinedu 'aki' ikedieze too fall my hand joor.
LiteratureRe: "Janelle Asked To The Bedroom" By Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie by kunleben1: 7:06pm On Oct 24, 2017
So many front page topics to check and comment. Why on earth will I settle to read this long epistle? Thought the op said 'short story'.





Meanwhile, Read no further because the person below me has mental problem. He has nothing meaningful to contribute.
TravelRe: Accident In Uyo,Ambulance Carrying Corpse Collides With A Moving Van(pics) by kunleben1: 8:54pm On Sep 09, 2017
Dead-i body get-i accident, yeepa!. Maybe na dis kain thing baba 70 see when him sing that song. I've never imagined such could happen until I saw this news. Lol. na double wahala for dead-i body...
EducationRe: Ikeoluwa Abioye, 15-Year-Old, Who Scored 9 A1s In WAEC And 305 In JAMB by kunleben1: 2:59pm On Aug 29, 2017
emerich:
Glad she doesn't opt for Medicine, MBBS is so overrated in Nigeria...
Neither is computer engineering. What's in computer engineering? Hope she won't go waste her youthful years chasing that useless course. Maybe she meant computer science. That's more like it.
CrimeRe: Soldier Forces Lady To Pull Off Camouflage Clothing She Wore (Photo) by kunleben1: 10:19am On Aug 09, 2017
huh huh huh shocked shocked shocked

CelebritiesRe: Justin Skye: "I Am Not Dating Wizkid, We Are Just Friend" by kunleben1: 10:18am On Aug 09, 2017
grin grin grin grin

PoliticsRe: PDP Woos Obasanjo, Atiku, Others As Okowa Heads Convention Committee by kunleben1: 10:16am On Aug 09, 2017
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: A Story Told By A Wonderful Work Of Art. by kunleben1: 1:51pm On Aug 05, 2017
Nonsense. I used to follow this guy on Facebook until I realized that all his his stories have the same story line. It's either the men who got themselves involved in his supposed witch/mammy water disguised as sexy babes get killed or they exercise self control and get rewarded. Nothing more. I appreciate his creativity but it's not different from watching a porn movie to learn morality
CrimeRe: IG Idris Fires 4 Policemen Who Wrongly Arrested Man For Being A 'yahoo Yahoo' by kunleben1: 8:53pm On Jul 11, 2017
onyxo76:
hmm we should be careful about people around us when at ATM particualy suspicious individuals I always to that, you could have just used your debit card to pay in shop rite and probably withdraw using the ATM there
You are correct. Part of the reasons why experience is the worst teacher.
CrimeRe: IG Idris Fires 4 Policemen Who Wrongly Arrested Man For Being A 'yahoo Yahoo' by kunleben1: 8:16am On Jul 11, 2017
onyxo76:
hmm my brother, it is well, all those points are very helpful, infact dress like a deeper life brother when going out and keep your smart phone at home esp in likely locations , can you expantiate about the dressing aspect from your end?
In my own case, it wasn't my dressing that attracted them. They traced me from the atm. My dressing was very simple. A short knickers and a plain t-shirt. No jewelleries, ear not pierced, no rough curl or dread lock.(im bald). A simple pam slippers too and no weird walking style.
CrimeRe: IG Idris Fires 4 Policemen Who Wrongly Arrested Man For Being A 'yahoo Yahoo' by kunleben1: 9:57am On Jul 10, 2017
These guys are everywhere. I was a victim myself in 2014 in ibadan. I was about entering d shoprite at ring road when I was accousted by 3 men in mufti. They were from the iyanganku area command. They claimed to suspect me to be a yahoo boy. I showed them everything to prove my innocence but they refused and bundled me into their car and took me to the station. There I spent 2 and half hours trying to claim my right.

Meanwhile, I earlier withdrew 30,000 naira from a first Bank atm at iyana adeoyo. The money was the last cash in my entire life and I have budgeted how I was going to share it with my family before heading for the atm that day. The money was planned to last for a 30 day period before hoping to get another salary. Part of what was planned for was diapers for my baby and a shoprite bread. Little did I know that these demons were trailing me from the bank.(it was a Sunday afternoon). I got down from the bike and headed to the mall's main entrance when I heard 'hey, stop there'. The rest was a torture for 2 and half good hours. They seized everything on me including my phone and the money. They did not even allow me pick any call or place a call to my wife who would not stop calling after she became worried about my whereabouts.

To cut the long story short, I caved in when they asked me to write a statement incriminating myself. They were even dictating what I must write. At that point, I saw that they were not going to let me go free. They checked every messages, emails and even to-do lists on my phone and each time telling me everything they see shows I'm a confirmed yahoo boy. One of them called me and said the only way to bail myself out was to part away with 20,000 naira out of the 30k. They counted 10k and gave it back to me. I started crying at that point and was begging them seriously. Later, One of them started consoling me that I should be happy that they even accepted money from me that some were not so lucky. Besides, I'm a salary man and he's sure by the next month end, when another salary comes,i will be fine. He said he knew the company I was working for that it's a big company. He said I was only pretending. But my wailing increased and so was my begging because I just couldn't imagine living on 10k with a wife and an 18 months old baby. I told him I was just a junior worker there. I refused to leave and I continued to beg them in tears. Later, they collected the 10k and handed me the 20k. I stopped crying and the friendly one patted me on the back and promised to be there in case I need their help too. He gave me his number and narrated different stories where he had rescued people just after briefly meeting them like in my case. I thanked him, dried my eyes and left in bitterness.

I learnt some lessons since then because I hear people give different accounts of their ordeals with these people. Here are the few I complied. 1.Always delete any bank alert even if it is a birthday greeting. Both emails and sms. 2.Mind how save the names of ur contacts. 3. Mind how save ur to do lists. 4. Don't go with large sums of money in ur pocket if u don't have to. 5. Mind how u dress. 6. If u were unlucky and got picked up by these police demons, just co-operate with them else they will injure or kill u. It's not time to start claiming a right which is not there in the first place. 7. If u can do without going out with ur laptop, please do. I have heard a case where police claimed the autocad software they found was meant to be used to study the structure of the house to b robbed before the actual robbery.

As for me, I merely handed them over to God to judge them. But with this news. I hope the rest of them still in the game will stop.
Christianity EtcRe: 10 Reasons Why GOD Allows Suffering On His People by kunleben1: 10:01am On May 21, 2017
malvisguy212:
I suspect that those who use suffering as a "proof" of God's non-existence would not want to have their free choice taken away from them,but that's exactly what God would have to do if He were to enforce His will on the earth. For if God were to intervene in the matter of suffering, would He not also intervene in the matter of sin? If He did, He would have to be a dictator.
Then how would we react? We would not want that,and according to the Bible, God doesn't want it either. He wants us to obey Him because we want to, not because we have to. And in order to accomplish this, He must allow two things to happen. First, in order to grant us free choice, He must provide us with graphic examples of the consequences of the wrong choice. Secondly,He must allow injustices and sufferings; otherwise he'd provide sinful mankind with every blessing and benefit without restriction. If everything in this life was fair, good and happy, what need would there be to seek a better life? Why would we seek a Deliverer, if there was nothing to be delivered from? Suffering is not something that ought to turn people away from God, but draw them to Him.
Thank u brother. I cannot agree less with u. I always likened the God-human relationship to the normal relationship we usually practice here on earth. How do u feel when u know that ur wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend love u naturally without u having to force it on her/him? Imagine u beating ur wife just to ensure that she must love/obey u. Even if she succumbs because u can overpower her, u know within ur heart that she doesn't actually love u/or want to submit to u, u r just forcing her to. Same thing goes to any relationship whether father-son, parents-children, boss-employees. This is same with God-human relationship. He gave us a choice to love/obey him or not to. If u choose to love and obey him, u have all the benefits, just like how u can do anything for ur submissive wife and obedient children. But unlike human who mete out punishment immediately for their disobedient children/unsubmissive wives, God would not do that. He will only wait giving u millions of opportunities for u to change ur mind.(2peter 3:9). He will not because of that curse u or punish u. But u will be living in luck, in a world filled with evil and good. And if u now die in the process, then that's when the punishment will come. An eternal damnation. Where u will have no choice again. For it is appointed for a man to die only but once, after which is judgment. (Hebrews 9:27). This choice that God has given us is what makes us think there is no God or God is slow. This is the earth and not heaven. If everything is perfect here then what need is there for a heaven? God has angels who have no choice but to obey Him and do his will. If he has to do that for us, then it means he will be converting us to angels which we r not. Typing is not easy, I would have gone on and on. But I hope this sheds a little light on the discussion at hand.
EducationRe: JAMB Releases 57,000 Results Of The Saturday UTME by kunleben1: 10:05am On May 16, 2017
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CelebritiesRe: Charly Boy And Omoyele Sowore March With Protesters (Pics, Video) by kunleben1: 3:04pm On Feb 06, 2017
I read a lot of comments from the ibos always tagging the yorubas as cowards. Many r saying all these for d fun of it.

The igbos always think bravery is when u have muscles and big chest and can throw punches and run ur mouth. Smh.

An average yoruba man approaches any incidence tactically. If it's a fight or war, yorubas believe more in tactics than 'gra-gra' .During ds period, a typical keyboard ibo warrior will tag them as cowards.

Has it not occured to u guys that day reason y ur much craved biafra became a mirage is because of just one Yoruba man?one yoruba man single handedly won the biafra civil war over to the hausas. Tactics.

Today, there would have been a biafran state but for the tactics of obasanjo. Tinubu tactically ousted jonathan(dont ask me how. If u don't know, stop reading here). How many notable national activists of core igbo decent can u proudly mention today died a hero of activism or is still living as an activist apart from d vagabond, nnamdi kanu? Today, I can proudly mention gani fawehinmi. I can mention fela anikulapo kuti. I can mention adams oshiomole. Olukoye ransom kuti. What about ayo fayose. Pastor tunde bakare. Abeg mention ur heroes that have always lent their voices relentlessly against the government like these poeple.

In fact, yorubas have always been d final deciders of any election. Goodluck jonathan won because of the yorubas and he lost cos of them. I can go on and on.

The slow movement of a Leopard is not due to cowardice. Yorubas are very peaceful and won't fight or go to war easily but when war or fight is inevitable, it's a total showdown. May it not get to that in our country.

Empty vessels make the loudest noise. I am proud of my tribe. I am Proudly yoruba
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please Stop Doing These 9 Things When Applying For Jobs Online by kunleben1: 3:54pm On Jan 24, 2017
maxwell767:
@ Op.. Nice write up

But let me draw ur attention to Number 9.

Am sure u are fully aware that the age u gained admission into tertiary education may not be the expected age u came out..

E.g gaining admission at the age of 20 year
Expecting to graduate after ur four years course at the age of 24, but came out at the age of 28 due to the Economic situation.

You talked about experience, let me ask u, how will one get experience if people like u don't give them the opportunity..

There are thousands of people who graduate from universities only to waste their skill which they acquired to some linier jobs...

E.g a doctor decided to go into petty trade

I read ur thread and I have to tell u that I am disappointed, why? Cause u make boast of ur self especially the one you threw cv's into the bin..

Has it ever occurred to u that those people might have a good potentials of which u can help them to find it.

And how are u sure that those ones that got it right wrote the CV's and cover letter themselves, and at the end of the interview u will be amazed by what u see.

Please don't be deceived by those so called great professionally written CV, what matters most is how the employees DELIVER!
Don't mind this mumu hr who is rather happier throwing cvs to the bin. He is such a lazy one. I'm an advocate of a good cv but ds guys shd just stop painting it as if it's an end in itself.
InvestmentRe: The Mistake Was December Frozen #MMM by kunleben1: 7:09pm On Jan 18, 2017
emmayayodeji:
I troll mavrodians for a living grin

Awfar original ropes dey ohh
Tokunbo ropes dey
Even chinko rope dey


U no wan stress ursef go bush hang Ur self? We get rope wey follow tree come. Ready made grin
Bad guy. grin grin
PhonesRe: June 31st Postponement Is Fake. Whatsapp Has Ended Support For Blackberry Phones by kunleben1(op): 10:59am On Jan 01, 2017
HQuadreal:
Is either your blackberry operating system is not up to date or your whatsapp is not the latest version go to blackberry world and update it.
Thanks. I will update the app and revert with my observation.

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