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babakb:
The truth is so bitter, Nigerian many are chronic hypocrites.

They come online and bash Nigerian women and go behind and beg the same women for Dating and Marriage.

Hahaha

Don't get it twisted. They just wanna fuccck.

If he's looking for where to build house, I suggest Borno state.

Her spineless father must sizzle that witch's dirty private parts with hot iron before sending her and her ugly children out of his house!
You can't do this to my flesh and blood and get away with it

Beverlyjean:
Really...did u just say that @ bolded ?? ...so he doesn't satisfy u or What?? I don't get ...isnt it enjoyed by both ??..or u see it as a favour or what?? Its confusing

Don't mind her.
Only sexually frustrated women talk like that. LadySarah will soon claim she's "happily married" just to justify her stupid point - again reinforcing what OP has stated about how most of y'all see marriage as the end all be all of your existence
She is bitter and miserable asf.
Happy women rush home to receive good lurvving from their sexy husbands

CalliDora1:
Nope. I mean for time wasted.

Time that could have been used to achieve marriage and children with another man gone down the drain. so it calls for some sort of compensation.

See us see trouble.
Jezebel spirit has possessed 80% of women worldwide

Na by force to marry una?

Going forward, we should also start suing back for all monies spent in relationships once it ends.

No gender has monopoly for displaying madness o

Ghana will soon do "Nigeria Must Go" the way we did "Ghana Must Go" for them.

Karma is real.

virginprincess:
, Redpill this, redpill that, i just laugh when i see this things on nairaland, i laugh because no man on nairaland is actually a redpill.

Did they use man to swear for you? Forever commenting where men are discussing .. as if your childish opinion matters. Kindly fvck off and get a life

The rate at which Nigerians are so thirsty for the acceptance of outsiders tho Once a white/caucasian person expresses a slight interest in anything Nigerian we start foaming in the mouth

After all the hype, I actually went to listen to this girl's music and it's nothing short of TRASH! #justsaying.

helinues:


We go hear the scores of the other protest across the nation by evening.

No room for anarchy

You will soon become a victim of the same oppressive government you are hailing today but when that day comes, don't disturb us with tales by moonlight.

Meanwhile...

Why the hashtag #EndSARS is still being used..

I wish they'd use a different hashtag

Using #EndSars is counter productive.

Why not #RestructureNigeria? We are tired of being ruled by Northern illiterates!

Or #EndArmyBrutality.
Or #EndBadGovernment.
Or #RepairOurRoads.
Or #StableElectricity.

virginprincess:
You wouldn't know the definition of a real man because you are not one, a real man is a man that treat his woman like a queen, values her, provide for her needs, stand by her to defend and protect her always, not people like you that see women as sex tools, that why i like that guy called Nnaezeemnaunel, he knows the value of a woman that why he is ready to defend us at all time. .

..and what are the traits of a real woman?

Nairaland is full of jobless girls who are quick to define what a man should be yet have no standards for themselves. That's why half of you open social media accounts to show off your bodies and twerk for likes since you have nothing else to offer.

You claim men see women as "sex tools" when you sell yourselves as sex tools - sleeping with men (old and young alike) for money. Proud to be a 6th wife like Regina Daniels to an old man for money.

So which gender actually portrays women as sex tools?

GiantParrot:
In normal times, this guy would have been labeled Captain Obvious for stating something that is so consistently true across time and geography. However, we live in abnormal times, woke times, where denial of the obvious in favour of feelings is seen as a thing of virtue and sophistication.

In the next 5-6 decades, when the foolishness of this generation and perhaps the next one have run their course, you'll still find that the SMV facts remain as true as they have always been for the vast majority of human beings.

Apt!

parkervero:
As a man I must say the topic is insulting to motherhood. The OP has forgotten that he has mother

LOL.

Our mothers were not thots like the women of this generation. They brought value to their men (youth, fertility, honor and submission) in exchange for protection and provision.

My mother was loyal and respectful to my father who worked his ass off to provide and care for his family. Together they raised 4 boys and gave us the best they could in life.

Sad to say most girls of this generation possess no atom of dignity or femininity - although there are still some decent ones but majority are being possessed by the Jezebel spirit that is ravaging our young women today. Let a woman come out and say she wants to be a home-maker and a wife and see how her fellow women will insult, ridicule and bully her into a toxic lifestyle of misandry.

Your comparison is null and void.

There are 5 stages one goes through when divulging into redpill content and I believe you are somewhere in between the Anger and Denial phase.

The redpill philosophy is raw, it is shocking, it will make you feel like you've been a fool this whole time, you will go into denial, you will hate women, you will hate yourself, you will hate humanity as a whole.

Then you will realise there's no need for hate and one just needs to accept the hard truth. You will start to live again, but this time with caution and pure undiluted wisdom - nothing will phase you and you will begin to treat women like the equals they so desperately want to be - thus, you will no longer simp for them.

I listen to YouTubers like Rollo Tommasi and recently got into Coach Greg Adams as this guy Genq is always advertising all over nairaland another good content creator is Dr BOA.

I understand how you feel and you will be fine.

That accent tho
Though I'm glad the spiritual scammer has been arrested - he may never get his money back.

Jodha:
I commented so others won't be mislead by the obvious post that lacked reasonable content..

Hope yhu know if everyone has yhur mentality...other guys that want to "procreate" with yhur sister ...will see her as a sex object..

Too bad I only have brothers.... but if I had a sis, that's her issue to deal with! I would expect she'd be smart enough to utilise her God given prime to secure a good husband and a stable future. Not thoting on Instagram, hoeing for money/ flashy things, joining the 'men are scum" geng, only to end up begging for a husband years later like Linda Ikeji.

Jodha:
Why should I read a narcissistic post that'll add nothing to my life.... I'd rather go read a book...

The ability for a average Nigerian guy to always support any post aimed at relegating women to sex objects....is what I can't decipher...

Don't y'all have sisters ... friends or even girlfriend's....or is this how y'all feel about yhur spouses?

If so y'all are deeply messed up ...for real..

Not true. You clearly responded which shows how emotionally invested you are in this topic.

Secondly, we ain't tryna procreate with our female relatives so stop using that redundant line to shame men

donbachi:
I disagree with that guy in strong term.if he says women are "sexual object".meaning,all the men will be doing with the women,is having sex.maybe he forgot that it takes two to tango.

If you read carefully, he's simply saying:
To a woman, the value of a man is tied to his ability to provide, his status and standing in life (success)
To a man, the value of a woman is tied to her youth, beauty and fertility (sexual value) which DECLINES with age.

Jodha:
I stopped at men are success objects and women are sexual object...
What kind of hogwash is that...

People will wake up in the morning...and post gibberish to chase clout....

The inability of the average female nairalander to read and comprehend is what makes it impossible to take you guys seriously.
You didnt read the tweets yet clicked 'reply ' to boldly
type rubbish in a desperate bid to sound 'savage'
Grow up!

This guy has said it all..

More tweets..

Twitter user - Sir Dickson @Wizarab10 had some hard truths to say about the sexual marketplace value of both men and women.

Nuyokoi:
we ?

don't use your personal experience as a means to categorize all women.

Lol.
Coming from the same dolt who said this:

Nuyokoi:
1. get money
2. marry her

Nigerian girls must surely disgrace themselves

This is a broken man. One can't fathom how soul-shattering it is for a man to find out he can never father a child. So, it's only natural he will have outbursts of frustration every now and again - he is going through a lot mentally.

Subconsciously, he might be pushing you away so you can move on with another man and have kids of your own - call it guilt or selflessness.

But the choice remains yours - move on without him or live out years of marital misery.

Although, I won't advice you adopt as I've witnessed too many barren couples adopt innocent children just to end up maltreating them down the line.

JovialJune:
And they have arrived, I don't do senseless banters just to stroke whatever is left of your manliness, nope, so look further to someone else,

May you find peace.

You don't do "senseless banters" but yet you responded. Ode.

I know the kidnappers are Northerners. Blood thirsty illiterates They can kill anyone and anything including their fellow brother. Life is meaningless to them.

This is why I warn friends and family to be careful when eating suya and kilishi from these Northerners - you could be eating human flesh for all you know.

I don't understand this '4months they keep saying. Shey cake no dey spoil ni

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

Ride on jare. Smart woman.

JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

Uh oh, looks like this struck a nerve

Although I didn't expect any less from your ilks. Once a fellow woman refuses to tow your destructive lane of toxic feminism, embittered souls like you will come out spewing hate and misery.

Karashika

Zzor:
Only selfish men do that, a good man allows his wife to know everything about him

You have never made sense for once on this forum. I'm sure you are an alternate account of poco. Or perhaps a lowbudget wannabe

How many times will this topic be flogged on NL