SweetCunt97:
Total nonsense! So the lady can't survive without the fool that absconded that she has to wake up to this Expired Face everyday?

Abeg, let's drop the foolish mindset in this country abeg.

Apparently not. Majority of you lot cannot survive without man or marriage.

She will suck that old man's slioong for food to eat and a roof over her head

Warrgidanairala:
I'm unsettled about their marriage may it last long anyways

Why? Because you think she earns more than him or what?

CHoccolaTE:
OP you are very right, men are sociopaths

They know this but truth is bitter so they will argue with you instead.

Men are just problematic and majority of them are criminals, armed robbers, rapists, killers, scammers etc.

Bunch of problematic people.


Many men are just animals.

Nice one!

And this why you changed your moniker from "f" to "m" because you identify with every character trait you've just described

LadyTianna:


I only corrected you so that you wouldn't keep embarrassing yourself online using words that you don't understand

Have a good day too.

Gbam! ..and in her little mind she has won

LadyTianna:


You clearly lack understanding of "figures of speech" if you think you made a pun in your earlier statement. Go back and read what you typed, then pick a secondary school literature textbook and read up 'puns'. The basic explanation there might give you a clearer understanding of its meaning and usage



Yes, you're right. Polygamy wasn't explicitly stated in the article. It doesn't change the fact that its possible that the man has more than one wife tho. That being said, I would never support evil regardless of gender. The woman should be punished for what she did. End of discussion.

Your gender burnt a boy's hands - yet you want me to be explaining puns to you?
Imagine a fool firing blanks at an unseen enemy - yeah, that's how your desperation for a comeback makes you look.
Have a good day!

ImaIma1:
People like Kuns84 and my dear Toks2008 will devise and develop a good plot on how the woman is to blame.

It's probably her fault that he is marrying a new wife.

It's his right to marry a wife with her money because she has to understand his sexual weakness and go along with whatever he wishes

Shots fired!!

.**runs out of thread

Imalma1 my love, nice to see I've left a lasting impression on you

LadyTianna:


First of all, there's no pun in that statement, so saying 'no pun intended' was unnecessary.

This is would be funny if you actually had an iota of the brain power you've convinced yourself that you have. The first rule of common sense is basic comprehension my dear.

LadyTianna:


Second, the woman is very much to blame here because she committed the crime. However, the fact remains that if men decide to stick with one woman and have all their children from one woman, this kind of occurrence would not be so common. How many times have we read this kinda stories on front page? Practically every week. Shouldn't that tell you that polygamy has more cons than pros?

Where in this article was polygamy mentioned? Why are you hell bent on dragging polygamy into this? Is your husband about to remarry or are you a pained product of a polygamous home?

The article said she is a stepmother. that could mean anything - the father got divorced and remarried? the mother of the child is deceased?
Your desperation to pin this topic on polygamy says it all

Tunde835:
From d title of your post i'm guessing you're trying to make a new post to go against sman threads. Everybody knows that society is run by men most scientific progress that has helped pushed civilisation to this point were made by men. The richest people on earth are men thats because while men will work hard to become rich, women will just try look for a rich man to marry. Now nigerian girls in particular are very lazy and broke but yet want to live unrealistic nd expensive lives so they leech on men by having multiple boyfriends nd bill dem regularly; others join prostitution. When they start billing guys to meet their unrealistic demands it gets to a point dat his account becomes low due to the constant billing, when the females realize this they run off to other men nd den label d guy they made bankrupt broke. Now Nigerian men hav started SMAN to stop giving in to ladies unrealistic demands because they realise that its better to be called stingy than be called broke.

The thing is most men would've continuously remained happy going broke for their women if they were at least guaranteed a faithful woman to call their own.

But nowadays, you are going broke, sponsoring disloyal hooes who are billing multiple poor guys and using the accumulated funds to start businesses, build houses, buy bone straight and birkins while 5 struggling broke ass-niggas are squatting in one studio apartment trying to make ends meet.

Spending on 'girlfriends' has always been a foolish and futile venture.

LadyTianna:


I didn't blame the man. I simply called attention to one of the dangers of polygamy. In men's quest to gather as many woman as they can, especially poor men, there's a high possibility that some of the women will be toxic. Did you skip the part where I called the woman evil? The women might compete for his attention, but they will surely hate their rival wives and children of the other wives

Do whatever you want with your shriveled prick and hard earned money, just remember to save some of that money for hospital bills in case some of your wives turn out to be psychos

Oh, so you went back to edit your post just to add this gibberish?
You are a lost cause. *Sigh.

LadyTianna:


I didn't blame the man. I simply called attention to one of the dangers of polygamy. In men's quest to gather as many woman as they can, especially poor men, there's a high possibility that some of the women will be toxic. Did you skip the part where I called the woman evil? The women might compete for his attention, but they will surely hate their rival wives and children of the other wives

Well, this was totally unnecessary and irrelevant to the topic at hand (no pun intended).
and may I add, a failed attempt at gaslighting men - trying to part-blame men for the evil actions a woman carried out solely and out of her own free will.
It's like you people are allergic to accountability or something. My goodness

SweetBuns:

if all your opinions is being gauged on the news and what you read on the net instead of reality then you need to be checked

step father maltreat, abuse and even rape (boy or girl) their step children too regularly... the only fact is that it is hardly reported on the news online !!

just like how Male rape cases on the news are sparse and few!
so mr man keep quiet and stop this bullshit mentality of yours.

And of course, everything has to be a struggle, comparison& competition. Welcome to the annual gender war competition of Nairaland!

A woman burnt a child's hands. Rather than show compassion and focus on the perpetrator of this evil, your embittered soul is more invested in aggressive gender comparisons and dragging men down to your level - with imaginary stories may I add (because I look around in society and see more women abusing children than I've ever seen their male counterparts) the news cannot report what doesn't exist madam. So quit the bullshiit!

Everything a man can do a woman can do better shey?
Congratulations! When it comes to evil and lack of accountability, your gender definitely take the cake. You win.

LadyTianna:
All those men clamoring for polygamy in present day Nigeria, hope y'all are seeing the kinda results it brings? Toxic and evil women who have no love for their husband's other children.

Poor boy

Another proof of how evil women can be - indirectly justifying the evil act of child abuse by blaming men who multi-marry
Instead of lecturing your evil gender on how to be more compassionate to vulnerable children, you are here wailing about what a man chooses to do with his prick and hard earned money.
Nonsense.

SweetBuns:

[s]mr man will you keep quiet?

this repiller epidemic has turned nairaland to something else. every guy forming woman analyser

even in this past age that your are foolishly describing, shey some father and mother didnt still oppress their step children?

haven't you seen a situation where a father hates the step child? or it doesn't exist at all abi?[/s]

No single month goes by without news of a woman maltreating a child. Everyday your gender is burning a child's private part, pouring hot water or acid, putting pepper inside a child's vagina, burning someone alive.
Yes a father can hate a child but what evil actions do you see them inflicting on such child? Kindly post one article showing a step father commiting such atrocities. Just one. I'll wait.

shadeyinka:

Why turn a blind eye to the ills of the boy. I looked at it again from Nigerian eye and conclude that the boy deserves to be disciplined by his parents for such behaviour.

Should the parent have reported their boy to the POLICE? (Would that be a proper legal means of dealing with such offences?)

He is badly behaved no doubt.
But in every situation one must tackle the root cause.
I see a violent, ill-mannered kid who has learned such behaviour from somewhere - most likely home.

This is why for centuries, women have deliberately been subdued and oppressed for the greater good of society. They are evil and power hungry by nature; physically, may appear as 'weaker vessels' but are extremely wicked, hard hearted and lacking in compassion.

When it comes to the abuse of the weak and defenceless (esp. children), nobody does it better than a woman.

SAMBARRY:
Smh

No wonder there are many disturbed,twisted and dysfunctional teens there

Once they're 14 the boys will start doing drugs and start dressing like girls

You think Nigerian youths are any better because they practice their own dysfunction (lesbianism and homosexuality) secretly in boarding schools.

If anything, homebased young people are worse than their diaspora counterparts.
At 14 the average nigerian girl has already been fuccked mercilessly, the average boy engages in violence, scheming and scamming. wickedness & corruption is inbred in their hardened hearts. Flogging only teaches kids how to better hide their bad behaviour so as to not get "punished" again - this is why we are such fantastic hypocrites and pretenders.

Be deceiving yourself.

DrDax:


Not every man has the comfort of billions.

Extraneous variables, as I said.

touché

The boy got into trouble in school for not submitting homework, lying to other pupils, using the word ‘rape’ and for stamping in any injured girl during PE lesson.

This are behavioural traits of a child who gross up in a hostile and violent environment. That the father is a doctor doesn't mean he doesn't have traits of animalistic behaviour.

Mr Okunuga would be foolish to return back to the UK with that same child. That child will be heavily safeguarded and they will continuously monitor every move in that household.

Cousin9999:


Definitely not true. lol

You don't know this for a fact though!
I'm not usually one that clamours for statistics but in this case, you gotta back up your claims with facts and until you do so, I'm well within my rights to assume that the rate of sexless marriages is consistent across all race.

Cousin9999:


Nonblack women generally don't have a healthy sexual appetite. It's either non-existent or bizarre.

Hmm not sure if race plays a factor here. Women generally tend to be the same across all races and cultures. I'm sure there are as much sexually starved black marriages as there are white, asian or interracial.

People are wasting time advising this guy. He will reach out to his ex regardless - he only created this thread for moral support and to get a go ahead.
Simps tend to suffer from Stockholm syndrome.

Both your ex and this new babe are cut from the same cloth. Leeches. Ex was outrightly doubledating, while this one doesn't "bill" you because she's been financed by someone else (whom you think is just a friend)

In case you haven't gave it much thought, your ex was having the same mind-blowing sex with the other guy as she was with you; you were going down on her slurping the juices from that other guy's prick and yet you are here wailing because of some filthy sex with your ex.

Nigerian guys are some of the most desperate and weakest dudes I've ever seen in my life!
Nonsense

DrDax:


Armchair philosophers

Do as I say, Not as I do.

Human behaviour is too random and extraneous for your postulation.

Come back in 50 years to update us on how your "polygamy" went.

Why wait 50 years for Risen's update when we have Ned Nwoko

Cousin9999:

8. Nonblack

Huh? Explain this please.

Nuel4:
this "including your sisters and mother" doesn't have the kind of weight your gender people believe it has. What's special about one's sister or mother?
The guy is still a morron though

Exactly, a lot of people don't give a fucck about their female relatives. Therefore the rebuttal of "your sister,mother, gf" is simply dead on arrival.