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Teemah Fashion: Thanks lady tc, i'll do just as you've written.

Its is well remember only God can truly help you seek his face. I can't stand cheaters because I know what I went through.even to depression imagine always angry. But I will never tell anybody to leave their relationship because when people where telling me I thought they did not understand because I "loved" him until I got strength when I saw I was changing and not happy crying all the time and quarreling.but today am happy with another person.

fresh_dude: As in one woman all lifelong? Goodluck finding such a man. Get over yourself aunty.

Fresh dude not so fresh, you make me sick.....better start praying that your daughters don't have to deal with a cheater hissss

My man sha, non cheater(I pray this one no change), caring respectful, sensitive, loves God, ambitious, hardworking, understanding, listens, very mature and wise. I believe/know I have that man. I hope it does not change. Because I suffer before I find this one.

fennels007: sometimes ladies contribute towards making a man what he is. So if ur guy behave like dog, watch urself very well, b'cos u may nt hav played ur full womanly role.

I have seen it all ohh so because a man cheats its the womans's fault. Some people have serious issues ohh. Blaming other people for their short comings. Nonsense. If this is what the man thinks they break the relationship naa why cheat, if she is not woman enough leave her free her and find the one that is woman enough.

SpicyMimi: Yup! But dts water under d bridge now...talkn abt men generally..they tend to cheat all the time, even married men! Thats really hrt brking! Seriously guys cant you just stick to one person? Why must u cheat and flirt with other girls? Ahahn!

Abi oh my sister ohhhh I just dey wonder. Hian. But there are still few good non cheating men out there. Truth is most guys say to women that all guys cheat its just an excuse to cheat. And put a woman where they want her to stay like mugu and be suffering. Abegi.

How can we advice no post.

Because you have arguments doesn't call for verbal attacks RESPECT!!

Yes I would, because when you think about it a female or male version of you is not your carbon copy. For you to be attracted to a person not just physically means you have slight differences it would be a perfect match for me. And as long as there is mutual respect and the woman is submissive then it would work out very well.

Teemah Fashion: Thanks a bunch nairalandi. That's just me

Yeah, it's really hard to walk away but i might b left with no choice than to do so. Thanks alot


please get yourself checked out for any infections just incase so you can treat yourself you never know how responsible he was.
pray pray pray and pray. GOD will give you the strength to get through it. am talking from experience. its not easy my sister i tell you
pray for your boaz. there are boaz out there. you seem to be a good person, dont end up being miserable or crazy. men can turn you into what you are not
chasing them, calling them all the time no peace always wondering if they are cheating. relationships shouldnt be so hard. if you get the strength to walk like you say you might have no choice. am sure there
are many people here that wil be able to support you, me included. you should start meeting new people also that will help you a lot. GOD is with you.

Teemah Fashion: I'm not really waiting as such, my mind is already made up. All i want is just clear evidence dat d fault is actually from him. S[sub][/sub]efini

My darling there will never be clear evidence, there will always be a made up story to cover his tracks and sometimes you can tell its a lie. You already know in your heart he is cheating don't wait to be further traumatised or catching something.truth is from what you have written you are not ready to walk out its hard especially when you are intimately involved. It takes strength to walk. The fact that he said let's stop checking phone That's bad he will start deleting his messages now.