Romance / Re: Botswana Polygamist Pastor, Seraki Kemmonye Shares Photos With His 2 Wives by kwasoly(m): 6:11am On May 26, 2023 |
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Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kwasoly(m): 11:51am On May 25, 2023 |
nlfpmod: As shared by Vashti Vash Offo:
https://twitter.com/Vash_Offo/status/1660702453648465927?t=iG_-zSFySZJMgg1RI7BOoA&s=08 When I see write up like this I know the spirit of Jezebel is at work. The woman was meant to be a reflection of her husband, just as the moon reflect the glory of the sun at night. Whenever both men and women understand the divine order you will see all this rubbish will stop. The man is the root while the woman is thefruit bearing tree that need the root to survive. Beloved brothers and sisters kindly study Jesus and His church if you want your marriage to work in this end time. Selah.... |
Celebrities / Re: Hilda Baci Testifies In Church After Breaking The Guinness World Record (Video) by kwasoly(m): 5:06pm On May 22, 2023 |
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Career / Re: My Senior Colleague Stole My Money In The Office by kwasoly(m): 4:59pm On May 22, 2023 |
Yungmil: Please guys am seriously in confusion right now on what to do, I work in a tomato company in Kano state.
My supervisor who is related to the owner of the stole my money about 70k.
Now my confusion is if I should report him or not because he is our supervisor and the company only listens to him and not the other workers.
Am scared if I go ahead and report him I might end up being affected. They all speak housa which I don't.
It is only both of us in the office, yet he denied it. I don't have any other job yet
Please should what should I do?
Carry the matter come street and make sure you video am. Him go respect you more for office |
Family / Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by kwasoly(m): 8:28pm On May 19, 2023 |
babaYIBO: I’ve been dating this girl since early last year when I was still serving and she’s really into me. She doesn’t bill me unless I purposely send her something. And we occasionally hangout a lot too.
By mid last year, I brought her home to meet my mum and some of my siblings. My mum likes her so much and she would spend time with me in our house.
I finished my service around September last year, and I started hunting for job. I was taking online classes etc..
So I got a job earlier this year, and the pay isn’t bad. Only my mum knows how much I’m earning and few friends. My girl doesn’t know.
Now, I’m likely to be getting a pay rise this month.
I’m also planning to get married to this girl next year, hopefully, she’s been a good girl even when I was jobless.
I don’t know if it’s okay to let her know my salary range. Although I’d not be telling her specifically the amount.
Is this a good idea? How old are you? |
Politics / Re: Apapa’s Camp Asked Court To Sack All LP Lawmakers-elect – Obi’s Faction Reveals by kwasoly(m): 6:55am On May 18, 2023 |
Acekidc4: The Labourers are in Total Confusion...........When God want to Defeat your Enemies for you, he go just throw stone of Confusion for their Midst..............Won ba ni gbo ra wan ye mo...............Ellu P about to implode and Explode. Stop CORNfusing yourself, remove that God you put their cos you don't know him. |
Family / Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by kwasoly(m): 4:52pm On May 17, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.
I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband. We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.
My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again. All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.
He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand. He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.
He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction. Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.
What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade? I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself. I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.
When you marry am you know know? Carry your cross well and keep praying for him. |
Family / Re: UPDATE: Snake In My Roof by kwasoly(m): 6:30pm On May 16, 2023 |
xavuv: Here is an update about the snake that took abode in my roof. Here is the link to the first thread i created about it in 2019.
https://www.nairaland.com/5186645/snake-roof
UPDATE •••••••••
I will try to be detailed as much as possible. You might draw one or two lessons from it, or you can simply discard it altogether.
___ After a heavy fumigation in 2019, my family and i left the house for a few days. Upon returning, i thought there is no way in hell that the reptile up there in my roof would survive this fumigation.
Since returning home, we live easy and slept peacefully without any funny sound or movement in the roof, so we thought the snake is probably dead or something.
Even up to 3 months after the fumigation i still throw away dead lizards in my compound, meaning that the fumigation was very strong. And still no sound in my roof, nothing.
A little while later and towards ending of 2019 and through out 2020, lo and behold the snake is still living and thriving up there. Again we began hearing the sound of it's movement, slithering movement/sound. One can tell that it's big snake just hearing how it slithers around with joy.
Snake is Mostly active at night. During daytime it usually stays in a certain location inside roof, and changes location during night time. Just as if it has room and parlour up there.
The reality of the situation became registered in our minds. Real fear began setting in.
I threw powdered garlic, several hard boiled eggs inside the ceiling, and this certain leaf that repels snake (i have forgotten its name), all inside the ceiling but it seems none worked.
Reasons for the fear:
1. Constant nightmares experienced by myself and my wife.
2. Other private things i can't mention here.
Regarding the constant nightmares, i contacted a man here on nairaland, Ebankole, he has his own website now. I told him some of these dreams which he interpreted saying there is a stranger in our home ( didn't even mention about the snake to him), he even told me some other things regarding my family (wife, kids and i) which i never mentioned to him and all he said checked out correct!.
He's true seer.
Note that i have never met him in person, we only communicate on nairaland but mostly through his website.
That was when i started serious praying & fasting as advised by Ebankole. A xtian family here anyway but i l rarely go to church except on Dec 31st, but my wife goes every Sundays and other days.
Talking to fellow landlords.
Towards mid 2021, its beginning to dawn on me that i have a Very serious issue at hand. I approached a fellow landlord just opposite my home. He's a very elderly man. I told him about what i have been grappling with. He queried why i kept quite for long. Well, im a very quite person in our community. I mind my business.
We went to see an Islamic cleric in a nearby town. After briefing and debriefing, this is what the cleric told me verbatim: you have been sleeping and waking up with dark unseen entities/demons.
Eventually he said he and other clerics would have to come to my house to pray and recite Quranic verses and that the snake and other dark entities would leave thereafter.
I didn't go back. Soon after, I approached my CDA chairman on a Saturday after a landlord's meeting, i told him about the guest in my roof. He was surprised that how could it be.
He came to my home, inspected and saw that truly that snake can't get down into the house because of the POP ceiling everywhere, but what's the snake eating all these while?
He also noted the following:
1. that could the snake be leaving the roof to go hunt for food outside and return inside the roof when ever it so wishes. And that if this so then its not natural.
2. that Is there a way lizards or rats gain entrance into the roof, thereby making themselves easy snacks for the snake? But this is most unlikely because i have since blocked all tiny crevices that tiny lizards can use to gain entrance into the roof, and i showed it to him.
Oh i almost forgot, he advised that i cut a small part of the outside ceilng, that maybe the snake can have a easy way out. I used PVC for outside ceiling, so i removed a small plastic from the PVC ceiling outside.
Eventually, he promised to get intouch with a snake charmer, maybe they can help call the snake out from the roof. I called our chairman again a few times to ask about the Charmer he said he's Gonna bring to my home but he kept posting me.
My journey into the CCC ( Celestial church)
Will continue tomorrow. Feeling sleepy now.
Hear this bro that someone tells you things about your family doesn't make him a seer or prophet, a witch doctor or a magician can do that through the negative supernatural. A prophet is one who reveals the mind of God to you not you family problem. |
Celebrities / Re: Seun Kuti Appoints Femi Falana As His Lawyer by kwasoly(m): 10:52am On May 15, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by kwasoly(m): 10:46am On May 15, 2023 |
lovediehatelive: I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.
She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.
She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.
She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.
We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.
As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.
The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.
What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?
She later left and we became really close from then.
I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.
I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.
So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.
She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.
She was 19 years then.
Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.
She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.
Now she's 23.
The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.
My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.
Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?
Or should I continue with her?
I'm planning to see her people this December. You be virgin? |
Celebrities / Re: I Will Co-operate Fully With The Investigation - Seun Kuti by kwasoly(m): 11:10pm On May 13, 2023 |
tammie24: Ibo people already calling for his arrest cos he blasted their yes daddy 😂
E still nor send una
Very predictable people Anú watn ibo people do you? How will a normal person slap an officer of the law, you see say you n your brother no well? |
Celebrities / Re: Charles Inojie Escapes Death From Collapsed Water Tank (Video) by kwasoly(m): 11:28am On May 13, 2023 |
TakeNigeriaBack: This is NOT news. It would have been news if the water tank injured him u Onye mgbu this is a testimony!!! 3 Likes |
Career / Re: My Secretary's Resignation Without Notice Is Crumbling My Company by kwasoly(m): 6:21pm On May 10, 2023 |
concho: When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar
Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .
Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .
I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .
We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .
On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .
On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago
I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .
She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .
I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .
This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one
If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .
How do I start nailing her please ??
Arrest her she is a thief. She is meant to hand over with detailed records of the financial expenses |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by kwasoly(m): 6:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: Hello Nairalanders, there is an issue at hand. I have two kids and recently gave birth to the third few months ago. It's been really difficult for me since I practically do most of the house chores... my husband is hardly around because of work.
I came down with this strange disturbing headache that doesnt go away. So I went to see a doctor and she said the headache was as a result of postpartum stress and lack of sleep.
The truth is I'm awake most of the time because of the baby or when I'm attending to other household matter. I haven't had a good sleep in a long while. So when the doctor suggested I get a house help so I can find time and sleep when shes holding the baby. I knew she she was on point. But the problem is my husband, he wouldn't hear of it, he doesn't want us to get any househelp...
I even pleaded with him and made him see reasons why I needed help, but he refused... I'm beginning to think I ended up with the wrong person because I dont understand why anyone would deliberately want to subject their wife to this kind of torture.
My kids are age 5, 2 and 3 months... I go to the market, cook, clean, i even do school run too...He's a contractor and will be travelling back to work next week.. yet he doesn't want me to get help... Don't you have brothers and sisters? If you know the danger involved in keeping house help you will understand what your man is avoiding. Be wise woman |
Family / Re: I Have Impregnated Another Girl Against The One I Love. What Should I Do Now? by kwasoly(m): 6:03pm On May 10, 2023 |
RealSolution001: The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.
Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.
How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.
No insult please.
When she was giving you mind blowing sex shebi you ask us how to sort it out? Young man carry your cross |
Politics / Re: Ooni Asks Atiku, Obi Supporters To Embrace Tinubu's Government. by kwasoly(m): 9:01am On May 09, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: Ooni Asks Atiku, Obi Supporters To Embrace Tinubu's Government. by kwasoly(m): 8:59am On May 09, 2023 |
Ttalk: That is a piece of fatherly advice.
There's no sense in Obi's petition, rather is opens up the wound of the role played by some SE politicians in scuttling the election of Abiola.
Imagine the same line of argument today being put up by the same people with their shameful demand for interim government and military take over, something they didn't say when Buhari won the election in 2015 and 2019 while they were in PDP despite the election being marred with some irregularities.
Is this the part they will toe in the future when election is being contested between a SS and SE? Shameful write up, can you hear yourself? Mtcheeew |
Family / Re: Family Intending To Move To Abuja Needs Advice by kwasoly(m): 5:47pm On May 07, 2023 |
frank33:
Can a family relocate to Canada with 10m. European countries |
Health / Re: What Could Be The Cause Of My Erectile Dysfunction? by kwasoly(m): 5:29pm On May 06, 2023 |
Salasa:
Oga what did you do at my age with your hormones? I didn't tell you I'm a masturbation addict?
Didn't you read the part I said I've never had sex and that I don't like that masturbation act and seldom indulge in it? Didn't you read when I said I can do weeks without it?
Some of you've comprehension issues. Saints and popes.
I asked about your age because you're illogical and reasoning from your toes. Young Man help will be far from you if at this age you respond to everything, why not pick the message and leave the rest. |
Travel / Re: Sudan: Second Batch Of Nigerians Arrive Abuja From Port Sudan (Video, Photos) by kwasoly(m): 7:34am On May 06, 2023 |
post=122956680:
What do kids know?
Hear it from the horse's mouth......
Onyema Allen has always been a guy that is wise and intelligent. We concur to this.
(Seun Osewa, take note!) Meanwhile, Let's hear from the horse's mouth....
The Chief Executive Officer (CEO) of Air Peace Airlines, Allen Onyema, says it is untrue to say that President Muhammadu Buhari does not like the Igbos.
Onyema defended his viewpoint on Saturday on the grounds that his airline had hugely benefited from the current administration.
I’m a beneficiary of Buhari’s kindness to Igbos – Air Peace boss
“I thank God for our President, Muhammadu Buhari, it is very untrue that he does not like the Igbo. Without me being a member of his party, or any party, I am a beneficiary of his support for indigenous businesses.
“The Federal Government of Nigeria has given me destinations they have never given anybody, yet I am an Igbo man, from Anambra,” Onyema said on an interview with Anambra Broadcasting Service (ABS).
Furthermore, he stressed that people should not read negative meanings to the good works of the Buhari administration.
“I don’t know anybody, I don’t have any godfather, President Buhari through his minister, Hadi Sirika, has given me China, London, Portugal, the entire Europe, United States and India. “He’s even given me Jedda, and I’m not a Muslim; the government has given me about twenty destinations to fly to.”
He added that; “The President wants equal economic development everywhere.”
These are the Great and True Igbo men true igbos listen to.
More from Air Peace Boss below...... in his own words E be like say this one drink kerosene, in his appointments how far? |
Politics / Re: Ike Ekweremadu & Wife Nwanneka Sentenced To 10 Years, 6 Years Each by kwasoly(m): 4:46pm On May 05, 2023 |
yarimo: That is very commendable from the UK court, Peter Grigori obi will be next. UK immigrations please be at alert For what exactly? Is he into drugs, unlike your principal who is known as Escobar the drug Lord. |
Celebrities / Re: "This Your Daughter Must Die" - Seyi Law Shares Death Threats Sent To His Wife by kwasoly(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: That's why I so much dislike obidients, they threaten opposition with anything and are so uncouth and I'm like are you to tell me who to support, like seriously? What the obidients are doing was it up to what you guys did in 2015 when bubu was contesting against Jonathan? Some one is here crying foul before the thing done reach am. Obidients are not happy with what is happening in the country so they come against anyone supporting evil or criminals, please bear with them na better change everybody want where the son of a nobody will be employed without knowing anyone in government. |
Politics / Re: My Administration Will Make Corruption Unattractive - Tinubu Assures Nigerians by kwasoly(m): 8:34pm On May 04, 2023 |
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Family / Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by kwasoly(m): 8:30pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl. I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself. I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.
Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect. I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.
This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time. My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.
My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?
Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.
Thanks. Before person marry una no go do test? Carry her go to all those blood group,etc and from their do the fertility test. Ur pupsi know say naija girls eyes no good. Old man no wn hear story. |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji's 44th Birthday Is Today by kwasoly(m): 12:03pm On May 03, 2023 |
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Health / Re: TINNITUS: Cost of removing auditory nerves in Nigeria. by kwasoly(m): 7:59pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
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Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by kwasoly(m): 7:58pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Fineman2: My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.
However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.
Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.
I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.
I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.
She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.
Please what should I do?
You are the man of the house, before you brought the so called woman into ur life,did you in any way discuss it with her? |
Health / Re: TINNITUS: Cost of removing auditory nerves in Nigeria. by kwasoly(m): 7:51pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
kpakpakpa: Humble greetings fam!
I will like to know if its possible to remove my auditory nerve or anything that can make me to stop hearing completely. I suffered a strange kind of hearing loss that comes with another condition called tinnitus
It happened since 2015 when i was admitted in a teaching hospital(doctors told me that my problem was typhoid) and treated for months. When i was about to discharged, i noticed that one of my ears was not functional which i complained immediately to the docs there told me that my condition was critical and was consequently administered hard drugs which is clearly the cause of my partial deafness and was given an appointment in 2weeks time to follow up about the new ailment. I came back home using only one ear.
After about 5days at home, i enter okada to the use an atm in town, upon reaching the bank, i joined the atm line to made my withdrawal, it was there that an old friend started talking to me that i discovered that both my ears were not functional. Do you stay in Abuja? |
Travel / Re: Alex Otti Tours Port Harcourt Road, Aba With Julius Berger (Photos) by kwasoly(m): 9:06am On Apr 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: This man is short ooo. Short people and their wahala, I hope this will not be another bad omen for Abians because short people can be very wicked ehn. Unfortunately sense is far from you, Alex oti I know is talk and do, was opportuned to work under him during his reign as MD of Diamond Bank. I know the transformation he brought and so I believe abia is in safe hands. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Migrate To With 3.5M? by kwasoly(m): 7:56am On Apr 26, 2023 |
g17prinz: I am currently in my final year in the university studying sociology. What are my chances of migrating to Europe or Australia with 3.5M? And what skills are in demand abroad that I can learn in 2 years? I need advice and suggestions, as I don't like the way this country is going. Austra, Czech, Portugal,etc. |
Politics / Re: Pictures Of Peter Obi Working Out On The Streets Of Onitsha, Anambra State by kwasoly(m): 7:45pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
JagabanBorgu: See d wàck streets of Onitsha but they tell us he will make Nigèria a Dubai. He should be àshàmèd of working out and posting it. Cry me a river!!! |
Celebrities / Re: Video Of Davido Fuming As Crossdresser Advances Towards Him Trends by kwasoly(m): 3:24pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
AndroidAI:
A straight man that's secure with his sexuality will not be threatened by crossdressers or drag queens.
In fact, they will find this situation comical.
But closeted gays struggling with internalised homophobia will never be comfortable.
There are a lot of married men today who are gays or bi living in denial and in hiding, and claiming to be straight.
Now I am suspecting Davido. E be like say you be another bobrisky. |