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Politics / Re: LP’s Problem Is Not About Tinubu, It’s About Greed - Oseni Rufai by kwasoly(m): 6:18pm On Mar 28
helinues:
grin

Peter Obi, LP and their supporters have been using clothes to cover the smoke we have been visibility seeing.

A party built based on falsehood shall definitely crumble.

Things are now not just out of hands but out of legs . grin


Cry me a river!!!
Foreign Affairs / Re: Putin Wins Russia's Election With Staggering 87% Of Votes (Photos) by kwasoly(m): 9:20am On Mar 18
Paraman:
Russians love Putin the way Nigerians love Tinubu.


Make thunder no fire you for this rubbish you write, anu!!!
Religion / Re: Why Do Some Great Pastors Die Young Despite Healing Many by kwasoly(m): 9:53pm On Mar 17
EreluRoz:
I can never marry a pastor lailai. I love to sleep and relax very well so I can't marry someone that'll deprive me of that.

We cannot marry you too.
Family / Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by kwasoly(m): 10:08pm On Mar 10
jmoore:

Una just dey quote bible with misinterpretation.


I have noticed you even without making sense.
Business / Re: The Moment Body Of Herbert Wigwe Arrives Isiokpo For Burial (video) by kwasoly(m): 4:58am On Mar 09
Domaining101:
Idiots. Let him and the wife and their useless son go to hell. After all the enjoyment, traveling all over the world, flying jets and helicopter up and down, eating chicken and turkey, drinking juice, shebi e don end? I Heard it was even cardboard they use in bringing their smelling dead bodies back from Ablord 😂 When the fools where alive, you'll never see them doing anything for poor people, there own na to dey send their children go abroad go school, MIT, Cambridge, Oxford, while our own for here dey strike, let them go and die abeg.

How i wish God can take elumelu and that his daughter next.



This is a fulfilment of the scripture the heart of man is desperately wicked, even in death bitterness has consumed you.
Is Herbert the cause of your misery?
Is He your father, abi na him carry you enter planet earth?
To the extent wishing Elumelu death.
Amend your ways before is too late
Romance / Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by kwasoly(m): 1:17pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"


Are you ok?
Family / Re: Mum Rejects My Babe Cos She Is Not Fine by kwasoly(m): 5:00pm On Mar 06
sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.


Remind your mumsi how she take marry ur pupsi
Family / Re: I Don’t Talk With My Neighbors. What To Do by kwasoly(m): 2:36pm On Feb 23
Christianoir:
It is weird, I don’t talk with my neighbour, we only greet nd hail each other that where it end, but I haven’t really have any meaningful conversation with them before and it bother me sometimes tho.. I’m mostly an introvert nd the shy type. Is something wrong with me, sometimes I want to speak to them, but me speaking to them will mean being friendly, which I’m avoiding, ever since I rented this compound I’ve avoided trouble. Nd I’m someone who cares about what people say or care about the opinion of others, things get to me easily tho

Do they see me as a proud/arrogant person.
I’m I weird. Is there people out there like me who have neighbors like me.

Im a student tho.

Please ignore my typo error.


As an introvert is your nature to stay on your own, is not a must you talk to them. As long as Una dey greet you no get wahala, if them want your company they can initiate the conversation.
Worryless
Romance / Re: Men Don't Want Me Because I Have 3 Kids - Single Mum Cries Out (pix, Vid) by kwasoly(m): 1:13pm On Feb 22
Chrisrare:
Obviously the man is not a real man. This is the kind of situation that a real man stands by his woman.


Dey play, when she was busy opening her legs she didn't think of the after effect of her actions, now you want somebody's son to come feed another man's children in this terrible economy.
Keep playing!!!

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Travel / Re: Japa!! Which Country Can I Travel To With 8 Million Naira?? by kwasoly(m): 7:27pm On Feb 14
Gemma52:
Hello everyone, with the current exchange rate, which country will be able to move to legally with 8 million naira?
Your suggestions will be highly appreciated.


Any European country.
Politics / Re: IREV Failure: INEC Owes Nigerians An Explanation, Says Jega by kwasoly(m): 7:32am On Jan 27
BluntCrazeMan:


Source:
https://www.channelstv.com/2024/01/26/irev-failure-inec-owes-nigerians-an-explanation-says-jega/


......

Jega has no moral right to talk because he set the pace for his successor to amplify the corruption.
....


Source:
https://punchng.com/reckless-politicians-frustrated-inecs-irev-portal-jega/
Family / Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by kwasoly(m): 7:30am On Jan 27
jmoore:

Una just dey quote bible with misinterpretation.


What I wrote is not for you bro, else you won't be here writing what I don't know.
Family / Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by kwasoly(m): 12:05am On Jan 26
NikoDeBonAmi:
These days we see a lot of people saying at a certain age they are suppose to move out of their parents house. We even see were people attack others for still staying with their parents and thinking of marriage.

If your parents have a big and comfortable home were you stay and then you have a good job or flowing business in that same city or town, what is wrong to remain in your parents home and get married there especially when they are very happy for you to always be around them with your own family.



A man cannot cleave without leaving, it is in the leaving you can cleave to your wife.
The scripture cannot be broken.
Family / Re: My Dad's Driver First Child Looks Different From The Rest, I'm Worried by kwasoly(m): 7:42pm On Jan 24
EreluRoz:
My dad's driver son is right here in our house and he's the first child of his dad, he's totally different from the rest, he doesn't look like his dad neither does he look like his mum, there's no resemblance from both parents at all.

I stylishly dig up stories of how his mum was married because he's been driving my dad even before I was born and I was told she was already pregnant before the marriage ceremony was held and as at that time of their wedding, the woman lived in a different state, she just came and told him she was pregnant and that was how marriage happened .

I have watched this boy from head to toe so I can see at least one feature in resemblance but I didn't see anything, not even from the mom, he's just totally different. The other kids are ok, two share a striking resemblance with their dad while the last took after her mom but with some of the dad features, so are you thinking what I'm thinking?

Should I tell my dad my observation? What do you think?


Hope the boy looks like you?
Sports / Re: AFCON: Uzoho Finally Looses His No. One Shirt To Stanley Nwabili Ex NPFL Player by kwasoly(m): 10:37pm On Jan 20
nazicartel:
and who talked about age here ?



And who invited you here?
Sports / Re: AFCON: Uzoho Finally Looses His No. One Shirt To Stanley Nwabili Ex NPFL Player by kwasoly(m): 5:16am On Jan 20
nazicartel:
The guy is good

So am older than this face am seeing here, dey play...
This guy should be my agemate or senior.
Religion / Re: Your January Salary Is For Me And Not The Church — Pastor Anosike (video) by kwasoly(m): 4:11pm On Jan 18
Tallesty1:
What I find crazy in all these things is that educated Christians who have access to the same Bible will still foolishly believe him.

The fruits offering found its fulfillment in Jesus. After being raised from the dead, he became the first fruit of those who had died. So, the first fruit offering, as it was in the Old Testament, is an adumbration of what is to come—a shadow of what will take place in the future. The fulfillment was in Christ.

Christians are not required to pay first fruit offerings because what it symbolized is God's harvest of souls. Christians are now Christ's first fruits offering to God according to the Bible.


Mr interpreter have interpreted the scripture.
Religion / Re: As A Christian Is It Possible To Practice First Fruit In This Harsh Economy by kwasoly(m): 4:12pm On Jan 14
guobe:
It is the start of a new year and most Christians do practice the act of fresh fruits whereby your first salary in the year or fresh profit of business, first money of your new marriage etc is given to the church.
In this harsh agbado economy in Nigeria,is it possible to practice the act of giving first fruits.



I know what you want to do but it won't work.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: At What Age Did You Land Your First Job? by kwasoly(m): 10:11pm On Jan 03
Sirchiboy:
Not yet gotten job.
40 and I haven't work before 😂


25yrs
Family / Re: Does A Woman Earning More Than The Husband Affect The Marriage? by kwasoly(m): 2:43pm On Jan 02
Notfogotten:
Does a wife earning more than the husband affect the marriage institution?

While a lot of people believe it does as according to them most women in this category tends to disrespect the man; others believe it doesn't as there are women who earn more than the husband and the information is known only between the man and the wife.

What is your opinion, do you have real life
experience or know a family where marriage is suffers because the woman later turned out to be earning more?

What would your advice be for men who later in life earns less than their wives?

What would be your advice for women who later earn more than the husbands


The man should double up his hustle to avoid you know now
Family / Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by kwasoly(m): 6:33pm On Dec 30, 2023
Ahmed0336:
You made few mistakes.

1. You should have hide all your finances from your mother and make things look as if you're struggling and can't afford to marry at the moment.
2. If I were you I won't touch her. What if she gets pregnant
3. This study route is what you should have use to japa before your mum made you to marry her.

Now that she's your wife, I'd advise you stop sleeping with her in other not to get her pregnant cos once there's a child in the picture, things will be more difficult for than already is



Why are you giving him a bad advice not to touch his legally married wife, is he a baby that his mum will impose a girl on.
It clearly shows he is not matured for marriage and should carry his cross well.
Just invest in your wife to become that woman you desire.
You go no where you die there.
Family / Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by kwasoly(m): 8:49pm On Dec 27, 2023
letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.


If you know you don't womanize you already know what to do but if you dey womanize Una two na perfect match

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Romance / Re: After Spending The 50k I Borrowed From Loan App, She Refused To Follow Me Home by kwasoly(m): 10:51am On Dec 26, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.


You are a Big Fool
Romance / Re: I Can't Believe I'm Falling In Love With A Single Mother by kwasoly(m): 5:35am On Dec 16, 2023
L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.


Dreadful lane about to take...
Watch before you leap

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Romance / Re: My Wife Watches Cartoons More Than My Kids At 37 Help! - Man Laments by kwasoly(m): 2:00pm On Dec 10, 2023
DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.

My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.


Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”




This is not a problem if you dey watch your match she dey complain say you dey addicted to football?
Let the woman breath
Family / Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by kwasoly(m): 10:09pm On Dec 07, 2023
chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people


He that is without a sin should cast a stone. If you have not cheated before then you are right but if you dey cheat, the word of God cannot be broken. To the froward I will be to the upright I will be.
Food / Re: Drinking Garri: Who Else Will Never Stop Enjoying This Food? by kwasoly(m): 7:56pm On Dec 03, 2023
SharingIsLife:
I was on Facebook when someone posted this photo and added that "drinking garri will never be your portion".

I wonder why people think that drinking garri is a sign of economic hardship when you can actually spend more on it than on many other food types. As for me, no matter what happens - even if I am elected the Governor of Kogi State grin
- I can never stop enjoying "Otto" with gnut and milk.

Or, could this be a queer taste I acquired from attending a boarding school? Who else is with me on loving this food?

Meanwhile, kindly share a guy name you have for seaped garri in your part of the world. As for me, in my boarding school, we called it "Otto" and we practiced "soak and travel" to add value to it.


Life saver
Romance / Re: Girlfriend Cut Boyfriend Hair While He Slept Because Another Woman Complimented by kwasoly(m): 7:54pm On Dec 03, 2023
Hamilton1:
A man reveals how jealous his girlfriend got after another woman complimented the beauty of his hair.

Narrating the story in pictures, he explained how another woman rubbed his hair and told him he had good hair.

Apparently the girlfriend saw this exchange and was very jealous that another woman complimenting hair.
That night he slept off and by the time he woke up, his hair was gone as his girlfriend cut it off in a fit of rage.

Photo Credit: Glenyce Blissett


Is your name Samson?
Religion / Re: Will A Sinner Who Pays Tithe Make Heaven? by kwasoly(m): 7:53pm On Dec 03, 2023
jesusjnr2020:
Will A Sinner Who Pays Tithe Make Heaven?

If we go by the teachings of Jesus, he certainly won't make heaven.

Jesus said "unless you repent, you shall likewise perish!" Luke 13:13.

He also said no sinner shall make it into heaven. Matthew 13:41.

So do not deceived by those church leaders who preach tithing above the most important things in the law, such as, repentance of sins, that have made many sinners in the church think that it is more important to pay tithes than to turn away from their sinful ways.

They are blind leaders of the blind just as the Pharisees in the days of Jesus who did the same thing, but Jesus called them the "children of hell" regardless of their paying of tithes because inwardly they were full of iniquity. Matthew 13:15,28

So although paying of tithes is a good thing, if you don't repent of your sins, it cannot save you from hell!

You need to repent of your sins!

God bless.


You know the answer still come dey ask?
Romance / Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by kwasoly(m): 7:29am On Dec 03, 2023
SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U grin

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.



Make Una no too blame her that's her choice and she has the right to speak out her desires in her dream man.
But we go still dey here when she go come back to change those desires when those requirements are no where to be found.
Family / Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by kwasoly(m): 7:25am On Nov 14, 2023
crystalmoon:
excuse me
Are you naturally stupid or it is intentional


Go and ask your father because he didn't train you well?
Romance / Re: Lady Shows Off The Items Her Husband Brought For Her Introduction Ceremony by kwasoly(m): 9:17am On Nov 13, 2023
ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjhP28Rw2vc?si=7VhiMbs58iv8pm_e


lady shows off the amount of items her partner brought for their marriage introduction ceremony




As this one day now na only prayer fit keep this one under her man roof.

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