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bukatyne:
I would be wary of a coach who misinterprets a Bible passage to buttress his point.

The verse is telling men not to sleep around or waste their strength.

I am wondering how that matches his article.

I have looked at bride price from the religious [Christianity] standpoint and learnt:

A man (hopefully when he is of age) picks a woman whom he has decided fit into his vision (by God's leading, his own leading, leading of others etc) and invites (by marriage) her by marriage is join him to fulfill that vision.

They form a new branch from the family tree to start their lives.

Bride price is a symbol of a man 'possessing' a woman from her parents out of love and comes with living together, change of name etc to show the world she is his and he is hers.

While a man would appreciate a chaste woman, her chastity is a fraction of what she brings to the table. She brings her gifts, talents, time, resources etc etc. to the table for the growth of the family.

Except all a man needed from a woman is her virginity (he intends to divorce her after disflowering her), the coach doesn't make much sense.

Did you watch the video at all? He is no way religious... rather he treats the bible as an ancient book written by men which contains some truths about female nature .. hence the reference to 'Jezebel '

Secondly, coach gets his title as 'coach' not because he teaches men how to behave or whatever.. but because he is an ex-basketball coach.

Regarding the highlighted, these are all intangible qualities that men also bring to the table in any union. So how is that anything of value to him? If both parties bring the same thing to the table, why should one gender pay to be married to the other?

In the history of all time, bride price has always been the 'price tag' for a chaste bride.. and that's the point.

KevinDein:
No, her case is much worse. She's gotten worse with each passing year. I've seen some bitter people on here, some have taken it a little easy recently, others have deactivated, hopefully trying to figure out life their own way. But her...she just keeps moving from one level of bitterness to the next with each passing year, just turning into an absolute nightmare for everyone.

No fvcking way this is normal

Stark raving mad I tell you. So glad others can see what I see.
CHoccolaTE is at least 42yrs old and lives alone in a shared accommodation. Broke, ugly, shapeless, manless and childless. No wonder she has all day to spread vitriol on NL.
I mean, that post she made on Leshurr's thread was the height of it.. if that ain't signs of demonic possession I dont know what is.
How can a woman be praying for someone to die because of a NL post?

God

apatheticme:
[s]The truth remains that you and your ilks are nothing but cowards and hypocrites!

If anything, this message y'all are getting excited over should call for a sober reflection amongst you guys, but then a black man is not just confused but rejoices and delights in evil. That's why even the holy book said that the heart of man is full of wickedness.

Y'all are complaining that you can't get good girls again and y'all are paying for what someone got for free, pls are the girls sleeping with themselves?? Nor be your fellow men dey defile the girls, or are they sleeping with spirits??

That's why I maintain that y'all are confused! Alfa pillers and real niggaz do everything to get into as many girls panties as possible and brag about it, creating several threads encouraging his fellows to do same, 'swim and pass to the next niggar, no time' they claim. However, fools that they are they forget what goes around comes around.

Suddenly, a few years down the line, some cash here and there, some pressure or urge to settle and have a family with few kids and companionship he suddenly realizes that all the girls are tainted, so as usual, he runs to his darling forum to create threads to vent his frustrations on women, rather than his fellow men who keep the vicious cycle of infidelity alive!

So, it's still the same stupid patriarchal culture of supporting fellow males no matter what, but blaming the other gender for even the sins of his own gender.

Make una nor worry, keep encouraging infidelity and sleeping around like dogs, rather than address and solve the problem keep creating more by having baby mamas and destroying the marriage institution. Keep rejoicing that the female gender is the only one affected and you are the smartest thing after Elon Musk. Let's see if we are not all in this together, let's see if the vicious society y'all are creating will not consume you too. Stupid Myopic misogynistic fellas![/s]

See epistle.

It is well with your soul

KevinDein:
Says the lady who was wishing death on another lady for daring to have a different point of view on the other thread. Chocolate, you are literally the biggest sociopath on this forum and it's not even close. Not a small feat considering this is forum full of deranged sociopaths. You genuinely need help.

As in, she's damaged goods - CHoccolaTE is so broken and damaged, do you know she actually gets her dog to licck that putrid slime hole between her legs??.
This is facts bro.

I pity those who interact with her here.

Cursed fellow

CHoccolaTE:
I wonder when nairaland girls will realize that 80 percent of men are sociopaths that enjoy causing undue stress and unhappiness in women's lives. Nairaland is just the only Avenue they have to anonymously Express their true nature that's why you see them venting all the innate bitterness and hate they have for the female gender.

I know it might sound very sick and depressing but the overwhelming majority of men are misogynistic sociopaths that hate women by default.

Fighting them back will not change anything, they were born like that, just be aware of the innate irrational hate they have for females and be careful of them because they are dangerous.

Ain't you the same sociopath that wished death on a lady a couple days ago?

You are damaged beyond redemption. Bitterness will be the end of you

Mariangeles:
Ask respectfully...

Aww. You know you've made me feel bad now. I'm sorry ma

Mariangeles:
Guy! All these s'alaye because of one simple question?
Baba, ko to yen nau...
Gbogbo hinsults yen o nesestri...habi?
I no go insult you sha

If only nairaland likes were daggers, most of us would've been dust 6ft under

ka ni pe for every like wey your comment get, you go collect as small as one naira, na then you go come know how wicked and stingy most Nairaland people be
Backstabbers make una dey try fear God abeg!

I won't lie, you're a funny woman and I gbadun your sense of humor

But on this occasion, kindly fvck off

Titi03:
All her posts her ridden with insults... such a crass, uncultured and vile miscreant.

I looked at her profile picture and realised it's not every tom, dick and harry you respond to. She looks as stupid as she sounds

Daaang

Titi03:
So, I'm Male because I didn't join you guys in displaying foolery? Ok, I'm a male then...

Didn't I tell you?

Mariangeles:
You're married, aren't you?
Do you regret being married to your wife?

Go and ask your husband this daft question (that's if you have one).

I just knew someone would bring my wife into it. If not wife, mother. if not mother, sister. if not sister, all the females in my lineage

NL chicks are so damn predictable its hilarious!

I posted what someone said on a YouTube video. How is that my fvcking problem? Kindly click the link and go respond to the gentleman directly. Ciao!

aluyapreston:
which vagina?
that dirty, urine ravaged stinking hole is not something I will be crazy over. Good grief! I wish some men had sense. no woman born of a woman can manipulate me with sex. impossible!

You said "which vagina" I nearly choked on my coffee

crackhaus:
There is a point to be noted in this guy's comment below.

However while he advocates for a shunning of the marriage institution, I believe there is a solution that is much simpler:

Don't pay top dollar naira for a woman other men got for free.
And if another man chooses to pay top dollar naira for a woman YOU got for free, then that's his own loss... absolutely not your problem.

Everyone can go home now, I've settled this quarrel...

Yo, I always look forward to your comments dawg.

These woe-men be menstruating over threads like somebody drank their last garri

They spent the last decade clamouring for the stupid feminist agenda - truly believing they were 'winning' but now the tables have turned and men have found their own movement, they can't handle it.

Cry babies.

Let them keep throwing hissy fits like that's gonna change anything

Magnoliaa:
That's the way to go. We might as well enjoy and take full advantage of the vagina men are crazy over. They are always the sexually pressed ones, and women control sex as they like to claim after all. They should shame away.

How you know it's over is when they OPENLY admit that vagina is their only bargaining chip and all they have to offer!

BigBashiru:
It has nothing to do with suffering and isn't survival instinct.... it's cruelty of the negros.... there are other ways to survive....

Touché
You've got a point there... but Nigerians are particularly notorious for this shiit

*sigh

I'm taking all my threads to the Romance section henceforth.. pocohantas has spoiled this thread with numerous alternates.

Hathor5:
Stale.

Like your pucci

Yamiriflathead:
Marriage issa scam

Marriage was a solution to a specific problem. That problem has now been solved by Feminism, therefore marriage is obsolete.

Men are waking up gradually and they can't handle it. Our mumu don do abeg.

Hathor5:
I am like Pocohantas? Thanks for the compliment.

Hathor5:
I ignore them most of them time but today I have an hour to waste on them.

Hi poco, why not use your real account for your hour-long trolling .. we are eagerly awaiting your 'savage' responses

Cutehector:
But why are the ladies up there pained.

Because their market don spoil

pocohantas:
Very smart to identify them. Next thing is to ignore their threads.

By quoting your own alternate

Pocohantas AKA LadySarah AKA AntiBrutus AKA Hathor5 AKA Breaststroke

Titi03:
Why take a generalistic post as a personal attack? Who mentioned anything about your puss and what you chose to do with it?
I don't see the need for all these rants to be honest.
Calm down

Lolz.
She'll soon respond to you ranting like a mad dog. Don't be surprised if she also tags you as a "man".. hehehe

Ahmed0336:
HML to the newly wedded couple.


[b]poverty poverty poverty!!!!

how many times did I call you?

leave me [/b]and locate the commenter below

You are poor because Obasanjo and other political miscreants looted your country dry!

Shortyy:
I have nothing to debate here. I'm sick and tired of this same topic. It's becoming very irritating.

Then don't comment. Simple.

Especially Nigerians.

Nigerians have suffered so much that once they see a kind person, the default setting is to extort and exploit that individual to the fullest.

It's a vicious survival instinct that is very prominent amongst a poverty-stricken populous.

Hathor5:
The sooner you get into your skulls that we don't sell out our pussies the better. Maybe the women in your life do but there is no hoe in my blood so when I have sex I have it to please myself in the first place. That's how selfish I am.

If you have a problem with my sexuality, go hug transformer.

And nobody is stopping you from marrying a virgin. Good luck crybaby!

...and another one

Shortyy:
Stupîd man. What about the women you used and dumped? Why didn't you marry them? The woman you disvirgined, why didn't you marry her? Shey na person go marry that one abi?

Useless men. Always talking rubbish without thinking. If you feel like all women are used and you can't pay to marry anyone. Stay single then, and don't bother having any affair with anyone. When you're Hot because you men are always Hot, use your hand and satisfy yourself.

Or you can go look for the woman you broke her hymen and marry her.
.

Not surprised at all. Rather than debate your point logically, I knew childish 'f' monikers will show up here throwing insults and tantrums

In a recent YouTube video by Coach Greg Adams, a Nigerian man can be seen speaking pure facts about the institution of marriage.

Source:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zn-0ZeIIHPc

This will never end.

They "disbanded sars" but police are still on the roads asking for bribe.

From the way these "officers" are so aggressive about extorting money from motorists, it's obvious that this is a directive coming from the top - they probably have monetary quotas to fulfil.

Typical of the average Nigerian. Corrupt and greedy to the core. Women especially.

Tomorrow they will claim "women supporting women"

Baboon dey work, monkey dey chop.

Cousin9999:
The job market is sexist. It's easier for a guy to earn.

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Certainly not in Nigeria bro. Women are more likely to get blue collar jobs (like bank jobs) because of their looks, while men are forced into hard labour.

When was the last time you saw a female bricklayer or mechanic?

Goodman247:
sex is mutual, are you not enjoying it

Help me ask them o. They get more head than we do nowadays sef. Every chick expects you to lick that slime btw their legs, yet they act like they're doing you a favour

babakb:
No mind them, these sissy guys just want to exploit women.
They want financially independent women.
They want her to pay 50% of the house bills or more.
They want her to remain super slim and sexy even after giving birth to 3 kids.
They want her to buy her house and her car in their name.
They want her to keep quiet and endure when she catches them cheating.
They want her to keep quiet and endure domestic violence.
They want her to quietly clean them up when they come back home drunk and intoxicated.
They want her to always thank them for marrying her where as they are the ones that made the marriage proposal.

Damn, it's not easy being a Nigerian woman right now.

Yes, under duress and emotional blackmail.

Most men are getting married not because they truly wanna give up their freedom and independence for one woman, but because they are repeatedly coerced and made to believe marriage is what makes you a real "responsible" man.

I thank God men are waking up gradually. It no longer pays to house and feed an entitled, disloyal woman who will most likely bring home bastard children for you to raise.

Women, you asked for equality - therefore, work hard for your own resources and keep quiet! Thank you.