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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by nairalee(m): 1:49pm On May 11, 2021
Simply go for someone else

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by bizhop01: 1:50pm On May 11, 2021
I don't do girlfriend
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by majamajic(m): 1:50pm On May 11, 2021
obi4eze:
Someone should please summarize what he wrote. The story too long and the situation of the country isn't helpful.

He said u shouldn't waste your time with any girl that is not interested in having sex with u

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by sirjustice1575(m): 1:51pm On May 11, 2021
I don't find this post interesting!!...

Next post pls cool cool
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by TempUser: 1:51pm On May 11, 2021
grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by majamajic(m): 1:51pm On May 11, 2021
bizhop01:
I don't do girlfriend


Pay as u go ?

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by zolajpower: 1:51pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria
Sorry re you a reverend father? Because the sermon too long . Just to advice guys from having a forceful intimacy on ladies, you want to make me lose my sight reading it ? I think nairaland should start charging people with long epistle here . Me I can't come and develop migraine here .
Btw I'm engaged to a beautiful america lady who was here in 2019 with her mom for tourism in ghana and Nigeria . She came in April and I proposed to her at the popular cinemas in lagos ,she was so happy that she had to inform all her friends she is officially engaged . A women who loves you will appreciate both the big and little you do for her .
Ask Alex ekkubo what is the sweetness of having a foreign born ladies . They re not entitled mentality kind of people , they go after chemistry not money or wealth .
I have always said it untill Nigerian ladies stop the entitlement mentally then the guys will continue to port to get foreign ladies . I can come and kee my self

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by dalass(f): 1:53pm On May 11, 2021
OP, specialist on women matters grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by jonnathaniheme: 1:53pm On May 11, 2021
Ok
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Tannhauser(m): 1:54pm On May 11, 2021
cool

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Akinbahm(m): 1:54pm On May 11, 2021
xxxtedyxxx:
Useless post, useless right up.

Your friend is mad.

Must you sleep with every girl?

Bro, forget his friend and let's focus on the useless write up he posted.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:55pm On May 11, 2021
Originalsly:
Bro.... it is foolish to be dashing money at something you don't know if it's on sale. Even if it is.... why dash money and you don't know the price? A guy spends N10K on a babe and expects to sleep with her.... when her price point is N20K? If you're giving and expecting something in return then you're doing business. If you're doing business then you're trading and an agreement must be met. He should know the type of women that exchange sex for money.... they're out there.... everywhere.


Lols,OP has some skewed thoughts in my opinion but the general write up and message is great.

Guys and ladies alike must learn to distinguish between transactional relationship and love relationships. They are very different OP is mistaking both for transactional relationship. To your point transactional relationship must hit the required bar. Simple

For love relationships it's build out of meaning, substance and destiny not sex, absolutely not believe me OP, you can't pay for that level of satisfaction and companionship.

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Akinbahm(m): 1:56pm On May 11, 2021
zolajpower:

Sorry re you a reverend father? Because the sermon too long . Just to advice guys from having a forceful intimacy on ladies, you want to make me lose my sight reading it ? I think nairaland should start charging people with long epistle here

Epistle on top Move on and respect yourself when Ladies start their shakara.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Anfield247(m): 1:56pm On May 11, 2021
Wisdom will not kill you!
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Kzinne: 1:58pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria
stupid and senseless write up. Better find something productive to do with your life

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by CALCULUS16: 1:58pm On May 11, 2021
98 percent of nigerian guys think of sex everytime, must u knack every "resting hole", life has more to offer than this "automatic thrusting and digging of hole" when all ur life u think of sex, u r not far away from being called animal or specifically goat or bitch.

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by thaoriginator: 1:58pm On May 11, 2021
Ah eleyi guun gaan!



Me bloodclaat bagga pusie gyal cry
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Nobody: 1:58pm On May 11, 2021
If you play your cards right with any woman you wouldn’t need to “beg” for it. Trust me it will come naturally or she will even initiate it herself.

Begging only comes into play when you’ve fumbled somewhere along the line.

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by WoundedLamb: 1:59pm On May 11, 2021
Always about women.

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Nobody: 2:03pm On May 11, 2021
AfroKnight:
OP you are right. Once the shakara is getting too much leave her alone. Toasting normally should not pass 4 working days, except if someone recommended her as a good person to marry, then you may extend it to 7 working days. cool

After that, move on.

Nigerian girls are time wasters. They like a guy but would act differently and wonder why the young man cannot see that they like him.

There is more to life than chasing a woman who wants to play hard to get. If you don’t get an emphatic yes from her, take her response as a no. Don’t let her string you along for benefits. If you do, sooner or later, you would resent her and that’s even if she later says yes. Why? Cos it would appear like she wasn’t worth the trouble. She wasn’t worth the time wasted.

grin four working days. Na cheque you wan catch?

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by zolajpower: 2:04pm On May 11, 2021
WoundedLamb:
Always about women.
E tire me oo .
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by CHoccolaTE: 2:05pm On May 11, 2021
Today alone there are 57 posts on front page about girls/women. Nairaland men una no get work?

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Goldbw122(m): 2:05pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria
WELL IT IS IMPORTANT FOR A WOMAN TO LIKE A MAN MORE E GET why

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Omoluabiii(m): 2:06pm On May 11, 2021
Dont do anything please,
just leave her,
dont stress yourself....
Last last, na you go bear the bills, na you go bear the stress to make the relationship work,
guy, please run for your life,

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Jareade: 2:07pm On May 11, 2021
Good
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by zolajpower: 2:07pm On May 11, 2021
Akinbahm:


Epistle on top Move on and respect yourself when Ladies start their shakara.
Oga you move back if you want me to move on and respect myself . I have already moved on with a lady who adores me . Like I said again it's a long epistle , not for a prospective toaster . Go on a dating site or forget about Nigerian ladies . Before I settle for my fiancee I had other ladies I was seeing on a dating but they were all afraid of Nigeria insecurity situation , so I said whoever comes visit me first she will I put the ring on first and so 13 April I did the unimaginable to her grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by neyohh: 2:08pm On May 11, 2021
90 percent of the time it's easier to bang than to get a relationship from personal experience. tongue

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by apokan200(m): 2:09pm On May 11, 2021
Who get time to be stressing himself over a lady who doesn’t want to do normal � abeg there are lot of ladies who is dying to have wetin she dey use do Shakara I Dey find money make I con dey find person we no like me again lol

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by alphaNomega: 2:10pm On May 11, 2021
neyohh:
90 percent of the time it's easier to bang than to get a relationship from personal experience. tongue
You are blessed for this post

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Quality20(m): 2:10pm On May 11, 2021
So just because ur body is too hot, a girl who is clean or wish to remain clean(after repenting past fornication) shd compromise and commit fornication with u? Make una de pretend to be good ppl at times na

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Renforce: 2:11pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria

Real niggur

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