benuejosh: If the Labour Party supporters really want to know the Mr Integrity they were rooting for i suggest for them that the political evangelist, the bloody liar and hypocrite called Peter Obi should account for the campaign funds he collected.
Peejayz: I started teaching at this private school in September. My salary is 10k per month ( I had no choice than to take the job due to alot of challenges I'm facing). My first salary, the man sent 5k (no joke) , I thought it was a mistake from his side , so I went to meet him in his office, he told it wasn't mistake....
I asked him how can I cope with 5k for a month, he said when student pay school fee, he will pay me my balance, I agreed with him ....
Then the next salary came in today , still 5k, I'm so angry and tired at this point... Alot of debt on my head .... 5k can't even clear them , not to talk of what I will use to feed myself.... This is unfair..... I plan to resign... But at this moment, I don't know where I will see money to feed .....
I'm confused at this point, I don't even know what I'm going to do at this point
Start private lesson for your students at a minimal price and quit that slave work.
Donkogbe: Something happened in my church yesterday and its so strange to me.
Yesterday was the youth anniversary so the youth president has been soliciting for funds and yes people complied and myself also. it was time for thanksgiving and all youth danced to the altar then the pastor openly reject the money contributed by the youth to the amount of 50k in the sense that its too small and also making reference to 2years ago when the youth as at that time bought the church drum set to the amount of 250k. he rejected the money and prayed for us.
This is has been disturbing my mind since yesterday and i am just wondering how a pastor will openly reject amount contributed by people.
note this is not mandatory donations and a man of God reject 50k in this economy of Tinubu? i am just having a mix feelings and its disturbing. what your view on this
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Is quite unfortunate that you brought family matter outside, can't you discuss it internally with your fellow youths without coming online? Let's be guided
adaperry25: We've actually done our best and the way its going..we are left to our fate. I just wanted to share here to get an ideal opinion.
My younger bro has been a thorn in our flesh even before my dad died. My late dad kept complaining about him. Bad friends, taking drugs and living an immoral life. This continued and affected his academics and he dropped out from the university.
As we speak, his younger brother is in his final year and yet my brother remains a prodigal son. Early this year, he wanted to fight my mom and I was very angry and we had to lock him up in the police cell for some days. He came out and became calm. After a month, he went back to his old ways.
We warned off his friends to stay away from him. Right now..my mom is ashamed of him as parents have warned their kids to stay away from my brother.
He doesn't sleep in the house and we threatened to lock him up again and he said we can kill him that his life has no meaning.
stanlink: Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise
The sex you are talking about is it with your spouse?
My anus got torn a little bit. I'm finding it difficult to poo normally, because my anus hurts whenever I'm doing so. There's even blood whenever I poo.
Please, I need help on what I can drink or apply to heal my anus and also stop the blood. Please, I would really appreciate your input. Thanks.
Everything God created was good that was why in Genesis chp 1& 2 when God finished creating anything it ends with and God said it was good,note I paraphrased all those quotes. This now brings me to the question, what really happened to your anus because it wasn't so in the beginning. Did you practice anal sex or you abused the anus? Tell me the truth make I know how to help you
micellgevity: A friend came to me yesterday, he wanted to sell his house to relocate to Canada. He is 42+ yrs. He is assured of a tourist visa that will cost him 1.8m excluding ticket.
He wants to know if it is worth it considering his age. Also he is afraid that if he sells his house in Ilorin (a new site) and the things go south what will happen.
Another thing he is assured is that his visa can be extended before expiration. He wants to know whether he can truly work with a tourist visa of 5 yrs and whether his visa can be extended.
Your inputs will be appreciated.
Thanks.
My candid advice is he should not sell his house for a tourist visa of 5yrs, instead if he wants to migrate sharply he can go through school route that is sure. Dm japaconsults on Twitter for more details.
FreeStuffsNG: It looks like end time tins to me o. Smh
I agree that tithing is no longer a new testament command . I don't condemn it if you can observe ALL the conditions tied to tithing where it's is observed and for as long as it's not implied to mean the tithe is cash.
Giving, collection for the Saints, on the other hand can be cash and must never be by compulsion. Rght from the day of Pentecost when the first church gathered and started in Acts 2, it is on record that giving was part of the items of worship from the examples in the early church.
If you give sparingly, you reap sparingly and if you give abundantly, you reap abundantly for God loves a cheerful giver (2 Corinthians 9:6-7)
I understand their objective, I agree that it's an exercise that can help people a lot, turn people towards what they preach and this may be because they have a strong root in NGO works but the Church has a different calling and Giving is an item of worship. Every healthy church must observe it. The Church is the ground and pillar of truth (1 Timothy 3:15). Ire O! Olorun a ri ejo da. Check my signature for free stuffs!
End time church, the likes of freezer will be a pastor here.
Felimax: I love my wife so much, she was just one in a billion.
The way we started and the dreams and projects ahead of us will not allow us to get deterred by our same genotype.
We are both AS and right now we are blessed with an angel and three handsome princes.
My sister rejected her AS genotype husband to be and ran after an AA genotype man who she later married bad as it is they have been married for like six years now but no child.
My marriage of seven years is blessed with four kids already.
Bottom line - go to your God and talk to Him about it. PLEASE DON'T SHOUT, DON'T SHOUT when you are talking to your God. If you shout you will hardly hear Him talking to you..
He will tell you your next line of action. Marriage is of God not man.
IconicR: This skit people should know their boundaries please, they should stop behaving anyhow like their skit master Peter Obi. I'll never forgive Peter Obi for having the guts to challenge Asiwaju in court. I'll only let go when he apologizes and withdraw from the court and finally congratulates Asiwaju.
See human being wey never fit chop 3square meal dey support druglord wey no even know say him dey exist. Bulala say make obi go court him dn go so what exactly is the colour of ur problem?
mrmayoh: In a recent development at Polaris Bank, the decision to grant a substantial salary increase of 100% to full-time employees due to inflation and rising fuel prices has triggered discontent and agitation among its contract staff. Feeling undervalued and overlooked, the contract staff are voicing their frustration over the glaring disparity in compensation and the lack of growth opportunities within the organization. With threats of a potential strike looming, Polaris Bank faces a critical juncture that could significantly impact its operations.
The Unresolved Salary Disparity: At the heart of the contract staff's discontent lies the unequal treatment in remuneration. Despite performing the same duties as their full-time counterparts, contract staff members continue to receive insufficient compensation. Demanding a salary increase of 100%, in line with the raise given to full-time staff, they argue for recognition of their contributions and dedication to the bank.
Long Overdue Opportunities for Promotion: Another point of contention centers around the absence of promotion prospects for contract staff. Shockingly, some contract employees have served in their positions for a staggering 13 years without any potential for career advancement. This lack of professional growth fosters an atmosphere of frustration and stagnation, leading to low morale among the contract workforce.
Equitable Profit Sharing Scheme: The third demand on the contract staff's list is inclusion in the profit sharing scheme. At present, only full-time employees have access to the benefits of profit sharing, leaving contract staff excluded from the rewards of their collective efforts. In seeking fairness and recognition for their integral role in the bank's success, contract staff are asserting their right to be part of the profit-sharing scheme.
The Threat of Strike Action: With negotiations between the bank's management and the contract staff still ongoing, tensions remain high. The looming possibility of a strike is putting Polaris Bank on edge, as the contract staff constitute a significant portion of the bank's workforce. A strike could lead to operational disruptions and tarnish the bank's reputation, underscoring the urgency to address the contract staff's grievances promptly.
As Polaris Bank navigates through this critical situation, finding a mutually beneficial resolution is of utmost importance. Acknowledging the vital role played by contract staff and addressing their demands for fair compensation, opportunities for promotion, and inclusion in profit sharing could foster a more harmonious and productive work environment. Balancing the needs of all employees will not only strengthen the bank's position but also promote a sense of loyalty and dedication among its workforce. The ultimate goal must be to foster a work culture where every employee feels valued and motivated to contribute to the bank's continued success.
I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.
Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.
I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.
I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?
The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.
Thanks in advance for your responses!
Paraphrase the question to is suffering in the country really worth it.
Humblelion1987: Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice. I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.
When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.
She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.
I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.
Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
There is what we call integrity test in the banking system, I will strongly advise you to test ur so called lover to actually know if she loves you or the money. Mind you all these can still be a game plan to use you achieve their goal. Test her loyalty before investing again on her.
Penguin2: After Atiku felicitated with Peter Obi on his birthday yesterday, Kwankwaso and Saraki joined in wishing him well on birthday too.
If anything, I’d say I’m not surprised at Saraki’s post since he’s a refined gentleman and I suppose he’s even a closet friend of Obi, but Kwankwaso’s own is what surprised me. Row
We no see tinubu own.....
Because not only did Kwankwaso lampoon whenever he got the chance Obi during last electioneering period, he was never shy dragging his entire ethnic region into his vituperative utterances then.
One now wonders what changed? Is this an evidence of political realignment?
Iamgrey5: In my years alive, I have never seen a more brainwashed set of people than the supporters of labour party.
Firstly, the problem been referred to here is the likely pandemonium the 25% in Abuja debate if ratified by the Court will create for future Elections.
> It will elevate Abuja voters above all other states in Nigeria.
> It will go against the constitution of Nigeria that states all votes cast in Nigeria are equal because it will mean casting your votes in Abuja is more important than casting it in Akure, Onisha or Kano.
Secondly, a runoff doesn't itself guarantee that the winner of the runoff will still get the 25% requirement in Abuja. So will we simply continue to go for runoffs until the winning candidate get 25% in Abuja even if he gets 25% in all the 36 states of the federation.
Furthermore, this will put a weird spotlight on the democraphics of Abuja in future Elections which might create an ugly situation. Politicians might just import people from other states to make up the 25% in Abuja which might create an unwanted national debate in the future. Tribes will begin to fight over who should be allowed to vote in Abuja etc.
In conclusion, Tinubu's lawyer in his final written argument to the judges is only pushing his legal points with real life likely scenarios that might come out of the judgement.
questioner: My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter. We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.
Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.
Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor. Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue. She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob. My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.
The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night. The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons. Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.
The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router. She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.
Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly. I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret. She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.
Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.
My question is 1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her 2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
Sit her down and talk to her first and an elder sister, before you know the next thing to do. She needs to know the dangers so as not to waste her life.
tonye33: I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.
I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.
6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.
I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife. My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.
I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!?
--Please advise him.
I don't support infidelity in marriage but the man is to blame for the situation he found himself. You married in deceit, why didn't you tell the woman before you married her. I won't pity the man. OYO
TemplarLandry: 👏👏👏Orishirishi. Idris will rue this. In the next 20 years, he'll cry out and start advising youths not to live their lives like he did. I know his type.
jidowu84: It's so painful to write this here cos I am feeling very bad right now. I don't know how to deal with this matter cos it's actually driving me crazy. He is a very wicked soul for sure but his wickedness ought not to affect my family. Kindly advise on what to do. Leaving the job is inevitable but no job in site as an option for now
Before you put this thing to seek sympathy don't you think is right to give us a detailed information so we can know how to assist.
[quote author=naice post=124070940]I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.
To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.
One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.
At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.
I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?
Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."[/quotle]
Was she like that before you married her? If yes I wish you the best because you failed to either correct it or leave her. If No then you need to lay your hand on her head while sleeping to cast out any demon manipulating her.
Guys how legit is this, I'm scared of making the payment only to be disappointed later as it isn't easy coughing out 30k in this economy. Guys I need your input.. The Church is a big church here in Lagos. Please no mods should take this to front-page o so they won't see this
Did they give you any employment letter? If No run for your dear life... Organizations do training for new staff without charging, I smell revamped scam
Victor Hugo Sosa, mayor of San Pedro Huamelula, a town of Indigenous Chontal people in the Tehuantepec isthmus of Mexico, took as his betrothed a reptile named Alicia Adriana, re-enacting an ancestral ritual.
The reptile is a caiman, an alligator-like marsh dweller endemic to Mexico and Central America.Sosa swore to be true to what local lore calls “the princess girl.”
“I accept responsibility because we love each other. That is what is important. You can’t have a marriage without love… I yield to marriage with the princess girl,” Sosa said during the ritual.
Marriage between a man and a female caiman has happened here for 230 years to commemorate the day when two Indigenous groups came to peace — with a marriage.
Tradition has it that frictions were overcome when a Chontal king, embodied these days by the mayor, wedded a princess girl of the Huave Indigenous group, represented by the female alligator.
The Huave live along coastal Oaxaca state, not far from this inland town.
The wedding allows the sides to “link with what is the emblem of Mother Earth, asking the all-powerful for rain, the germination of the seed, all those things that are peace and harmony for the Chontal man,” explains Jaime Zarate, chronicler of San Pedro Huamelula. Before the wedding ceremony, the reptile is taken house to house so that inhabitants can take her in their arms and dance. The alligator wears a green skirt, a colorful hand-embroidered tunic and a headdress of ribbons and sequins.
The creature’s snout is bound shut to avoid any pre-marital mishaps.
Later, she is put in a white bride’s costume and taken to town hall for the blessed event.
You love her and you went and tied the mouth. Just dey play
Politics / Re: Peter Obi: You Failed On Both Counts – APC Tells Obi, Obidients by kwasoly(m): 10:59pm On Nov 06, 2023 
