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Very soon we will hear tomatoes now have Covid

sapien:
Good evening, Romancelanders. It's quite a lengthy read, so bear with me.

This lady and I have been dating for the past 4 years, and I am planning on making it official later this year, though Covid-19 made my finances quite complicated recently, but things are getting back in shape.

Recently, specifically over 2 weeks ago, she suddenly stopped picking my calls. Prior to that, we haven't seen each other since September last year. She always comes up with one excuses or the other every weekend whenever I tell her to come over to my place or if I want to go over to her place to see her. I always have busy schedules during the midweek, so we usually have only weekends to see each other.

I have gone to see her mother and her siblings last year. They accepted me as a prospective in-law. The mum said she queried her daughter and she told her that I was the one she would like to spend the rest of her life with, hence the mum's invitation. Her mum usually calls me from time to time, and I do talk to her, too.

Couple of days back, I had to call the mum to report her daughter to her regarding the uncharacteristic change in her daughter's behaviour, and how, despite living in the same city, we haven't seen each other in 4 months, and how she has refused picking my calls in more than 2 weeks.

She promised to talk to her and ask her what the problem was and get back to me. I waited for some couple of days, but when I didn't see the mum's call, I had to call her back. I had to ask her to give her daughter her phone so I could talk to her and ask her some salient questions regarding our relationship. She kept saying there is no problem and that I didn't offend her, and our relationship is still standing strong. I asked if she was going through some personal issues that she could share with me and we might find a solution; she said she was perfectly okay. We settled our issues right there and then, and she promised to call back the second day.

I waited for the second day and I did not see her call. I had no choice than to call her back. Ladies and gentlemen, this girl didn't pick my calls. When she eventually picked after multiple missed calls, she was talking to someone else, while my airtime was burning out. I became enraged. I had to call the mum the second day to tell her I was no longer interested in the daughter, that she was probably seeing someone else, and she didn't have the guts to tell me.

The mum swore that her daughter is not seeing someone else, as far as she knows, and that she hasn't brought anyone to meet her. The mum is a Deeper Lifer, and from my interactions with her, she doesn't condone two-timing. She promised to talk to her daughter, that maybe we should give ourselves more time, like taking a break for a couple of months.

I am not usually this patient, and never condoned negligence and disregard in my previous relationships. However, this girl had been special to me, prior to her negligence. She was quite dedicated to me during the course of our 4-year-old relationship. She was never demanding, and was contented and altruistic, too. She helped me many times in the past, financially, whenever I was broke, and I always repaid her back, too. She was a wife material, and loved by my family as well.

The questions are;

1. Do I disregard the mum's advice?

2. Do I still give this girl another chance after her blatant negligence?

Mods, you might do well by moving this piece to the front page.

LOOK THE EASIEST WAY TO FORGET ABOUT A WOMAN IS TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE.

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Toosure70:
who be dis one.

can you answer the question?

Why do the Igbo people hate Benjamin Adekunle?. This is a question that should bother all Yoruba people

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A lot of Nigerian women can learn from this great woman of God. She started from the scratch with her husband. Most Nigerian women today are after ready made men even when their own fathers are not ready made.��

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spiralwedge:
Russia, Eastern Europe, and most Asian countries prefer ex-military ambassadors. Career diplomats are useless to them and can't strike bilateral deals

John J. Sullivan was nominated as the U.S. Ambassador to the Russian Federation by former President Donald J. Trump on October 11, 2019; confirmed by the Senate on December 12, 2019; and sworn in by former Secretary of State Mike Pompeo on December 23, 2019.

Ambassador Sullivan previously served as Deputy Secretary of State from May 24, 2017, until December 21, 2019. He served as acting Secretary of State from April 1 to April 26, 2018.

Prior to joining the Department of State, Ambassador Sullivan was a partner in Mayer Brown LLP, and co-chair of the law firm’s national security practice. From 2010 to 2016, he was the Chairman of the U.S.-Iraq Business Dialogue, a governmental advisory committee on United States economic relations with Iraq.

In addition to his decades of experience in private law practice, Ambassador Sullivan has served in two prior administrations in senior positions at the Justice, Defense, and Commerce Departments. He served until 2009 as the Deputy Secretary of Commerce, following his service from 2005 to 2007 as the General Counsel of the Department. Previously, he was appointed Deputy General Counsel of the Defense Department by Secretary Donald H. Rumsfeld. In the first Bush Administration, Ambassador Sullivan was Counselor to Assistant Attorney General J. Michael Luttig in the Justice Department’s Office of Legal Counsel.

A native of Boston, Massachusetts, Ambassador Sullivan received his bachelor’s degree from Brown University and his law degree from the Columbia University School of Law, where he was a Harlan Fiske Stone Scholar and Book Reviews Editor of the Columbia Law Review. Ambassador Sullivan was a law clerk for Associate Justice David H. Souter of the Supreme Court of the United States, and for Judge John Minor Wisdom of the United States Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit.

Hassanmaye:
You are smart my dear, by the way are you a law student how do you know that ambassadors have immunity??

this is public Knowledge so I don't know what's smart with knowing that

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Elzakzaky:
Sunday Igboho is a very good example of the type of people we call alagbara tio lero (a powerful fool). In yorubaland, if you insult kings and elders, you will lose sympathy.
Insulting Ooni was so unnecessary. It will not end well for Sunday Igboho, mark my words.




Have you bothered to ask why Ooni sought audience with the president? There must be better ways to resolve this issue rather than resorting to Igboho's unconstitutional approach.
Imagine Igboho saying Buhari is afraid of him. If he is not careful, he will be locked up and heaven will not fall. He should go and ask Sowore, the hunchback albino (Nnamdu Kanu) and Elzakzaky.

you a big fooool. Wonder if you are truly a Yoruba. Rubbish. You think this is about Sunday igboho? Don't worry when the Fulani take all your land you will know. Buhari should go ahead and arrest igboho or what's stopping him? Nonsense

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This government dey tire person abeg. Na story story full their body