₦airaland Forum

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Crazy nation. Abeg who get Visa to leave Nigeria make you lap person?

jonnathaniheme:
Ok

this CV looks horrible and confusing

FuckThaMod:
Really disappointed in this guy with that zoo flag around him... If he can't represent biafra flag then he should be plain

let kanu go and touch him and see if they won't treat his fuccck up heavily

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kudinkarfe:
That's what you are good at. I love my northern girls, they dress decently and they can't act indicent part in movies because is of money, firm or whatever. Try and learn from us.

but what they do in secret is horrible

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Paxxcarl:
ur father is stupid
Air your view from ur own angle
Without conflicting with people

your father is mad

Paxxcarl:
Imagine paying your workers daily
And they could leave at anytime
You turnup the next day for work and your workers are all gone or 50percent of workers gone....that’s crazy

stupid. So monthly why are they not also gone after working for a month??

samyj2477:
know it today that Maiduguri is more secured than Abuja. Boko and Fulani terrorist would easily overrun Abuja if they want to. There are more military weapons and army in Maiduguri than FCT.

you a joker. Have you heard of the brigade of guards? In any case if there's an attempted overeun, the whole Nigerian military will withdraw and drop it's might in Abuja. Go learn about wars and how the national capital is heavily secured

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KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria

stupid and senseless write up. Better find something productive to do with your life

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SmartPolician:
South West has obviously done so well for itself, especially in education. However, one thing I know for certain is that it takes so much to build a city.

If Nigeria splits today and the government doesn't make effort to keep the non-Yoruba residents, Lagos will become a shadow of its former itself. That's because both Nigerians and foreigners built the city.

rubbish. Are foreigners not in Port Harcourt?? Lagos is accommodating first and the South West has the best of manpower in the Yoruba people in Nigeria. That's the fact. Igbos only know how to trade majorly and selling spare parts. Is that how a city is developed?

Martinez39s:
This man's death wasn't sudden. He had a terminal illness that gradually killed him. I am sure his family knew but didn't disclose it anyone.

might have been a sickle cell patient but wasn't disclosed for obvious reasons

TheEnygma:
Nice one.... Where is this chick from because "LIMAN" means money in my language.

must be a minority tribe language

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manikspears:
Keep fooling yourself with fairy tales, when you start working you will know the reality.

start working with over ten years working experience??

27Pushing30:
Sade and Dr Alban are NOT thoroughbred Nigerians.

You can’t compare Ademola lookman winning ballon D’or to Kelechi Iheanacho winning ballon d’or.

Nigerian heritage but born and bred abroad no be Nigerian heritage and born and bred

who told you burna boy is thorough bred?? What's thorough bred anyways? Jargons. Burna boy was also raised in London at a time so stop all the ranting. Dr Alban is more of an home by grew up in Nigeria before proceeding to studying dentistry in Sweden

Fanuchi007:
U are just a bitter soul... What have you achieved? We need to celebrate those who celebrate us. Music is the only thing nigeria has been able to fully commercialize. Why must u always think natively?

who told you music is the only thing we've been able to commercialize? Do you know what you saying at all ? Is the Nigerian music industry bigger than the banking industry? Or even tech?

Racoon:
Where were you lots when the likes of Sir Louis Odomegwu Ojokwu bought swathes marshy lands and developed it into the VI that is known today? What about Festac-who are those responsible for it present state of human habitation?

Who are the major population contributing to the economic development of Lagos @ present given the tax, business ventures(Autoparts, Alaba, Tradefair, Computer Village, Oyingbo etc)? Tell us where you belong in the midst of all these apart from polluting the cyber space with gibberish everytime? Meanwhile,

thrash talk. Go develop abia and ebonyi

Nigerians and inferior complex. What's the big deal here? Dr Alban it's my life was one of the biggest hits in Europe in the 90s. He was a mega star. Sade Adu is one of the most renowned stars. How did Nigerians get so low to celebrate mediocrity??

Draslo:
Not a sense of entitlement. By law, I'm entitled to six months.

I hope you know you are sui to pay for the six months

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Nbote:
Federal boarding skools in Abuja have asked their students to go home today

pls stop saying what you don't know

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iammo:
a single senator in nigeria can build 2 off that factory from his loot without sweating

yes. You can even build ten of it but what of the technical manpower needed? Building a factory isn't enough. Who runs it?

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