₦airaland Forum

Soldiers that only have bravado towards defenseless citizens.
If na to go Sambisa, dem go remember say dem no get weapon.
Idiotss.

Hathor5:
I find your red-pill movement and alpha talk extremely ridiculous and pathetic and it's not because I am looking for a husband. Stop deceiving yourselves.

You quoted me as if I give 2 fvcks about your opinion

Olude193:
Very fugly thing

No wonder that ugly doctor girl too that claimed he raped her could fall for him

Birds of the sane feather ynash together

He forced himself on that girl.

Like a lot of his Twitter followers, she was blind-sided thinking he is some big shot Dr in the UK... she thought she'd hit jackpot when he offered to bring her abroad but when she got here and saw what he really looks like, she couldn't bring herself to put out. So he forced himself on her unfortunate self as he felt entitled to her pu*** since he contributed to her travel expenses.

My 2cents on that situation

Gamesmart:
This is the moronic nonsense you heard where and decided it was a "fact"?

Your daft ass lives in environments where open gutters is normal and everywhere stinks but you are calling civilised and superior people who live in lovely environments "dirty"?

The people doing you with juju that is affecting your brain are wicked!

Oh dear. it ain't my fault you suffer from inferiority complex thus placing white folks on a pedestal.

I, on the other hand, don't.

Goodbye.

Netanya:
I find it hard to believe this 'cos he lives in UK .

How does him living in the UK affect how he looks? Go check out his Facebook page if you think I'm lying
'Olufunmilayo Oluyemi Ogunsanya'

Granted this particular picture might have been taken in Nigeria but that doesn't change the fact that his followers are oblivious to the reality of his true self.

SenorFax:
Any proof??

Visit his Facebook page:
'Olufunmilayo Oluyemi Ogunsanya'

boyjo:
Preetti is actually write.
I noticed that too in NL.
When it comes to women, these boys suddenly put on their aloha ego to talk down and disrespectfully of ALL women.
But mention "Providing" "Protecting" "Professing", you go find this alpha ego tire!

Does alphamaleism mean to disrespect women? I don talk say I go ask the President of the Alpha Male Association of Naitskand but I never get chance.

See Alpha male association members all over Nairaland looking for Sugar Mummy upandan.

Make una give una life to CHRIST JESUS, na the only thing wey go fit give una meaning to life be that o.

In all honesty , I believe women started the disrespect by using "feminism" as an excuse to broke-shame, insult and belittle men.
Its unfair to dictate to men how to react to the toxicity that has been thrown their way for years now by uncouth, bitter and miserable misandrists

Dr Olufunmilayo Oluyemi Ogunsanya popularly known as "OurFavOnlineDoctor" on Twitter currently uses an old picture of Ben Carson as his DP. Whereas this is what he really looks like:

Preetti:
It's only in women matter they have strength. Team "Alpha" apes

I keep seeing childish kids like you making comments about 'alpha' males.

This is popular shaming tactic used to quench the effects of the redpill philosophy which is spreading like wildfire...

Comments like yours makes it obvious that women are starting to panic #justsaying

BigDawsNet:
My people dint regret

So I won't too

Tho I'm about settling with a white lady

Did you know white people generally take a bath or shower only once or twice a week?
Forget how pale their skin looks, they are dirty asf.

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

I agree with your point except for the baby mama talk. Having a baby mama will bleed your pockets and cost you a lifetime of misery - that's if you're even guaranteed that the kid is yours in the first place.

Dr Olufunmilayo Oluyemi Ogunsanya popularly known as "OurFavOnlineDoctor" on Twitter currently uses an old picture of Ben Carson as his DP. Whereas this is what he really looks like:

spinna:
Sorry bro just indulge me.. What tribe are this couple?

Yoruba - but why does it matter

LadySarah:


This life no balance at all. The woman learnt well from men.

I didn't create this thread for childish gender debates/comparisons from you and your ilks please. Grow up.

I know people may despise what I'm about to say about my mother inlaw, but this is the kindest way I can express the truth; my mother-inlaw possesses all the traits of a NARCISSIST and is extremely abusive towards everyone around her.. Things are so bad that my wife alongside her siblings have all turned against their mother as she is extremely vicious, malicious and won't stop causing chaos in their personal lives - my marriage is also inclusive of this. I've always tried to be polite and respectful towards my mother inlaw despite the tempestuous relationship between her and my wife and I'm often the victim of back and forth tug-of-wars between them.

However, the biggest victim in this situation is my aging Father in-law who has spent several years of his life in total servitude to his overbearing wife and now approaching 70, is finally trying to leave an abusive situation by filling for divorce. We his children are very supportive of this decision as it's so painful to watch this kind, calm frail man who has always been a jolly father and grandfather (despite his terrible marriage), now become a shadow of himself. My mother inlaw seems to be getting worse with age - she openly expresses her hatred for him, calls him a weakling, mistreats him, but yet refuses to leave his house because according to her, he will die soon and she won't allow him marry another woman who would come and take this house from her - this house is the only house my Father inlaw has to his name and cannot afford to lose it (he built this house as a single man before marrying my wife's mother).

I've held a meeting with my wife and her siblings to find out if their father ever did something wrong to deserve such treatment from his wife (their mother) but it seems his biggest offence was trying to divorce her a few months into the marriage after getting to know her true character. She refused to leave back then and they went on to have 4 children. However, when things became unbearable, he successfully separated from her by moving abroad for some years. She went on to leave her children under the care of several family members in a bid to go locate him abroad then forced herself back into his life through the help of family members who pleaded on her behalf. Once they reunited, they returned back to Nigeria where her mental, emotional and physical abuse began again but this time was supported by my wife and her siblings who were kids at the time and were lied to that their father was a deadbeat who ran away with a white woman abroad, so they naturally took sides with their mother whenever there was a fight - until they began to grow up to realise how manipulative and abusive their mother has been all these years.

The bone of contention right now is that my wife has moved her father into our house as she can no longer stomach the sheer wickedness being metted out to him by her mother who has still insisted on not leaving this man alone. My father -inlaw desperately wants her out of his life but is quite depressed at the thought of losing his house to his soon to be ex-wife.

Please help this is affecting my wife and her siblings so much - and because of the close bond we all share, it's beginning to affect me too. How can we get her out of his life and out of his house for good please.

Lol.
Niggas like rentAcock are too "rich" for all these. There are the ones sending money to those abroad

ultron12345:
Well, I no longer practice medicine. Practiced for only few years before going into business and haven't looked back since then.

However, I always find time, at least every month, to donate my medical skills as a way to give back to the society, to the country that gave me such a valuable degree at almost no cost. Nigeria subsidized my medical training, I got my medical degree for less than $100 a year compared to my counterparts abroad who had to cough out tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars or get themselves neck deep in debt just to get an MBBS or pay over half their income in taxes, and I will forever be grateful for that.

As things currently are, Nigeria is just spending huge amounts of money subsidizing the healthcare systems of other countries with cheap manpower, especially the UK's NHS.

Medical education is expensive. That's why as rich as the UK is, they rather snatch doctors from other poorer countries rather than establish more medical schools for their citizens to fill in their shortage of medical professionals. Nigeria does the heavy spending by subsidizing medical training and then looses it all to other countries, effectively subsidizing those countries.

Nigeria has to realize this. It's either the government makes doctors pay the real cost of their training or they make them sign agreements to serve the country for an agreed number of years before leaving. Anyone not okay with this, should attend a private university or go and school abroad. You can't pay $100 a year as tuition and expect to earn US or UK salary in Nigeria. Yes, the Nigerian government has some faults with the health sector but my Nigerian medical counterparts are also too arrogant, expecting to be paid dollars in Nigeria.

The average primary school

Well for the quality of education offered plus the salary Nigerian doctors eventually earn, I think the cost of MBBS in Nigeria is relatively fair.

What sort of business are you into btw?

With the way things are going in this country, I seriously doubt if the healthcare sector will improve anytime soon - especially as the Federal Government has recently made even more cuts to the sector. Things have depleted to a state of obscurity and I am simply fed up.

Between 2017 - 2019, there was a wave of Doctors fleeing abroad. However some of us stayed behind for one reason or the other, many of whom are now left with regrets. I personally had the opportunity to leave for the UK but couldn't due to my wife's sentiments (I have a previous thread on this).

My fellow medical practitioners, if you are still in Nigeria, what is keeping you here? Do you plan on leaving once the global state of affairs return back to normal?

sweetmelanin:
Are you really a man though? ...you certainly don't sound like one

Lmao. He's not

Kingarthur21:
no one did..the fact I am pro man doesn't mean I should always cheer irresponsible behaviours from some men.I will have daughters some day.

Good for you but I think you're firing all the wrong shots here.

Paternity fraud is very much relevant to this discussion.
. and as much as it is WRONG, you cannot equate the level of sacrifice, deceit and trauma it brings to a situation where a man has a baby mama on the side! ..Reasons? Well, I don't think I can explain it better than Bukatyne has.

bukatyne:
Infidelity with children is different for men & women.

Husband:
A husband cheats and has a kid. He can decide to run a parallel family or bring the kid home if the marriage currently has no kids, no boys etc. The worst he will do is to bring the child home as 'his brother's child or uncle' s child' that is lie about the relationship. At No POINT is the wife deceived that the child is hers.

Wife:
She cheats and gets pregnant. Except the husband has established he is impotent or did not sleep with her during the window, he will automatically assume her child is his. So the husband invests all resources in a child that is not his right from when she is pregnant.

There is also wear and tear that comes from pregnancy and childbirth. So the husband probably ran out at 2am to get Ghana Jollof + Port Harcourt Boli for a child that is not his; he endured all the discomfort and abstained from sex for months for a child not his; the wife's body changed and he had to work with her through it for a child not his; he kept vigil when the baby was ill; he cheered when the baby took her first walk; when he grew his first tooth.

Paternity fraud is the difference between love children of cheating husbands/ wives.

Cc: Romangalactic

Very apt!

Bukatyne you're the smartest woman on NL. That comment of yours sums it up perfectly. Thank you