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Mhistaedie01:
Please please please redpillers I came about this issue while flirting with a girl, it seems she caught feelings and asked me if I like her. I don't want to give her a plain yes since I know being direct with girls isn't the right thing to do. Please I need a way to respond to this girl please help it's urgent

Guy if you like the girl tell am oh ha and stop asking stupid questions. Playing stupid games with women is a time waster and only losers engage in such nonsense. Hope say you get job sha. If not, I really pity your life

dontrulee:
Quite easy to solve.
Let me give you a template.

Girl: do you like me?

Me: it's you who like me, don't you think so?

It's called the reverse question or attention, what she gives you, you throw it back to her. It engages her mind and her emotions.

Trash coming from a lazy youth wey no get experience with woman. Any woman wey fall for this corny line na desperado or olosho wey dey find money. Nonesense!

dontrulee:
Being direct with a girl will put you at a disadvantage. You become boring and predictable to her. To engage ladies in long conversations, avoid direct answers.

Your mates dey street dey hustle, your own na to dey waste your time in long conversations with women wey no send you? Strong yamayama fall on your bald head there

Look, if a woman likes you, you don’t need to waste your time in stupid long conversations. Na she go dey entertain you with gist. In fact, the more brief and direct you are with her, the better. A sign that she likes you is when she keeps engaging you regardless of how uninterested you appear.

Woman matter nor too hard as that Zimbabwean immigrant wants una to believe because he dey prepare to sell book for una. Make una shine una eyes. Don’t waste your precious time chasing women that do not want you. Use that time to go hustle to guarantee yourself of a bright future!

COOL10:
WTF is wrong with America?


Takeoff is dead

How does his death affect the value of Naira in your country? Lazy Nigerian youths and misplaced priorities. Better give yourself sense before yamayama fall on that your coconut head

Dabronze:
Feminism is a lie

‘Redpillism’ is all fun and games hating on women and searching for a virgin until you are a lonely 50 year old with no wife, no kids and no hope for the future leading to chronic depression and eventual suicide…

Emotionss:
BREAKING NEWS.

Here is a rear picture of a SIMPle Man practicing how to explain to his Girlfriend of 5 weeks that he is not responsible for her 8 months old pregnancy.... But to prove to her that he loves her and that he is a REAL MAN, he will accept the pregnancy.....

Wetin be rear picture? Na belle you dey call rear? Chai chai chai….God help us all!

Emotionss:
Why are Nigerian men always quick to offer relationship to girls that just wants to have Noncommittal sex ?

Why are the new generation set of men giving out their Attention, money and commitment so easily this day especially to women ?

So because a woman fuccked you in a way you have never been bleeped because you are now contemplating making her a private property even when it is clear she is public property with PHD.....

If men think about making money or building their Frame the way we think about women and SEXX, majority of Men will be financially, mentally, emotionally establish before 25 years of age.

The level of attention and validation an average man gives women in a day is alarming and completely undeserved.

Men we can do better.

When they are busy listening to an SA reject from Zim, how won’t they be thinking about sex all the times. This Ubunja fellow is out to ruin the lives of young Naija fellas and instead of shining eyes, they are busy calling him godfather. Ubunja a chronic masturbator that probably has never had sex since he enter SA to go hustle. I pity all the lazy youths wey dey allow themselves to be manipulated by that idiot

stinjoe:
I greet you all my brothers. The battles of life will not overcome us. I will be forever grateful if I can get a job with accommodation. I reside in Abia state. God knows I am trying. It's not easy trying to survive without help. Been on drinking garri diet for some time now. Even owing the woman.

Please, If I can get a meal and something to hold on to while still job hunting, I will be one the happiest person.

Please!!!
Zero 1 five 2 four six five eight eight two. Victor Gtbank. Thanks and God's continuous blessings.

Guy, 99 percent of the boys here are as broke as you are. Why you think say dem dey gather here to hate women wey dey show them pepper because they are broke? Better go and beg your family members and pastor before strong yamayama finish you

ubunja:
I was so happy when I saw your tweet quoted on YouTube. And the comments were awesome. Nice one brotherman.

Stupid online strangers call you godfather and this makes you feel good. Huh? But deep down you know what you are. Just a lonely sexually frustrated immigrant in SA struggling to make ends meet and to get pucci. You have masturbated so much with porn that your hand hurts. You know this deep down but if it makes you feel better about your self and not commit suicide, please go ahead and continue to live in your fantasy world. It’s the idiots that take you seriously I blame

ubunja:
lol At this point just admit you've a crush on me. it ain't a crime for your dicc to get hard thinking about another man....


meanwhile......

I see you have moved on to gay porn. What a tool!

The real redpill is when guys open their eyes to fake sexual trash peddled by a chronic masturbator and porn addict hell bent on dragging gullible guys down the destructive path that his life has taken.

Your fantasy trash leads idiots to lust after women they can never get and this makes them addicted to porn and ashawo as a way to release the sexual tension due to rejection and disappointment from women. Next level is rape and sexual abuse then baby daddy drama.

May strong yamayama nack that your ugly bald head there!

Guys stay away from this guy if you know what is good for you!

Eric247:
Yes sir, I'm a student currently facing exams now

Guy if you know what is good for you, stop reading all the junk that the Zimbabwean immigrant in SA called Ubunja writes. This guy is a well known chronic masturbator addicted to porn and most of his writings are just based on what he reads from oloshos plus what he sees in pornos.

He feeds gullible people like you all those fantasies and after reading, your libido gets high and you start thinking about toto from morning to night. When you realize say e no easy like that to get toto, na so soapy and ashawo house go be wetin dey your head.

You better give yourself sense before yamayama from Ubunja go destroy your life. A word is enough for the wise

ubunja:
Yes man,, sorry I missed this mention. Blessing definitely knows the game. And her gender-inclusive approach is rare in these days of men vs women content. I actually spend a lot of time on her page.

If you knew who this Blessing was, you wouldn’t waste your time on her page. Thats a fuking clout chaser and prostitute that makes money feeding idiots trash. Same woman that was shamed and arrested for claiming to own a house she didn’t own. How do you take this person seriously? Na ment?

You read all this junk from non-entities and then come here to feed gullible idiots who foolishly follow and end up being disappointed and then become rapists, sexual abusers and chronic masturbators to quench their lust.

Yamayama fall on that your ugly bald head there. Tuehhh!!!

ashewoboy:
This is true. Women that have had several sexual partner before marriage are damaged. Sex damages a woman. Keep it up. You are an advocate for marrying a virgin.

So what about the men that have patronized hundreds of olosho for brothel before marriage? They are not damaged ba? And na them dey find virgin girls up and down. No wonder rape cases of virgin teenage girls just dey increase exponentially. God help all of una

Dabronze:
There is always a rewards on your choice?

Do you really believe that the good for nothing man playing with toys at his age is really happy

Please how old are you?

Neoteny7:
He hasn't even made $10m this year, he's talking of $100m.

You dey talk this year? Has he made 10m dollars in his life time

Dabronze:
@Eric247
What I observed about your issues is that you are given yourself too much comfort and this are the things that are killing your testosterone ,you will need to change your daily routine
You increase your T- level by this simple habit

1. Take cold shower early in the morning before 6.00 am

2.Do push- ups everyday don't give yourself a target just continue doing it until until you are exhursted

3. Avoid plastic food eat enough vegetables And also avoid sugar drinks replace it with water

4. Read motivational book I can recommend if you don't have one

5.Relate with people to build your social circle meet new people surround yourself with people that will motivate you

6.Meditate often before you get out bed stay away from TV, your phones or any thing that can distract you

Is just a matter of time everything will be fine just stay focus

Look at this dull guy. The boy say he dey think about toto everyday and soapy don almost wound him preek and you are here telling him to find ways to increase his T- levels. Boy wey him T levels are out of control. If you have no idea about a topic, must you contribute and expose your dumbness? Yamayama nack that your dull bald head there!

ubunja:
it's not about being directly sexual with women and "making your intentions known" per se cause if you tell any woman straight up you wanna fucc she'll walk away. Rather it's about BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION. It's about the vibe you give a woman. Are you giving a brotherly vibe that will have you friendzoned. Or are you giving off that vibe of "I see you as a sexual being that I'm attracted to". A woman must feel you see her as a sexual being. You don't be thirsty but you sure as hell don't deal with her like you dealing with your sister. If you don't like complimenting women you can compliment her indirectly, if you're out and about you can say to her "hey look at how that guy is starring at your ass!. That's enough to communicate to her you're aware she's a sexual being with sexual attributes. Such things. The more you deal with women the more such things become second nature to you. Try to go online and read up on Building sexual tension.

More trash from the Zimbabwean immigrant in SA.

The truth is if a woman wants to fukk you and she knows you want it too, she will make it easy for you without you saying or doing shitt. Attractive guys wey dey get women steady go understand where I’m coming from. Only foolish men waste their time spitting game at women wey no send them. That’s so stupid!

This takes me back to what I keep saying to foolish young boys here. If you are not attractive, better leave woman matter and face your hustle squarely to at least guarantee yourself of a better life in the future. Imagine wasting all your time learning how to game women and still not get pucci and on top of that you go still dey beg for money to feed and nack ashawo when you are in your 30s and 40s. I know many old boys in this condition and trust me you don’t want to be that guy.

Guys should wise up and know that this Ubunja fellow is up to no good. His goal is to derail the lives of as many young Nigerian men as he can because of his hatred for Nigerians. Na so many of you idiots go turn to baby daddies, rapists and sexual abusers out of following person wey una no know.

I pity the lives of idiots wey no sabi reason with brain wey God give them for free

Eric247:
Ubunja
CaveAdullam
Martinez
Skepticus
Dabronze
Emmaodet
Sozinn
Zabiboy
Pansophist
JESHAL
Capslocked
MJBOLT

Help me, I'm addicted to sex, I love masturbating, watching porn and fucking prostitutes, it's costing me money, time and my self esteem, I'm still young, and I know many here are hypocritically following this thread and have the same issues as me but can't express themselves because it's very shameful, this my second time I'm laying this complaint but I didn't get any response the first time, the addiction is killing me, it's making me feel hopelessly chained to lust, again the spinning plates doctrine here from Ubunja pushes me to crave sex, it's becoming unhealthy and an obsession for me, I want Bleep anything attractive in skirt, I fantasize even about sleeping with people's wife, I need help, it is becoming embarrassing, I tried prayers and other spiritual routes but to no avail, I'm ashamed to seek therapy and counsel


Please help your brother
These thread is a life saver about female nature but with regards to males nature we are lacking in counsel

You are a very lazy youth. Your mates are thinking about how to make careers and money to provide a better life for themselves and their families, see wetin dey your coconut head. I wish I could locate you to give you serious konk on that lazy head of yours. Yamayama fall on you there!

heartofcity12:
True.
The value diminishes with time tho.

JAMB question. It’s the same for men. Women crave very attractive guys. They will even always hit on the attractive guys every damn opportunity. These guys put in zero effort and still get the kind of girls that you fools wankkk to.

If you are not attractive, you must put in work to get chicks. Either money, power, connections or something useful to them.

Anyone that tells you redpill or Pick up lines or whatever trash some idiots spill here will get you girls is lying to you.

You better use the time you use to learn redpill and pick up lines to better yourself as an unattractive man. It’s just the way the world works and there’s nothing you can do about it. Know this and know peace!!!

Zeewirld:
..If your story is correct...These are what I think are wrong...
✓Your wife is naive
✓You guys have trust issues
✓You and your wife are almost age mates and still very young in marriage.
✓You are scared of your wife
✓I suspect that your wife has feelings for that guy and it's matter of time before she begin sleeping with him if she hasn't even started.
✓Your wife lacks respect for your person.

If I will advise you ehen.... I will suggest you stay back in Nigeria with the children unless you don't have any productive job here...I don't want to put ideas into your head but seems this guy is becoming a permanent fixture in your home....You need to watch it

When you see all those ads on Nairaland looking for story tellers and content writers, what do you think it’s for? 90 percent of stories on NL are fake stories written by paid writers to attract traffic…

If this is one of the few true stories here, then the guy is definitely lying. Na the woman be the breadwinner of the family and na she raise the money for the travel runs….

Eric247:
You are a Coursed Barrstard

Your papa!!!

[quote author=JESHAL post=117929995][/quote]This is crap. BS coming from a depressed Zimbabwean immigrant that doesn’t get pucci in SA. The SA women as easy as they are will not give you toto that’s why you sound frustrated.

Who told you men don’t bring extras back when they cheat? Don’t men catch STDs and impregnate women outside?

Who told you single men don’t get pucci? Just because you are not getting does not mean lots of single men are celibate. Most single and attractive men are getting pucci and think about marriage to ‘settle down’. You get to a point where the fukking around lifestyle doesn’t bring any more happiness.

Who told you men marry for sex? Men actually marry for support and it doesn’t necessarily have to be financial. It could be emotional. A man wants a woman to support him in raising his kids and also to be a shoulder to lean on when life’s pressures are killing him. That’s why sensible men take time to look for a real well brought up woman and not a hookah or slay queen to settle down with.

I have said it before and I will say it again. Only a dunce will take this frustrated Zimbabwean immigrant that calls himself Ubunja seriously. You clearly have no idea how the real world works. None sense

ubunja:
u are mistaken.
a man can cheat and the marriage survive.coz a man's cheating doesnt bring extras back home.but when a woman cheats she brings home unwanted pregnancies.and years later a man discovers some of the children he spent his hard-earned money were never his.next thing u read in the newspaper a man shot his wife,kids and himself.
there is a reason why when a queen cheated she was executed for TREASON.coz her cheating wud place a non-royal blood child on the throne.disrupting the bloodline.yet a king can cheat and the resulting child be called a Bast*rd.the kid will live but not be an heir to anything.
also women cheating is a disaster coz women physically are highly-perishable goods.their bodies deteriorate with use so when a woman starts sleeping around her husband gets cheated.other men get to make her wife's breats droop and her v*gina loose and open. sex leaves its mark on a woman's body.
imagine if the Biblical Prodigal Son was a daughter.the son is said to have spent his wealth on strange women etc.yet when he returned physically he hadnt deteriorated.Now if that had been a gal,she would have returned with breasts that sagged to the ground,a v*gina as open as a borehole ,not to mention a football team of fatherless kids.
women are just not built for multiple sexual partners.physically they may accomplish that but their bodies will fall apart sooner or later.
u will admit that if 2 women spent the next ten years one married and the other whoring the one who was married wud be in a better fresher body condition than the one who slept around.men know this by heart;thats why most guys wana cheat with a married woman. thats where the freshness is.
OK let me put it in a way u will understand as a woman:A WOMAN WHO CHEATS IS LIKE A MAN WHO SPENDS HIS MONEY ON OTHER WOMEN IGNORING HIS WIFE.coz a woman's body is to the husband what the man's money is to the wife.
women dont get married for sex.they get more sex when they are single.women get married for support.men on the other hand dont get married for support.they get married for sex.when men are single they are celibate.thats the reason why men dont forgive when women cheat.but women easily forgive cheating.coz women are not there for the sex to begin with.but men are.
ok its so confusing i dont think u will get it but i tried to explain.

This is crap. BS coming from a depressed Zimbabwean immigrant that doesn’t get pucci in SA. The SA women as easy as they are will not give you toto that’s why you sound frustrated.

Who told you men don’t bring extras back when they cheat? Don’t men catch STDs and impregnate women outside?

Who told you single men don’t get pucci? Just because you are not getting does not mean lots of single men are celibate. Most single and attractive men are getting pucci and think about marriage to ‘settle down’. You get to a point where the fukking around lifestyle doesn’t bring any more happiness.

Who told you men marry for sex? Men actually marry for support and it doesn’t necessarily have to be financial. It could be emotional. A man wants a woman to support him in raising his kids and also to be a shoulder to lean on when life’s pressures are killing him. That’s why sensible men take time to look for a real well brought up woman and not a hookah or slay queen to settle down with.

I have said it before and I will say it again. Only a dunce will take this frustrated Zimbabwean immigrant seriously. You clearly have no idea how the real world works. None sense

Dabronze:
As man if you are weak you are nothing but a sacrificial lamb to them
Women don't give a F**k about weak men
If you want to be in a good side of women just be her alpha lover period!!!

You are deluded if you think any man can wake up and be an alpha lover to a desirable girl. Guy, it takes much more than memorizing jack shitt you read here to be an alpha lover to a beautiful woman.

If you are not very attractive that women are practically throwing themselves at you everywhere you go (and I don’t mean attractive to your mother and sisters), you sadly will never ever know what it feels like to be an alpha lover of a beautiful woman.

Trust me you are better off using your time to hustle and make something of your life vs day dreaming about things that will never come to pass.

Reminderz:
I went to a sim registration center with one of the girls I once dated some times ago, and a lady was at a counter waiting to be attended to by a man working at the center....

so while I was talking to this man, (the lady was still beside us), I noticed something about her appearance and commented on it in different way... my girlfriend was there... the way that woman blushed and appreciated the compliment says alot.. the way the man at the counter and my gf reacted was very funny and they were surprised... lol... #1 thing that worked here was confidence... if to say the girl nor follow me, I don collect contact be that... and so many scenarios like that.. be confident as a man.. it goes beyond just talking to women.

Trash coming from a day dreamer

heartofcity12:
So true. Well said, the value diminishes with time.

This guy I hope say you don finally pass JAMB o. If not, better log out from here and go study jamb past questions

JESHAL:
You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy

That should tell you a lot about women

This statement shows how naive you and most of the guys on this thread are. I don’t even know if to call this one naivety or just plain stupidity…

Karlifate:
@ubuja, this is the lady you posted her video, few days ago.



@chiraq77, can you see that Blessing Okoro has contents for both males & females.

Only idiots take a hustler like Blessing Okoro seriously. Shows the kind of fools wey dey this thread