₦airaland Forum

bennyraz: And the e-fight begins# Iyalola Vs Freakyamanda# Round one Start#

agreene: I am an African American woman living in the states and not in a million years would my bf seize my phone. What is that about?

Just leave him because he is pathetic. In any relationship you must show your partner how you want to be treated -1st by treating yourself

with respect and dignity. I was really close to my college best friend. He is Nigerian. We decided to start dating and I broke it off

because he lacks communication. He goes days without calling. When you have all the signs- it doesn't take other people to tell you what is really

going on here. He is disrespectful and self centered. Sometimes you must remove yourself from such negative situations in order to know your own

self worth. He has drained you of your dignity and self respect. Sometimes we you love someone you hope they will love you enough to treat you

like you want and asked to be treated. I have learned in past relationships if you allow a person to disrespect you they will continue until you

draw boundaries. Pick you head up...Mend your heart. You deserve to be with someone that will shower unconditional love your way.

Learn your self worth. Take this time out to distance yourself from him. Write about your feelings. Start journaling. The 1st couple of days will

be tough. You will feel as if you can't breathe without him. You will feel nauseous but love you will survive. Once all the shade comes off from where

he has blinded you for years..you will wake up one day and say WHAT THE Bleep WAS I THINKING?

I will pray for you.

Amanda

Impulse80: in Nigeria the only time a man opens d car door 4 his wife(or chic) is if the wife is new or the car is new!

dabrake: a sentense can be interpreted in many format. At least, you can see that the percentage of nairalanders disagreement with respect to your post is 100% so using the 'comprehension' word here is very lame. No oofeinsese

lalaosky: Yes o..i wud rada remain a bachelor.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww

lalaosky: Mtchheeeewwww...so if he z far behind you and u r @ d door of ur house/mall,u wil wait 4him to come and open the door 4u?...wish it was me,i will even lock d car door on u...

Connoisseur: I wonder what he did to make you get that impression

y me: I think what you lack more in your marriage is communication
I am thinking a vacation could be of help and rekindle the lost love in the marriage
It would be ludicrous to throw away six years relationship with three beautiful children
I will advice you both to sit down and reflect on how this began, reflect on the good times, is divorce gonna be the answer?
In this era many women tend to treat divorce as a lifestyle rather than last resort to a no-way-out problem
You owned it yourself u are not improving in love making, what have u done about that?
sex is what lubricates a marriage.
This to me is just a phase but how u intend to go about it solely depends on you
remember A woman is the pillar of her home. You either keep that pillar standing or let it fall.

Bisjosh: How funny men cld be. U saw ur female classmate on fb and u collected her number(for what?). Ur msgs showed on ur wall knowing fully well dat ur gf wld see it(lack of respect). Then when ur gf said she wld b coming over, u opened her fb (for what?)to find out if she was also cheating on u?(insecurity). I believe she wanted to cheat on u too for cheating or wanting to cheat on her(WRONG!!!). Its better u guys end it cos both of u dnt know what u want. BUT STOP BLAMING ONLY D GIRL COS BOTH OF U ARE TO BE BLAMED!!!!!

U couldn't hav said it any better