Good afternoon guys.
I found out that my new boyfriend has someone else. But he lied to me when we met that his ex girlfriend went abroad. I saw pictures and videos with this other person. He kept claiming that I cannot understand.

Dybala11:

The ability to apologize to your partner when you're wrong is a good quality, but getting angry always is an undesirable attribute. His choice of words too is very important, same as yours. For someone like me, you can do more damage to me through your choice of words than physical abuse I believe, so once I detect that you're a physically aggressive individual or that you have a vulgar choice of words, I'll just put an end to our friendship. I have friends that use offensive language when they're joking though, but it ends at that, cos I know it's only a joke and nothing more. But using offensive language on your partner in serious situations is not quite good.

thanks oo. were not partners ooo. he was still wooing me! We've met twice. the guy has temper issues.. thank God I ran

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Good evening guys, How long should it take before a girl say YES to a guy? How was your day? Evening. Reasonable commentators pls. Thanks

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely. you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

Dre183:


Common go and face ur book

naso so different people dey comment ooo. even you.. shey you fit face me for real life dey yearn trash. learn how to talk ok.

shallyion:
I have a female friend who got a new job in my state and had no where to stay, I agreed for her to stay with me before she gets money to rent her own apartment for the meantime. She has been with me for 2 weeks plus now

I stay in a single self contained apartment and we use the same bed to sleep but I noticed she tied rapper when she wants to to sleep at night, for some days now, I noticed if I wake up at night I discovered the wrapper is off her body and she sleeps naked as she wears no pants.

I summoned courage yesterday night when I noticed that again and decided to start touching her but she shouted that I should stop, when I brought it to her notice in the morning she told me she can have sex with me, I said why she said from experience it wont go well since we stay together that just last week when she needed sex she went out to do it with a guy she met before but for me it's a NO

Last night, again, same thing, woke up to urinate and she was completely naked on bed while sleeping, I told her about it this morning and she said if I see her like that anytime I should cover her up with the wrapper

The whole thing is making me weak, konji dey tire me so much if I see her in such state but she turns me down if I make advances. What should I do in such a case, do I show signs that she will feel uncomfortable and leave cause I have been just too nice to her...Help a brother

Bro, tell her to excuse you, that your gf is coming over. she is a wh*re. How can you be sleeping naked on the same bed with a guy and you are denying him sex. bring in your gf or a friend, she go excuse herself

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Uniquekriss:
#SMH in the voice of comedienne RealWarriPikin. My dear u can ask her to move, buh I bet you, d next could be worse and the next and the next. Remember we don't know D exact words this young man used. One thing is that you can never dodge being offended, it's natural, d earlier u realized that u have to learn to accommodate certain sh*ts the better for you cos even u aren't perfect...I still maintain my grounds that if d guy has certain qualities that makes him likeable, she could give it a try, then dialogue on his weaknesses tru effective
Communication.

Give a chance when he replied me with ' you are silly' because I said ' I don't care'. called me dunce and all sort of names... gets angry because I refuse to visit him. argue over little things... like you read my message, you didn't reply on time. as in really annoying... I've moved on. thanks for your advice

Dre183:


At 22

Common small like girl, go and face your book before u will get married and u will be turn to punching bag

Wait let me ask u

Is it that u don't have sense?

Are you normal?

Or ur village people just decided to suffer you?

Or all of the above?

you are mad. do you know me? you better stop talking nonsense.

Jessica57:


I once went through same,he sometimes try to raise his hands on me whenever he gets upset,tells me to stay way from just the 2 friends I have,he feels he knows what's best for me, na so I japa... If I eat without him problem,I don't kiss home wahala...I can't die cos of a man ooo.#endsars#endswat#endbadgovt.

I've blocked him. he is toxic jare

Dybala11:

Irrespective of all the qualities he might seem to possess, never put up with an abusive/violent partner, never put up with a partner who always believed that he's always right. Love alone is not enough to build a good relationship, trust, mutual respect, humility, compromise are few of the things needed to build a healthy/good relationship. I bet that the man always find it hard to apologise/say sorry whenever you guys have arguments, very bad character that is.
But then, who am I to pass judgement when I've not even heard the other side of the story?
One of the common relationship mistakes we do make is that we are often trying to be with the right/better person only, but we don't often strive to be the right/better person ourselves, else the endless cycle of bad relationship experiences among us.

he apologizes after letting his anger get the best of him. he gets angry over little things

Crownstar01:
OP, you are really a funny young lady. It takes two to tango anyway.

what do you mean?

zynzyn:


Can't defend his insults,

BUTTTT!!!

For most guys, dominance is a sincere sign of seriousness!!

Any guy that isn't dominant probably is not committed!!

he flares up unnecessarily. he apologizes thou but it's always after he had made things worse. that's when he apologize. I don run

Decryptor:


He has money!

I don't know if he has money and I have never received a dime from him.
I have blocked his number, cos even the chat we had this morning made me cleared the whole thing. I don't think he is alright. He flare up over little things. He got angry because I didn't respond on time. He is not normal.
I only posted it to hear your opinions on this issue. I saw the red flags too, but I believe this is a place we can express and admonish ourselves

thanks so much guys for your polite responses.
God bless
#EndSARS
#EndBADGOVERNANCE
#PRAYFORNIGERIA

NNAMDIII:
You're a fool, girls of this generation no even get sense sef, i pity your life

you are stupid. learn how to talk. loose mouth

Ategberoson:
your parents seems to have given you enough sex education at tender age and believe me is helping you now, thank you Op for taking your ground. a man that's yet to engage you is verbally insulting you and you don't see such guy as misogynist?


misogynist get married too either by societal pressure or just to save face from the family but that doesn't mean their nature won't come up
after the marriage...


you saw which quality in him? I don't think you understand the word quality? you better keep your pussy and boobs intact for your future husband because I don't see any future with that dude if what you typed here is real


disconnect him before he press you more to give inn. I'm advising you as a brother now, any man that can't find other means to reason with you in the aspect of seeing each other, such guy doesn't worth flirting with not to talk of dating

Thank you so much for the advice.

Fact1:
You deserve it op,,
He asked you something you said you don't care,,, who does that?
If I'm d one hago change ham for you seriously,,,,
That's snubbing ,,,
You tell me dat you don't care i don't Care also,,
Learn how to talk,,,


But dat doesn't entertain curses,,but at the same time you're wrong,,
Goan beg him,,,,
I don't support going to his house alone also,,,,,,,

Thanks.. I already begged thou...

MejiLoyon:

Date him so he will beat sense into you. Because you don't have any sense. Nigeria is in pains they are killing people for you to live safe you're thinking and talking about a boy. I won't say what's on my mind but I hope you will feel it

I see nothing bad in posting here. we are in it together. I feel the pain too. I came out too... Carry your bad energy go..so just pass it's not a must you say something.okay?

Good evening my NL guys.

I just met a guy last month ending, we exchanged numbers and started chatting. He asked me out.. I really enjoyed chatting with him, just him alone. So few days after, he invited me to his house. I declined but I noticed that he stopped chatting with me.

Few days after, he asked about my genotype without even greeting me. I counter questioned him and he attacked me, claiming that he is not happy with me. I replied that 'I don't care'.
The next thing I received was rains of insults. Saying that I insulted him. I admitted and we settled it.

For the short times I've known him, I could see the kind of qualities I want in a man. But the problem he has and that he attested to is verbal abuse...

I noticed that anytime he invites me to his house and I declined, it always piss him off and he stops talking to me.
I decided not to visit him because it's not safe for me.

He argues over little things on chat, he talks to me like I'm a baby ( he is 33 and I'm 22). he is domineering... I'm just confused on the decision to date him considering all these flaws. I am suspicious of him being violent.
thanks

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Pray for your friend's health. May he not die from sickness.

Pray that God preserves him from health problems and save his life. Amen[/quote]

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