Kasdat5:
Focus on your education & being responsible to your family & society ..

kyber:
I saw lots of girls today in school and they are my spec but I couldn’t approach them for fear of rejection

Even girls I do see in my street I no fit meet them to toast them even though I like them

rainmaker12:


Mr over righteous, talking to a girl doesn't cause any problem with education, family or society.

Kasdat5:


Sha face your books & leave ladies alone .

kyber:
I saw lots of girls today in school and they are my spec but I couldn’t approach them for fear of rejection

Even girls I do see in my street I no fit meet them to toast them even though I like them

kyber:
I saw lots of girls today in school and they are my spec but I couldn’t approach them for fear of rejection

Even girls I do see in my street I no fit meet them to toast them even though I like them

pansophist:
Which strategy you want to use?

1. Game of numbers - Talk to at least 10 in a week. In less than three months, one will say yes. The law of probality, the higher the inputs, the better the chances. Downside of this strategy is that you'll spend alot, waste lots of time, and the constant rejection might just give you low self esteem.

2. Game of advantage - just like a white man goes to Asia to score easy girls, or Ndubuisi travel to Anambra to pick a girl, as a man, there are settings you'll position your self in, then you become a high status man in that vicinity. Or if you live in the US, then getting girls will become easy in Nigeria.

3. Game of sophistication - so sophisticated your self. Be fit as possible. Have your own personal branding (eg, to be known with something sweet, such as the gitness trainer), grow your confidence through competence, talk eloquently and have something going for you, like a structure that she could smell and say to her self, I'll like to lay my eggs here

4. Game of simping. He thinks getting women is all about his toasting and spending skills, not his desirability, he have no game and even when he is rich, he is just getting used and dumped. Even if he might be the prize as well, or even a bigger prize than her, his ignorance, low self esteem, and iberibeism just makes him so bland. Will Smith is a perfect example.

Number 4 is the default mode every man lands in, until reality sharpen his eyes and he transition to any of the above mode. If he is smart, he transitions to either number 2 or 3, since they are interoperable.

Number three takes time, but it will never disappoint you. It's your only salvation. It's how men win the war with women who win the battle. Then he will later get messages from girls alot that ignored him before, their reign have passed, and she is hoping that he is still the simp that she knows.

So yea. Pick one. But please, don't pick number three.

Kasdat5:
Focus on your education & being responsible to your family & society ..

God1000:
Face your studies

crows2ravens:
There's really no universal approach. What one girl considers cool, another girl's turn off.
Build your confidence and know that either way it goes, it's normal.
But generally, most ladies' weak point is compliments. Or let me give you a trick:
Start the conversation like you're running into an old friend after a very long time, with excitement in your tone and facial expressions. Add a short compliment that indicates they look better than before. Works on most people, male or female. The disarming effect will get you their attention, with good follow-up talks.

MikeofKd:
Lol , first of all , stop being afraid of rejection , it’s fear of rejection that’s holding you back coupled with shyness. Anytime you see a girl you like and would love to approach her, just walk up to her ,don’t make it so obvious tho , like don’t be all over her face ,do it nice and simple , ask of her name , give a little compliment, ask few questions interesting ones tho ,make strong eye contact with her, be humorous , where a smile , At the end just see it as you having fun ,so whether she rejects you or not ,don’t take it too serious. Jsyk some girls would reject the sexiest man on earth. So rejection isn’t a big deal.

yemmit90:


I will advise you to focus on your education, at least for now. Women are very easy to get or slept with but can subsequently caused distraction that could hinder your success in life. There is absolutely nothing you will gain in dating girls while you are still in school or still being feed by your parent.

You can accidentally sleep with a girl using condom but don't ever be in commited relationship at this stage.

Jesterinjay:
Take down your pic bro
They're coming for you

Shapeaso:
You look more like a gay. I'm right or wrong?

Kasdat5:
Focus on your education & being responsible to your family & society ..

VenExchangee:

Chief I was once like you, there is nothing there to fear, if you want friendship just start it gradually and let it flow, a rushed friendship don't last but the one that comes gradually last long and mind you most of the girls out there they fine who them go carry there problem give.
The problem is that you're just shy or don't know how to start a conversation but believe me the moment you make your first approach, what to say will come out by itself or if you they sip alcohol just take half of capital Jack and wash your mouth, once e begin work it will push you to go talk to one you want to talk to.
That was how before I was scared to talk to this my neighbor, we do talk though but through fence and she doesn't know me in person, na after like 4 months I knew aunty was even crushing back then in was already in relationship, we now friends till date.
You can ask for her contact, if she's a matured girl she will give out her number without stressing you.
Most of this big girls are more simple than we thought

pansophist:
Which strategy you want to use?

1. Game of numbers - Talk to at least 10 in a week. In less than three months, one will say yes. The law of probality, the higher the inputs, the better the chances. Downside of this strategy is that you'll spend alot, waste lots of time, and the constant rejection might just give you low self esteem.

2. Game of advantage - just like a white man goes to Asia to score easy girls, or Ndubuisi travel to Anambra to pick a girl, as a man, there are settings you'll position your self in, then you become a high status man in that vicinity. Or if you live in the US, then getting girls will become easy in Nigeria.

3. Game of sophistication - so sophisticated your self. Be fit as possible. Have your own personal branding (eg, to be known with something sweet, such as the gitness trainer), grow your confidence through competence, talk eloquently and have something going for you, like a structure that she could smell and say to her self, I'll like to lay my eggs here

4. Game of simping. He thinks getting women is all about his toasting and spending skills, not his desirability, he have no game and even when he is rich, he is just getting used and dumped. Even if he might be the prize as well, or even a bigger prize than her, his ignorance, low self esteem, and iberibeism just makes him so bland. Will Smith is a perfect example.

Number 4 is the default mode every man lands in, until reality sharpen his eyes and he transition to any of the above mode. If he is smart, he transitions to either number 2 or 3, since they are interoperable.

Number three takes time, but it will never disappoint you. It's your only salvation. It's how men win the war with women who win the battle. Then he will later get messages from girls alot that ignored him before, their reign have passed, and she is hoping that he is still the simp that she knows.

So yea. Pick one. But please, don't pick number three.