Stillwhites: It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.
She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?
Do you really think is here u will get the solution to your problem?
SReporters: Many Ladies are presently engaged in smoking marijuana! While many were taught by their boyfriends, others became smokers through their friends!
Many guys who smoke weed, when you ask them, they admit that they enjoy the company of ladies who smoke weed because they see them as fun to be with, jovial, full of life and great in bed too.
But when it comes to making a lifetime commitment, can a guy settle down with a lady who smokes weed?
While some guys won't mind ending up with a wife that smokes, others don't see it as a nice idea.
It's not yet proven yet if smoking weed can hurt the womb of a married woman, thereby putting her in danger of not giving birth to children.
Another reason is that irrespective of male smokers enjoy what they do, they wouldn't want a mother who would be a bad influence to their children.
Whatever be the case, as a smoker, would you love to get married to a woman that smokes weed
Oh you got jokes? You fucking shit stain. Lie down and tremble, your pastor has told you that this year is going to be hell. I guess he alone has the solution, while you are at it, why don't you kill your self and get it over with you dumb Bleep. You absolutely waste of humanity, a waste of skin and bones. Somewhere in the wild there is a tree wasting its energy and time producing the oxygen you breathe, you should find that tree and apologize to it. Come at me again you low life idiot
Righteousness2: The Greatest request of anyone who understands the "Handwritings on the Wall" Would be the Grace to love the Lord with all your heart, live Holy , Righteous and be Qualified to make Heaven whether at Death or at Rapture.
2023 is gonna be a year Choas, Disasters and Destructions on Steriods! There will be much more Fearful sights, Events and Quakings The World will vibrate and shake its Inhabitants to a pulp.
The Only way to be Secured and Survive is to CONCIOUSLY & CONTINOUSLY Hide under the shadow of the ALMIGHTY GOD.
Any other thing will launch you into Lamentations, pains, sorrows , disasters and death.
Zeal0000007: For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.
I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.
This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .
I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.
I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.
I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married. Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.
If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.
I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.
Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.
onthehill: Crossdresser James Brown Celebrates Younger Sister, Grace, On Her Birthday (Photos)
Popular Nigerian crossdresser, James Brown took to his Instagram handle to celebrate his younger sister, Grace Brown on her birthday today, IGBERETV reports.
He shared photos of themselves together with the caption;
Naijaisshitho: Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.
Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.
No be una chat u suppose upload include ur pix make I know how to help u
muykem: What I have noticed about many easterners is that they easily took up fight they can't finish but later playing a victim card. An artist, stars living in Lagos can choose their preferred presidential candidate but must be very careful of mocking Tinubu. This is wisdom and not emotion.
Apply close up because you no talk anything. Na tinubu get Lagos? See this one oh When una dey mock patience Jonathan shey e dey sweet una, now na tinubu turn una dey cry fowl. This life no balance
I just hope Basketmouth is not looking at those other celebrities dumping their spouses and going for smaller girls. Men can copy bad things, you know. Watch video here.
Madam abeg rest when the going was smooth u no motivate us now una dn divorce you dn turn motivational speaker. You no get authority again to advice us as you couldn't keep your home.
It is simple. I maintain that Peter Obi betrayed Dim Ojukwu, and tried to destroy APGA for his own selfish interests. He has continued to undermine Ojukwu’s personality and recently, he has gone ahead to desecrate his legacy. From relative obscurity, Obi was brought into national prominence when the leader, Ojukwu, through his party APGA, offered him an opportunity and platform upon which he ran and became governor of Anambra State.
“Ojukwu sacrificed so much and laboured for him to become governor. He (Ojukwu) was fiercely protective of him and helped him overcome the various challenges that confronted him.
“Peter Obi had a difficult first tenure and stepped on so many toes that the majority of our party faithful were adamant that he should not be nominated for a second tenure. Yet Ojukwu stood by him when it mattered most, jeopardised his health by traversing all the local governments in a rigorous campaign on his behalf and begged the people of Anambra State to grant him a last wish by returning Obi for a second term.
“This feat was achieved for the first time in Anambra State’s history on 6th February 2010. Peter Obi swore to Ojukwu, upon his honour, that he would never abandon APGA; that he would quit politics or die; rather than leave APGA, and that he would preserve this legacy as a potent voice and rallying point for Ndigbo.
“History will judge him (Obi) harshly because the truth of the matter is that it is his pathological fear of political redundancy and oblivion that is now driving him dangerously close to the precipice from where he will soon commit political suicide. The people of Anambra State cannot be hoodwinked as they are determined not to indulge him with a third tenure by installing his candidate as governor.”
Mino1000: Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
lhordspy: Rev. Isaac Nwaobia said "Muslim-Muslim ticket is really not the issue now. What we are saying is that it is unthinkable for another Northerner coming to succeed President Muhammadu Buhari in 2023. _______________________________________________
After Peter Obi countless sleepless night of going from church to churches. Gatecrashing uninvited events. To the extent that at a point he was disgraced by a comedian, Apkororo young enough to be his son.
The church finally rejected him. They rejected his deceit, bigotry and religion partitioning/sentimentalism strategy. Next time the hopeless ipobian clown will never try using the Church of God to play dirty politics again
I want to say congrate to all Christians for seeing through the pretentious deceiver. Christians and muslims will always leave together as one. No hateful envious children of hate will ever divide us for political gains.
Shalom/Salam.
Talking about hate but your obsessed with hate for Obi.
Kobojunkie: 1. According to the passage below, Jacob's curse is that Reuben would not remain Jacob's honored son, right? So, where and how exactly did Moses restore Reuben's status as Jacob's honored son in this reversal of the curse on Reuben you hinted at earlier?
2. Where do you get this idea from though? I ask since the teachings of Jesus Christ speak of an entirely different situation existing as far as those who belong in the Kingdom of God. Now, don't get me wrong here as being born-again in no way means one is curse free. Instead, it simply means one has exited the world and has gained access into the Kingdom of God - John 3 vs 1 - 8 - either through the Broad gate that leads to destruction(Eternal damnation) or through the Narrow gate which leads to True life(Eternal reward) at the end - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 & Luke 13 vs 22 - 30. Yes, all of those who will end up in Hell(Eternal damnation) are all equally born-again, and heavily cursed as a result of their sins. However, once a man gains access to the Kingdom of God, He is completely under the jurisdiction of Jesus Christ meaning only Jesus Christ can curse or bless such a one.
By the way, there are curses laid out by Jesus Christ for the sinners in the Kingdom of God and those curses are only avoidable through the obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, the only way.
1. The curse is actually stated in verse 4, where he said thou shall not excel and he gave reasons for the curse. Then deut 33:6 shows where moses reversed it.
2. When interpreting scriptures you don't separate the teaching of Jesus from the Bible cos that what ur trying to do. Old and new testament is what makes the bible complete. Everything Jesus preached from was captured from the old testament so don't separate the two. If you want you can come inbox will create time for u for bible study on this. A born again can be affected by a curse. Selah
Kobojunkie: 1. Here's a question for you. What was the exact curse that Jacob placed on Reuben, so we can map this claim of yours that Moses reversed the curse?
2. According to the verse, you are not to worry when someone curses you for no reason. But what constitutes a valid reason for a person to curse another person though?
1. You can get it from Gen 49:3-4
2. As a born again if you do something wrong against a person without remorse or asking for forgiveness and the person curse you. Oyo is ur case.
Kobojunkie: Basically, Jesus Christ's teachings do not suggest in anyway that prayer is the way to break from past curses in one's life. Nor is it suggested anywhere in the Gospels that men have the power to place curses on anyone who is in the Kingdom of God aka one who is born-again. Only Jesus Christ has that power and His curses on sinners in the Kingdom of God are clearly outlined in His teachings.
I will appreciate if you can back up this words with scripture. What happened in the case of Reuben when Jacob cursed him. And moses reversed the curse. When the bible says a curse causeless shall not stand what does it mean? Please do your research and come back
Kobojunkie: 1. Where do you get this idea that the way to break from your past is through prayer? Where is scripture did Jesus Christ, the one who you Christias supposedly believe in state this to be the case?
2. Where do you even get this idea that man has power to curse his fellowman?
If you have a different opinion kindly state it here cos I don't understand what ur writing.
ebubeson: If someone gets born again, will the person still be affected by past ancestral Bondages or curses? Please contribute... in situations were you offended someone and the person cursed, you may have to go back to apologize or return what you stole..
Please contribute!
You asked two different question. As a Christian you can be affected by ancestral curses if you don't arise and deal with it in the place of prayer.
Secondly in situation u offend someone and the person curse you, sincerely ask for forgiveness.
Hezzyluv: So I went to the church one certain Sunday, I think this year or so. Prior to time of offering, the the church normally gives envelope for it. Perhaps, to avoid others seeing what you will drop in the basket.
And an usher gave me my own offering envelope, i dipped hand in my Pucket and removed #100 from it to put as offering. On opening the envelope, I was surprised because, I saw 2mints of $100 note. I think someone might have dropped it as offering the previous Sunday and the ushers skipped it when they opened and removed money from other envelopes.
The mind as usual started dropping devilish thoughts like, you know you don't have nice phone. You know the money in your bank account is not up to $30 let alone $200. You know you don't have a job..... All the you knows and plenty what-if's kept ringing in my head. I decided to show a friend seating beside me, the answer he gave me surprised me and goes thus... "Na your father house na, him don bless you".... I started pondering on na your father's house na your father's house if you carry the $200, drop your #100 nothing go happen. But one tiny thought said to me, what if you do this single act and curse followz you?
That was how I put my #100 note inside the envelope 2geda with the $200 when it was time for offering, I just dropped everything inside the basket. After the church service, my friend came to me and said" find me something na. And I told him, me don drop the money back because, I no get that mind. He now said even me I come rethink am sey e no good make you carry the money."
looked back and was happy I didnt go with the money because, any little -tive thing that happens to me, I might be saying "maybe na because of that money wey you carry from church ooo"
Salewabeau: I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread
My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.
Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.
I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.
This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.
I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.
Better leave that nysc and join your husband else you lose him. Who nysc help?
The writer no understand use of English. How on earth does this nonsense make atiku the most prepared candidate? Leave the nonsense u write change the caption. Thank u
Politics / Re: Tinubu: I'm Going To Win 2023 Election, No One Can Stop Me by kwasoly(m): 1:47pm On Jan 02, 2023 
So, where and how exactly did Moses restore Reuben's status as Jacob's honored son in this reversal of the curse on Reuben you hinted at earlier? 
